Its about a police guy whom I think is married and is just trying to hook up with me or maybe have an affair, which I don’t want since I have a boyfriend I am deeply in love with.
I went to the police station to lodge a complaint against my neighbours. He just kept staring and wouldn’t look away which made me uncomfortable.
Since then he just keeps staring at me whenever he visits around my house. I pointed it out to him over message since he had taken my phone number for updates on the complaint I had made. He stares still but looks away when I look at him. Once the job was done on the complaint I blocked him everywhere because he would often complement me saying I was beautiful and that he liked me and random things like that.
Now recently, I had to contact him again and meet him at a cafe to inform him of a domestic abuse case in my neighborhood. We had coffee and he dropped me off to the location I was headed.
Meanwhile, during the ride he would often touch me. Like when I was walking to the car from the cafe he kept his hand on my lower back. Then while handing me the water bottle he touched my hand intentionally for some amount of time. After that when I held up my head in my hands due to the headache he intentionally touched it for quite a long amount of time making the excuse to check my temperature if it was okay and kept staring while making contact everytime. It made me restless since I don’t like touches from random men like that.
One of his colleague has told me that he has a daughter and is married. I have to meet him again in some days. I have told him I am not comfortable with the touches over text already. What do I do? Should I meet him still?