Bald girl with bald problems :/ not sure what to do

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I’m bald 👩🏻‍🦲 Unfortunately it has been this way for my whole life. I spent many years of my life buying expensive wigs to find one that suits me, I always keep it lowkey because I don’t want anyone to question my hair (so I always order black hair at a regular length).

There’re always problems with all my wigs. However, I found one that fits me perfectly. No issues with functionality and comfortability. However, it is INSANELY beautiful – it’s the type of hair that would make people turn their heads because of how glorious it is.

I bought it for fun and had no expectations of it being my regular wig. It’s a coloured wig but I am POC. I love how this makes me look and feel, but it’s quite terrifying going out knowing eyes will be on my head – that’s something I avoid throughout my life. But I’ve never had a wig that fitted me this well.

The colour of the hair, the thickness, everything, is so so gorgeous. My secondary fear is that people will question about my hair, but the primary fear is that I’m a liar. Maybe I’m thinking too much (I know I’m not tho), but I’m single, what if i date some guy and when I have to live through the dreadful day of me telling him this beautiful hair (or any wig tbh, but this wig more so) is all fake and I’m 👩🏻‍🦲 and he decides to leave or stay because he feels bad (so he’ll eventually leave anyway), I would rather start digging my grave 🪦