I dont want to be by myself but sometimes I just feel I wont find a good man to be my partner

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It just seems like many men just dont care about women or what they need and want in a relationship. I have experience from abuse with a person who just never ever cared what I wanted,and everything revolved around them. It drained me and ruined me,now I feel I cant ever trust anyones intentions for me,even if they arent a man.

I want a relationship. I want to share life with someone and have someone there for support and help me out and love, but I feel I will never find it because so many men just lack empathy. I dont know what to really do. Im just tired of being so lonely,but most people just dont really “get me” and I feel incompatible with other people. I just dont know whats going to happen.

Please dont tell me “just be alone” thats not going to help. Loneliness really hurts people. I want stuff thats actually helpful.