I have always sensed when a relationship will not work out by sleeping next to them. When I was talking to a guy and I go to his place and I sleep next to him I either get sleep paralysis, insomnia or feel really sick to my stomach. It’s after a while of talking with each other not immediately so I know I am not nervous.
My emotionally, mental and sometimes physical abusive ex boyfriend used to have me on the WORST sleeping patterns but I ignored my body. I used to have sleep paralysis where I would stop breathing when I slept next to him and I used to think he was suffocating me when he was spooning me but he wasn’t. I thought I had sleep apnea until we broke up and it was the first time I slept like normal.
I met a guy in school and I slept next to him the first time we met and I over slept. I always get the best sleep next to him.
Also, I never had sex with these men and I was “dating” them. I eventually did but the people who I slept bad next to it never materialized. Is my body saving me? Has this happened to anyone else??