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Gynecologist problem

Hello ladies, have you ever been to multiple gynos but they didnt point out your exact issue? I am struggling for quite a while now with vaginal burns, and it appears that I dont any sort of infection that causes it. Its inflamed and all I was prescribed were creams that didnt help me. I… Continue reading Gynecologist problem

advice needed

After my most recent break-up, I realized that I get into relationships solely because of the emotional attachment (I don’t actually fall in love with my partners, I’m just attached to them) and because of the feeling of stability they bring me. I want to learn to be happy on my own without relying on… Continue reading advice needed

I hate being a woman

I’m definitely a free spirit. I so desperately want to travel, hike, and explore the world. However I can’t, all because I’m a woman. I don’t feel safe enough to go out alone. I wouldn’t feel safe traveling outside of my country and staying in hostels, hiking trails, or even touristy areas without a group.… Continue reading I hate being a woman

Peach Scented Products

Thinking about switching up my signature scent- currently, I buy everything in rose + vanilla scents. I want to have Peach available for when I feel like switching it up, but that’s obviously a less common perfume to find- so I wanted to ask the women of reddit for your favorite peach scented beauty products!

First time shaving

It’s my first time shaving down there, and somehow I’m confused by the results. It’s smooth if I run my hand along the direction of the hair growth (downwards), but it’s still spiky when I run my hand at the opposite direction (upwards). Tiny hairs are still poking out, somehow they’re not entirely shaved despite… Continue reading First time shaving

Heels recommendations?

Hello everyone! I’m going to a wedding in July in a very humid place and I’m super stoked I just ordered two dresses to figure out which fits better. I want to wear heels with them, but I honestly can never comfortably wear them. No matter what type of heel, my feet are always killing… Continue reading Heels recommendations?

Growing pains?

I keep getting really bad boob pain, it hurts when I stand up or when I’m walking. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m growing (I used to be really really underweight but I’ve been gaining more now) and I’m not sure I even went through puberty properly because of this, they feel kinda heavier… Continue reading Growing pains?

Genderfluid

I’ve posted here before, and have replied to many posts. I’m Assigened Male At Birth(AMAB), and came out last June. Last night I was feeling a bit amorous. I posted a invitation on an app. The scum that came out of the woodwork was overwhelming. I didn’t find anyone last night. I have high standards,… Continue reading Genderfluid

How to clean bush?

This is extremely embarrassing and vulnerable, but how do I clean my bush well? My fiancé has told me that my bush smells like urine even after I get out of the shower. Currently, I use body wash with a shower poof and then go in with dove bar soap. I make sure to lather… Continue reading How to clean bush?

Please help, I’m uncomfortable

false Last night I let my boyfriend get a private dance with a stripper. I couldn’t join because it was too expensive so I let him go alone. He told me everything, I wanted to know thinking it would help me feel better. He touched her boobs and ass. I know she was exactly his… Continue reading Please help, I’m uncomfortable

Being hit on is so uncomfortable to me.

I haven’t been an adult for very long and I’ve never really considered myself a very attractive person and I’ve only been hit on a few times before, and I don’t know if it’s just because I’m extremely shy and don’t like flirting with people or whatever, but every single one of those times it… Continue reading Being hit on is so uncomfortable to me.

Normal???

So I’ve recently started using a vibe! (I’m super shy about it) I’ve noticed some soreness around my vulva area, I used it for the first time in two days today, I am planning on going to a clinic tomorrow, but is this normal??

My best friend is repeating the same mistakes of her past relationship and I don’t know what to do.

She had a really bad childhood, and it’s caused a lot of vulnerable mentalities. If she loves someone, she will literally change who she is to match them. I’m pretty sure it’s a defense mechanism, like you just try to make yourself as appealing as possible to the person you desire a relationship with, so… Continue reading My best friend is repeating the same mistakes of her past relationship and I don’t know what to do.

Am I the only one?

Just one dude wondering what women – particularly those who consider themselves feminists – feel about Mother’s Day cards and the general vibe of the occasion? Should it not be more about celebrating mothers, motherhood and women and less about selling cards, flowers and chocolate?

As the title says: anybody agree that Mother’s Day is just a rather trite, overly commercial affair? No disrespect to any woman who doesn’t share that view! It’s a long-held belief of mine that Mother’s Day cards should be about women – as role models, caretakers, protectors and inspirations, such as cards including powerful and… Continue reading Just one dude wondering what women – particularly those who consider themselves feminists – feel about Mother’s Day cards and the general vibe of the occasion? Should it not be more about celebrating mothers, motherhood and women and less about selling cards, flowers and chocolate?

Bathing suit bottoms…

I recently bought light colored bathing suit bottom. They’re really cute but maybe a little too transparent.. Unfortunately I didn’t notice when trying them on and have already removed the tags. Any good way to keep that area from being too visible? You can see the full outline of EVERYTHING. Imprints and all. Also, they… Continue reading Bathing suit bottoms…

Extremely heavy bleeding after plan b??

About one week ago I took a plan b for the first time. Now today I woke up with blood down there, which I assume is spotting ? Because I took the plan be on the last day of my period, so i don’t think my period would come only a week later? But the… Continue reading Extremely heavy bleeding after plan b??

Boys never talk to me unless they want something and its annoying

I really dont mind at all, because im not desperate for guy friends. Im a girl’s girl, most of the people i talk to (if not everyone) is a girl, im mostly friends with girls and i love girls company. But i find it annoying anyway. I dont need guy friends but i just hate… Continue reading Boys never talk to me unless they want something and its annoying

How often do you shave/trim/wax down there?

“It’s not normal to have the same body you had in high school”

I was ogled like a a chew toy and I feel disgusted…

I’m out looking for used cars to buy. I’ve been going to serval hundred dealerships with my dad. I was recently In a car accident a month ago, so I need a car before the end of the month. I walk into the first one and I just feel everyone looking at me. I’m the… Continue reading I was ogled like a a chew toy and I feel disgusted…

Has anyone experienced side effects of Prenatal Multivitamin ?

Body dysmorphia

Hi everyone! Sorry if a similar post has already been made, but I am wondering if anyone is willing to share some things that help or have helped them overcome / ignore body dysmorphia. I’ve been finding it harder and harder to be confident, I weigh what would be considered healthy or normal for my… Continue reading Body dysmorphia

Do lubes help in sex? What difference does it make?

Are you experiencing vaginal dryness? It’s normal if you’re going through menopause. Even people on medications and breast-feeders might face vaginal dryness, which hinders the pleasure of having sex as dryness might cause discomfort and pain during intercourse. Well, you can always opt for a lubricant, popularly called “lubes.” Can be used by anyone, irrespective… Continue reading Do lubes help in sex? What difference does it make?

Help with mood swings

Smegma…

Has this ever happened to anyone? How do I fix it? Helpppp I recently started getting smegma build up. *started when I wasn’t sexually active *got worse when I switched birth control *no change when I got off of birth control *was tested for STD/STI all came back negative *was treated for a yeast infection.… Continue reading Smegma…

Oversharing trauma

I know its bad but I find it fun being rude to men

Wedding dress shopping with my sister

Whew I’m nervous and I’m not even the one getting married lol But tomorrow my sister is going wedding dress shopping, and of course me and her bridesmaids are going with her! I’m not even entirely sure why I’m posting this, I guess I just need to talk to some other women about this 😅… Continue reading Wedding dress shopping with my sister

sad rant from disheartened girl

I’m worried that men will only ever want me for sex. I’m a pretty girl and maybe that’s all I have going for me. I’m not the type of person who can just hookup, I would need a deeper emotional connection for anything to happen. I just don’t think I’ll ever meet someone who would… Continue reading sad rant from disheartened girl

Joined this group for one question

I feel so depressed when I’m about to start my period. Does everyone experience this?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I feel so depressed when I’m about to start my period. Does everyone experience this?

woman and sex-double standards still exist!

Do any other women still think there is a double standard regarding sex? I feel that if a woman enjoys sex she is still considered a slut or easy. That if a woman has slept with multiple men in her life she is often judged as slutty, and promiscuous, I’ve even heard ” a disappointment”.… Continue reading woman and sex-double standards still exist!

Women of Reddit; Does the past (sexual aspect) of a man matter to you? And why?

How can I help my neighbour?

tw: domestic violence I noticed my neighbours fighting got more intense the last few weeks. It’s mainly him screaming at her. In the time I’ve lived here they’ve always had fights every few days but recently it’s been really intense. He’s just screaming at the top of his lungs at her, while she stays quiet.… Continue reading How can I help my neighbour?

What are the actual reasons that men are much more likely to be abusers?

Delete if it doesn’t belong here. Men are much more likely to abuse women (as well as children and at times other men) than the other way around. Why?

Libido death

Probably one of my biggest fears. I’ve heard horror stories of hormones killing it. I am at the point in my life when I would rather be a piece of meat than be pawed at. Grab me, take advantage and just leave me in that bliss for a while before you start talking. So much… Continue reading Libido death

has “pick me girls” commentary become a new form of misogyny?

EDIT: wait actually the term I’m looking for might be “not like other girls” and not pick me?? Not sure if important distinction but ? genuinely asking for opinions here. I understood poking fun at women who posted obvious attention grabs, such as “I’m not like other girls my age, I love to cook and… Continue reading has “pick me girls” commentary become a new form of misogyny?

Positive stories about IUD?

I’m getting the Mirena IUD today to help with my Endometriosis pain (and obviously to not have babies lol). I have heard so many mixed stories. I’ve heard people say it feels no different than a Pap smear, and I’ve heard people say they threw up from how bad the pain was. I’ve also heard… Continue reading Positive stories about IUD?

Why did my male best friend suddenly ask me to promise him that we would never be more than friends ??

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why did my male best friend suddenly ask me to promise him that we would never be more than friends ??

Attractive guy approaches but has cold sore on lips

When I was single, I was not interested in any random guy just approaching me and hitting on me no matter how good looking he is (if that’s what you are asking about). It can feel frightening when a man approaches me. I don’t know if I’m interested in him until I get to know… Continue reading Attractive guy approaches but has cold sore on lips

Pantylines

I am trying to figure out if other women care about their panty lines showing or not, and why. Like through pants, shorts, skirts, dresses, etc. What had originally started as a simple question to another sub has now turned into a full research project for me. I want to know if other women care,… Continue reading Pantylines

Is it normal to have a handfull of hair everytime u brush your hair???

DESPERATELY want a bigger butt, but I have no equipment at home, an can’t go to a gym. Advice? (My fat doesn’t store in glutes, and therefore, I have a “little butt” but I’m also “thick” in other places.)

For starters, I have an EXTREMELY small butt. A lot of my friends have big butts but I just don’t. Genetically I don’t store fat in glutes. Though, I have struggled with binge eating for years and just recently I’ve been undoing it and eating properly. I have lost some weight, but my butt hasn’t… Continue reading DESPERATELY want a bigger butt, but I have no equipment at home, an can’t go to a gym. Advice? (My fat doesn’t store in glutes, and therefore, I have a “little butt” but I’m also “thick” in other places.)

Summer office outfit ideas for a very hot blooded woman

Hello!!! I’m starting my first office job in May, in London, where it is significantly warmer than my current city (Edinburgh). I am the sweatiest person alive, I cannot handle heat in the slightest, and I have sensory issues when it comes to rougher or non-breathable materials. Any advice on what I could wear??? It’s… Continue reading Summer office outfit ideas for a very hot blooded woman

Safety

I live in a community that is really safe for us women. I grew up here, and now attending university here as well. Today, I was on a walk with my friend and we both decided to just go outside the building and go around it, as opposed to the parking. We both were just… Continue reading Safety

I need help on navigating this issue

So I am in an area that praises women’s beauty more if they dress showing a lot of skin. Which I am not against. But at the same time, while their beauty is praised they get treated like an object. I have very large breasts. I’ve barely had any guys take me seriously. So I… Continue reading I need help on navigating this issue

Started birth control.

Burden of a relationship

I need some advice, I just dont know what to do or how to control my feelings in this issue. The relationship I’m talking about is the one with my father. Now, it’s not like “daddy issues” or “my father left me and later reunited”, nah. It’s just that we never got along. I don’t… Continue reading Burden of a relationship

I, and many of my friends, are being posted on an anonymous website.

Just celebrating myself real quick

I’m scared

For the last few months my menstrual cramps have been so bad that I end up lying on my bathroom floor in pain. It’ll come in waves, so I’ll start to get really bad cramps and then after a couple minutes I’ll start to get really hot and feel like throwing up and shitting at… Continue reading I’m scared

navigating casual hookups

Are Birth Control Pills a must?

Women of Reddit, Have You Ever Scared A Dude Away From Dating? If So What Occurred?

Help me get rid of my frustration!!

I live in a hostel/ dorm and my roommates are noisy as hell. I can neither sleep at night nor concentrate on my studies in daytime. I’ve tried telling them to keep their voice down but they don’t give a damn. I’ve final exams coming up and I’m stressed. Please suggest me what should I… Continue reading Help me get rid of my frustration!!

Why do women stop their bf’s from talking to their female friends?

Disclaimer – I do not think I’m anything special. I’m tired of this. This post is not about bragging. I’ve met many jealous women in my life. Women/colleagues in my circle looking at me up and down, copping my makeup, my style , my clothes, afraid of me stealing their bfs. I’ve had many guy… Continue reading Why do women stop their bf’s from talking to their female friends?

Pregnancy still possible?

Tights or stocking

Consent

Irrational fear about aging

Hormones

Why do men?

This guys, that i think goes to my school, responded to an Instagram note i wrote where i said i loved McDonald’s and basically asked me out, saying he’ll pay. Now i have no idea who this guy is. I responded with “who are you?” And he just told me his name. No clue who… Continue reading Why do men?

Bikini

for all the women/people whose complicated relationship with their mom turned into a complicated relationship with themselves

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading for all the women/people whose complicated relationship with their mom turned into a complicated relationship with themselves

MY VOICEEEE

PLS HELP-Any deodorant that actually works??

I’m having such a hard time being a smelly woman😭I have tried Dove, Secret, Old Spice, Native, Schmidt. For the women who can get very musty, what do you use?? Seriously its so humiliating when all my friends can use powdery girly deodorants and I have to use Old Spice, and that doesn’t even work.… Continue reading PLS HELP-Any deodorant that actually works??

The idea that men will always treat their dream women right does have truth to it, but I also think can be damaging

Im not denying that its true, but I don’t think it applies to all men. The issue is that the statement is based on absolutes and not in the actual nuances that happen. Some men are just crappy people. A lot lack any self awareness and think everyone including their dream woman will accept them… Continue reading The idea that men will always treat their dream women right does have truth to it, but I also think can be damaging

Young Girls and Hip Hop

Am I crazy for finding this problematic: there are a few dance moves and styles that I understand are trendy for adults, but I feel sad and uncomfortable seeing young kids doing them. I’m talking about the type of moves Rihanna’s backup dancers used at the halftime show. Some examples are body rolls, types of… Continue reading Young Girls and Hip Hop

Female empowerment songs

My therapist wants me to listen to music about women who are strong, amazing and who don’t take crap- for a week and see if that changes my mindset. But idk what that is! Any suggestions? Up beat and empowering, I prefer not a lot of sexual stuff but some is alright. Lol let’s see… Continue reading Female empowerment songs

How would you respond if a guy told you he was a former misogynist?

Why do some people single out and bully pretty girls?

Is it me

Is she a neighbour of yours or just friends with your boyfriend’s sister? If she’s a neighbour, it wouldn’t be too unusual for her to sit on the porch. It’s not her you have to worry about trusting. You’re not in a relationship with her. Do you trust your boyfriend? This is the question you… Continue reading Is it me

How would you react if your SI O would ignore your suggestions and constantly try to fit in?

For example, my ex would constantly have something negative to say about my opinions or anything I would suggest but the moment his friends (who he met wavyy after me, and didn’t know that well), would suggest the exact same thing, his opinion on it would change entirely and then he’d give some shitty excuse.… Continue reading How would you react if your SI O would ignore your suggestions and constantly try to fit in?

XShort women flare jeans

Young woman realization

When I’m around the men in my family/friend group, they tend to make little sexist remarks that make me feel small as if I as a girl/woman don’t matter. I would give them credit for being gentlemen tho. They don’t sexualize, slut shame anyone. They also respect women’s privacy, put women first and all text… Continue reading Young woman realization

Is this creepy?

I was at a club in Europe a while ago with two of my friends (a couple). We are American. I was trying to pass through a crowd of tons of people as usual. My methods are not too rude I think- I make eye contact, say pardon me with a smile, and worm my… Continue reading Is this creepy?

(TW) Being a woman in this world makes me want to…

I’m so tired of existing in this world as a woman. I’ve gone to great lengths previously to remove myself from traditional femininity and to not be attractive in the eyes of men. My entire life even since childhood men have sexualized me, harassed me, and traumatized me in several capacities. I feel like I’m… Continue reading (TW) Being a woman in this world makes me want to…

vagina tablet came out?

Hi I was advised to take vagina tablets by a doctor to treat my yeast infection. The first one was fine, though a little of the medicatipn came out and it was VERY white. Today, a bigger chunk came out even though I inserted the pill correctly and far in there. But this time it… Continue reading vagina tablet came out?

My hair keeps getting trapped in my glasses and breaking

I am getting so much breakage on the front of my hair!!! The hinges of my glasses (where it bends to fold up or pull out so you can put them on your face) trap their hair constantly when it’s loose?? Not to mention I already have baby hairs which don’t even sit nicely lol.… Continue reading My hair keeps getting trapped in my glasses and breaking

Is there something wrong with me if I want my boyfriend to show me his chat with some girl ?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Is there something wrong with me if I want my boyfriend to show me his chat with some girl ?

Period poops/farts

If you eat a lot can you get period cramps even if you’re not on your period?

Trapped wind or constipation I would imagine. Have you recently eaten alot of gluten? Such as white bread, a doughy pizza, a large pasta meal etc. That could be a cause If it’s a common occurrence keep a food diary, or when you experience pain/discomfort think back on what you recently ate.

Has anyone tried Yaz? What were your experiences?

Different sized boob!??

My boyfriend just beat me.

My ex told me I wasn’t attractive anymore.

I need a good bra brand that’s supportive

How to not cave?

I was in a relationship where I was ghosted haha inserted embarrassment here Anyways after a good long while, he finally reached out today. I haven’t even looked at what he said, I’m too anxious to even read it. In your experience, when “ex’s” come back, I say ex so lightly lmao what are they… Continue reading How to not cave?

I want a baby so bad but deep down I know I’m not ready

God this is driving me insane. I’ve been in a perfect relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, and in the past few months i’ve been getting urges to add to the family. I want a baby so bad. I want to find out i’m pregnant, then tell him and see him just… Continue reading I want a baby so bad but deep down I know I’m not ready

how do u deal with hate from opposite gender

Avoid these types of men. You cannot reason with them. You cannot debate them. You cannot convince them to see the light. They are not interested, they do not care. People like this see women as subhuman, a species below men who exist purely to serve men. Even in “light jest”, such jokes are incredibly… Continue reading how do u deal with hate from opposite gender

I need relationship advice

So is it normal after a certain time of being dating someone to just feel very casual and calm, kinda boring or something like that. It’s not the same passion as the beginning, and it’s making me worry I’m crying myself t sleep because of this I’m scared I don’t love him anymore even though… Continue reading I need relationship advice

What YouTubers/influencers would women simp for?

I asked a guy out and now he’s acting kind of cold .

Birth control pills question

“Nausea, vomiting, headache, bloating, breast tenderness, swelling of the ankles/feet (fluid retention), or weight change may occur. Vaginal bleeding between periods (spotting) or missed/irregular periods may occur, especially during the first few months of use.” if you gain a considerable amount of weight i’m sure you could notice some cellulite. but you may n it… Continue reading Birth control pills question

Took a dive into The Red Pill

And it’s honestly sad (and also, I love internet drama). I’m so glad I met my boyfriend, just cause that means now I don’t have to put myself at risk of dating guys like this. But the thing is, I don’t think most of them are bad, they are just lonely and desperate. I saw… Continue reading Took a dive into The Red Pill

Struggling deeply with self-esteem

A girl asked me if I had a spare pad in the public restroom today.

I said yes and I gave her one without hesitation. I’m always happy to help out another girl in need. She appeared to be quite young, teenage/young adult. So I could understand and see she was shy. It’s the first time it’s ever happened that someone asked. I wish people wouldn’t be shy/embarrassed/intimidated to ask/talk… Continue reading A girl asked me if I had a spare pad in the public restroom today.

Racing sex drive during periods??

I recently read that the hormonal changes made during menstruation makes one get aroused easily. That really explains me getting super horny during my periods. From one women to another, there are few sex positions that you must try if period sex is your thingy. Missionary : It’s hand down the most comfortable and versatile… Continue reading Racing sex drive during periods??

women- how old were you when you went to your first gyno appt, and does the age matter if you’re not sexually active?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading women- how old were you when you went to your first gyno appt, and does the age matter if you’re not sexually active?

A customer at work has started to bring me gifts and it’s making me uncomfortable

The majority of men are delusional. With the exception of a few non delusional men, there’s no such thing as a friendly chat. They delude themselves into thinking it means that women are expressing interest in them. The next time he tries to give you a gift, tell him that it’s against work rules to… Continue reading A customer at work has started to bring me gifts and it’s making me uncomfortable

Can birth control help with acne?

I’ll never be “beautiful” or one of the prettiest girls and it seriously bugs me

I just want to be cool, and pretty, but im neither. My face and body type are pretty weird, and im just kinda awkward. Left and right i see influencers and characters who are obviously flawless. i feel so unseen. i feel like no one on earth will ever think im cool or beautiful. and… Continue reading I’ll never be “beautiful” or one of the prettiest girls and it seriously bugs me

Ladies that did later hair removal at home, how effective was it and was it worth the money?

I know there’s small layers for hair removal at home, not the kind you’d find at a beauty salon, but I wonder how effective they are. If it actually does anything then it’s worth the money, but it’s not an amount of money that I’d want to go to waste. So are they good or… Continue reading Ladies that did later hair removal at home, how effective was it and was it worth the money?

Men complain about things they don’t get, women complain about things we’re actually subjected to

Been thinking about this a lot lately, and I’ve had a lot of debates about gender roles and sexism with many men. One of the biggest things I notice is that men complain about things they DONT receive or treatment they DONT get, but women are bothered by the treatment we DO get in regards… Continue reading Men complain about things they don’t get, women complain about things we’re actually subjected to

I find it scary that men find me attractive.

I don’t want children because of men

Victoria’s Secret packages

I know you should always talk about kids early into the relationship, but it feels like women are often forced to make decisions about this at a young age or early in a relationship .

I’m always told that we need to know whether or not we will have children in the future, and we’re expected to have that decision made early-on in relationships. I was even asked about if I wanted kids when I was a teenager! How am I supposed to know that??? It’s such a huge life… Continue reading I know you should always talk about kids early into the relationship, but it feels like women are often forced to make decisions about this at a young age or early in a relationship .

Glasses?

Women’s tampon brand

Thinking about giving up on men

I’ve been continually growing more and more disappointed with men and I’m starting to think it’s not worth it to “hold out” for one anymore. Some posts that I’ve been seeing lately have been very discouraging. If they’re all just going to be the same anyway, what’s the point in continuing to search for a… Continue reading Thinking about giving up on men

Are flannels/button ups on a man more attractive with sleeves rolled up? When rolled, is rolled up past the elbow or just below the elbow (On the forearm) most attractive?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Are flannels/button ups on a man more attractive with sleeves rolled up? When rolled, is rolled up past the elbow or just below the elbow (On the forearm) most attractive?

Is there any way to get your period to come a little early

Body insecurity :/

I feel you. I (like a lot of us, I think) often feel the same, and sometimes it feels like a lot of pressure having to be confident all the time, independently on how you look. My take is – sometimes you’re just not, and that’s okay. It doesn’t make you a less interesting or… Continue reading Body insecurity :/

Disappointed by how women are portrayed

Went to Anime Boston this weekend and felt appalled to see a female’s worth reduced to boobs and butts or as a figure that serves men or as a figure who needs rescuing from a heroic man, because she is too fragile to fend for herself. disrespectful, no? ofc not all anime is like this,… Continue reading Disappointed by how women are portrayed

This might sound stupid but am I having a miscarriage?

I still love you. I do. But I don’t want to be with you anymore.

When you left me, that’s our closure already. We didn’t need to talk again to end our relationship officially. You love me best, but you also hurt me worst. When you left me, you lost my trust, my faith, and my love for you. I never think about leaving you the way you did to… Continue reading I still love you. I do. But I don’t want to be with you anymore.

Insecure

Spray Tan Sex

How do women do this

For context I’m a trans guy, pre everything and mostly in the closet. I navigate large parts of my life as a woman. And in some aspects my parents sheltering me so much because of my disability have given me certain privileges of not being harassed (at least as much) by people. But I’m on… Continue reading How do women do this

Dressing more masculine on video games

Question

[Recommendation Thread] What are your favorite places to shop for bras?

flying alone

do you pluck or shave?

Men say not all men but then act like this

For context, I started kickboxing a few months ago and my trainer is really really nice. He’s much older and is very good at what he does. Very respectful and has a very nice wife who also equally into fitness. So when I was showing one of my closest guy friends some of my trainers… Continue reading Men say not all men but then act like this

Health supplements

Experience with health supplements Please share your experience/opinion on health supplements. How good/bad/beneficial are they? Which brands are better? Which supplement has specifically helped you? Is cod liver oil capsules worth the hype? I’m not sure about the supplements because at times I feel it’s all marketing gimmick and then suddenly I find myself researching… Continue reading Health supplements

Oh god how much i love women

BEFORE I BEGIN: i want to say this I am a transmasc(ftm) guy I am attracted to women I just need to talk about how much i love and adore every woman, if any of this comes off as fstishizing or offensive, i am sorry i did not mean for it to be that way.… Continue reading Oh god how much i love women

Quarter life crisis

Oh, honey. I wish I could hug you. You don’t have to accomplish big things every day. You don’t have to achieve peak “adulting” every day. Some days if you get a shower and load the dishwasher that is all you need to be winning at adulting. If you feel like you are in a… Continue reading Quarter life crisis

Entitlement

There’s a post on the sub about contraception, which prompted me to remember a conversation that I had about a year ago with a man that I know, and I’m wondering what all your thoughts are on this. For context; this man was single and looking for a long term relationship. He has previously been… Continue reading Entitlement

AdoreMe underwear sizing

Is there a Word for this?

Hey, I have experienced this at work several times, and I wonder if there is a word for it. For context, I’m a woman working in IT consulting. I experience that some men question my conpetence in the way, that they keep asking me questions, often derailing into something completely irrelevant, until they find something… Continue reading Is there a Word for this?

What are your cravings?

Im currently on my period and have been having the weirdest cravings, I literally just had Spanish Ham with jelly… What are your ‘weird’ cravings while on your period, or even while pregnant?

Early period?

Nail polish makes me feel more powerful

Being unattractive is basically being invisible

Boob tape vs. Bras: Which is more costly?

How do you wipe before a urine sample for a UTI?

How do I deal with feeling dirty on my period?

I’m usually not disgusting of getting dirty with anything, but when my period arrives I feel so dirty. No matter how often I change/clean or whatsoever I feel so dirty to the point of having break downs. I can deal with the pain or sight of blood, I just feel so disgusting. (Sorry English isn’t… Continue reading How do I deal with feeling dirty on my period?

How do I reconnect with womanhood?

I’m of an older generation, where being trans wasn’t a concept I had heard of in my teens/twenties. If being trans was an “option” when I was in my teens, I very likely would have thought I was trans or at least non-binary, but only because I was uncomfortable in my own body and trapped… Continue reading How do I reconnect with womanhood?

Why are women/girls less interested in Tech

I think I can give perspective as a woman in STEM. We aren’t encouraged to be interested in it. From a young age we’re advertised toys like baby dolls, Barbies, bright pink Lego beauty salons, kids makeup, pretend kitchens etc. The boys sections always have pretend DIY benches, action men, hot wheels, nerf guns, cool… Continue reading Why are women/girls less interested in Tech

The Moon & Arousal.

I feel alone

This has been a rough few months, I disclosed the for the first time about sexual abuse. I experienced this as a child at the hand of my biological father and my aunt & husband. And I have no real support, and I don’t know what kind of support I need. I just feel like… Continue reading I feel alone

How do you feel secure?

I was never the type to be overly jealous and constantly driving myself crazy that my man is looking at other women. But I found out he watched thirst traps and looked at porn pictures for the first three months we were together and I can’t stop feeling insecure, two months later. The first three… Continue reading How do you feel secure?

Tips on creating a capsule wardrobe for my new body after childbirth?

So I gave birth a few months ago and while I managed to lose all my pregnancy weight at first, I gained it again and some more since. Nothing fits me anymore and I feel really down about it, and I don’t want to buy a lot of new clothes because I want to diet…… Continue reading Tips on creating a capsule wardrobe for my new body after childbirth?

What are you an absolute sucker for?

Advice..

It’s almost summer, what’s your fav hygiene hack for when it’s hot?!

Summer Hack for my thick ladies

On this subject, if whatever you’re wearing allows for it, wearing bicycle shorts (not the ones with pads but the plain spandex ones) has been a life saver. I’ve had issues with all of the products wearing off quicker than I could apply them but a good quality short that’s meant for physical activity, sweat,… Continue reading Summer Hack for my thick ladies

When dating someone that wasn’t masculine did you find it difficult to step into your femininity?

For example, if you’re with someone who is not a provider or protector. How did you go about not trying to peruse those roles because I feel like it’s a bit difficult to drop the masculine energy because it becomes like a defensive mechanism to protect yourself. I feel like it gets to a point… Continue reading When dating someone that wasn’t masculine did you find it difficult to step into your femininity?

What does this mean for a urine sample?

Let’s have a discussion – “WoMeN hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp culture

Why do they think women have it easier? What is so easy about growing up as a woman/girl in this world? What is this privilege that women have in society? Can someone tell me where I can find this female privilege, because I think mine was lost in the mail. And what are your guys’… Continue reading Let’s have a discussion – “WoMeN hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp culture

Tablets to stop your period?

“wOmEn hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp Culture – Let’s have a discussion

Where do they get this notion from? How do women have it easier? What is so easy about growing up as a woman/girl in this world? And what are your guys’ responses to this annoying phrase? Why do men feel the need to call other men “simps” just because they’re nice or respectful to a… Continue reading “wOmEn hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp Culture – Let’s have a discussion

Interesting

Adult friendships suck sometimes

Am I the only woman who feels this way?

I’ve never had a loving and caring relationship with a woman. If I ever did I pushed them away. As a woman I feel pathetic about not having a loving mother or mother figure in my life. My mother saw me as a rival. My many aunts hate me because of the hatred they have… Continue reading Am I the only woman who feels this way?

Name your best hygiene tips!

severe fear of becoming pregnant

I was wondering if any other women have dealt with this. ever since i first became sexually active, i have a horrible overwhelming fear of getting pregnant that affects me every day. I even got an IUD to try and lessen my anxiety, but still, my fear is telling me it’s still somehow going to… Continue reading severe fear of becoming pregnant

What do you take when you camp outdoors?

I’m going on an all girls camping trip and I want to be sure we’re safe. There’s a firearm involved but I want to know what measures you’ve taken in the past to deter bad apples before it’s too late. So far, we’ve brainstormed hanging motion sensor lights outside our tent so no one can… Continue reading What do you take when you camp outdoors?

I am just so tired with this “women☕️” joke

It’s just a joke I know but its just getting out of hand. At first it was, if a woman did something dumb they would just write “women☕️” which is still hypocritical cause if a man did something dumb its just him but if a woman did something dumb it’s every woman. But these days… Continue reading I am just so tired with this “women☕️” joke

dry scalp

shaving legs

Would you feel uncomfortable if you were interested in a man and he is also interested in you but the relationship ship was evolving too fast?

If you felt as if he was rushing things would that change your answer or idea or is that information irrelevant? I’ve been placed in a situation where I liked a girl so much but it didn’t workout well because she said she felt uncomfortable the way things were evolving so fast so I wanted… Continue reading Would you feel uncomfortable if you were interested in a man and he is also interested in you but the relationship ship was evolving too fast?

Have you had breast augmentation? Have you had any complications?

I hate periods

Why do I like men with glasses?

For some reason I find men who wear glasses more mysterious and sexy, like they’ve got some secrets up their sleeves waiting to be introduced to me… 😛 Anyone else like this or have a clue as to why this is? I think I just really like very intelligent men, although I don’t think glasses… Continue reading Why do I like men with glasses?

Men vs women subreddit

Complaining and hate are different things. Parents complain about kids, kids complain about parents, bosses complain about workers, workers complaining about bosses. That is not hate The hate that women get in our very own sub here and the true outright misogyny and dismissal of women as human beings that occurs regularly in other subs… Continue reading Men vs women subreddit

how to ask my bf to get tested

So, here’s a technique for having uncomfortable discussions where you want info that might be hard to ask outright: If you can’t get information, give information. In other words, lead off with sharing your status, or info about yourself. That opens the conversation to the topic you want, without being accusatory or prying. The other… Continue reading how to ask my bf to get tested

Do ya’ll think it’s safe to go clubbing alone as a woman?

For women here who didn’t grow up with a mother or mother figure, what podcasts/books/etc. helped you navigate being a woman?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading For women here who didn’t grow up with a mother or mother figure, what podcasts/books/etc. helped you navigate being a woman?

I may have had an early miscarriage and IDK how to feel about it

Disclaimer: this story is TMI and idk Jack shit about human gestation So I went on break at work. I had to use the bathroom and change out a tampon. When I removed the tampon I saw a strange clump on tissue sticking to the cotton. I examined it and found that it was a… Continue reading I may have had an early miscarriage and IDK how to feel about it

How do I let go of this

Request

I’ve been thinking about how every women centric sub revolves around men and not women. I understand that men need to be discussed due to how their behaviour impacts women, but on more benign posts, I’m struck by just how much women place their own value in the hands of men. It would be beneficial… Continue reading Request

TMI: My breasts are sore from wearing a tight bra yesterday, but I’m suspicious regardless. How to check for lumps?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading TMI: My breasts are sore from wearing a tight bra yesterday, but I’m suspicious regardless. How to check for lumps?

I want to be beautiful more than anything

Meeting random women in the city : how do women perceive it?

What do you think? I like engaging conversations with random women in the city I live in. Based on their appearance of course since I have no other element to take into account. I always fake my motivation like pretending to like the cloth, the bag, or the hair or the style etc. While actually… Continue reading Meeting random women in the city : how do women perceive it?

You know those ‘Men try period pain’ videos? Couldn’t a device like that be used to diagnose unusual pain/endometriosis and other conditions?

THIS IS NOT A MEDICAL QUESTION. I AM NOT SEEKING ADVICE 🙂 I see those videos where like ‘men try period pain simulators’ all the time but they’re always being used on men, and while I see nothing wrong with that at all—it’s probably a way to get empathy through to some people—I was just… Continue reading You know those ‘Men try period pain’ videos? Couldn’t a device like that be used to diagnose unusual pain/endometriosis and other conditions?

Do you ever feel pressured into sex by your SO? How do you handle it?

Do you ever feel that having sex is like a duty to him? If you’d say no, he’d start to get angry or sad or cold, and then you feel pressured to have it with him so he would be happy. I felt that way in all my relationships. I’m starting to hate the idea… Continue reading Do you ever feel pressured into sex by your SO? How do you handle it?

Controversial Influencer Andrew Tate and Brother Tristan Released from Jail in Romania

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Controversial Influencer Andrew Tate and Brother Tristan Released from Jail in Romania

If someone you didn’t like had a crush on you..

Nail biting

It’s a womAn, not a womEn, when we talk about a singular woman!

I know it’s petty and not as serious as other issues, but I am sick of the constant grammar mistake, when a singular woman is referred to as “women”. Of course, I am not perfect and I make mistakes all the time. However, that “women” mistake seems to be recurring and made by a lot… Continue reading It’s a womAn, not a womEn, when we talk about a singular woman!

Did you know it may be legal in your state, in some UK counties and I’m sure other countries , that it is legal for a doctor and students to perform a NON-CONSENSUAL pelvic exam on you while you are under anesthesia for any type of procedure that has nothing to do with your vulva.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Did you know it may be legal in your state, in some UK counties and I’m sure other countries , that it is legal for a doctor and students to perform a NON-CONSENSUAL pelvic exam on you while you are under anesthesia for any type of procedure that has nothing to do with your vulva.

Relationship might end, need some female support

Look, breaking up sucks. It’s excruciating, no matter how well you know that the relationship has run its course. But you’ve lived without him for a good chunk of your life and you are going to make it without him again. You will survive this, the pain that comes with separating is real and normal,… Continue reading Relationship might end, need some female support

…Am i right?

Am thinking about leaving my cheating husband but today he is being extra nice on our anniversary and making it very confusing…

Over the past three months I have been seriously thinking about leaving my husband after his cheating via social media and going on dates and repeatedly hanging out alone with another woman and lying to me about it by omission… Today is our three year anniversary and he’s being very kind, pretty sure he’s gotten… Continue reading Am thinking about leaving my cheating husband but today he is being extra nice on our anniversary and making it very confusing…

Just having the worst day today.

Hi, apologies in advance for a brief rant here but I feel like it’s better to get things out there and write it somewhere, rather than keeping it in, but I’ve just had the worst day today and I feel awful. I don’t know where to start, there was an interview that went all wrong,… Continue reading Just having the worst day today.

I don’t have a question

Do u ladies ever hold in ur pee & when y’all finally release it u get an orgasm??

Stalked at a doctor’s appointment

Stalking/harassment I had an encounter with a person in an elevator and they got off the elevator after yelling at me the whole ride up. I closed the door and went up to my doctor’s office. A few minutes later while I was filling out paperwork, the person came in and walked straight towards me.… Continue reading Stalked at a doctor’s appointment

What are some of the best and worst “self help” books aimed at women that you have read?

So, I’m taking a WGS class, and for our class we have to read analyze a psychology or self-help book that relates back to the topics of our class (gender roles, sexuality, emotional labor, power dynamics, men and masculinity- basically any feminist topic you can think of i’d like to do a not-so-good book that… Continue reading What are some of the best and worst “self help” books aimed at women that you have read?

As someone who could never gain weight, I’m in a better place in my life and have been able to put on weight now

I hope this doesn’t sound stupid. It feels great to finally be able to gain more weight however, I can’t help but still feel insecure about the change. The weight gain has caused a very significant amount of stretch marks on my butt and down my thighs. Is this normal? It just seems really excessive… Continue reading As someone who could never gain weight, I’m in a better place in my life and have been able to put on weight now

“Am I bEiNg pArAnOiD?” Probably not, babes

I totally get fielding an uncertain situation with an anonymous crowd of unbiased internet users, but I can’t help but notice just how often women come onto Reddit and describe a situation that is clearly not okay just to end the post with “am I overreacting?” “How do I make him understand?” “Am I being… Continue reading “Am I bEiNg pArAnOiD?” Probably not, babes

I feel my family is dismissive of my period cramps

Are products like Bleame actually worth it?

I keep seeing ads for products like Bleame on Instagram and am wondering do they really work? I am getting sick of shaving and waxing, while quick, stings a bit. At least it’s coming into Autumn so I have time to think about it lol.

Looking Older

Help! Job info

Well, since you haven’t left your husband, even if you’re on good terms, I suggest having your own high yield savings account that you put your own savings into. But, realistically, you’ll work the job you have, slowly work towards a bachelor degree at night or whatever if that’s what you want, get promoted at… Continue reading Help! Job info

Big boobed ladies

Did you like the way you looked, OP? Personally, I think full boobs and cinched in waist is really attractive. You said you knew that if you bought them, people would stare when you’re wearing them. This sounds to me like it was less a case of not liking the dresses on yourself, but more… Continue reading Big boobed ladies

Man won’t pay bills on dates.

Every time we go on a date, we split the bill. He pays for his food, I pay for mine. I legally HAVE to agree because it’s his money. Why don’t i just break up? My friends and parents pressure me saying, “Just because he is a man does not mean he has to pay… Continue reading Man won’t pay bills on dates.

Menstrual pads complain?

Uncommon PMS symptoms

How to make my period come faster

Why does some women have less body hair than others?

What do you think about these results?

Pepper Spray Alternative

A person close to me is being followed by an Old Man, he followed her for he whole walk. [we assume he is trying to find out where she lives] In my country, having pepper spray or a taser is illegal. Does anyone have any good alternatives? I’ve heard hairspray is good but I don’t… Continue reading Pepper Spray Alternative

Does having breakthrough bleeding mean the pill isn’t working?

North Korean women forced into marriages, sex slavery in China

I only start my period when I poop.

New Poverty Sub for Hygiene Items

How do you deal with knowing you’ve been lied to?

I want to get ripped and sexy, but is steroid use worth the risks?

Where has being sweet got you?

Good girl syndrome is a good read if you’ve got the time. You’re so wrapped up in pleasing others, you’ll mould yourself to fit others and will ignore your own boundaries when doing so. People eventually learn that if you can disrespect yourself then they’ll disrespect you. They’ll exploit you but you’ll smile through it… Continue reading Where has being sweet got you?

How to feel more feminine without being a girly girl?

Hi! As the titles says I’m not really feeling feminine. If I see girls walking over the streed I’m like why can’t that be me?? I always got the feeling my hair is just meh my clothing is meh and I rarely wear make up (sometimes I do but now I’m pregnant only mascara because… Continue reading How to feel more feminine without being a girly girl?

Happy wives, what did you do before marriage?

Feel terrible about an ex bully

I was severely bullied by someone back in school. I was never friends with that person. But we had some common friends. Recently, through one of our common friends’ social media, I found out that she had been assaulted. I don’t really know how to feel about it. I’m conflicted. It’s like she ruined two… Continue reading Feel terrible about an ex bully

Anyone else feel afraid to end up alone ?

I texted my ex on accident

I texted my ex last night, but I didn’t mean to hit send. I typed out the message and went to hit send, but I changed my mind but when trying to exit the convo I hit send while swiping out. I don’t have the new apple update that you can delete texts. My ex… Continue reading I texted my ex on accident

He told me he’d forgive me if I slept with him and now I feel stupid and empty

the other day, the guy I was seeing was really angry at me and after a while of yelling, he told me he would forgive me if i had sex with him. i asked him before if he was sure that he wouldn’t be angry anymore afterwards and he promised. so many times during i… Continue reading He told me he’d forgive me if I slept with him and now I feel stupid and empty

Dont have anything to look forward to

You have your whole life ahead of you. You are ambitious, but we need to get you focusing on the good parts about yourself. Your hobbies, your art, your sport, whatever is important to you. Please go see a doctor. You sound depressed and an antidepressant can work wonders. I wish you the best of… Continue reading Dont have anything to look forward to

first argument with my partner

Having a soft heart is a blessing and a curse.

is feeling jealousy normal

New ID Photo Help!!

When I move I want to get a new ID for that state. They do black and white photos. I want some pointers on how to look pretty and less hellish in the photo. ID photos aren’t exactly the most flattering. So what are your tips and tricks for makeup, hair, poses, facial expressions, etc!!… Continue reading New ID Photo Help!!

How can I find a man who doesn’t watch porn?

Unlikely, even if you were looking for a woman, unless you’re okay with sex repulsed ace people as your partner. (No sleight against ace folks, I just assume OP isn’t ace and I understand that it can be hard for mixed couples to last.)

Pros & Cons to Birth Control Pills?

No mom? How did you cope?

period poops :(

on my period rn all of a sudden got diarrhea since my first day ystd, along with nausea and a migraine. this is my first time experiencing these kind of symptoms, usually its constipation and vomiting for me but never diarrhea. how long will this diarrhea last and does anyone have home remedies that works… Continue reading period poops 🙁

Feeling pain in my left breast. What to do?

I feel a bit of pain on the side of my left breast. It’s kinda like pins and needles. It comes and goes. I normally get this kind of pain when I’m due for my period. The pain usually goes away after a few days. I’m actually due for my period in a few days.… Continue reading Feeling pain in my left breast. What to do?

Precious times in life

Anybody else’s boyfriend refer to you as “woman?”

Movies

Ladies, I’m looking for movies with a strong feminine presence or strong feminine leads. Leafs don’t have to be actresses, but directors. I’m trying to watch movies with women as leads, acting or directing. 💟💛

Finally OFFICIAL

Ad a women

Mismatched

Thoughts on wearing shaping underwear & tummy control panties. Do you invest in wearing good-quality undergarments? Whats your favorite?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Thoughts on wearing shaping underwear & tummy control panties. Do you invest in wearing good-quality undergarments? Whats your favorite?

Insecurity or lust?

Recently, I have been coming to terms with my insecurities and realizing my triggers when I’m comparing myself, however, doing some shadow work, I realize that I also am attracted to women. Does anyone else feel like this? I feel like it makes things harder to deal with because I’m in a relationship with a… Continue reading Insecurity or lust?

How do you tell a guy you won’t date anyone who watches porn

I’m not dating now but I discovered this is a boundary for me. There is so much unrealistic expectations in porn, that I feel that if I was to be with a guy who watches porn, I risk being with someone who will soon fall out of love for me. It’s not going to be… Continue reading How do you tell a guy you won’t date anyone who watches porn

Does anyone else feel like they are not pretty enough or worthy enough to be daydreaming about love and romance?? Have you ever been proven wrong?

TLDR: Does anyone feel like you’re not the heroine/ main character of your own life so something romantic happening to you is quite impossible? Have you ever been proven wrong? Now, I don’t know if it’s just a ‘me’ problem. I agree that I do have a bit of self confidence issues and I know… Continue reading Does anyone else feel like they are not pretty enough or worthy enough to be daydreaming about love and romance?? Have you ever been proven wrong?

Reddit pages of treating us like objects

Sex drive

Did your sex drive suddenly change, or was it always like that? If you are content with yourself, and it wasn’t a drastic change from having a sex drive for you, I wouldn’t worry. (If it was a sudden change, check in with your doctor to make sure everything is alright) Your worth is not… Continue reading Sex drive

I had an idea for a new hashtag. #GirlsCanDoItAll

I thought it would be empowering, or at least a statement of encouragement. What do y’all think? I was inspired after watching a video of Nicole Coenen, nicknamed the Lumberjack Lesbian, also doing Blacksmithing.

I had a miscarriage last week and now am dreaming about my baby.

How to accept your not ‘conventionally attractive’?

Title explains it. For a woman I’m kinda ugly. I don’t personally care, I’m just ugly. The issue is that if you’re an ugly woman a lot of people basically treat you like crap. How to just….accept that my value to the world is ultimately lowered just because I’m not attractive? I’m just struggling right… Continue reading How to accept your not ‘conventionally attractive’?

Suspected endo and I’m at work with horrible pain

Women have to work harder in an all men’s environment and it’s leading me to change my job.

I would be careful with what you wish for. “Women’s jobs” are often much harder from the get go (caretaking, nursing, assistance, organisation, piece work, cashier, …) and paid less. At least, that’s my experience.

cmv: I can’t imagine how bad it’d suck to be a woman, and I’m thankful to be a guy

Fear of sexual assault, rape and unsafe pregnancy in non-first-world countries… being a mom and having to give up professional dreams… not being able to travel as independently… drastic hormonal changes over the course of life that could hit you emotionally like a freight train… men lusting after you… being disrespected and less capable in… Continue reading cmv: I can’t imagine how bad it’d suck to be a woman, and I’m thankful to be a guy

What is a good gift for a new mom/parents?

Entitled Women

When I used to hang around dating subs/debate subs I would see a lot about how women are super entitled nowadays. I never knew what they meant by this bc no one would expand. I just saw the post where OP unmatched bc the dude asked her on a coffee date and the comments are… Continue reading Entitled Women

Beauty standards/trends!

I was rewatching Princess Diaries and noticed the current beauty standards in it… removing Mia’s glasses, changing her curly hair to straight hair, getting rid of her bushy eyebrows.. Ngl, that was kinda sad to watch.

What kind of crossword puzzles do you like to play?

How many of you have had to deal with your dads being sexist?

The value of self worth

The number one lesson I have learned in this life is how important self worth is. Especially as a woman, where we are so judged by our looks, treated badly under the patriarchy/misogyny yet invalidated in our struggles; knowing my value & acting accordingly has saved my life so many times. If I didn’t know… Continue reading The value of self worth

Outlaw men masturbating until abortion is made legal?

Then women have to be forbidden to ovulate or have periods or become menopausal… Sperms die and have to get released regularly even if male wouldn’t masturbate. Same as eggs need to get replaced. Biology books explain you way. Not allowing abortion has its roots in other things and it has nothing to do with… Continue reading Outlaw men masturbating until abortion is made legal?

Looking for ideas to create boudoir/lingerie content on YouTube. Any suggestions or input would be greatly appreciated!

Im not sure if this is the right subreddit for this question, but here we are. I run a Youtube Channel for a boudoir photography company that I am employed at and I have officially reached rock bottom on topics to cover. Its a bit tricky to reinvent the wheel as most boudoir / photography… Continue reading Looking for ideas to create boudoir/lingerie content on YouTube. Any suggestions or input would be greatly appreciated!

How to calm down

Can someone give me a psych evaluation of guys who say stuff like these about women??

I know a guy in my friend group who seems like an average good guy at first but when you get to know him deeper and have conversations with him, it gets worse and he says stuff like: •”I want beauty with the brains, but damn brains is so hard to come by” •”I haven’t… Continue reading Can someone give me a psych evaluation of guys who say stuff like these about women??

Advice

there’s this female I’ve been talking to and she’s a great talk, looks beautiful, funny personality etc and it lights me up!… not only are we different ethnicity, but I was adopted and she had her full family…idk how to go about that…I feel like there’s a lot in the way

How to regain energy after period?

thick thighs save lives

Am I still passing an egg monthly?

What do you use to shave?

If not allowed please delete. To the women

POSTURE BRAS

A hospital in Idaho is stopping birth care because of doctor shortages and “political climate”

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading A hospital in Idaho is stopping birth care because of doctor shortages and “political climate”

Robbinson dad

Women who had a pessimistic view and were constantly depressed, what changed everything.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women who had a pessimistic view and were constantly depressed, what changed everything.

Why is there a name for shit like “blue balls” but no name for the state men will leave women in when they themselves have just orgasmed and decided sex is over now and won’t help her finish?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why is there a name for shit like “blue balls” but no name for the state men will leave women in when they themselves have just orgasmed and decided sex is over now and won’t help her finish?

My friend

I have a friend who is constantly saying how proud they are of themselves and their work, constantly giving me validation for small things which is nice but I don’t feel the need to give myself validation constantly I have a healthy relationship with myself and affirming myself, they also mentioning their therapist and how… Continue reading My friend

Does getting in an IUD actually hurt as bad as people say?

I’m currently on hormonal birth control which is really worsening my depression, and not to mention the tremendous weight gain from when I started it a year ago. I was looking into the cooper IUD, but I’ve heard horror stories of people who went into a false labor after getting one, among other things. I… Continue reading Does getting in an IUD actually hurt as bad as people say?

How would you give an mature response on someone disregarding your feelings and making it about themselves?

I’d choose someone else to confide in, personally. When I’m going through something I don’t a f to have to explain common decency to someone too. For you: yes, everyone goes through something, and it doesn’t make it any less valid of what you’re currently going through. Life is hard. I’m sorry if you’re having… Continue reading How would you give an mature response on someone disregarding your feelings and making it about themselves?

What improvements do you want to see in the beauty industry( hair care, skin care, personal care, fragrance and makeup)

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What improvements do you want to see in the beauty industry( hair care, skin care, personal care, fragrance and makeup)

Can we please ban “Am I pregnant?” posts?

Uterine biopsy pain

Question for anyone here who has had a uterine biopsy. I’ve read that this is a painful procedure and I have a low tolerance for pain. Doctor will not prescribe even one pain pill for this. Her reason is that the pain is only for a few seconds. She suggests ibuprofen and tylenol. Please share… Continue reading Uterine biopsy pain

Advice needed for a lady going through it

Can you wait to start your thesis til your period is over? Use the time to mope, wallow, etc then get showered, dressed, and get your cute ass to a cafe to write a paragraph. Get the elaborate drink and a bakery item. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Breakups suck. But clearly you are… Continue reading Advice needed for a lady going through it

i hope this is the right subreddit

is there a way to prevent/get out discharge stains in underwear?

is dumping a guy over peeing outside of the toilet a good dating advice?

I think what your grandmother means is that if a guy is rude enough to pee outside the toilet that means that he has no self control in terms of being polite in other people’s homes by making a mess in the bathroom(lol too much explanation) or literally not hygienic. The real question is does… Continue reading is dumping a guy over peeing outside of the toilet a good dating advice?

Ovulation Bleeding?

Help

Budget-friendly underwear?

Ladies, where do y’all get affordable undies? I realize I haven’t gotten new underwear since I was an angsty fifteen-year-old stealing from Walmart, and, uh, that’s not how we handle things being expensive as an adult.

My boyfriend thinks that all feminism is about hating and abusing men.

Today as I was scrolling on Instagram, I found a post of a Virginia Woolf quote that said “Why are women so much more interesting to men than men are to women?” and made the horrible mistake of looking through the comments section. Long story short, the comments section was full of sexist comments from… Continue reading My boyfriend thinks that all feminism is about hating and abusing men.

Do women notice men looking at them on the beach?

NYP did a story on Sydney Sweeney and everyone is hating on her but where are my big chested girls who can relate?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading NYP did a story on Sydney Sweeney and everyone is hating on her but where are my big chested girls who can relate?

Problematic boys only exist on my phone(because I say so)

I decided this worldview will stress me out the least. The most outspoken & problematic boys only exist on my phone, so like, I decided they don’t actually exist as real people. When i come across them in person, im gonna assume they’re just a test created by god & that they vanish whenever I’m… Continue reading Problematic boys only exist on my phone(because I say so)

My ex-boyfriend texted my friend to ask about me and how do we even respond?

My ex boyfriend was a toxic guy. He had a lot of sexist opinions and his whole personality was made up of objectifying women and being a sexist. I went through a LOT when I was with him- all kinds of insecurties, breakdowns and everying. I’ve blocked him everywhere because he used to get drunk… Continue reading My ex-boyfriend texted my friend to ask about me and how do we even respond?

Advice on hair removal, considering waxing

So I personally struggle with really thick, dark, fast growing body hair. It’s been endlessly frustrating for me to keep up with shaving since it really doesn’t feel worth it. I’ll shave and the very next day I’ll have stubble, or as soon as I get even a slight chill honestly. I’d hate having to… Continue reading Advice on hair removal, considering waxing

What do I get my sister for a birthday present

Has anyone women here tried Centrum Multivitamin?

Is it normal for breasts to always be sore ???

The most annoying feeling in the world is having a good time and suddenly noticing a man preying on you.

I went out for a snack run to the gas station and a man held the door open for me and let me through then proceeded to lurk around the aisles watching me until I got to the register. He disappeared while I was paying and I automatically assumed he’d gone out to hide somewhere… Continue reading The most annoying feeling in the world is having a good time and suddenly noticing a man preying on you.

I think my pills are making me feel less romantic attraction?

Men only talking to other men…?

Does anyone else experience men talking to other men who are with them and basically just ignoring them? When I’m somewhere with my partner so many men will be having a convo with us both but basically only looking at him the whole time, even if he is talking about me or I’m contributing to… Continue reading Men only talking to other men…?

is it too fancy?

I love being a woman so much I could scream!

Does it bother you when the person you love looks at women’s boobs bigger then yours on Reddit?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Does it bother you when the person you love looks at women’s boobs bigger then yours on Reddit?

any good skincare products for oily nose?

hi! so basically i have a SUPER oily nose, which is really gross, but i was wondering if anyone had a similar issue and knew any products to deal with it? like it’s constantly oily no matter how often i wash my face, and it makes my pores look so much bigger and it’s honestly… Continue reading any good skincare products for oily nose?

When will my boobs be equal size?

Wanting to become a adult entertainment video creator.

false I would like to use a platform like onlyfans, fansly, p-hub. I wanted to know if any women, femmes, non- binary people might have a opinion on what they liked to use based on the percentage the company takes of your earnings. To me making adult entertainment isn’t just about money, it’s a activity… Continue reading Wanting to become a adult entertainment video creator.

If you had an abnormal pap test, what happened next?

I was contacted by my doctor to tell me that I have an abnormal pap test result. I have a referral to get a colposcopy, but I’m currently waiting on clinics/hospitals to follow-up to schedule my appointment. To anyone here who experienced this, what happened next? What did you find out? What did you face?… Continue reading If you had an abnormal pap test, what happened next?

Why do men think weaponized incompetence is okay just because their wife/gf isn’t working

Some of the comments on a recent post in the relationships sub are honestly disgusting. Just because your wife or girlfriend is temporarily out of a job, doesn’t mean she’s your maid or your mom! It doesn’t give men an excuse to act like a toddler and leave messes everywhere! I understand doing most of… Continue reading Why do men think weaponized incompetence is okay just because their wife/gf isn’t working

Men don’t see woman’s issues from a human perspective

This is difficult to explain but it’s been something that bothers me. I feel when men talk about issues such as SA, harassment, sexism, abortion, even the murder rates of women, etc, they don’t talk as if they see it from the perspective that the woman is a human. They talk about it as a… Continue reading Men don’t see woman’s issues from a human perspective

Periods😒

Okay, so I just told my mum that I started my period right? My mum literally said “Oh, how do you know you’ve got your period?” Mother dearest, I have blood coming out of my vagina. Like tf??😭😭

Women, what do you prefer, hot/beautiful/sexy men or mentally attractive?

I would like to increase my chances toward women. And I can take steroids and other stuff that will make me much more muscular and physically attractive. I have taken some drugs previously that really impacted my body, like cyproheptadine(which made me gain tons of weight) and anabolic steroids, which made me gain much more… Continue reading Women, what do you prefer, hot/beautiful/sexy men or mentally attractive?

I hate how women get dismissed

Trigger warning: SA (sexual assault) How come women are always being dismissed when it comes to being stalked, harassed, and flat out sexually assaulted? A good example is when a woman says “hey, (name) is being creepy towards me he did (creepy behavior.)” it’s always followed by someone saying oh he’s just anti social! He’s… Continue reading I hate how women get dismissed

Can I, as a bigender individual, celebrate Women’s Day?

I know this year’s Women’s Day is already past, and it’s not that big of a deal for me anyway, but it’s been on my mind I’m an AMAB person, but a month ago I realised I’m bigender. Is it alright for me to celebrate Women’s Day and other specifically feminine holidays, like Mother’s Day?… Continue reading Can I, as a bigender individual, celebrate Women’s Day?

What are the REAL side effects of birth control?

Pill never relieved me from period pain. Never! It is b*** s***. The rest is up to you. There are a few advantages and even more less. But your period pain doesn’t disappear from the pill. It is a lie doctors tell us to make more women willing to take hormones produced by female horses… Continue reading What are the REAL side effects of birth control?

How do you respond to men who say they want to be friends but then act like a boyfriend?

A constant in my life is men who say they are OK with being friends but then try to act like my boyfriend or lover. I am very blunt and upfront about it, but have had guys pretended to want to be just friend for months to then shift. I also have guy friends for… Continue reading How do you respond to men who say they want to be friends but then act like a boyfriend?

Stop Blaming Black Women for Black Men’s Actions

This is extremely common in America. You do not get to blame us for Black male crime, Black male violence, or Black men’s personal behavior towards you. Especially not when Americans ignore and condone the violence they inflict on Black women first. Nobody blames white women for white men’s actions. People would never ask Asian… Continue reading Stop Blaming Black Women for Black Men’s Actions

Everything to do with pregnancy and childbirth makes me feel faint

I feel you!! I’ve always felt anxious and queasy about anything to do with pregnancy and childbirth. Absolutely hate going to gynaecologist appointments as it makes me extremely uncomfortable and anxious, I sometimes compare it to how others are scared of dentists. And can’t listen to any birth stories, makes me feel faint and nauseous… Continue reading Everything to do with pregnancy and childbirth makes me feel faint

Guy asked to send dick pics, sent it anyway after I’d said no several times

As title says, a guy messaged me asking to send dick pics, said he’d want nothing in return. I said no, several times, and that regardless of the fact he’d want nothing in return, I don’t want to see it. He sent it anyway. But hey, at least he asked 🙄🤷‍♀️

How to deal with people who shame me for not wearing makeup?

I don’t wear makeup simply because I hate it and I don’t want to spend money on it but I don’t have a problem with girls wearing makeup But I am always getting judged and told that I am not feminine, I don’t fit it and I am weird and everytime I try to explain… Continue reading How to deal with people who shame me for not wearing makeup?

Will you be interested in our presson nails survey if you get a gift card to purchase the press on nails for free?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Will you be interested in our presson nails survey if you get a gift card to purchase the press on nails for free?

anyone else?

A Tale of Two Men (As Told by a Woman)

Got my period after few days of it ending

My nipples, areola, and boobs are so small.

Didn’t know where to go, so I came here. I’m really insecure about what’s mentioned above. I’m not sure it’s attractive to men. I know I shouldn’t care, but I do. They look like a child’s breast and it makes me feel less like a woman and more insecure. They do have volume and you… Continue reading My nipples, areola, and boobs are so small.

Women in Gaming: The Challenges and Triumphs of Female Gamers and Developers in a Male-Dominated Industry

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women in Gaming: The Challenges and Triumphs of Female Gamers and Developers in a Male-Dominated Industry

female friendships is my definition of love

idk if it’s because im a bisexual woman but female friendships is the most intimate relationship I’ll ever have and I’ve been in romantic relationships. we’ve seen each other’s bodies, talked about everything, explored places together, basically just do everything together. I can’t explain it, it’s just love for me. Not romantic, platonic, or family… Continue reading female friendships is my definition of love

Women-Owned Breweries Across the U.S.

Does anyone else have a line above their pubic area?

Pap smears- why does the recommendation on frequency keep changing? Is this a US thing?

Recommendations for screenings are based on a lot of science. Science is an ongoing process – as researchers learn more, the recommendations change. People might assume that more screening is always better, but that isn’t the case. No screening is perfect: sometimes they miss real cases and other times they incorrectly identify a healthy people… Continue reading Pap smears- why does the recommendation on frequency keep changing? Is this a US thing?

I just found out I have sore eyes (no obvious symptoms). Ophtha is suggesting for me to throw away all makeups/skincare I used on my eyes. Anyone encountered the same issue? What did you do? Thanks!

It depends. Are your eyes sore from viewing your phone too much? Do you stare at a computer screen all day? If so, adjust your phone light settings to dampen down the blue. Too much blue light can make your eyes hurt. If you’re stuck in front of a computer all day, get computer glasses.… Continue reading I just found out I have sore eyes (no obvious symptoms). Ophtha is suggesting for me to throw away all makeups/skincare I used on my eyes. Anyone encountered the same issue? What did you do? Thanks!

Anyone else experience more discharge while exercising?

This sounds gross and embarrassing, but I’ve noticed that when I’m exercising, I experience more discharge. Right now, I’m actually spotting, so it’s the brown discharge. Regardless, I just want to make sure I’m not alone. I feel embarrassed though because I’ve started wearing the light tampons just to make sure I don’t accidentally get… Continue reading Anyone else experience more discharge while exercising?

Longer than usual cycle

This is very common and mostly nothing. Obviously, if you are having unprotected sex, there is the possibility that there was a pregnancy. However, long heavy bleeding is not trivial if it is really heavy (at some point anemia is a factor) but nobody can tell if it is that kind of heavy. Most urgent… Continue reading Longer than usual cycle

How do you manage not getting all itchy with your hair down?

job application

Period?

swimsuit help?

I can’t stop eating

I have created a new sub for women who are focused on their careers and want to achieve their biggest potential!

Hi guys!! I created a sub for women, nonbinary and women identifying persons empowerment and for sharing best practices on the way to the top – specifically for women aspiring to be partners in their firms, starting their own, to achieve executive and c-suite positions all the while growing financially and personally. The sub is… Continue reading I have created a new sub for women who are focused on their careers and want to achieve their biggest potential!

my new discord

How do guys masturbate?? I need some guidance

Oh, I feel for you. It’s a very difficult thing at first, but you’ll get the hang of it. Trust me, it took me a while too but once I started to really do it right I really began to enjoy it and it became a part of my life that helped liberate me and… Continue reading How do guys masturbate?? I need some guidance

Rape apologists everywhere

Why is the internet full of rape apologists? Why can’t any unrelated topic be discussed or have a logical discourse without getting highjacked by deranged nimrods? Unfortunately, all of these men are the educated lot. The not-so-educated ones are much worse. I feel so defeated. It’s almost as if they derive pleasure out of derailing… Continue reading Rape apologists everywhere

I was wondering what shady apps or things to look for on his phone?

At work, being told “You have an attitude” whenever you stand up for yourself in a professional manner

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading At work, being told “You have an attitude” whenever you stand up for yourself in a professional manner

Do all men just inhale their food?

How to find a doctor?

If you have health insurance, you can go online on their portal and use the find a provider tool to make sure they’re in network. You could probably call them for recommendations, too. If you don’t have insurance, I’d look up providers in your area who have good self pay rates. Have you had one… Continue reading How to find a doctor?

It feels like men only want model/influencer looking women

Before I go on I am in no way shaming any woman who looks like a model or influencer. If looking like they gives them confidence, that’s great and they should continue doing what they do. They’re not ugly. This is more aimed at the hypocrisy towards men. This is also coming from the point… Continue reading It feels like men only want model/influencer looking women

looking for validation to feel better :(

Someone who tells another person they are not worthy of love, does not understand what love is, because a loving person would not say this. The people who responded to your post are referring to conditional love, meaning love under certain conditions (i.e. sleeping with under X amount of men). You don’t want conditional love,… Continue reading looking for validation to feel better 🙁

Struggling with the pay gap in my industry and how blatantly sexist my coworkers are, among other things. I’m looking for advice.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Struggling with the pay gap in my industry and how blatantly sexist my coworkers are, among other things. I’m looking for advice.

Do big hoop earrings look ghetto?

I feel so betrayed, confused, disgusting, guilty and heartbroken

I just found out that my boyfriend of three years is a murderer and a cheater. After he killed his other partner and disposed of her, he came over to my house many times and acted like nothing happened at all. He was the same loving, gentle, silly and intense man I’ve known and loved… Continue reading I feel so betrayed, confused, disgusting, guilty and heartbroken

Do ladies go for “happy ending” massages either intentionally or as something that just develops naturally?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Do ladies go for “happy ending” massages either intentionally or as something that just develops naturally?

best places to buy dresses?

Dark spot insecurities

Hemorrhoid’s w aging

Lol

What’s the best things to do for someone who’s recently given birth?

Lacking an identity outside of family/partner making my life miserable

I have this messed up idea that somehow, because I am not in a relationship, I am not supposed to be enjoying certain activities like going to the restaurant, traveling and so on. Obviously, I am not dumb and I am aware that this idea is hella dumb, but I guess it stems from the… Continue reading Lacking an identity outside of family/partner making my life miserable

Can someone explain the periods on nexplanon?

How to get the motivation to start caring about yourself?

There is a difference between caring about your whole self- as in your mental health, emotional well being, & happiness, & caring about your looks. You don’t have to care about your looks to actually care about yourself. If you don’t like dressing up or whatever, it doesn’t matter & it shouldn’t to the people… Continue reading How to get the motivation to start caring about yourself?

Does anyone know where I can buy seamless underwear that won’t give me a wedgie?

Things that never happen to men, part I. “ “She wants to kill babies but she’s still beautiful. You look very beautiful in that dress. You look very sexy. Look at that booty. “Look how sexy she looks in that dress. Hot, hot, hot like a tamale.”

Satire is exempt from certain Title VII violations and other such things. Really, I hope HER lawyer makes a meal of this. “She likes killing babies” is either slander or libel, depending on the medium. It would be fun to have the transcript of them actually proving that she likes killing babies, or explaining the… Continue reading Things that never happen to men, part I. “ “She wants to kill babies but she’s still beautiful. You look very beautiful in that dress. You look very sexy. Look at that booty. “Look how sexy she looks in that dress. Hot, hot, hot like a tamale.”

Hormonal implant

How to deal with a jealous friend ?

I have been feeling for quiet some time my best friend is jealous of me. We were friends when we were younger reconnected a couple years ago. Well now being friends with her as an adult I’ve been getting jealously vibes from her I never saw when we were younger. She’s a lesbian and she… Continue reading How to deal with a jealous friend ?

Bloated stomach only when you sleep on your back?

anyone with mental health condition, choose to be a mom and is a mom? how is it going?

I can’t be a mom. It is a fact and i cant deny it but i feel extremely disappointed with myself. I am mentally unstable. It comes and goes in waves. We initially thought of having kids end of this year. But yeah, it aint happening when my husband talked sense with me few days… Continue reading anyone with mental health condition, choose to be a mom and is a mom? how is it going?

Does anyone else hate shopping?

Abuse safe space discord

Happy international women’s day! I wanted to get the word out that a friend and I are building a Discord as a safe space and resource guide for women, especially mothers, who have been or are currently in an abusive relationship. No men allowed, please/thank you. Feel free to comment or DM me if you’re… Continue reading Abuse safe space discord

How do trans girls/women and/or transfems feel about periods? (from a transfem) (crossposting from r/trans for more input and to reach specifically more gals)

I’m transfem AMAB, so I don’t get periods. Obviously, they don’t sound very fun at all, but there is a certain sort of dysphoria or not-fitting-in I feel from not having periods. That being said, getting your period as a cis girl is labeled as a transition into womanhood and an affirmation of your femininity,… Continue reading How do trans girls/women and/or transfems feel about periods? (from a transfem) (crossposting from r/trans for more input and to reach specifically more gals)

Cried for the first time in my life out of frustration because I’m so hungry

My period this month is absolutely killing me. It started this morning with the same exact symptoms I have when I get food poisoning, I fainted, I couldn’t do anything so I only managed to get up from the couch in the afternoon. I can’t eat anything other than bread and yogurt and I’m so… Continue reading Cried for the first time in my life out of frustration because I’m so hungry

I’m scared.

false I don’t know where talk about it, so I came here. I’m scared, I see a lot of people online be misogynist and sexist. And it doesn’t gets better when famous people, with lot of followers, like Tate exists. I’m so scared of live in this world that I considered k*łł myself. Instead of… Continue reading I’m scared.

Thank you women

What is the new term for the old term “tomboy” in everyone’s opinion? I just want to feel like I belong.

First I want to say that I think it’s great to have a group to be able to identify with, and that’s what I am trying to figure out. Growing up, I was called a tomboy and I called myself a tomboy back then. Nowadays I have no idea what to call myself. It’s not… Continue reading What is the new term for the old term “tomboy” in everyone’s opinion? I just want to feel like I belong.

women’s day conversation at work yesterday:We have no women in middle management, and my manager insists that promotions are done purely based on skill

We had a long argument yesterday where my manager insisted this, said that it would be unfair to ‘promote women based on their gender’. My argument was that they seem to have a very specific narrow definition of leadership and it’s why women can’t seem to get promoted. What are some better ways I can… Continue reading women’s day conversation at work yesterday:We have no women in middle management, and my manager insists that promotions are done purely based on skill

How can I make friends?

A sincere apology from a Trans woman

I grew up with many strong women. Women that held their families together. Women that gritted their teeth and planted their heels firmly whilst fighting for what they believed in. Women that sacrificed and provided. That strength and wisdom left an impression on me that still stands today. ALL of my role models were women.… Continue reading A sincere apology from a Trans woman

GODDAMMIT!!!

Why the fuck is it SO Difficult for guys to WIPE THEIR PISS OFF THE SEAT???? Jesus Fucking Super Christ! Seriously! Almost Every Goddamn time I use the bathroom (gender unreal), I ALWAYS have to wipe off the seat and I’m getting so sick of it. WHY THE FUCK ARE MEN SO INCONSIDERATE OF ANY… Continue reading GODDAMMIT!!!

I’d like congratulate the women fandom today.

My friend finally left her abusive relationship! How can I help her cleanse and celebrate?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading My friend finally left her abusive relationship! How can I help her cleanse and celebrate?

should I take the fight ?

im in highschool and a girl in my age chalenged me in to a fight. Now this is NOT about me having to fight someone because i love fighting! i belive a real man on man punch duel is one of the best ways to end a raged dayBUT THİS TİME SHES A SHE i… Continue reading should I take the fight ?

Happy International Women’s Day

Victim Blaming: Six stupid things people say

On this international women’s day, I am hopeful that we can begin to turn the corner on one of the most damaging behaviors we do toward women who have been targeted with violence. This blog identifies six stupid things people say about victims. It is based on interesting research on this topic. There is an… Continue reading Victim Blaming: Six stupid things people say

Happy International Women’s Day

Happy International Women’s Day!!! Domestic women, we’re sorry, but you will not be celebrated, no balloons for any of you 😁🎈

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Happy International Women’s Day!!! Domestic women, we’re sorry, but you will not be celebrated, no balloons for any of you 😁🎈

I frequently read that women with female avatars gets harassed a lot more than if you don’t have one or if you have a male avatar. Is this true and what is your experience?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I frequently read that women with female avatars gets harassed a lot more than if you don’t have one or if you have a male avatar. Is this true and what is your experience?

Menopause

HEEELP! Can you make your period come earlier?

I’m going on a one week vacation in two weeks, and I’m gonna get my period on the vacation, which is VERY inconvenient, seeing that the vacation basically consists of swimming. D: I’m not a big fan of tampons – I don’t trust them at all. Is there anything I can do to make my… Continue reading HEEELP! Can you make your period come earlier?

men love controlling women more than they love women

In your experience, would you say you’ve noticed most men love the feeling of controlling a woman more than loving a woman? I’m talking about a father, brother, friend, son, romantic partner. According to science, it is said a high percentage of men are selfish/narcissistic because they’re wired that way. So I’m wondering, have you… Continue reading men love controlling women more than they love women

Hi am I overreacting?

I recently just started talking to this guy online. He was talking about all the sports he does and asked me what sports i usually do, i told him i’ve been taking martial arts classes and he dropped a joke about him “beating me up” and that i won’t be able to stop him. I’m… Continue reading Hi am I overreacting?

Does anyone get these kind of lumps down there?

Female Execs Are Exhausted, Frustrated and Heading for the Exits

Dating men who refer to women as girls?

Is it an arbitrarily high standard to not date men who refer to women as girls? It seems everywhere but I find it demeaning. Children and teens are girls, not adult women. AN ASIDE: I was seeing someone over a few weeks who suggested they were progressive in regard to gender norms but also referred… Continue reading Dating men who refer to women as girls?

URGENT – super sharp pain I THINK on my ovary???

Has anyone used this medication called “Clingen Forte” ?

i hate being a teenage girl

It’s time to break the silence and stigma

Menstrual dignity is an issue that affects people all around the globe. In many countries, menstruation is still surrounded by shame, taboo, and stigma, which can lead to negative health outcomes, educational and employment barriers, and social exclusion. India: In India, the government has launched the “Pad Man” initiative, which aims to provide access to… Continue reading It’s time to break the silence and stigma

My partner told me he feels validated when other women find him attractive

Is it just me that some of the cotton clothing especially shorts gotten shorter after washing / putting in the dryer

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Is it just me that some of the cotton clothing especially shorts gotten shorter after washing / putting in the dryer

Please don’t forget to give yourself a flower tomorrow

What do you think about the Free top G thing ?

What’s a gift for a newly pregnant women? A gift just for the mom, not the baby?

Looking for a workout buddy

Rant about husband’s weaponised incompetence

I’m working from home today and it’s dry out so I was going to wash the bedding. However my husband has the day off and was still in bed when I was going to put the wash on so I put other things I wanted to wash in the machine and asked him to add… Continue reading Rant about husband’s weaponised incompetence

What to expect when coming off of birth control?

THE PATH TO A HAPPY PERIOD

° Use a menstrual cup – To not worry about leakages, odour, rashes or discomfort °Trim or shave beforehand – To make cleanup easier ° Stock up on chocolate – To satisfy your cravings and help with the cramps ° Make water your best friend – To keep your blood flowing easily It may not… Continue reading THE PATH TO A HAPPY PERIOD

Anyone else kinda concerned about all the “women☕️” comments all the time?

It’s always on videos or something of a someone who happens to be a female being stupid. But it’s not like they’re being stupid because they’re a woman. Men ☕️ are never on videos of guys being stupid because that’s just a stupid person. Why is it that when woman is being dumb it reflects… Continue reading Anyone else kinda concerned about all the “women☕️” comments all the time?

Hi! I need help about the pill, and i’m not very comfortable talking about it with my parents

Tell your gynecologist about your symptoms and ask for some further exams (ultrasounds, blood tests, etc.) in order to rule out any medical conditions that might be causing your issues. Some solutions might indeed be hormonal birth control, but it’s best to check out all options. Menstrual cups are a great solution for sports activities,… Continue reading Hi! I need help about the pill, and i’m not very comfortable talking about it with my parents

Wanting love, but not romantic love?

I just wondered if anyone here might relate, or have advice for me. I’ve been kind of bored, kind of lonely, lately, and interpreted that as me finally being ready for another romantic relationship. So I got on some dating apps, fielded some interest, had some conversations. I noticed in myself that as soon as… Continue reading Wanting love, but not romantic love?

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Emotional attraction= love?

For starters, everyone knows that physical attraction loosely translates to lust. But is emotional attraction the same as love? It’s a little confusing. I know some men who have some admirable qualities. But every time I mention it to someone, they assume I have a crush. It’s not true. I don’t like that person in… Continue reading Emotional attraction= love?

Had an embarrassing experience at my friend’s house yesterday. Can anyone give me advice?

So I was at a friend’s house yesterday, we only recently became friends so this was only the second time I’d been to her house. So at some point I realised I needed to pee, nothing major so I just thought that I’d go later. Well.. later became an hour and I kinda forgot and… Continue reading Had an embarrassing experience at my friend’s house yesterday. Can anyone give me advice?

Is doing Onlyfans worth it?

does anybody else go through months of pure hunger and the not being able to eat

plan b or am i fine?

You’re probably fine, you’re on birth control, also cannot get pregnant on your period, especially if you’ve been taking birth control consistently in the time before your period. If it gives you peace of mind and you don’t take plan b often, you could take it anyway, but, ya know, plan b is expensive. You’re… Continue reading plan b or am i fine?

Why do some men see crying as weak?

What are the little things you notice in men?

“You talk like a white girl”

I’m so tired of hearing this. When I was little I was very fluent in speaking Spanish until I got adopted. I was forced to learn English because my brothers couldn’t speak it and we lived in a predominantly white neighborhood. When I started speaking English I had a very hard accent and stuttering problem.… Continue reading “You talk like a white girl”

How can I be happy to be a woman?

Saw a swelling/ loose skin like appearance near the posterior fourchette, and I’m worried.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Saw a swelling/ loose skin like appearance near the posterior fourchette, and I’m worried.

Taking two contraceptive pills in one day

Ik I don’t belong here, but I’m just worried about my gf. We woke up today realizing she had forgotten to take her pill yesterday, so we googled and she took both pills at once. Since then she’s been vomiting and feeling nauseous, and we have a long train ride to get through today…. Is… Continue reading Taking two contraceptive pills in one day

Progress with Women’s rights.

https://vajenda.substack.com/p/stop-talking-about-coat-hangers-and?utm_source=twitter&s=r

Misoprostol can be prescribed for non-pregnancy related reasons, such as to prevent ulcers from long-term NSAID use. It is not Walgreens – or any politician’s – business why anyone is getting a prescription for it. Misoprostol an be obtained from mailing pharmacy services as an answer to any unwanted pregnancy. Mail can be delivered across… Continue reading https://vajenda.substack.com/p/stop-talking-about-coat-hangers-and?utm_source=twitter&s=r

Why does a significant portion of men get seriously upset when women dye their hair, have tattoos, wear alt styles, etc?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why does a significant portion of men get seriously upset when women dye their hair, have tattoos, wear alt styles, etc?