how can i dress feminine and cute? (i have no idea what my size is)

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for years I’ve been struggling with an ed which caused extreme body dysmorphia and even though I’m in recovery i still don’t know my size. I’ve been at my biggest body shape an XL and i still wear these clothing even though i sink in these. I’m not sure what my size is, all i know is my height. i tried buying clothing with the use of measuring tape, but for some reason the clothing i got was still too big even though it was xs. I’m not in the mood to buy cute clothing in the children section (my pikachu pants are an exception).

does anyone know how to properly measure yourself and find out your clothing size? because I’m tired of hiding my body under oversized clothing. i want to start dressing my bodyshape and i really don’t know how to start and everything😭😭