How to accept (and maybe even love?!) my vulva?

I’ve had to accept a lot about myself recently in light of a marital separation, one of which is my revulsion to my own genitals, something I think has played a big part in the breakdown of marital intimacy. I can logically accept that there is nothing ‘wrong’ with how they look, have never had negative feedback, and trust my husband when he says he loves every part of me… but the disgust and upset I feel when I look or think about my vulva/labia etc causes me to become more closed off and sexually repressed. SO – has anyone been able to traverse the journey of accepting their genitals?! Thank you in advance.