Have people ever blamed you if anything goes wrong?

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So here is the thing, my parents constantly try to push me to the edge whenever there are guests coming. If I end up making a slight mistake like taking out the wrong dish to serve food or the wrong spoon they would insult me infront of the guests. Even if it comes to ordering food, usually they give me the responsibility to order , if the food turns our slightly different from their taste they think the food is bad because of me.

Even when it comes to maintaining the house , they will always find a way to blame something on me. These blames have now taken a deep toll on me especially after going to college. I now constantly think of them shouting at me in my mind if I am in a minor inconvenience.

I have tried to confront them about their behaviour but they said I am being too sensitive and that as a woman I should get used to it.