Recently, I have been coming to terms with my insecurities and realizing my triggers when I’m comparing myself, however, doing some shadow work, I realize that I also am attracted to women. Does anyone else feel like this? I feel like it makes things harder to deal with because I’m in a relationship with a man and I’m now just realizing this I don’t want to be in a relationship with a woman or want anyone else I really value and love my relationship, but I think since I am attracted to women in exaggerates my insecurities.
I’m not sure if I’m explaining this right but for example if I am at the gym and I see a very attractive girl, with features that I like, I also feel very insecure but at the same time feel attracted to her sexually and do have thoughts and beyond “ she’s pretty” as I would with an attractive man I see.
Help?