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was it my fault if i was trying to show i dont want to but he didnt get it

often when my ex boyfriend wanted to engage sexually with me i would try to show i dont want to do it, but he would continue anyway, i doubt he was doing that on purpose, and i felt bad with outright saying no to him if he didnt realise when for example i was moving… Continue reading was it my fault if i was trying to show i dont want to but he didnt get it

Reaching out to Women looking for a Path out of the industry

Hello everyoneI’m reaching out to women who are either in the process of transitioning out of s*x work or sugar dating, or have already made that change, and are now embarking on a journey of healing and empowerment. I’m eager to hear about your experiences, your path to growth, and how your life is evolving.… Continue reading Reaching out to Women looking for a Path out of the industry

How to accept (and maybe even love?!) my vulva?

I’ve had to accept a lot about myself recently in light of a marital separation, one of which is my revulsion to my own genitals, something I think has played a big part in the breakdown of marital intimacy. I can logically accept that there is nothing ‘wrong’ with how they look, have never had… Continue reading How to accept (and maybe even love?!) my vulva?

First hook up using a dating app

I really just want some advice and to talk to someone a little more privately. If you have experience with sex, one night stands, friends with benefits, and meeting people from dating apps please private message me. I am in desperate need of advice. I don’t really have friends and am in need of womanly… Continue reading First hook up using a dating app

I didn’t know so many women struggle with 0rgasming..?

Personally, I started masturbating at a pretty young age and ever since then Ive just never found it hard to orgasm unless I’m just really not feeling like masturbating that day. But I was on Instagram today and this lady was talking about how so many women can’t orgasm because they usually don’t feel safe… Continue reading I didn’t know so many women struggle with 0rgasming..?

What do you ladies consider to be big breasts?

I personally am a D cup, which my bf says is considered large, but my mom constantly tells me that’s small. It’s caused me a lot of stress in the past, especially when I’m going through a depressive episode. So, what do yall consider big as far as breasts?

septate hymen

hi, im worried i have septate hymen not that there is anything wrong with that!! i just swim a lot and i need to be able to use tampons lol. i havent had it looked at and cant figure out how to look at it myself. only reason i think it is because i tried… Continue reading septate hymen

Sex fact ( women get erections)

Women actually get erections in their genitals and even though they’re smaller than the male counterpart, they are just as important, says Sadie Allison, DHS, a sexologist, founder of Ticklekitty.com and author of Tickle His Pickle–Your Hands-On Guide to Penis Pleasing. “The clitoris is made up of the same spongy erectile tissue as the penis,… Continue reading Sex fact ( women get erections)

Housing advice please

Hey guys , let me explain u the situation so you can give me advice so my father wants to rent an apartment and it requires two people to live their so he wants to sign my name so he can get the apartment to himself and won’t have to live their. I have my… Continue reading Housing advice please

I have self lubricating issues

I’ve become more aware of this nowadays, but I’ve never been “wet” as other woman say, and I’m extremely envious. I don’t know what it could be either, I don’t have a yeast infection or any kind of vaginal condition. Even when I’m extremely horny or after I orgasm is just a little bit of… Continue reading I have self lubricating issues

anyone else have dark skin around private area?

recently i’ve noticed the skin on my upper inner thigh is a lot darker than my other skin, i’ve also noticed that the skin on my outer labia is also dark and wrinkly? i was literally looking at it and thinking it looks like a ball sack 💀 i’ve also noticed that my inner labia… Continue reading anyone else have dark skin around private area?

How does Sex work for us?

I recently turned the legal age in my country and I have been exploring sex even before that. Even after months of self pleasure and watching and reading tutorials on the internet I’ve never had an Orgasm. I want to experience it so badly. Sometimes while I’m playing with myself I can feel it building… Continue reading How does Sex work for us?

I cried during s*x with my bf yesterday. I have no idea why

Title says it all lol. Has this happened to anyone else? It didn’t hurt, he didn’t force me to (I initiated it) I just randomly started crying 😿. Now I think he’s scared that he hurt me however I told him he didn’t, he’s just being caring.I’ll look at replies in the morning. Thank you… Continue reading I cried during s*x with my bf yesterday. I have no idea why

I have a question.

So, disk, cup and period panty users, what do you do on your chunky periods? I’ve been thinking about trying the period panties, but periods like the one I’m currently having make me second guess because I’m already in the bathroom a lot cleaning out chunks. It’s uncomfortable as it is and I’m just wondering… Continue reading I have a question.

Women’s Network at work renamed People’s Network

I hope this is the right place to ask this. I can’t really think of anywhere else on Reddit to post it. As the title suggests my workplace has recently renamed the women’s network to the people’s network. Now the women’s network was always, from day one, meant to be inclusive. And it has been.… Continue reading Women’s Network at work renamed People’s Network

There’s an increase in adult women self-infantilizing themselves and it’s pretty sad

There’s a trend of women on the internet putting makeup on that makes their eyes appear bigger and wearing low-cut and revealing outfits, only to lip-sync to some high pitched audio that sounds like a child and use childlike mannerisms. Often times there are childish elements to their outfits too. It’s easy to find in… Continue reading There’s an increase in adult women self-infantilizing themselves and it’s pretty sad

Saw my ex & his new girl

Discussion/Vent(?) post To preface, my ex and I have been broken up for a while, can be in the same place, and amicably speak with each other. Additional context: Sometimes in the Latino community, they whiter you are the more “top tier” you are. Or if you’re dating a white person it’s like you have… Continue reading Saw my ex & his new girl

No.

I am past the stage of my life where I just thoughtlessly do everything to please men, but I’m sitting here so very uncomfortably denying a man’s desire (not sexual, just mundane.) I’m happy to have reached a point of maturity and healing where I can do this but boy is it uncomfortable. My brain… Continue reading No.

I need advice from y’all

This is more for women who’s bodies are already fully developed: I’m at teen girl, and I’ve noticed that I feel like my Areolas are small, and I’m specifically talking about the darken skin around the nipple. Will they get bigger because I’m not fully devolved, or are some women’s Areolas just on the smaller… Continue reading I need advice from y’all

Gynecologist problem

Hello ladies, have you ever been to multiple gynos but they didnt point out your exact issue? I am struggling for quite a while now with vaginal burns, and it appears that I dont any sort of infection that causes it. Its inflamed and all I was prescribed were creams that didnt help me. I… Continue reading Gynecologist problem

advice needed

After my most recent break-up, I realized that I get into relationships solely because of the emotional attachment (I don’t actually fall in love with my partners, I’m just attached to them) and because of the feeling of stability they bring me. I want to learn to be happy on my own without relying on… Continue reading advice needed

I hate being a woman

I’m definitely a free spirit. I so desperately want to travel, hike, and explore the world. However I can’t, all because I’m a woman. I don’t feel safe enough to go out alone. I wouldn’t feel safe traveling outside of my country and staying in hostels, hiking trails, or even touristy areas without a group.… Continue reading I hate being a woman

Peach Scented Products

Thinking about switching up my signature scent- currently, I buy everything in rose + vanilla scents. I want to have Peach available for when I feel like switching it up, but that’s obviously a less common perfume to find- so I wanted to ask the women of reddit for your favorite peach scented beauty products!

First time shaving

It’s my first time shaving down there, and somehow I’m confused by the results. It’s smooth if I run my hand along the direction of the hair growth (downwards), but it’s still spiky when I run my hand at the opposite direction (upwards). Tiny hairs are still poking out, somehow they’re not entirely shaved despite… Continue reading First time shaving

Heels recommendations?

Hello everyone! I’m going to a wedding in July in a very humid place and I’m super stoked I just ordered two dresses to figure out which fits better. I want to wear heels with them, but I honestly can never comfortably wear them. No matter what type of heel, my feet are always killing… Continue reading Heels recommendations?

Growing pains?

I keep getting really bad boob pain, it hurts when I stand up or when I’m walking. I’m not sure if it’s because I’m growing (I used to be really really underweight but I’ve been gaining more now) and I’m not sure I even went through puberty properly because of this, they feel kinda heavier… Continue reading Growing pains?

Genderfluid

I’ve posted here before, and have replied to many posts. I’m Assigened Male At Birth(AMAB), and came out last June. Last night I was feeling a bit amorous. I posted a invitation on an app. The scum that came out of the woodwork was overwhelming. I didn’t find anyone last night. I have high standards,… Continue reading Genderfluid

How to clean bush?

This is extremely embarrassing and vulnerable, but how do I clean my bush well? My fiancé has told me that my bush smells like urine even after I get out of the shower. Currently, I use body wash with a shower poof and then go in with dove bar soap. I make sure to lather… Continue reading How to clean bush?

Please help, I’m uncomfortable

false Last night I let my boyfriend get a private dance with a stripper. I couldn’t join because it was too expensive so I let him go alone. He told me everything, I wanted to know thinking it would help me feel better. He touched her boobs and ass. I know she was exactly his… Continue reading Please help, I’m uncomfortable

Being hit on is so uncomfortable to me.

I haven’t been an adult for very long and I’ve never really considered myself a very attractive person and I’ve only been hit on a few times before, and I don’t know if it’s just because I’m extremely shy and don’t like flirting with people or whatever, but every single one of those times it… Continue reading Being hit on is so uncomfortable to me.

Normal???

So I’ve recently started using a vibe! (I’m super shy about it) I’ve noticed some soreness around my vulva area, I used it for the first time in two days today, I am planning on going to a clinic tomorrow, but is this normal??

My best friend is repeating the same mistakes of her past relationship and I don’t know what to do.

She had a really bad childhood, and it’s caused a lot of vulnerable mentalities. If she loves someone, she will literally change who she is to match them. I’m pretty sure it’s a defense mechanism, like you just try to make yourself as appealing as possible to the person you desire a relationship with, so… Continue reading My best friend is repeating the same mistakes of her past relationship and I don’t know what to do.

Am I the only one?

Just one dude wondering what women – particularly those who consider themselves feminists – feel about Mother’s Day cards and the general vibe of the occasion? Should it not be more about celebrating mothers, motherhood and women and less about selling cards, flowers and chocolate?

As the title says: anybody agree that Mother’s Day is just a rather trite, overly commercial affair? No disrespect to any woman who doesn’t share that view! It’s a long-held belief of mine that Mother’s Day cards should be about women – as role models, caretakers, protectors and inspirations, such as cards including powerful and… Continue reading Just one dude wondering what women – particularly those who consider themselves feminists – feel about Mother’s Day cards and the general vibe of the occasion? Should it not be more about celebrating mothers, motherhood and women and less about selling cards, flowers and chocolate?

Bathing suit bottoms…

I recently bought light colored bathing suit bottom. They’re really cute but maybe a little too transparent.. Unfortunately I didn’t notice when trying them on and have already removed the tags. Any good way to keep that area from being too visible? You can see the full outline of EVERYTHING. Imprints and all. Also, they… Continue reading Bathing suit bottoms…

Extremely heavy bleeding after plan b??

About one week ago I took a plan b for the first time. Now today I woke up with blood down there, which I assume is spotting ? Because I took the plan be on the last day of my period, so i don’t think my period would come only a week later? But the… Continue reading Extremely heavy bleeding after plan b??

Boys never talk to me unless they want something and its annoying

I really dont mind at all, because im not desperate for guy friends. Im a girl’s girl, most of the people i talk to (if not everyone) is a girl, im mostly friends with girls and i love girls company. But i find it annoying anyway. I dont need guy friends but i just hate… Continue reading Boys never talk to me unless they want something and its annoying

How often do you shave/trim/wax down there?

“It’s not normal to have the same body you had in high school”

I was ogled like a a chew toy and I feel disgusted…

I’m out looking for used cars to buy. I’ve been going to serval hundred dealerships with my dad. I was recently In a car accident a month ago, so I need a car before the end of the month. I walk into the first one and I just feel everyone looking at me. I’m the… Continue reading I was ogled like a a chew toy and I feel disgusted…

Has anyone experienced side effects of Prenatal Multivitamin ?

Body dysmorphia

Hi everyone! Sorry if a similar post has already been made, but I am wondering if anyone is willing to share some things that help or have helped them overcome / ignore body dysmorphia. I’ve been finding it harder and harder to be confident, I weigh what would be considered healthy or normal for my… Continue reading Body dysmorphia

Do lubes help in sex? What difference does it make?

Are you experiencing vaginal dryness? It’s normal if you’re going through menopause. Even people on medications and breast-feeders might face vaginal dryness, which hinders the pleasure of having sex as dryness might cause discomfort and pain during intercourse. Well, you can always opt for a lubricant, popularly called “lubes.” Can be used by anyone, irrespective… Continue reading Do lubes help in sex? What difference does it make?

Help with mood swings

Smegma…

Has this ever happened to anyone? How do I fix it? Helpppp I recently started getting smegma build up. *started when I wasn’t sexually active *got worse when I switched birth control *no change when I got off of birth control *was tested for STD/STI all came back negative *was treated for a yeast infection.… Continue reading Smegma…

Oversharing trauma

I know its bad but I find it fun being rude to men

Wedding dress shopping with my sister

Whew I’m nervous and I’m not even the one getting married lol But tomorrow my sister is going wedding dress shopping, and of course me and her bridesmaids are going with her! I’m not even entirely sure why I’m posting this, I guess I just need to talk to some other women about this 😅… Continue reading Wedding dress shopping with my sister

sad rant from disheartened girl

I’m worried that men will only ever want me for sex. I’m a pretty girl and maybe that’s all I have going for me. I’m not the type of person who can just hookup, I would need a deeper emotional connection for anything to happen. I just don’t think I’ll ever meet someone who would… Continue reading sad rant from disheartened girl

Joined this group for one question

I feel so depressed when I’m about to start my period. Does everyone experience this?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I feel so depressed when I’m about to start my period. Does everyone experience this?

woman and sex-double standards still exist!

Do any other women still think there is a double standard regarding sex? I feel that if a woman enjoys sex she is still considered a slut or easy. That if a woman has slept with multiple men in her life she is often judged as slutty, and promiscuous, I’ve even heard ” a disappointment”.… Continue reading woman and sex-double standards still exist!

Women of Reddit; Does the past (sexual aspect) of a man matter to you? And why?

How can I help my neighbour?

tw: domestic violence I noticed my neighbours fighting got more intense the last few weeks. It’s mainly him screaming at her. In the time I’ve lived here they’ve always had fights every few days but recently it’s been really intense. He’s just screaming at the top of his lungs at her, while she stays quiet.… Continue reading How can I help my neighbour?

What are the actual reasons that men are much more likely to be abusers?

Delete if it doesn’t belong here. Men are much more likely to abuse women (as well as children and at times other men) than the other way around. Why?

Libido death

Probably one of my biggest fears. I’ve heard horror stories of hormones killing it. I am at the point in my life when I would rather be a piece of meat than be pawed at. Grab me, take advantage and just leave me in that bliss for a while before you start talking. So much… Continue reading Libido death

has “pick me girls” commentary become a new form of misogyny?

EDIT: wait actually the term I’m looking for might be “not like other girls” and not pick me?? Not sure if important distinction but ? genuinely asking for opinions here. I understood poking fun at women who posted obvious attention grabs, such as “I’m not like other girls my age, I love to cook and… Continue reading has “pick me girls” commentary become a new form of misogyny?

Positive stories about IUD?

I’m getting the Mirena IUD today to help with my Endometriosis pain (and obviously to not have babies lol). I have heard so many mixed stories. I’ve heard people say it feels no different than a Pap smear, and I’ve heard people say they threw up from how bad the pain was. I’ve also heard… Continue reading Positive stories about IUD?

Why did my male best friend suddenly ask me to promise him that we would never be more than friends ??

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why did my male best friend suddenly ask me to promise him that we would never be more than friends ??

Attractive guy approaches but has cold sore on lips

When I was single, I was not interested in any random guy just approaching me and hitting on me no matter how good looking he is (if that’s what you are asking about). It can feel frightening when a man approaches me. I don’t know if I’m interested in him until I get to know… Continue reading Attractive guy approaches but has cold sore on lips

Pantylines

I am trying to figure out if other women care about their panty lines showing or not, and why. Like through pants, shorts, skirts, dresses, etc. What had originally started as a simple question to another sub has now turned into a full research project for me. I want to know if other women care,… Continue reading Pantylines

Is it normal to have a handfull of hair everytime u brush your hair???

DESPERATELY want a bigger butt, but I have no equipment at home, an can’t go to a gym. Advice? (My fat doesn’t store in glutes, and therefore, I have a “little butt” but I’m also “thick” in other places.)

For starters, I have an EXTREMELY small butt. A lot of my friends have big butts but I just don’t. Genetically I don’t store fat in glutes. Though, I have struggled with binge eating for years and just recently I’ve been undoing it and eating properly. I have lost some weight, but my butt hasn’t… Continue reading DESPERATELY want a bigger butt, but I have no equipment at home, an can’t go to a gym. Advice? (My fat doesn’t store in glutes, and therefore, I have a “little butt” but I’m also “thick” in other places.)

Summer office outfit ideas for a very hot blooded woman

Hello!!! I’m starting my first office job in May, in London, where it is significantly warmer than my current city (Edinburgh). I am the sweatiest person alive, I cannot handle heat in the slightest, and I have sensory issues when it comes to rougher or non-breathable materials. Any advice on what I could wear??? It’s… Continue reading Summer office outfit ideas for a very hot blooded woman

Safety

I live in a community that is really safe for us women. I grew up here, and now attending university here as well. Today, I was on a walk with my friend and we both decided to just go outside the building and go around it, as opposed to the parking. We both were just… Continue reading Safety

I need help on navigating this issue

So I am in an area that praises women’s beauty more if they dress showing a lot of skin. Which I am not against. But at the same time, while their beauty is praised they get treated like an object. I have very large breasts. I’ve barely had any guys take me seriously. So I… Continue reading I need help on navigating this issue

Started birth control.

Burden of a relationship

I need some advice, I just dont know what to do or how to control my feelings in this issue. The relationship I’m talking about is the one with my father. Now, it’s not like “daddy issues” or “my father left me and later reunited”, nah. It’s just that we never got along. I don’t… Continue reading Burden of a relationship

I, and many of my friends, are being posted on an anonymous website.

Just celebrating myself real quick

I’m scared

For the last few months my menstrual cramps have been so bad that I end up lying on my bathroom floor in pain. It’ll come in waves, so I’ll start to get really bad cramps and then after a couple minutes I’ll start to get really hot and feel like throwing up and shitting at… Continue reading I’m scared

navigating casual hookups

Are Birth Control Pills a must?

Women of Reddit, Have You Ever Scared A Dude Away From Dating? If So What Occurred?

Help me get rid of my frustration!!

I live in a hostel/ dorm and my roommates are noisy as hell. I can neither sleep at night nor concentrate on my studies in daytime. I’ve tried telling them to keep their voice down but they don’t give a damn. I’ve final exams coming up and I’m stressed. Please suggest me what should I… Continue reading Help me get rid of my frustration!!

Why do women stop their bf’s from talking to their female friends?

Disclaimer – I do not think I’m anything special. I’m tired of this. This post is not about bragging. I’ve met many jealous women in my life. Women/colleagues in my circle looking at me up and down, copping my makeup, my style , my clothes, afraid of me stealing their bfs. I’ve had many guy… Continue reading Why do women stop their bf’s from talking to their female friends?

Pregnancy still possible?

Tights or stocking

Consent

Irrational fear about aging

Hormones

Why do men?

This guys, that i think goes to my school, responded to an Instagram note i wrote where i said i loved McDonald’s and basically asked me out, saying he’ll pay. Now i have no idea who this guy is. I responded with “who are you?” And he just told me his name. No clue who… Continue reading Why do men?

Bikini

for all the women/people whose complicated relationship with their mom turned into a complicated relationship with themselves

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading for all the women/people whose complicated relationship with their mom turned into a complicated relationship with themselves

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PLS HELP-Any deodorant that actually works??

I’m having such a hard time being a smelly woman😭I have tried Dove, Secret, Old Spice, Native, Schmidt. For the women who can get very musty, what do you use?? Seriously its so humiliating when all my friends can use powdery girly deodorants and I have to use Old Spice, and that doesn’t even work.… Continue reading PLS HELP-Any deodorant that actually works??

The idea that men will always treat their dream women right does have truth to it, but I also think can be damaging

Im not denying that its true, but I don’t think it applies to all men. The issue is that the statement is based on absolutes and not in the actual nuances that happen. Some men are just crappy people. A lot lack any self awareness and think everyone including their dream woman will accept them… Continue reading The idea that men will always treat their dream women right does have truth to it, but I also think can be damaging

Young Girls and Hip Hop

Am I crazy for finding this problematic: there are a few dance moves and styles that I understand are trendy for adults, but I feel sad and uncomfortable seeing young kids doing them. I’m talking about the type of moves Rihanna’s backup dancers used at the halftime show. Some examples are body rolls, types of… Continue reading Young Girls and Hip Hop

Female empowerment songs

My therapist wants me to listen to music about women who are strong, amazing and who don’t take crap- for a week and see if that changes my mindset. But idk what that is! Any suggestions? Up beat and empowering, I prefer not a lot of sexual stuff but some is alright. Lol let’s see… Continue reading Female empowerment songs

How would you respond if a guy told you he was a former misogynist?

Why do some people single out and bully pretty girls?

Is it me

Is she a neighbour of yours or just friends with your boyfriend’s sister? If she’s a neighbour, it wouldn’t be too unusual for her to sit on the porch. It’s not her you have to worry about trusting. You’re not in a relationship with her. Do you trust your boyfriend? This is the question you… Continue reading Is it me

How would you react if your SI O would ignore your suggestions and constantly try to fit in?

For example, my ex would constantly have something negative to say about my opinions or anything I would suggest but the moment his friends (who he met wavyy after me, and didn’t know that well), would suggest the exact same thing, his opinion on it would change entirely and then he’d give some shitty excuse.… Continue reading How would you react if your SI O would ignore your suggestions and constantly try to fit in?

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Young woman realization

When I’m around the men in my family/friend group, they tend to make little sexist remarks that make me feel small as if I as a girl/woman don’t matter. I would give them credit for being gentlemen tho. They don’t sexualize, slut shame anyone. They also respect women’s privacy, put women first and all text… Continue reading Young woman realization

Is this creepy?

I was at a club in Europe a while ago with two of my friends (a couple). We are American. I was trying to pass through a crowd of tons of people as usual. My methods are not too rude I think- I make eye contact, say pardon me with a smile, and worm my… Continue reading Is this creepy?

(TW) Being a woman in this world makes me want to…

I’m so tired of existing in this world as a woman. I’ve gone to great lengths previously to remove myself from traditional femininity and to not be attractive in the eyes of men. My entire life even since childhood men have sexualized me, harassed me, and traumatized me in several capacities. I feel like I’m… Continue reading (TW) Being a woman in this world makes me want to…

vagina tablet came out?

Hi I was advised to take vagina tablets by a doctor to treat my yeast infection. The first one was fine, though a little of the medicatipn came out and it was VERY white. Today, a bigger chunk came out even though I inserted the pill correctly and far in there. But this time it… Continue reading vagina tablet came out?

My hair keeps getting trapped in my glasses and breaking

I am getting so much breakage on the front of my hair!!! The hinges of my glasses (where it bends to fold up or pull out so you can put them on your face) trap their hair constantly when it’s loose?? Not to mention I already have baby hairs which don’t even sit nicely lol.… Continue reading My hair keeps getting trapped in my glasses and breaking

Is there something wrong with me if I want my boyfriend to show me his chat with some girl ?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Is there something wrong with me if I want my boyfriend to show me his chat with some girl ?

Period poops/farts

If you eat a lot can you get period cramps even if you’re not on your period?

Trapped wind or constipation I would imagine. Have you recently eaten alot of gluten? Such as white bread, a doughy pizza, a large pasta meal etc. That could be a cause If it’s a common occurrence keep a food diary, or when you experience pain/discomfort think back on what you recently ate.

Has anyone tried Yaz? What were your experiences?

Different sized boob!??

My boyfriend just beat me.

My ex told me I wasn’t attractive anymore.

I need a good bra brand that’s supportive

How to not cave?

I was in a relationship where I was ghosted haha inserted embarrassment here Anyways after a good long while, he finally reached out today. I haven’t even looked at what he said, I’m too anxious to even read it. In your experience, when “ex’s” come back, I say ex so lightly lmao what are they… Continue reading How to not cave?

I want a baby so bad but deep down I know I’m not ready

God this is driving me insane. I’ve been in a perfect relationship with my boyfriend for over a year now, and in the past few months i’ve been getting urges to add to the family. I want a baby so bad. I want to find out i’m pregnant, then tell him and see him just… Continue reading I want a baby so bad but deep down I know I’m not ready

how do u deal with hate from opposite gender

Avoid these types of men. You cannot reason with them. You cannot debate them. You cannot convince them to see the light. They are not interested, they do not care. People like this see women as subhuman, a species below men who exist purely to serve men. Even in “light jest”, such jokes are incredibly… Continue reading how do u deal with hate from opposite gender

I need relationship advice

So is it normal after a certain time of being dating someone to just feel very casual and calm, kinda boring or something like that. It’s not the same passion as the beginning, and it’s making me worry I’m crying myself t sleep because of this I’m scared I don’t love him anymore even though… Continue reading I need relationship advice

What YouTubers/influencers would women simp for?

I asked a guy out and now he’s acting kind of cold .

Birth control pills question

“Nausea, vomiting, headache, bloating, breast tenderness, swelling of the ankles/feet (fluid retention), or weight change may occur. Vaginal bleeding between periods (spotting) or missed/irregular periods may occur, especially during the first few months of use.” if you gain a considerable amount of weight i’m sure you could notice some cellulite. but you may n it… Continue reading Birth control pills question

Took a dive into The Red Pill

And it’s honestly sad (and also, I love internet drama). I’m so glad I met my boyfriend, just cause that means now I don’t have to put myself at risk of dating guys like this. But the thing is, I don’t think most of them are bad, they are just lonely and desperate. I saw… Continue reading Took a dive into The Red Pill

Struggling deeply with self-esteem

A girl asked me if I had a spare pad in the public restroom today.

I said yes and I gave her one without hesitation. I’m always happy to help out another girl in need. She appeared to be quite young, teenage/young adult. So I could understand and see she was shy. It’s the first time it’s ever happened that someone asked. I wish people wouldn’t be shy/embarrassed/intimidated to ask/talk… Continue reading A girl asked me if I had a spare pad in the public restroom today.

Racing sex drive during periods??

I recently read that the hormonal changes made during menstruation makes one get aroused easily. That really explains me getting super horny during my periods. From one women to another, there are few sex positions that you must try if period sex is your thingy. Missionary : It’s hand down the most comfortable and versatile… Continue reading Racing sex drive during periods??

women- how old were you when you went to your first gyno appt, and does the age matter if you’re not sexually active?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading women- how old were you when you went to your first gyno appt, and does the age matter if you’re not sexually active?

A customer at work has started to bring me gifts and it’s making me uncomfortable

The majority of men are delusional. With the exception of a few non delusional men, there’s no such thing as a friendly chat. They delude themselves into thinking it means that women are expressing interest in them. The next time he tries to give you a gift, tell him that it’s against work rules to… Continue reading A customer at work has started to bring me gifts and it’s making me uncomfortable

Can birth control help with acne?

I’ll never be “beautiful” or one of the prettiest girls and it seriously bugs me

I just want to be cool, and pretty, but im neither. My face and body type are pretty weird, and im just kinda awkward. Left and right i see influencers and characters who are obviously flawless. i feel so unseen. i feel like no one on earth will ever think im cool or beautiful. and… Continue reading I’ll never be “beautiful” or one of the prettiest girls and it seriously bugs me

Ladies that did later hair removal at home, how effective was it and was it worth the money?

I know there’s small layers for hair removal at home, not the kind you’d find at a beauty salon, but I wonder how effective they are. If it actually does anything then it’s worth the money, but it’s not an amount of money that I’d want to go to waste. So are they good or… Continue reading Ladies that did later hair removal at home, how effective was it and was it worth the money?

Men complain about things they don’t get, women complain about things we’re actually subjected to

Been thinking about this a lot lately, and I’ve had a lot of debates about gender roles and sexism with many men. One of the biggest things I notice is that men complain about things they DONT receive or treatment they DONT get, but women are bothered by the treatment we DO get in regards… Continue reading Men complain about things they don’t get, women complain about things we’re actually subjected to

I find it scary that men find me attractive.

I don’t want children because of men

Victoria’s Secret packages

I know you should always talk about kids early into the relationship, but it feels like women are often forced to make decisions about this at a young age or early in a relationship .

I’m always told that we need to know whether or not we will have children in the future, and we’re expected to have that decision made early-on in relationships. I was even asked about if I wanted kids when I was a teenager! How am I supposed to know that??? It’s such a huge life… Continue reading I know you should always talk about kids early into the relationship, but it feels like women are often forced to make decisions about this at a young age or early in a relationship .

Glasses?

Women’s tampon brand

Thinking about giving up on men

I’ve been continually growing more and more disappointed with men and I’m starting to think it’s not worth it to “hold out” for one anymore. Some posts that I’ve been seeing lately have been very discouraging. If they’re all just going to be the same anyway, what’s the point in continuing to search for a… Continue reading Thinking about giving up on men

Are flannels/button ups on a man more attractive with sleeves rolled up? When rolled, is rolled up past the elbow or just below the elbow (On the forearm) most attractive?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Are flannels/button ups on a man more attractive with sleeves rolled up? When rolled, is rolled up past the elbow or just below the elbow (On the forearm) most attractive?

Is there any way to get your period to come a little early

Body insecurity :/

I feel you. I (like a lot of us, I think) often feel the same, and sometimes it feels like a lot of pressure having to be confident all the time, independently on how you look. My take is – sometimes you’re just not, and that’s okay. It doesn’t make you a less interesting or… Continue reading Body insecurity :/

Disappointed by how women are portrayed

Went to Anime Boston this weekend and felt appalled to see a female’s worth reduced to boobs and butts or as a figure that serves men or as a figure who needs rescuing from a heroic man, because she is too fragile to fend for herself. disrespectful, no? ofc not all anime is like this,… Continue reading Disappointed by how women are portrayed

This might sound stupid but am I having a miscarriage?

I still love you. I do. But I don’t want to be with you anymore.

When you left me, that’s our closure already. We didn’t need to talk again to end our relationship officially. You love me best, but you also hurt me worst. When you left me, you lost my trust, my faith, and my love for you. I never think about leaving you the way you did to… Continue reading I still love you. I do. But I don’t want to be with you anymore.

Insecure

Spray Tan Sex

How do women do this

For context I’m a trans guy, pre everything and mostly in the closet. I navigate large parts of my life as a woman. And in some aspects my parents sheltering me so much because of my disability have given me certain privileges of not being harassed (at least as much) by people. But I’m on… Continue reading How do women do this

Dressing more masculine on video games

Question

[Recommendation Thread] What are your favorite places to shop for bras?

flying alone

do you pluck or shave?

Men say not all men but then act like this

For context, I started kickboxing a few months ago and my trainer is really really nice. He’s much older and is very good at what he does. Very respectful and has a very nice wife who also equally into fitness. So when I was showing one of my closest guy friends some of my trainers… Continue reading Men say not all men but then act like this

Health supplements

Experience with health supplements Please share your experience/opinion on health supplements. How good/bad/beneficial are they? Which brands are better? Which supplement has specifically helped you? Is cod liver oil capsules worth the hype? I’m not sure about the supplements because at times I feel it’s all marketing gimmick and then suddenly I find myself researching… Continue reading Health supplements

Oh god how much i love women

BEFORE I BEGIN: i want to say this I am a transmasc(ftm) guy I am attracted to women I just need to talk about how much i love and adore every woman, if any of this comes off as fstishizing or offensive, i am sorry i did not mean for it to be that way.… Continue reading Oh god how much i love women

Quarter life crisis

Oh, honey. I wish I could hug you. You don’t have to accomplish big things every day. You don’t have to achieve peak “adulting” every day. Some days if you get a shower and load the dishwasher that is all you need to be winning at adulting. If you feel like you are in a… Continue reading Quarter life crisis

Entitlement

There’s a post on the sub about contraception, which prompted me to remember a conversation that I had about a year ago with a man that I know, and I’m wondering what all your thoughts are on this. For context; this man was single and looking for a long term relationship. He has previously been… Continue reading Entitlement

AdoreMe underwear sizing

Is there a Word for this?

Hey, I have experienced this at work several times, and I wonder if there is a word for it. For context, I’m a woman working in IT consulting. I experience that some men question my conpetence in the way, that they keep asking me questions, often derailing into something completely irrelevant, until they find something… Continue reading Is there a Word for this?

What are your cravings?

Im currently on my period and have been having the weirdest cravings, I literally just had Spanish Ham with jelly… What are your ‘weird’ cravings while on your period, or even while pregnant?

Early period?

Nail polish makes me feel more powerful

Being unattractive is basically being invisible

Boob tape vs. Bras: Which is more costly?

How do you wipe before a urine sample for a UTI?

How do I deal with feeling dirty on my period?

I’m usually not disgusting of getting dirty with anything, but when my period arrives I feel so dirty. No matter how often I change/clean or whatsoever I feel so dirty to the point of having break downs. I can deal with the pain or sight of blood, I just feel so disgusting. (Sorry English isn’t… Continue reading How do I deal with feeling dirty on my period?

How do I reconnect with womanhood?

I’m of an older generation, where being trans wasn’t a concept I had heard of in my teens/twenties. If being trans was an “option” when I was in my teens, I very likely would have thought I was trans or at least non-binary, but only because I was uncomfortable in my own body and trapped… Continue reading How do I reconnect with womanhood?

Why are women/girls less interested in Tech

I think I can give perspective as a woman in STEM. We aren’t encouraged to be interested in it. From a young age we’re advertised toys like baby dolls, Barbies, bright pink Lego beauty salons, kids makeup, pretend kitchens etc. The boys sections always have pretend DIY benches, action men, hot wheels, nerf guns, cool… Continue reading Why are women/girls less interested in Tech

The Moon & Arousal.

I feel alone

This has been a rough few months, I disclosed the for the first time about sexual abuse. I experienced this as a child at the hand of my biological father and my aunt & husband. And I have no real support, and I don’t know what kind of support I need. I just feel like… Continue reading I feel alone

How do you feel secure?

I was never the type to be overly jealous and constantly driving myself crazy that my man is looking at other women. But I found out he watched thirst traps and looked at porn pictures for the first three months we were together and I can’t stop feeling insecure, two months later. The first three… Continue reading How do you feel secure?

Tips on creating a capsule wardrobe for my new body after childbirth?

So I gave birth a few months ago and while I managed to lose all my pregnancy weight at first, I gained it again and some more since. Nothing fits me anymore and I feel really down about it, and I don’t want to buy a lot of new clothes because I want to diet…… Continue reading Tips on creating a capsule wardrobe for my new body after childbirth?

What are you an absolute sucker for?

Advice..

It’s almost summer, what’s your fav hygiene hack for when it’s hot?!

Summer Hack for my thick ladies

On this subject, if whatever you’re wearing allows for it, wearing bicycle shorts (not the ones with pads but the plain spandex ones) has been a life saver. I’ve had issues with all of the products wearing off quicker than I could apply them but a good quality short that’s meant for physical activity, sweat,… Continue reading Summer Hack for my thick ladies

When dating someone that wasn’t masculine did you find it difficult to step into your femininity?

For example, if you’re with someone who is not a provider or protector. How did you go about not trying to peruse those roles because I feel like it’s a bit difficult to drop the masculine energy because it becomes like a defensive mechanism to protect yourself. I feel like it gets to a point… Continue reading When dating someone that wasn’t masculine did you find it difficult to step into your femininity?

What does this mean for a urine sample?

Let’s have a discussion – “WoMeN hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp culture

Why do they think women have it easier? What is so easy about growing up as a woman/girl in this world? What is this privilege that women have in society? Can someone tell me where I can find this female privilege, because I think mine was lost in the mail. And what are your guys’… Continue reading Let’s have a discussion – “WoMeN hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp culture

Tablets to stop your period?

“wOmEn hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp Culture – Let’s have a discussion

Where do they get this notion from? How do women have it easier? What is so easy about growing up as a woman/girl in this world? And what are your guys’ responses to this annoying phrase? Why do men feel the need to call other men “simps” just because they’re nice or respectful to a… Continue reading “wOmEn hAvE iT eAsiEr” and Simp Culture – Let’s have a discussion

Interesting

Adult friendships suck sometimes

Am I the only woman who feels this way?

I’ve never had a loving and caring relationship with a woman. If I ever did I pushed them away. As a woman I feel pathetic about not having a loving mother or mother figure in my life. My mother saw me as a rival. My many aunts hate me because of the hatred they have… Continue reading Am I the only woman who feels this way?

Name your best hygiene tips!

severe fear of becoming pregnant

I was wondering if any other women have dealt with this. ever since i first became sexually active, i have a horrible overwhelming fear of getting pregnant that affects me every day. I even got an IUD to try and lessen my anxiety, but still, my fear is telling me it’s still somehow going to… Continue reading severe fear of becoming pregnant

What do you take when you camp outdoors?

I’m going on an all girls camping trip and I want to be sure we’re safe. There’s a firearm involved but I want to know what measures you’ve taken in the past to deter bad apples before it’s too late. So far, we’ve brainstormed hanging motion sensor lights outside our tent so no one can… Continue reading What do you take when you camp outdoors?

I am just so tired with this “women☕️” joke

It’s just a joke I know but its just getting out of hand. At first it was, if a woman did something dumb they would just write “women☕️” which is still hypocritical cause if a man did something dumb its just him but if a woman did something dumb it’s every woman. But these days… Continue reading I am just so tired with this “women☕️” joke

dry scalp

shaving legs

Would you feel uncomfortable if you were interested in a man and he is also interested in you but the relationship ship was evolving too fast?

If you felt as if he was rushing things would that change your answer or idea or is that information irrelevant? I’ve been placed in a situation where I liked a girl so much but it didn’t workout well because she said she felt uncomfortable the way things were evolving so fast so I wanted… Continue reading Would you feel uncomfortable if you were interested in a man and he is also interested in you but the relationship ship was evolving too fast?

Have you had breast augmentation? Have you had any complications?

I hate periods

Why do I like men with glasses?

For some reason I find men who wear glasses more mysterious and sexy, like they’ve got some secrets up their sleeves waiting to be introduced to me… 😛 Anyone else like this or have a clue as to why this is? I think I just really like very intelligent men, although I don’t think glasses… Continue reading Why do I like men with glasses?

Men vs women subreddit

Complaining and hate are different things. Parents complain about kids, kids complain about parents, bosses complain about workers, workers complaining about bosses. That is not hate The hate that women get in our very own sub here and the true outright misogyny and dismissal of women as human beings that occurs regularly in other subs… Continue reading Men vs women subreddit

how to ask my bf to get tested

So, here’s a technique for having uncomfortable discussions where you want info that might be hard to ask outright: If you can’t get information, give information. In other words, lead off with sharing your status, or info about yourself. That opens the conversation to the topic you want, without being accusatory or prying. The other… Continue reading how to ask my bf to get tested

Do ya’ll think it’s safe to go clubbing alone as a woman?

For women here who didn’t grow up with a mother or mother figure, what podcasts/books/etc. helped you navigate being a woman?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading For women here who didn’t grow up with a mother or mother figure, what podcasts/books/etc. helped you navigate being a woman?

I may have had an early miscarriage and IDK how to feel about it

Disclaimer: this story is TMI and idk Jack shit about human gestation So I went on break at work. I had to use the bathroom and change out a tampon. When I removed the tampon I saw a strange clump on tissue sticking to the cotton. I examined it and found that it was a… Continue reading I may have had an early miscarriage and IDK how to feel about it

How do I let go of this

Request

I’ve been thinking about how every women centric sub revolves around men and not women. I understand that men need to be discussed due to how their behaviour impacts women, but on more benign posts, I’m struck by just how much women place their own value in the hands of men. It would be beneficial… Continue reading Request

TMI: My breasts are sore from wearing a tight bra yesterday, but I’m suspicious regardless. How to check for lumps?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading TMI: My breasts are sore from wearing a tight bra yesterday, but I’m suspicious regardless. How to check for lumps?

I want to be beautiful more than anything

Meeting random women in the city : how do women perceive it?

What do you think? I like engaging conversations with random women in the city I live in. Based on their appearance of course since I have no other element to take into account. I always fake my motivation like pretending to like the cloth, the bag, or the hair or the style etc. While actually… Continue reading Meeting random women in the city : how do women perceive it?

You know those ‘Men try period pain’ videos? Couldn’t a device like that be used to diagnose unusual pain/endometriosis and other conditions?

THIS IS NOT A MEDICAL QUESTION. I AM NOT SEEKING ADVICE 🙂 I see those videos where like ‘men try period pain simulators’ all the time but they’re always being used on men, and while I see nothing wrong with that at all—it’s probably a way to get empathy through to some people—I was just… Continue reading You know those ‘Men try period pain’ videos? Couldn’t a device like that be used to diagnose unusual pain/endometriosis and other conditions?

Do you ever feel pressured into sex by your SO? How do you handle it?

Do you ever feel that having sex is like a duty to him? If you’d say no, he’d start to get angry or sad or cold, and then you feel pressured to have it with him so he would be happy. I felt that way in all my relationships. I’m starting to hate the idea… Continue reading Do you ever feel pressured into sex by your SO? How do you handle it?

Controversial Influencer Andrew Tate and Brother Tristan Released from Jail in Romania

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Controversial Influencer Andrew Tate and Brother Tristan Released from Jail in Romania

If someone you didn’t like had a crush on you..

Nail biting

It’s a womAn, not a womEn, when we talk about a singular woman!

I know it’s petty and not as serious as other issues, but I am sick of the constant grammar mistake, when a singular woman is referred to as “women”. Of course, I am not perfect and I make mistakes all the time. However, that “women” mistake seems to be recurring and made by a lot… Continue reading It’s a womAn, not a womEn, when we talk about a singular woman!

Did you know it may be legal in your state, in some UK counties and I’m sure other countries , that it is legal for a doctor and students to perform a NON-CONSENSUAL pelvic exam on you while you are under anesthesia for any type of procedure that has nothing to do with your vulva.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Did you know it may be legal in your state, in some UK counties and I’m sure other countries , that it is legal for a doctor and students to perform a NON-CONSENSUAL pelvic exam on you while you are under anesthesia for any type of procedure that has nothing to do with your vulva.

Relationship might end, need some female support

Look, breaking up sucks. It’s excruciating, no matter how well you know that the relationship has run its course. But you’ve lived without him for a good chunk of your life and you are going to make it without him again. You will survive this, the pain that comes with separating is real and normal,… Continue reading Relationship might end, need some female support

…Am i right?

Am thinking about leaving my cheating husband but today he is being extra nice on our anniversary and making it very confusing…

Over the past three months I have been seriously thinking about leaving my husband after his cheating via social media and going on dates and repeatedly hanging out alone with another woman and lying to me about it by omission… Today is our three year anniversary and he’s being very kind, pretty sure he’s gotten… Continue reading Am thinking about leaving my cheating husband but today he is being extra nice on our anniversary and making it very confusing…

Just having the worst day today.

Hi, apologies in advance for a brief rant here but I feel like it’s better to get things out there and write it somewhere, rather than keeping it in, but I’ve just had the worst day today and I feel awful. I don’t know where to start, there was an interview that went all wrong,… Continue reading Just having the worst day today.

I don’t have a question

Do u ladies ever hold in ur pee & when y’all finally release it u get an orgasm??

Stalked at a doctor’s appointment

Stalking/harassment I had an encounter with a person in an elevator and they got off the elevator after yelling at me the whole ride up. I closed the door and went up to my doctor’s office. A few minutes later while I was filling out paperwork, the person came in and walked straight towards me.… Continue reading Stalked at a doctor’s appointment

What are some of the best and worst “self help” books aimed at women that you have read?

So, I’m taking a WGS class, and for our class we have to read analyze a psychology or self-help book that relates back to the topics of our class (gender roles, sexuality, emotional labor, power dynamics, men and masculinity- basically any feminist topic you can think of i’d like to do a not-so-good book that… Continue reading What are some of the best and worst “self help” books aimed at women that you have read?

As someone who could never gain weight, I’m in a better place in my life and have been able to put on weight now

I hope this doesn’t sound stupid. It feels great to finally be able to gain more weight however, I can’t help but still feel insecure about the change. The weight gain has caused a very significant amount of stretch marks on my butt and down my thighs. Is this normal? It just seems really excessive… Continue reading As someone who could never gain weight, I’m in a better place in my life and have been able to put on weight now

“Am I bEiNg pArAnOiD?” Probably not, babes

I totally get fielding an uncertain situation with an anonymous crowd of unbiased internet users, but I can’t help but notice just how often women come onto Reddit and describe a situation that is clearly not okay just to end the post with “am I overreacting?” “How do I make him understand?” “Am I being… Continue reading “Am I bEiNg pArAnOiD?” Probably not, babes

I feel my family is dismissive of my period cramps

Are products like Bleame actually worth it?

I keep seeing ads for products like Bleame on Instagram and am wondering do they really work? I am getting sick of shaving and waxing, while quick, stings a bit. At least it’s coming into Autumn so I have time to think about it lol.

Looking Older

Help! Job info

Well, since you haven’t left your husband, even if you’re on good terms, I suggest having your own high yield savings account that you put your own savings into. But, realistically, you’ll work the job you have, slowly work towards a bachelor degree at night or whatever if that’s what you want, get promoted at… Continue reading Help! Job info

Big boobed ladies

Did you like the way you looked, OP? Personally, I think full boobs and cinched in waist is really attractive. You said you knew that if you bought them, people would stare when you’re wearing them. This sounds to me like it was less a case of not liking the dresses on yourself, but more… Continue reading Big boobed ladies

Man won’t pay bills on dates.

Every time we go on a date, we split the bill. He pays for his food, I pay for mine. I legally HAVE to agree because it’s his money. Why don’t i just break up? My friends and parents pressure me saying, “Just because he is a man does not mean he has to pay… Continue reading Man won’t pay bills on dates.

Menstrual pads complain?

Uncommon PMS symptoms

How to make my period come faster

Why does some women have less body hair than others?

What do you think about these results?

Pepper Spray Alternative

A person close to me is being followed by an Old Man, he followed her for he whole walk. [we assume he is trying to find out where she lives] In my country, having pepper spray or a taser is illegal. Does anyone have any good alternatives? I’ve heard hairspray is good but I don’t… Continue reading Pepper Spray Alternative

Does having breakthrough bleeding mean the pill isn’t working?

North Korean women forced into marriages, sex slavery in China

I only start my period when I poop.

New Poverty Sub for Hygiene Items

How do you deal with knowing you’ve been lied to?

I want to get ripped and sexy, but is steroid use worth the risks?

Where has being sweet got you?

Good girl syndrome is a good read if you’ve got the time. You’re so wrapped up in pleasing others, you’ll mould yourself to fit others and will ignore your own boundaries when doing so. People eventually learn that if you can disrespect yourself then they’ll disrespect you. They’ll exploit you but you’ll smile through it… Continue reading Where has being sweet got you?

How to feel more feminine without being a girly girl?

Hi! As the titles says I’m not really feeling feminine. If I see girls walking over the streed I’m like why can’t that be me?? I always got the feeling my hair is just meh my clothing is meh and I rarely wear make up (sometimes I do but now I’m pregnant only mascara because… Continue reading How to feel more feminine without being a girly girl?

Happy wives, what did you do before marriage?

Feel terrible about an ex bully

I was severely bullied by someone back in school. I was never friends with that person. But we had some common friends. Recently, through one of our common friends’ social media, I found out that she had been assaulted. I don’t really know how to feel about it. I’m conflicted. It’s like she ruined two… Continue reading Feel terrible about an ex bully

Anyone else feel afraid to end up alone ?

I texted my ex on accident

I texted my ex last night, but I didn’t mean to hit send. I typed out the message and went to hit send, but I changed my mind but when trying to exit the convo I hit send while swiping out. I don’t have the new apple update that you can delete texts. My ex… Continue reading I texted my ex on accident

He told me he’d forgive me if I slept with him and now I feel stupid and empty

the other day, the guy I was seeing was really angry at me and after a while of yelling, he told me he would forgive me if i had sex with him. i asked him before if he was sure that he wouldn’t be angry anymore afterwards and he promised. so many times during i… Continue reading He told me he’d forgive me if I slept with him and now I feel stupid and empty

Dont have anything to look forward to

You have your whole life ahead of you. You are ambitious, but we need to get you focusing on the good parts about yourself. Your hobbies, your art, your sport, whatever is important to you. Please go see a doctor. You sound depressed and an antidepressant can work wonders. I wish you the best of… Continue reading Dont have anything to look forward to

first argument with my partner

Having a soft heart is a blessing and a curse.

is feeling jealousy normal

New ID Photo Help!!

When I move I want to get a new ID for that state. They do black and white photos. I want some pointers on how to look pretty and less hellish in the photo. ID photos aren’t exactly the most flattering. So what are your tips and tricks for makeup, hair, poses, facial expressions, etc!!… Continue reading New ID Photo Help!!

How can I find a man who doesn’t watch porn?

Unlikely, even if you were looking for a woman, unless you’re okay with sex repulsed ace people as your partner. (No sleight against ace folks, I just assume OP isn’t ace and I understand that it can be hard for mixed couples to last.)

Pros & Cons to Birth Control Pills?

No mom? How did you cope?

period poops :(

on my period rn all of a sudden got diarrhea since my first day ystd, along with nausea and a migraine. this is my first time experiencing these kind of symptoms, usually its constipation and vomiting for me but never diarrhea. how long will this diarrhea last and does anyone have home remedies that works… Continue reading period poops 🙁

Feeling pain in my left breast. What to do?

I feel a bit of pain on the side of my left breast. It’s kinda like pins and needles. It comes and goes. I normally get this kind of pain when I’m due for my period. The pain usually goes away after a few days. I’m actually due for my period in a few days.… Continue reading Feeling pain in my left breast. What to do?

Precious times in life

Anybody else’s boyfriend refer to you as “woman?”

Movies

Ladies, I’m looking for movies with a strong feminine presence or strong feminine leads. Leafs don’t have to be actresses, but directors. I’m trying to watch movies with women as leads, acting or directing. 💟💛

Finally OFFICIAL

Ad a women

Mismatched

Thoughts on wearing shaping underwear & tummy control panties. Do you invest in wearing good-quality undergarments? Whats your favorite?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Thoughts on wearing shaping underwear & tummy control panties. Do you invest in wearing good-quality undergarments? Whats your favorite?

Insecurity or lust?

Recently, I have been coming to terms with my insecurities and realizing my triggers when I’m comparing myself, however, doing some shadow work, I realize that I also am attracted to women. Does anyone else feel like this? I feel like it makes things harder to deal with because I’m in a relationship with a… Continue reading Insecurity or lust?

How do you tell a guy you won’t date anyone who watches porn

I’m not dating now but I discovered this is a boundary for me. There is so much unrealistic expectations in porn, that I feel that if I was to be with a guy who watches porn, I risk being with someone who will soon fall out of love for me. It’s not going to be… Continue reading How do you tell a guy you won’t date anyone who watches porn

Does anyone else feel like they are not pretty enough or worthy enough to be daydreaming about love and romance?? Have you ever been proven wrong?

TLDR: Does anyone feel like you’re not the heroine/ main character of your own life so something romantic happening to you is quite impossible? Have you ever been proven wrong? Now, I don’t know if it’s just a ‘me’ problem. I agree that I do have a bit of self confidence issues and I know… Continue reading Does anyone else feel like they are not pretty enough or worthy enough to be daydreaming about love and romance?? Have you ever been proven wrong?

Reddit pages of treating us like objects

Sex drive

Did your sex drive suddenly change, or was it always like that? If you are content with yourself, and it wasn’t a drastic change from having a sex drive for you, I wouldn’t worry. (If it was a sudden change, check in with your doctor to make sure everything is alright) Your worth is not… Continue reading Sex drive

I had an idea for a new hashtag. #GirlsCanDoItAll

I thought it would be empowering, or at least a statement of encouragement. What do y’all think? I was inspired after watching a video of Nicole Coenen, nicknamed the Lumberjack Lesbian, also doing Blacksmithing.

I had a miscarriage last week and now am dreaming about my baby.

How to accept your not ‘conventionally attractive’?

Title explains it. For a woman I’m kinda ugly. I don’t personally care, I’m just ugly. The issue is that if you’re an ugly woman a lot of people basically treat you like crap. How to just….accept that my value to the world is ultimately lowered just because I’m not attractive? I’m just struggling right… Continue reading How to accept your not ‘conventionally attractive’?

Suspected endo and I’m at work with horrible pain

Women have to work harder in an all men’s environment and it’s leading me to change my job.

I would be careful with what you wish for. “Women’s jobs” are often much harder from the get go (caretaking, nursing, assistance, organisation, piece work, cashier, …) and paid less. At least, that’s my experience.

cmv: I can’t imagine how bad it’d suck to be a woman, and I’m thankful to be a guy

Fear of sexual assault, rape and unsafe pregnancy in non-first-world countries… being a mom and having to give up professional dreams… not being able to travel as independently… drastic hormonal changes over the course of life that could hit you emotionally like a freight train… men lusting after you… being disrespected and less capable in… Continue reading cmv: I can’t imagine how bad it’d suck to be a woman, and I’m thankful to be a guy

What is a good gift for a new mom/parents?

Entitled Women

When I used to hang around dating subs/debate subs I would see a lot about how women are super entitled nowadays. I never knew what they meant by this bc no one would expand. I just saw the post where OP unmatched bc the dude asked her on a coffee date and the comments are… Continue reading Entitled Women

Beauty standards/trends!

I was rewatching Princess Diaries and noticed the current beauty standards in it… removing Mia’s glasses, changing her curly hair to straight hair, getting rid of her bushy eyebrows.. Ngl, that was kinda sad to watch.

What kind of crossword puzzles do you like to play?

How many of you have had to deal with your dads being sexist?

The value of self worth

The number one lesson I have learned in this life is how important self worth is. Especially as a woman, where we are so judged by our looks, treated badly under the patriarchy/misogyny yet invalidated in our struggles; knowing my value & acting accordingly has saved my life so many times. If I didn’t know… Continue reading The value of self worth

Outlaw men masturbating until abortion is made legal?

Then women have to be forbidden to ovulate or have periods or become menopausal… Sperms die and have to get released regularly even if male wouldn’t masturbate. Same as eggs need to get replaced. Biology books explain you way. Not allowing abortion has its roots in other things and it has nothing to do with… Continue reading Outlaw men masturbating until abortion is made legal?

Looking for ideas to create boudoir/lingerie content on YouTube. Any suggestions or input would be greatly appreciated!

Im not sure if this is the right subreddit for this question, but here we are. I run a Youtube Channel for a boudoir photography company that I am employed at and I have officially reached rock bottom on topics to cover. Its a bit tricky to reinvent the wheel as most boudoir / photography… Continue reading Looking for ideas to create boudoir/lingerie content on YouTube. Any suggestions or input would be greatly appreciated!

How to calm down

Can someone give me a psych evaluation of guys who say stuff like these about women??

I know a guy in my friend group who seems like an average good guy at first but when you get to know him deeper and have conversations with him, it gets worse and he says stuff like: •”I want beauty with the brains, but damn brains is so hard to come by” •”I haven’t… Continue reading Can someone give me a psych evaluation of guys who say stuff like these about women??

Advice

there’s this female I’ve been talking to and she’s a great talk, looks beautiful, funny personality etc and it lights me up!… not only are we different ethnicity, but I was adopted and she had her full family…idk how to go about that…I feel like there’s a lot in the way

How to regain energy after period?

thick thighs save lives

Am I still passing an egg monthly?

What do you use to shave?

If not allowed please delete. To the women

POSTURE BRAS

A hospital in Idaho is stopping birth care because of doctor shortages and “political climate”

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading A hospital in Idaho is stopping birth care because of doctor shortages and “political climate”

Robbinson dad

Women who had a pessimistic view and were constantly depressed, what changed everything.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women who had a pessimistic view and were constantly depressed, what changed everything.

Why is there a name for shit like “blue balls” but no name for the state men will leave women in when they themselves have just orgasmed and decided sex is over now and won’t help her finish?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why is there a name for shit like “blue balls” but no name for the state men will leave women in when they themselves have just orgasmed and decided sex is over now and won’t help her finish?

My friend

I have a friend who is constantly saying how proud they are of themselves and their work, constantly giving me validation for small things which is nice but I don’t feel the need to give myself validation constantly I have a healthy relationship with myself and affirming myself, they also mentioning their therapist and how… Continue reading My friend

Does getting in an IUD actually hurt as bad as people say?

I’m currently on hormonal birth control which is really worsening my depression, and not to mention the tremendous weight gain from when I started it a year ago. I was looking into the cooper IUD, but I’ve heard horror stories of people who went into a false labor after getting one, among other things. I… Continue reading Does getting in an IUD actually hurt as bad as people say?

How would you give an mature response on someone disregarding your feelings and making it about themselves?

I’d choose someone else to confide in, personally. When I’m going through something I don’t a f to have to explain common decency to someone too. For you: yes, everyone goes through something, and it doesn’t make it any less valid of what you’re currently going through. Life is hard. I’m sorry if you’re having… Continue reading How would you give an mature response on someone disregarding your feelings and making it about themselves?

What improvements do you want to see in the beauty industry( hair care, skin care, personal care, fragrance and makeup)

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What improvements do you want to see in the beauty industry( hair care, skin care, personal care, fragrance and makeup)

Can we please ban “Am I pregnant?” posts?

Uterine biopsy pain

Question for anyone here who has had a uterine biopsy. I’ve read that this is a painful procedure and I have a low tolerance for pain. Doctor will not prescribe even one pain pill for this. Her reason is that the pain is only for a few seconds. She suggests ibuprofen and tylenol. Please share… Continue reading Uterine biopsy pain

Advice needed for a lady going through it

Can you wait to start your thesis til your period is over? Use the time to mope, wallow, etc then get showered, dressed, and get your cute ass to a cafe to write a paragraph. Get the elaborate drink and a bakery item. I’m sorry you’re going through this. Breakups suck. But clearly you are… Continue reading Advice needed for a lady going through it

i hope this is the right subreddit

is there a way to prevent/get out discharge stains in underwear?

is dumping a guy over peeing outside of the toilet a good dating advice?

I think what your grandmother means is that if a guy is rude enough to pee outside the toilet that means that he has no self control in terms of being polite in other people’s homes by making a mess in the bathroom(lol too much explanation) or literally not hygienic. The real question is does… Continue reading is dumping a guy over peeing outside of the toilet a good dating advice?

Ovulation Bleeding?

Help

Budget-friendly underwear?

Ladies, where do y’all get affordable undies? I realize I haven’t gotten new underwear since I was an angsty fifteen-year-old stealing from Walmart, and, uh, that’s not how we handle things being expensive as an adult.

My boyfriend thinks that all feminism is about hating and abusing men.

Today as I was scrolling on Instagram, I found a post of a Virginia Woolf quote that said “Why are women so much more interesting to men than men are to women?” and made the horrible mistake of looking through the comments section. Long story short, the comments section was full of sexist comments from… Continue reading My boyfriend thinks that all feminism is about hating and abusing men.

Do women notice men looking at them on the beach?

NYP did a story on Sydney Sweeney and everyone is hating on her but where are my big chested girls who can relate?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading NYP did a story on Sydney Sweeney and everyone is hating on her but where are my big chested girls who can relate?

Problematic boys only exist on my phone(because I say so)

I decided this worldview will stress me out the least. The most outspoken & problematic boys only exist on my phone, so like, I decided they don’t actually exist as real people. When i come across them in person, im gonna assume they’re just a test created by god & that they vanish whenever I’m… Continue reading Problematic boys only exist on my phone(because I say so)

My ex-boyfriend texted my friend to ask about me and how do we even respond?

My ex boyfriend was a toxic guy. He had a lot of sexist opinions and his whole personality was made up of objectifying women and being a sexist. I went through a LOT when I was with him- all kinds of insecurties, breakdowns and everying. I’ve blocked him everywhere because he used to get drunk… Continue reading My ex-boyfriend texted my friend to ask about me and how do we even respond?

Advice on hair removal, considering waxing

So I personally struggle with really thick, dark, fast growing body hair. It’s been endlessly frustrating for me to keep up with shaving since it really doesn’t feel worth it. I’ll shave and the very next day I’ll have stubble, or as soon as I get even a slight chill honestly. I’d hate having to… Continue reading Advice on hair removal, considering waxing

What do I get my sister for a birthday present

Has anyone women here tried Centrum Multivitamin?

Is it normal for breasts to always be sore ???

The most annoying feeling in the world is having a good time and suddenly noticing a man preying on you.

I went out for a snack run to the gas station and a man held the door open for me and let me through then proceeded to lurk around the aisles watching me until I got to the register. He disappeared while I was paying and I automatically assumed he’d gone out to hide somewhere… Continue reading The most annoying feeling in the world is having a good time and suddenly noticing a man preying on you.

I think my pills are making me feel less romantic attraction?

Men only talking to other men…?

Does anyone else experience men talking to other men who are with them and basically just ignoring them? When I’m somewhere with my partner so many men will be having a convo with us both but basically only looking at him the whole time, even if he is talking about me or I’m contributing to… Continue reading Men only talking to other men…?

is it too fancy?

I love being a woman so much I could scream!

Does it bother you when the person you love looks at women’s boobs bigger then yours on Reddit?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Does it bother you when the person you love looks at women’s boobs bigger then yours on Reddit?

any good skincare products for oily nose?

hi! so basically i have a SUPER oily nose, which is really gross, but i was wondering if anyone had a similar issue and knew any products to deal with it? like it’s constantly oily no matter how often i wash my face, and it makes my pores look so much bigger and it’s honestly… Continue reading any good skincare products for oily nose?

When will my boobs be equal size?

Wanting to become a adult entertainment video creator.

false I would like to use a platform like onlyfans, fansly, p-hub. I wanted to know if any women, femmes, non- binary people might have a opinion on what they liked to use based on the percentage the company takes of your earnings. To me making adult entertainment isn’t just about money, it’s a activity… Continue reading Wanting to become a adult entertainment video creator.

If you had an abnormal pap test, what happened next?

I was contacted by my doctor to tell me that I have an abnormal pap test result. I have a referral to get a colposcopy, but I’m currently waiting on clinics/hospitals to follow-up to schedule my appointment. To anyone here who experienced this, what happened next? What did you find out? What did you face?… Continue reading If you had an abnormal pap test, what happened next?

Why do men think weaponized incompetence is okay just because their wife/gf isn’t working

Some of the comments on a recent post in the relationships sub are honestly disgusting. Just because your wife or girlfriend is temporarily out of a job, doesn’t mean she’s your maid or your mom! It doesn’t give men an excuse to act like a toddler and leave messes everywhere! I understand doing most of… Continue reading Why do men think weaponized incompetence is okay just because their wife/gf isn’t working

Men don’t see woman’s issues from a human perspective

This is difficult to explain but it’s been something that bothers me. I feel when men talk about issues such as SA, harassment, sexism, abortion, even the murder rates of women, etc, they don’t talk as if they see it from the perspective that the woman is a human. They talk about it as a… Continue reading Men don’t see woman’s issues from a human perspective

Periods😒

Okay, so I just told my mum that I started my period right? My mum literally said “Oh, how do you know you’ve got your period?” Mother dearest, I have blood coming out of my vagina. Like tf??😭😭

Women, what do you prefer, hot/beautiful/sexy men or mentally attractive?

I would like to increase my chances toward women. And I can take steroids and other stuff that will make me much more muscular and physically attractive. I have taken some drugs previously that really impacted my body, like cyproheptadine(which made me gain tons of weight) and anabolic steroids, which made me gain much more… Continue reading Women, what do you prefer, hot/beautiful/sexy men or mentally attractive?

I hate how women get dismissed

Trigger warning: SA (sexual assault) How come women are always being dismissed when it comes to being stalked, harassed, and flat out sexually assaulted? A good example is when a woman says “hey, (name) is being creepy towards me he did (creepy behavior.)” it’s always followed by someone saying oh he’s just anti social! He’s… Continue reading I hate how women get dismissed

Can I, as a bigender individual, celebrate Women’s Day?

I know this year’s Women’s Day is already past, and it’s not that big of a deal for me anyway, but it’s been on my mind I’m an AMAB person, but a month ago I realised I’m bigender. Is it alright for me to celebrate Women’s Day and other specifically feminine holidays, like Mother’s Day?… Continue reading Can I, as a bigender individual, celebrate Women’s Day?

What are the REAL side effects of birth control?

Pill never relieved me from period pain. Never! It is b*** s***. The rest is up to you. There are a few advantages and even more less. But your period pain doesn’t disappear from the pill. It is a lie doctors tell us to make more women willing to take hormones produced by female horses… Continue reading What are the REAL side effects of birth control?

How do you respond to men who say they want to be friends but then act like a boyfriend?

A constant in my life is men who say they are OK with being friends but then try to act like my boyfriend or lover. I am very blunt and upfront about it, but have had guys pretended to want to be just friend for months to then shift. I also have guy friends for… Continue reading How do you respond to men who say they want to be friends but then act like a boyfriend?

Stop Blaming Black Women for Black Men’s Actions

This is extremely common in America. You do not get to blame us for Black male crime, Black male violence, or Black men’s personal behavior towards you. Especially not when Americans ignore and condone the violence they inflict on Black women first. Nobody blames white women for white men’s actions. People would never ask Asian… Continue reading Stop Blaming Black Women for Black Men’s Actions

Everything to do with pregnancy and childbirth makes me feel faint

I feel you!! I’ve always felt anxious and queasy about anything to do with pregnancy and childbirth. Absolutely hate going to gynaecologist appointments as it makes me extremely uncomfortable and anxious, I sometimes compare it to how others are scared of dentists. And can’t listen to any birth stories, makes me feel faint and nauseous… Continue reading Everything to do with pregnancy and childbirth makes me feel faint

Guy asked to send dick pics, sent it anyway after I’d said no several times

As title says, a guy messaged me asking to send dick pics, said he’d want nothing in return. I said no, several times, and that regardless of the fact he’d want nothing in return, I don’t want to see it. He sent it anyway. But hey, at least he asked 🙄🤷‍♀️

How to deal with people who shame me for not wearing makeup?

I don’t wear makeup simply because I hate it and I don’t want to spend money on it but I don’t have a problem with girls wearing makeup But I am always getting judged and told that I am not feminine, I don’t fit it and I am weird and everytime I try to explain… Continue reading How to deal with people who shame me for not wearing makeup?

Will you be interested in our presson nails survey if you get a gift card to purchase the press on nails for free?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Will you be interested in our presson nails survey if you get a gift card to purchase the press on nails for free?

anyone else?

A Tale of Two Men (As Told by a Woman)

Got my period after few days of it ending

My nipples, areola, and boobs are so small.

Didn’t know where to go, so I came here. I’m really insecure about what’s mentioned above. I’m not sure it’s attractive to men. I know I shouldn’t care, but I do. They look like a child’s breast and it makes me feel less like a woman and more insecure. They do have volume and you… Continue reading My nipples, areola, and boobs are so small.

Women in Gaming: The Challenges and Triumphs of Female Gamers and Developers in a Male-Dominated Industry

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women in Gaming: The Challenges and Triumphs of Female Gamers and Developers in a Male-Dominated Industry

female friendships is my definition of love

idk if it’s because im a bisexual woman but female friendships is the most intimate relationship I’ll ever have and I’ve been in romantic relationships. we’ve seen each other’s bodies, talked about everything, explored places together, basically just do everything together. I can’t explain it, it’s just love for me. Not romantic, platonic, or family… Continue reading female friendships is my definition of love

Women-Owned Breweries Across the U.S.

Does anyone else have a line above their pubic area?

Pap smears- why does the recommendation on frequency keep changing? Is this a US thing?

Recommendations for screenings are based on a lot of science. Science is an ongoing process – as researchers learn more, the recommendations change. People might assume that more screening is always better, but that isn’t the case. No screening is perfect: sometimes they miss real cases and other times they incorrectly identify a healthy people… Continue reading Pap smears- why does the recommendation on frequency keep changing? Is this a US thing?

I just found out I have sore eyes (no obvious symptoms). Ophtha is suggesting for me to throw away all makeups/skincare I used on my eyes. Anyone encountered the same issue? What did you do? Thanks!

It depends. Are your eyes sore from viewing your phone too much? Do you stare at a computer screen all day? If so, adjust your phone light settings to dampen down the blue. Too much blue light can make your eyes hurt. If you’re stuck in front of a computer all day, get computer glasses.… Continue reading I just found out I have sore eyes (no obvious symptoms). Ophtha is suggesting for me to throw away all makeups/skincare I used on my eyes. Anyone encountered the same issue? What did you do? Thanks!

Anyone else experience more discharge while exercising?

This sounds gross and embarrassing, but I’ve noticed that when I’m exercising, I experience more discharge. Right now, I’m actually spotting, so it’s the brown discharge. Regardless, I just want to make sure I’m not alone. I feel embarrassed though because I’ve started wearing the light tampons just to make sure I don’t accidentally get… Continue reading Anyone else experience more discharge while exercising?

Longer than usual cycle

This is very common and mostly nothing. Obviously, if you are having unprotected sex, there is the possibility that there was a pregnancy. However, long heavy bleeding is not trivial if it is really heavy (at some point anemia is a factor) but nobody can tell if it is that kind of heavy. Most urgent… Continue reading Longer than usual cycle

How do you manage not getting all itchy with your hair down?

job application

Period?

swimsuit help?

I can’t stop eating

I have created a new sub for women who are focused on their careers and want to achieve their biggest potential!

Hi guys!! I created a sub for women, nonbinary and women identifying persons empowerment and for sharing best practices on the way to the top – specifically for women aspiring to be partners in their firms, starting their own, to achieve executive and c-suite positions all the while growing financially and personally. The sub is… Continue reading I have created a new sub for women who are focused on their careers and want to achieve their biggest potential!

my new discord

How do guys masturbate?? I need some guidance

Oh, I feel for you. It’s a very difficult thing at first, but you’ll get the hang of it. Trust me, it took me a while too but once I started to really do it right I really began to enjoy it and it became a part of my life that helped liberate me and… Continue reading How do guys masturbate?? I need some guidance

Rape apologists everywhere

Why is the internet full of rape apologists? Why can’t any unrelated topic be discussed or have a logical discourse without getting highjacked by deranged nimrods? Unfortunately, all of these men are the educated lot. The not-so-educated ones are much worse. I feel so defeated. It’s almost as if they derive pleasure out of derailing… Continue reading Rape apologists everywhere

I was wondering what shady apps or things to look for on his phone?

At work, being told “You have an attitude” whenever you stand up for yourself in a professional manner

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading At work, being told “You have an attitude” whenever you stand up for yourself in a professional manner

Do all men just inhale their food?

How to find a doctor?

If you have health insurance, you can go online on their portal and use the find a provider tool to make sure they’re in network. You could probably call them for recommendations, too. If you don’t have insurance, I’d look up providers in your area who have good self pay rates. Have you had one… Continue reading How to find a doctor?

It feels like men only want model/influencer looking women

Before I go on I am in no way shaming any woman who looks like a model or influencer. If looking like they gives them confidence, that’s great and they should continue doing what they do. They’re not ugly. This is more aimed at the hypocrisy towards men. This is also coming from the point… Continue reading It feels like men only want model/influencer looking women

looking for validation to feel better :(

Someone who tells another person they are not worthy of love, does not understand what love is, because a loving person would not say this. The people who responded to your post are referring to conditional love, meaning love under certain conditions (i.e. sleeping with under X amount of men). You don’t want conditional love,… Continue reading looking for validation to feel better 🙁

Struggling with the pay gap in my industry and how blatantly sexist my coworkers are, among other things. I’m looking for advice.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Struggling with the pay gap in my industry and how blatantly sexist my coworkers are, among other things. I’m looking for advice.

Do big hoop earrings look ghetto?

I feel so betrayed, confused, disgusting, guilty and heartbroken

I just found out that my boyfriend of three years is a murderer and a cheater. After he killed his other partner and disposed of her, he came over to my house many times and acted like nothing happened at all. He was the same loving, gentle, silly and intense man I’ve known and loved… Continue reading I feel so betrayed, confused, disgusting, guilty and heartbroken

Do ladies go for “happy ending” massages either intentionally or as something that just develops naturally?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Do ladies go for “happy ending” massages either intentionally or as something that just develops naturally?

best places to buy dresses?

Dark spot insecurities

Hemorrhoid’s w aging

Lol

What’s the best things to do for someone who’s recently given birth?

Lacking an identity outside of family/partner making my life miserable

I have this messed up idea that somehow, because I am not in a relationship, I am not supposed to be enjoying certain activities like going to the restaurant, traveling and so on. Obviously, I am not dumb and I am aware that this idea is hella dumb, but I guess it stems from the… Continue reading Lacking an identity outside of family/partner making my life miserable

Can someone explain the periods on nexplanon?

How to get the motivation to start caring about yourself?

There is a difference between caring about your whole self- as in your mental health, emotional well being, & happiness, & caring about your looks. You don’t have to care about your looks to actually care about yourself. If you don’t like dressing up or whatever, it doesn’t matter & it shouldn’t to the people… Continue reading How to get the motivation to start caring about yourself?

Does anyone know where I can buy seamless underwear that won’t give me a wedgie?

Things that never happen to men, part I. “ “She wants to kill babies but she’s still beautiful. You look very beautiful in that dress. You look very sexy. Look at that booty. “Look how sexy she looks in that dress. Hot, hot, hot like a tamale.”

Satire is exempt from certain Title VII violations and other such things. Really, I hope HER lawyer makes a meal of this. “She likes killing babies” is either slander or libel, depending on the medium. It would be fun to have the transcript of them actually proving that she likes killing babies, or explaining the… Continue reading Things that never happen to men, part I. “ “She wants to kill babies but she’s still beautiful. You look very beautiful in that dress. You look very sexy. Look at that booty. “Look how sexy she looks in that dress. Hot, hot, hot like a tamale.”

Hormonal implant

How to deal with a jealous friend ?

I have been feeling for quiet some time my best friend is jealous of me. We were friends when we were younger reconnected a couple years ago. Well now being friends with her as an adult I’ve been getting jealously vibes from her I never saw when we were younger. She’s a lesbian and she… Continue reading How to deal with a jealous friend ?

Bloated stomach only when you sleep on your back?

anyone with mental health condition, choose to be a mom and is a mom? how is it going?

I can’t be a mom. It is a fact and i cant deny it but i feel extremely disappointed with myself. I am mentally unstable. It comes and goes in waves. We initially thought of having kids end of this year. But yeah, it aint happening when my husband talked sense with me few days… Continue reading anyone with mental health condition, choose to be a mom and is a mom? how is it going?

Does anyone else hate shopping?

Abuse safe space discord

Happy international women’s day! I wanted to get the word out that a friend and I are building a Discord as a safe space and resource guide for women, especially mothers, who have been or are currently in an abusive relationship. No men allowed, please/thank you. Feel free to comment or DM me if you’re… Continue reading Abuse safe space discord

How do trans girls/women and/or transfems feel about periods? (from a transfem) (crossposting from r/trans for more input and to reach specifically more gals)

I’m transfem AMAB, so I don’t get periods. Obviously, they don’t sound very fun at all, but there is a certain sort of dysphoria or not-fitting-in I feel from not having periods. That being said, getting your period as a cis girl is labeled as a transition into womanhood and an affirmation of your femininity,… Continue reading How do trans girls/women and/or transfems feel about periods? (from a transfem) (crossposting from r/trans for more input and to reach specifically more gals)

Cried for the first time in my life out of frustration because I’m so hungry

My period this month is absolutely killing me. It started this morning with the same exact symptoms I have when I get food poisoning, I fainted, I couldn’t do anything so I only managed to get up from the couch in the afternoon. I can’t eat anything other than bread and yogurt and I’m so… Continue reading Cried for the first time in my life out of frustration because I’m so hungry

I’m scared.

false I don’t know where talk about it, so I came here. I’m scared, I see a lot of people online be misogynist and sexist. And it doesn’t gets better when famous people, with lot of followers, like Tate exists. I’m so scared of live in this world that I considered k*łł myself. Instead of… Continue reading I’m scared.

Thank you women

What is the new term for the old term “tomboy” in everyone’s opinion? I just want to feel like I belong.

First I want to say that I think it’s great to have a group to be able to identify with, and that’s what I am trying to figure out. Growing up, I was called a tomboy and I called myself a tomboy back then. Nowadays I have no idea what to call myself. It’s not… Continue reading What is the new term for the old term “tomboy” in everyone’s opinion? I just want to feel like I belong.

women’s day conversation at work yesterday:We have no women in middle management, and my manager insists that promotions are done purely based on skill

We had a long argument yesterday where my manager insisted this, said that it would be unfair to ‘promote women based on their gender’. My argument was that they seem to have a very specific narrow definition of leadership and it’s why women can’t seem to get promoted. What are some better ways I can… Continue reading women’s day conversation at work yesterday:We have no women in middle management, and my manager insists that promotions are done purely based on skill

How can I make friends?

A sincere apology from a Trans woman

I grew up with many strong women. Women that held their families together. Women that gritted their teeth and planted their heels firmly whilst fighting for what they believed in. Women that sacrificed and provided. That strength and wisdom left an impression on me that still stands today. ALL of my role models were women.… Continue reading A sincere apology from a Trans woman

GODDAMMIT!!!

Why the fuck is it SO Difficult for guys to WIPE THEIR PISS OFF THE SEAT???? Jesus Fucking Super Christ! Seriously! Almost Every Goddamn time I use the bathroom (gender unreal), I ALWAYS have to wipe off the seat and I’m getting so sick of it. WHY THE FUCK ARE MEN SO INCONSIDERATE OF ANY… Continue reading GODDAMMIT!!!

I’d like congratulate the women fandom today.

My friend finally left her abusive relationship! How can I help her cleanse and celebrate?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading My friend finally left her abusive relationship! How can I help her cleanse and celebrate?

should I take the fight ?

im in highschool and a girl in my age chalenged me in to a fight. Now this is NOT about me having to fight someone because i love fighting! i belive a real man on man punch duel is one of the best ways to end a raged dayBUT THİS TİME SHES A SHE i… Continue reading should I take the fight ?

Happy International Women’s Day

Victim Blaming: Six stupid things people say

On this international women’s day, I am hopeful that we can begin to turn the corner on one of the most damaging behaviors we do toward women who have been targeted with violence. This blog identifies six stupid things people say about victims. It is based on interesting research on this topic. There is an… Continue reading Victim Blaming: Six stupid things people say

Happy International Women’s Day

Happy International Women’s Day!!! Domestic women, we’re sorry, but you will not be celebrated, no balloons for any of you 😁🎈

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Happy International Women’s Day!!! Domestic women, we’re sorry, but you will not be celebrated, no balloons for any of you 😁🎈

I frequently read that women with female avatars gets harassed a lot more than if you don’t have one or if you have a male avatar. Is this true and what is your experience?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I frequently read that women with female avatars gets harassed a lot more than if you don’t have one or if you have a male avatar. Is this true and what is your experience?

Menopause

HEEELP! Can you make your period come earlier?

I’m going on a one week vacation in two weeks, and I’m gonna get my period on the vacation, which is VERY inconvenient, seeing that the vacation basically consists of swimming. D: I’m not a big fan of tampons – I don’t trust them at all. Is there anything I can do to make my… Continue reading HEEELP! Can you make your period come earlier?

men love controlling women more than they love women

In your experience, would you say you’ve noticed most men love the feeling of controlling a woman more than loving a woman? I’m talking about a father, brother, friend, son, romantic partner. According to science, it is said a high percentage of men are selfish/narcissistic because they’re wired that way. So I’m wondering, have you… Continue reading men love controlling women more than they love women

Hi am I overreacting?

I recently just started talking to this guy online. He was talking about all the sports he does and asked me what sports i usually do, i told him i’ve been taking martial arts classes and he dropped a joke about him “beating me up” and that i won’t be able to stop him. I’m… Continue reading Hi am I overreacting?

Does anyone get these kind of lumps down there?

Female Execs Are Exhausted, Frustrated and Heading for the Exits

Dating men who refer to women as girls?

Is it an arbitrarily high standard to not date men who refer to women as girls? It seems everywhere but I find it demeaning. Children and teens are girls, not adult women. AN ASIDE: I was seeing someone over a few weeks who suggested they were progressive in regard to gender norms but also referred… Continue reading Dating men who refer to women as girls?

URGENT – super sharp pain I THINK on my ovary???

Has anyone used this medication called “Clingen Forte” ?

i hate being a teenage girl

It’s time to break the silence and stigma

Menstrual dignity is an issue that affects people all around the globe. In many countries, menstruation is still surrounded by shame, taboo, and stigma, which can lead to negative health outcomes, educational and employment barriers, and social exclusion. India: In India, the government has launched the “Pad Man” initiative, which aims to provide access to… Continue reading It’s time to break the silence and stigma

My partner told me he feels validated when other women find him attractive

Is it just me that some of the cotton clothing especially shorts gotten shorter after washing / putting in the dryer

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Is it just me that some of the cotton clothing especially shorts gotten shorter after washing / putting in the dryer

Please don’t forget to give yourself a flower tomorrow

What do you think about the Free top G thing ?

What’s a gift for a newly pregnant women? A gift just for the mom, not the baby?

Looking for a workout buddy

Rant about husband’s weaponised incompetence

I’m working from home today and it’s dry out so I was going to wash the bedding. However my husband has the day off and was still in bed when I was going to put the wash on so I put other things I wanted to wash in the machine and asked him to add… Continue reading Rant about husband’s weaponised incompetence

What to expect when coming off of birth control?

THE PATH TO A HAPPY PERIOD

° Use a menstrual cup – To not worry about leakages, odour, rashes or discomfort °Trim or shave beforehand – To make cleanup easier ° Stock up on chocolate – To satisfy your cravings and help with the cramps ° Make water your best friend – To keep your blood flowing easily It may not… Continue reading THE PATH TO A HAPPY PERIOD

Anyone else kinda concerned about all the “women☕️” comments all the time?

It’s always on videos or something of a someone who happens to be a female being stupid. But it’s not like they’re being stupid because they’re a woman. Men ☕️ are never on videos of guys being stupid because that’s just a stupid person. Why is it that when woman is being dumb it reflects… Continue reading Anyone else kinda concerned about all the “women☕️” comments all the time?

Hi! I need help about the pill, and i’m not very comfortable talking about it with my parents

Tell your gynecologist about your symptoms and ask for some further exams (ultrasounds, blood tests, etc.) in order to rule out any medical conditions that might be causing your issues. Some solutions might indeed be hormonal birth control, but it’s best to check out all options. Menstrual cups are a great solution for sports activities,… Continue reading Hi! I need help about the pill, and i’m not very comfortable talking about it with my parents

Wanting love, but not romantic love?

I just wondered if anyone here might relate, or have advice for me. I’ve been kind of bored, kind of lonely, lately, and interpreted that as me finally being ready for another romantic relationship. So I got on some dating apps, fielded some interest, had some conversations. I noticed in myself that as soon as… Continue reading Wanting love, but not romantic love?

Recommendation for period tracking app

Emotional attraction= love?

For starters, everyone knows that physical attraction loosely translates to lust. But is emotional attraction the same as love? It’s a little confusing. I know some men who have some admirable qualities. But every time I mention it to someone, they assume I have a crush. It’s not true. I don’t like that person in… Continue reading Emotional attraction= love?

Had an embarrassing experience at my friend’s house yesterday. Can anyone give me advice?

So I was at a friend’s house yesterday, we only recently became friends so this was only the second time I’d been to her house. So at some point I realised I needed to pee, nothing major so I just thought that I’d go later. Well.. later became an hour and I kinda forgot and… Continue reading Had an embarrassing experience at my friend’s house yesterday. Can anyone give me advice?

Is doing Onlyfans worth it?

does anybody else go through months of pure hunger and the not being able to eat

plan b or am i fine?

You’re probably fine, you’re on birth control, also cannot get pregnant on your period, especially if you’ve been taking birth control consistently in the time before your period. If it gives you peace of mind and you don’t take plan b often, you could take it anyway, but, ya know, plan b is expensive. You’re… Continue reading plan b or am i fine?

Why do some men see crying as weak?

What are the little things you notice in men?

“You talk like a white girl”

I’m so tired of hearing this. When I was little I was very fluent in speaking Spanish until I got adopted. I was forced to learn English because my brothers couldn’t speak it and we lived in a predominantly white neighborhood. When I started speaking English I had a very hard accent and stuttering problem.… Continue reading “You talk like a white girl”

How can I be happy to be a woman?

Saw a swelling/ loose skin like appearance near the posterior fourchette, and I’m worried.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Saw a swelling/ loose skin like appearance near the posterior fourchette, and I’m worried.

Taking two contraceptive pills in one day

Ik I don’t belong here, but I’m just worried about my gf. We woke up today realizing she had forgotten to take her pill yesterday, so we googled and she took both pills at once. Since then she’s been vomiting and feeling nauseous, and we have a long train ride to get through today…. Is… Continue reading Taking two contraceptive pills in one day

Progress with Women’s rights.

https://vajenda.substack.com/p/stop-talking-about-coat-hangers-and?utm_source=twitter&s=r

Misoprostol can be prescribed for non-pregnancy related reasons, such as to prevent ulcers from long-term NSAID use. It is not Walgreens – or any politician’s – business why anyone is getting a prescription for it. Misoprostol an be obtained from mailing pharmacy services as an answer to any unwanted pregnancy. Mail can be delivered across… Continue reading https://vajenda.substack.com/p/stop-talking-about-coat-hangers-and?utm_source=twitter&s=r

Why does a significant portion of men get seriously upset when women dye their hair, have tattoos, wear alt styles, etc?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why does a significant portion of men get seriously upset when women dye their hair, have tattoos, wear alt styles, etc?

Do you open your door to unexpected visitors?

I want to make a piece of media where men are the heavily sexualized gender. But im not sure how to make it as humiliating for men as mass-media sexualization usually is for women?

I sexualize men in my art anyway, because i think they’re hot & ive gone with this “reverse objectification” mindset for awhile. The issue is that there aren’t oppressive systems built on & benefiting from objectifying men, so men are not bothered (*or more accurately, threatened) when they are being blatantly sexualized. But i want… Continue reading I want to make a piece of media where men are the heavily sexualized gender. But im not sure how to make it as humiliating for men as mass-media sexualization usually is for women?

I feel so self conscious whenever people seem to be looking at my armpits

Should you stay away from alcohol during your period?

Why does this read like a man giving women instructions on how to behave during their menstrual cycle. I know you are probably someone who menstruates but holy shit, this post seems judgemental. I will say though, I didn’t drink a drop of alcohol until my late twenties and my periods are no worse now,… Continue reading Should you stay away from alcohol during your period?

Weird Q might delete later.

Do you guys shave your area bald or.. trim it? I literally can only trim and groom lightly as I get really itchy and uncomfortable when I try to go too short or gone. I’ve only shaved it all off once and it was really hard and scary. Like.. there’s a lot of nooks and… Continue reading Weird Q might delete later.

sos

OH. MY. GOD. OVULATION IS INSANE.

false I am currently feeling like a CAT IN HEAT, and it’s unbearable. I can’t take my eyes off my boyfriend and basically pouncing on him every chance I get. Usually my sex drive is.. somewhere in the middle when I’m not ovulating, but PHEWWW, my sex drive has SKYROCKETED!! I genuinely cannot think straight,… Continue reading OH. MY. GOD. OVULATION IS INSANE.

Book recommendation to help women build confidence?

Hello! I came here for books recommendation and I hope this is the right place. 🙂 I’m looking for books that target the women’s audience that focus on helping us have confidence and have badass attitudes, like confident enough to be able to leave a man who cheated or been abusive (that’s my goal). So… Continue reading Book recommendation to help women build confidence?

Question for Swedish women!

(Not a women, but Swede that have lived in US). Sweden (and nordic countries in general) is regarded as most gender equal places in the world. Comparing with the US, I would say that the oportunities and safty for women is much better. (But it also depends on which state you compair to). That said,… Continue reading Question for Swedish women!

Straight women, do pretty girls make you feel shy?

Breastfeeding Worries

So- I can’t tell if I’m selfish or nervous. I’m not currently pregnant, but my husband and I will start trying in about a year. We’re rigorously preparing for baby, complete change in diet, exercise and discussing parenting styles/worst case scenarios to be prepared. One of the thing I’ve been thinking a lot about is… Continue reading Breastfeeding Worries

Happy Women’s History Month To All the Wonderful Women of the World ❤️💖🥰

I think he is trying to hook up with me.

Its about a police guy whom I think is married and is just trying to hook up with me or maybe have an affair, which I don’t want since I have a boyfriend I am deeply in love with. I went to the police station to lodge a complaint against my neighbours. He just kept… Continue reading I think he is trying to hook up with me.

How can I get ahead at work?

Got yelled at by a woman for not dressing appropriately

Context: I’m from Pakistan and we usually wear a shawl called duppata. In my country, you’re basically just asking for attention (acc to people) if you walk down a street not wearing hijab or atleast a duppata. It’s not a law, just a lot of social stigma attached to not conforming to it. Here’s my… Continue reading Got yelled at by a woman for not dressing appropriately

Neighbors

A hand..

Slava Ukraini

Weird obsessive thought

Best bras to accommodate big boobs in a prom dress?

Sex and Pelvic Ultrasound

Ok, need some help here if anyone has experience. I’m scheduled for an abdominal and pelvic ultrasound this weekend (for an issue I had last month). The clinic was able to get me in on Sunday afternoon, but Saturday nights are usually sexy times for my husband and I. With work, kids and life in… Continue reading Sex and Pelvic Ultrasound

Early signs of pregnancy you experienced?

Has anyone else watched The Red Pill?

Is the home safe enough?!

The woman in the family and the man of the family never have the same stand; they are always perched on pedestals of different elevations- the highest for a woman often being lower than the lowest of a man. I was eight when I first learned this fact. This time it was the news about… Continue reading Is the home safe enough?!

Dealing with periods as students

° Dismantling period shame : even in this day and age, the topic of periods is often seen as a taboo subject resulting in many people suffering silently as a result. ° Keep track of your cycle : It would be amazing if all of us could immediately take time off to wear cozy pjs… Continue reading Dealing with periods as *students*

Man moving closer to me on the train

no, for example i was at tim’s (for those who are canadian) and i order smth and was waiting. this man kept looking at me and i noticed he was looking, and i have the worst anxiety so i starred at the slushy machine then the wall so i unintentionally looked at him, and so,… Continue reading Man moving closer to me on the train

Being a woman

Am I the only one who’s terrified of childbirth?

I don’t know if it would make sense to call it a phobia- but it’s really bad. I’m still young so it’s not an actual issue; but whenever I think abt my future, it terrifies me knowing that I’ll probably have to go through it at least once (since I want at least one biological… Continue reading Am I the only one who’s terrified of childbirth?

What could be the reason for bleeding after sex?

Anyone else hate how PMS hormones affect you? How do you deal with the guilt of it?

I consider myself to be a pretty rational person so I really hate how emotional I can get depending on my cycle. I hate using my period as an excuse for my behavior and yet there is no sane reason as to why I’m crying over a water bottle. I’ll get so irritated, bitchy, and… Continue reading Anyone else hate how PMS hormones affect you? How do you deal with the guilt of it?

How to include men in “Menstruation”

° Teaching boys and girls together on periods : Girls and boys should learn about menstruation together. Instructing boys and girls separately can spread stigma and mystery. Boys develop a sense of empathy and can understand the sensitivity of the topic “periods.” ° Provide support wherever possible : Boys can provide support at home or… Continue reading How to include men in “Menstruation”

Was I right to do this?

Hello everyone, I just want to know your opinion / what would you do in this situation. Recently I went to someone’s house to stay and I asked the host (who is family) where I can dispose my menstrual pads. She gave me a bag and told me to dispose my pads in there and… Continue reading Was I right to do this?

I’m truly sick of men having an opinion on the way women look and feeling the need to give their unsolicited opinion.

Don’t wanna wear makeup? Cool. Wanna beat your face to the Gods and wear the extra long, fluttery fake lashes? Cool. Don’t wanna dye your hair? Awesome. Wanna dye your hair a new color every week? That’s great, too. Wanna shave? No problem. Don’t wanna shave? That’s just fine, too. I’m just so sick of… Continue reading I’m truly sick of men having an opinion on the way women look and feeling the need to give their unsolicited opinion.

Anyone ever feel like crying for no reason?

When I feel like crying I just go where i can be alone and let it out. It’s a period of self reflection and simply feeling my emotions. I act like my best friend and ask myself what’s wrong, tell myself it will be ok, remind myself that emotions are just part of being human… Continue reading Anyone ever feel like crying for no reason?

Emotional thirst?

I am not quite sure whether this is the good place to ask a question like this. As a male in his twenties who haven’t had a good childhood life, and who has depression, I feel excessively thirsty for emotions. Let me tell you my ideal scenario if I get married. I wish I could… Continue reading Emotional thirst?

Pelvic floor exercises

I have a weak bladder so I have been trying pelvic floor exercises but I’m not getting anywhere. When they are telling me you need to squeeze and lift your vagina or urethra they might as well be telling me to wiggle my liver for all the control or sensation I have. I don’t feel… Continue reading Pelvic floor exercises

Need help with self tanner

I want to try self tanner, but I have no idea where to start. From what I gathered, I think a gradual type would work best for me so I don’t go too dark too quick- is that correct? I have olive undertones- is there a kind that would work best for me? I’m also… Continue reading Need help with self tanner

Apparently I’m afraid of men

I was talking to psychologist the other day and telling her that somehow i can’t control these irrational thoughts about my boyfriend leaving or talking to other people and stuff like that, I’ve always thought it’s a direct cause of my anxiety, and maybe it is. My boyfriend is the greatest guy in the world… Continue reading Apparently I’m afraid of men

Did anyone try Veet hair removal cream?

This is the first time I got hair removal cream, I know I should’ve got one for sensitive skin (if there is one) but the store only had the one for normal skin. Did anyone try using it on their crotch? Especially if you have sensitive skin? If so, how did it go? For how… Continue reading Did anyone try Veet hair removal cream?

Can anyone recommend an online shop that sells nice underwear and pajamas?

Best women’s pajama?

Georgia is planning to behave like South Carolina, in killing anyone who’s found of commuting an abortion.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Georgia is planning to behave like South Carolina, in killing anyone who’s found of commuting an abortion.

How do you be a good friend?

Bald girl with bald problems :/ not sure what to do

I’m bald 👩🏻‍🦲 Unfortunately it has been this way for my whole life. I spent many years of my life buying expensive wigs to find one that suits me, I always keep it lowkey because I don’t want anyone to question my hair (so I always order black hair at a regular length). There’re always… Continue reading Bald girl with bald problems :/ not sure what to do

Cooking vacations

Nexplanon Weight Gain

Please someone help! Who’s who?

I don’t want to answer the WHYs here. My ex(P) provided her WhatsApp to me as i did not have any backup of our chats. When I got her WhatsApp, i found out her chats with her ex (H) and according to that chat, she was talking to him even after his marriage. According to… Continue reading Please someone help! Who’s who?

Why are women always wrong?

I was scrolling Instagram and came across two reels. In the first one there was a clip of a woman who nearly escaped a guy following her around and was able to shut the door a split second before he reached near her. A bunch of women commented how this was the reason they’re always… Continue reading Why are women always wrong?

Hair removal

For those who are soft hearted, how do you protect your feelings from being hurt?

Hey, hopeless romantic guy here!😂 I’m gonna say we try reframing the problem first. There’s the problem of other people, and then there’s your own “growth edge” (let’s not say “you have a problem” that’s too harsh). For other people who: actively try to hurt you? Trying to use you/get something from you? I think… Continue reading For those who are soft hearted, how do you protect your feelings from being hurt?

how can i dress feminine and cute? (i have no idea what my size is)

for years I’ve been struggling with an ed which caused extreme body dysmorphia and even though I’m in recovery i still don’t know my size. I’ve been at my biggest body shape an XL and i still wear these clothing even though i sink in these. I’m not sure what my size is, all i… Continue reading how can i dress feminine and cute? (i have no idea what my size is)

My boyfriend left me because he got red pilled

Is it okay to make the first move?

I feel like I turned this guy down by mistake. He basically was asking me what I do if I go out much to which I don’t as I have just opened my first business. So he then said if I ever see you in the pub I will buy you a drink and I… Continue reading Is it okay to make the first move?

Period question: sometimes before I get my period I bleed just a little bit and then it stops until I actually get my period is this normal???

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Period question: sometimes before I get my period I bleed just a little bit and then it stops until I actually get my period is this normal???

Rant

my suggestion/opinion, your bf hangs out with some nasty guys, and if he isnt stepping up to protect your dignity and privacy, he isn’t worth it. This seems like at some point, him and his buddies might try something on you, I hope you get what I mean. I would leave this situation as soon… Continue reading Rant

Did your man change?

weird nexplanon symptoms??

Hey, I’m on my third nexplanon implant, and while I don’t get periods, I get cramps and spotting a couple of times a year. The spotting is brown or clotty, and the cramps are fucking awful. It usually happens when I’m super stressed or has also happened after long haul flights. Once or twice I’ve… Continue reading weird nexplanon symptoms??

I created a group for women owned businesses

Does Bio oil work?

What are some useful, comfy apps that I can use as a woman?

Hi everyone! I recently deleted my instagram because it had a negative impact on me. So I’m looking for apps that are useful to women in some way. Maybe apps related to journaling, self care, little games or some of your random comfort apps which are useful to you in any way. Maybe they help… Continue reading What are some useful, comfy apps that I can use as a woman?

Warning: scummy ‘boys’ again

Does anyone have experience with Norethisterone (Norcolut/Sunolut)?

What do you crave before/during your period?

When was your first time being catcalled?

How to get your drawn eyebrows even?

How to relieve UTI pain?

Color-correcting cream for menopausal skin?

I know there are subreddits for skincare, but I feel comfortable as a longtime member of this group. ☺️ Despite trying to take good care of my skin after menopause, time, Scandinavian genes, & winter are taking their toll! My skin looks rough. Serums and moisturizer isn’t enough to keep me from feeling self-conscious when… Continue reading Color-correcting cream for menopausal skin?

Do you feel like if you do not have kids or have chosen to not have kids that other women treat you differently?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Do you feel like if you do not have kids or have chosen to not have kids that other women treat you differently?

How do I stop comparing myself to other women?

I never really struggled with confidence before in my life. I accept myself as I am and I refuse to change my appearance or personality for others but lately I’ve been feeling depressed and judging myself about my body. I keep seeing beautiful women on social media and irl with big boobs and butt, embracing… Continue reading How do I stop comparing myself to other women?

How to tell a girl/lady about her bra strap?

Your post and comments screamed “Indian” lol. If you’re a man, it’s better you don’t mention it at all. We can mostly sense it when the strap is out. If we haven’t adjusted it, it’s simply coz we are not bothered, so you shouldn’t be bothered either. If you’re a woman you can simply signal… Continue reading How to tell a girl/lady about her bra strap?

Pasties

I’m really struggling with mood swings during my period these days, and it’s worse than it used to be. Can you suggest any ways to manage this?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I’m really struggling with mood swings during my period these days, and it’s worse than it used to be. Can you suggest any ways to manage this?

Hypothetical If all male dominated governments around the world decided to go full taliban on us would we be screwed?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Hypothetical If all male dominated governments around the world decided to go full taliban on us would we be screwed?

Does anyone here have a cum fetish?

Why am I called attention seeking by men when I post anything sexual or not even that online?

Is it an insecurity thing? It feels like no matter what I say or post online I get called attention seeking. Eg I am in a Simpsons meme group and post sexual memes. This in turn gets me the constant attention seeking comments. Yet if a guy posts something sexual he’s usually praised by others… Continue reading Why am I called attention seeking by men when I post anything sexual or not even that online?

Sometimes I think it would be easier if I was a lesbian.

Does violence and confrontations scare you?

Why do some women strongly refuse to get their pap smears or to go see a gynecologist?

I’m mostly the type of person that’s scared of having something found that is really bad and not being able to do anything about it. When I was scheduled for a pap, my GP was going to perform it. He is a man. I felt awkward about it. Not so much because he’s a man… Continue reading Why do some women strongly refuse to get their pap smears or to go see a gynecologist?

Why do I find men with high-pitched voices annoying?

Every man I have met with a high-pirched voice I have found annoying for one reason or another. There was this one guy and his friend in high school, both had high-pitched voices for boys, and they just WOULD NOT SHUT UP. Like ffs, they had no sense of boundaries. One of them would touch… Continue reading Why do I find men with high-pitched voices annoying?

Birth control?

how to tell is my bf is future faking or being serious

i do admit that i have trust issues, and it’s not like we have been dating long enough to move onto the serious parts of life like marriage or living together. but we’ve talked about all of it. all aspects. my issue is that i’ve started to get red flags between us and i want… Continue reading how to tell is my bf is future faking or being serious

Hair growth?

Are men on average really that much stronger than us physically?

I’ve never been in a fight or dangerous situation that required me to fight off an attacker thankfully so I’m fairly naive to the full strength of guys. All I know is biologically they tend to have more muscles Mass due to testosterone and stuff but is that really that big of a deal? Surely… Continue reading Are men on average really that much stronger than us physically?

Best comeback lines to common online sexist insults?

Ie. The usual make a a sandwich, stfu whre, THOT, Know your place Btch etc. Im terrible at witty comebacks and I’d love to stick it to these pos.

Am I the only person who gets extremely strong migraines days before their period?

Yesterday and early this morning it was a nightmare for me.Usually when I have strong headaches, I throw up a lot.I wouldn’t say it happens every month precisely but I notice that when it happens it’s usually very close to when my period returns.It’s so awful, yesterday I had a medicine to stop the throwing… Continue reading Am I the only person who gets extremely strong migraines days before their period?

When we talk our hearts out during periods, stop thinking of it as “hormonal talk”.

Women excel at mood swings and agree that it’s past the point where, during the time of PMS and periods, they can’t keep things to themselves and burst out. Stop weaving it into hormonal conversation and simply ask, “Do you want chocolate or ice cream?” Be a real human, talk, and let them express themselves!

Why do some men insult women during video games?

I think that some men (the men who would insult women) are devoid of contact with females in real life, and know little abouth them, so they just try to cath their attention by doing cringe things like insulting, as they often are only able to see women as a breeding partner. If we think… Continue reading Why do some men insult women during video games?

Difference Between Jealousy And When Something Is Not Right

Hello! Well I have recently checked on my ex on social media (I know… I know) and something made me think, not onoy about him but also for future relationships. Ge told me he doesn’t use social media but in fact he uses facebook quite a lot. For some reason he never wanted to add… Continue reading Difference Between Jealousy And When Something Is Not Right

I never feel attracted to any of the men I meet?

first time user contraceptive

Menstrual Health

Your menstrual health is like a monthly report card of your overall health. Common root causes of period problems like imbalanced blood sugar, a lack of nutrients, chronic stress, poor sleep habits, and overexposure to toxins are also root causes of many chronic health issues like heart disease, cognitive degeneration, and cancer. Signs of these… Continue reading Menstrual Health

Women of Reddit, what men do makes you not to love being a woman?

Girls, listen up.

There are three topics I see too much on here and it’s abuse, being creeped on and asking about vagina smell. It breaks my heart to hear how many women are going through these things and I want to say something to all of you. Abuse If a man is hitting you, it’s abuse. If… Continue reading Girls, listen up.

What are your best tips to get a guy to fall for you?

Is there a safe way i can shave my arms?

But if genders would be reversed

those men comment about men’s abuse under posts about women’s abuse. Like if they really care about they could just use their own platform to bring awareness. A great way of shutting them down and derailing their attempts to derail the conversation is to play into exactly this: Women have problems X and Y So… Continue reading But if genders would be reversed

I just had to scariest vagina experience I’ve had yet

I noticed I was feeling a sharp and really uncomfortable pain in my clit. I ignored it for a bit until I got concerned so I pulled down my panties and looked down. Couldn’t see anything wrong. I was about to get up and shrug it off but I felt another sharp pain until I… Continue reading I just had to scariest vagina experience I’ve had yet

How do you know that your period is about to start?

Masturbation tips?

I know this isn’t a sexual space, and I wouldnt call this a NSFW post. If you see it as such, click off and enjoy your day. I am a woman and I have trouble with masturbation without a vibrator. For some reason the idea of putting fingers in my own vagina is a complete… Continue reading Masturbation tips?

Would you ask your SO if they are kinda annoyed/disappointed by the fact that you are “ugly“?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Would you ask your SO if they are kinda annoyed/disappointed by the fact that you are “ugly“?

Women who wears Pad, how do you sleep on your side?

I’m scared I won’t be able to keep anyone.

I’m not impressed with your boyfriend, OP. I don’t know how somebody can be sexual with somebody that they know doesn’t want to be sexual. As if that isn’t problematic enough, he’s displacing his fears and insecurity onto you, despite you reassuring him that your lack of libido is nothing to do with loss of… Continue reading I’m scared I won’t be able to keep anyone.

Does period blood SMELL?

Period blood can have various smells, from light metallic to a more pungent one, depending on the pH balance, healthy bacteria and more. That doesn’t mean that the blood is “impure” or “dirty”. It just smells different because when it comes in contact with the air and microbiome of the vagina, it can react with… Continue reading Does period blood SMELL?

How should one even feel?

Let’s not pretend like we all didn’t reap smut on Watt-pad, the question is what is the new adult update?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Let’s not pretend like we all didn’t reap smut on Watt-pad, the question is what is the new adult update?

Lost my sex drive

Libido wanes when not in a relationship. When people are having regular sex in a relationship, their libido tends to stay consistent, notwithstanding other factors that can reduce libido. You say that you’re all about affection. It sounds like your libido is directly connected to affection. As you’re currently single, you don’t have any affection.… Continue reading Lost my sex drive

I don’t feel feminine

What does it feel like to want children and end up not having them ?

Upset wife!

I, many a times, listen to my wife whenever she suggests me something or passes a critic and I try and implement it in my life. When I do the same, she hates it and doesn’t appreciate the fact of me pointing it out and then she turns upset which ruins our remainder of the… Continue reading Upset wife!

Why have women started to film themselves in the gym?

Why have women started to film themselves in gyms… and why does the internet continuously feel the need to recommend me this content? As a man I can say that I have never once considered filming myself in a gym because I never thought that it had anything to do with going to the gym.… Continue reading Why have women started to film themselves in the gym?

My face feels weird

As I’m getting older I’ve gained a few hairs on my chin. They’ve been there a few years, i remove them obviously. Recently I’ve noticed that the area they populate is slightly raised compared to the rest of my chin. It might make sense if the hairs are bulking the area out. But it also… Continue reading My face feels weird

Women who have shaved their head – how was the response at work, and how did you handle it?

There’s a lot of reasons someone might shave their head… health problems, in solidarity with a friend, or just convenience! I really doubt they’d say anything besides that they like it or something, and if they do pry, maybe just have some kind of cute answer ready lol Rose McGowan talks about how Hollywood treated… Continue reading Women who have shaved their head – how was the response at work, and how did you handle it?

How do I look up someone’s criminal history before dating

My vagina smells like fruity garlic?

Why can’t I relate to romantic movies even if I’m happy with my relationship?

Maybe you don’t need to watch it because you’re already getting everything you need in that regard in real life? A lot of media consumption is to satisfy a psychological need; horny people watch porn or read cliterature – it’s pretty rare that people who are feeling completely sexually satisfied right at that moment decide… Continue reading Why can’t I relate to romantic movies even if I’m happy with my relationship?

Does anyone feel weird before their birthday?

I feel stupid

Conquering fear of walking home alone?

I, as most here I’m sure can be understandably paranoid when walking home alone. But even though my walk path is fairly safe that fear is always there and it really eats at me. Is there anyway of conquering it? To tell my instincts it’s a safe well lit path and I should be ok?… Continue reading Conquering fear of walking home alone?

How fix acidic discharge stains

how are thongs comfortable?

Vitex/Chaste Berry

Work out

Starting a Feminine box for work

Lovely idea. I used to do this and had a unisex box as we all shared one toilet regardless of differences. I would also keep a range of products that are masculine and feminine and found my colleges would be leaving their own stuff to share after a while. Pads, cologne, perfume, tampons, the travel… Continue reading Starting a Feminine box for work

Self appreciation time!!!

Nothing happened, nobody said anything but I just had an amazing shower and came out feeling special and giving myself compliments. Ladies what do you love about yourselves??? I love my beautiful soulful eyes I got from my mom and passed down to my daughter. My melanin skin My ability to try and see the… Continue reading Self appreciation time!!!

Can I use a flat iron yes or no?!

Is a flat iron safe on Brazilian blow out treated hair?! Omg google literally won’t answer this question. Can I take a flat iron to my hair after its been brazilian blow out treated? I showered once with Maria Nilla which is supposedly sulfate and phosphate free but now my hair is frizzy again 💀… Continue reading Can I use a flat iron yes or no?!

Are there really no adult magazines for hetero women? (ala Playgirl)

Hey ladies, why do some women prefer men with no previous homosexual history?

Will we ever have a non patriarchal society

What kind of girly/aesthetic lists do you like to read?

I made a TikTok account a few days ago and have been posting slideshow style videos related to anything girly or aesthetically pleasing like romance, fashion, food, life goals, etc. I’d really like some inspiration for lists or groups of photos I can make videos for 😊 If anyone has any suggestions I’d love to… Continue reading What kind of girly/aesthetic lists do you like to read?

I don’t know what to do about this UTI, pls help!

I’m not sure what I’m looking for, maybe just someone to tell me to chill out and calm down, I don’t know. But I have had a UTI for about a month and a half now. I had been taking an antibiotic every time I had sex for prevention but I still got one. So… Continue reading I don’t know what to do about this UTI, pls help!

anyone with chronic UTIs ever try Happy V?

Is there a way to make your periods come early?

How come I’m not seeing a romantic movie where the guy is upset and the girl is the one who have to explain herself to the guy?

Most of the time the misunderstanding revolves around an upset girl and the guy is the “let me explain” victim. The girl leaves and take away their kids and the guy is all alone. The guy later explains the situation and apologizes. How come I’m not seeing the opposite? I mean it would be great… Continue reading How come I’m not seeing a romantic movie where the guy is upset and the girl is the one who have to explain herself to the guy?

Can you sign this petition to ban an OBGYN in Missouri who openly promotes FGM?

Please sign this/share. As a global public health major, I know that FGM is rampant in many African countries as well as certain Asian countries as well. I always thought it was common sense for all doctors to be against it, and it’s an issue that does not really touch the United States. I was… Continue reading Can you sign this petition to ban an OBGYN in Missouri who openly promotes FGM?

Had a little one last year and I’ve (finally) gone back to pre-preggers weight.

had s*x and condom broke???

It’s so hard to not compare myself to my friend

We used to be close but we’ve kinda drifted but she’s still in my sorta inner circle of friends. I don’t have a bad word to say about her, she has never done anything wrong but I’m starting to feel so crap now. Everyone I like prefers her and chooses her over me and I’m… Continue reading It’s so hard to not compare myself to my friend

going on a date for the first time ever. looking for advice.

i have a date in two days and i felt fine until my insecurities start to hit me all of a sudden out of no where. for some context i have never ever been on a date before because i grew up UGLY. i was the short fat sister and friend and i was invisible… Continue reading going on a date for the first time ever. looking for advice.

Why am I secretly embarrassed and afraid to admit that I know I’m beautiful and successful? Do you ever feel that way? I feel alone.

I feel embarrassed to even ask that question, but please read for context. Why do I feel judged, bad and guilty for being aware of my beauty around other people even if I spread kindness? Why do I feel like I need to pretend I’m “not that pretty” around some people even when I’m actually… Continue reading Why am I secretly embarrassed and afraid to admit that I know I’m beautiful and successful? Do you ever feel that way? I feel alone.

What do you think about Finding Eco-Friendly Options for a Better Night’s Rest?

Hi, fellow fashion lovers and eco-conscious individuals! As someone who has always been passionate about fashion, I’m also becoming increasingly aware of how our clothing choices can impact the environment. Today I am sharing with you my latest discovery in the world of sustainable and eco-friendly sleepwear. Have you heard of the multi-purpose loungewear label… Continue reading What do you think about Finding Eco-Friendly Options for a Better Night’s Rest?

Can I put a tampon in when I’m not on my period “just incase” I do

How do you know that a guy is in love with you?

I’m A Saudi Girl AMA

The amount of people who support Andrew Tate is scary

I’ve heard this guy say some truly horrible stuff about women, then try to pass it off as a joke, “facts don’t care about feelings”, or “if you don’t like it its because it’s true”. Like maybe I don’t like it because the shit he says is stereotyping and just blatantly misogynistic? Was watching a… Continue reading The amount of people who support Andrew Tate is scary

What did u do after college? All my Friends all moved out of state.

Self defense/staying safe in public places

Hi everyone, I had a weird incident over the weekend where a man followed me into the women’s bathroom at a bar. He would not leave and stood outside the stall waiting for me for quite a while. I fortunately had my phone and was able to call my boyfriend who was in the bar… Continue reading Self defense/staying safe in public places

Motherhood

Wow I was literally just thinking the same thing while lying in bed just now! Edit: I just wanted to expand bc I’m in the same boat. I have been with someone that I am considering marrying and potentially starting a family with. But there are some serious financial considerations that I need to be… Continue reading Motherhood

Does anyone else find it so frustrating being a woman??

I don’t know if it’s from the childhood I had or if it’s just the experience of growing up as a woman that makes me feel this way. I’m a passionate young woman but i’m so upset that i’m a woman. Not only am I a woman but i’m a small one. My body isn’t… Continue reading Does anyone else find it so frustrating being a woman??

What can I do to make myself feel better?

I overheard my brother say “small breast women aren’t real women”

How do you get out of a sad birthday funk?

What do I do?????

I’m lesbian. I’m Teaching myself self defense and wondering this: So, if a male friend or reasonable male human were to ask me out, I would probably say something like “Sorry, I’m gay.” I know women who tell cat callers they have a boyfriend. I considered telling cat callers I’m lesbian, but do you think… Continue reading What do I do?????

Can a certain person cause you to have UTIs?

I have struggled with reoccurring UTIs and I’m assuming I inherited this from my mom. But I have noticed I get them specifically with my partner. He showers daily and even when I’m showering with him and actually seeing him wash everything, I’ll still get them after we have sex. I’ve tried buying other types… Continue reading Can a certain person cause you to have UTIs?

I feel like I need to spray perfume several times throughout the day for it to be noticeable?

I don’t know if this is the right subreddit for this topic, so my apologies if it isn’t. Like I mentioned in the title, the smell of my perfume almost never lingers on. At first I thought that I just got used to the smell and didn’t notice it myself anymore, but I’ve recently asked… Continue reading I feel like I need to spray perfume several times throughout the day for it to be noticeable?

Americans: You can order abortion pills to have on hand before becoming pregnant. Everyone needs to do it.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Americans: You can order abortion pills to have on hand before becoming pregnant. Everyone needs to do it.

Best way to get our attention

Does anyone else have awful skin on their period?

Why do married women / engaged women put their Snapchat in their IG bio?

I respectfully disagree, I believe this is to stroke her ego and go behind her fiancé to get compliments from other men, then playing the “sweet little angel” card and grandstanding, who else is going to add her Snapchat, really? She knows that guys will add her and she knows they will keep adding her,… Continue reading Why do married women / engaged women put their Snapchat in their IG bio?

Im done shaving my legs and pits

I did what you’re not supposed to and got into an argument on the internet. Basically a boy saying “women shave to impress men”. It burns me up so badly. No. I shave to avoid conflict from men. Strange males have stared and YELLED AT ME in the past, IN PUBLIC, for looking a certain… Continue reading Im done shaving my legs and pits

Anus thingies

Why don’t women space out?

I’m seeing a lot of posts and comments on Reddit and stuff about how their partner constantly like stares a blank stare off into the distance with a bad (sometimes) expression until they snap out of it and it turns out they were just thinking something random like how many crocodiles it would take to… Continue reading Why don’t women space out?

you cis women all got an issue with trans women and that’s okay

Women in Antarctica face assault and harassment – and a legacy of exclusion and mistreatment

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women in Antarctica face assault and harassment – and a legacy of exclusion and mistreatment

Shyness – Folks who were shy at a young age, or still are, who or what shook you out of that phase?

Context: There’s a girl in my program, she’s shy. The facilitator was asking for volunteers to do a scenario. I was sitting behind this girl and I saw her meekly raise her hand to volunteer, but the facilitator didn’t see it and chose someone else. I’m not interested in diagnosing or speculating. I want to… Continue reading Shyness – Folks who were shy at a young age, or still are, who or what shook you out of that phase?

PMS severe fatigue – help?

So, I’ve been having severe fatigue on the week between ovulation and menstruation for YEARS now. Since the middle of my teenage years. For context, I have had hormonal problems in the beginning of my teens and had to go to surgery to remove dangerous cysts from my ovaries, which led to a little bit… Continue reading PMS severe fatigue – help?

I used to have dimples of Venus and now they’re gone? Have I turned fat or skinnier?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I used to have dimples of Venus and now they’re gone? Have I turned fat or skinnier?

When planning a trip what steps do you take first?

In my family I’m the trip planner, organizer, events coordinator, computer agent all wrapped up in one. Lol. What steps do you take for your travels? Plane first? Hotel? Location? Also as a woman I’ve never traveled alone. I’m looking to change that this year so If you have any tips on that it’d be… Continue reading When planning a trip what steps do you take first?

Who else has had a uterine ablation done? Thoughts?

In a week I will be going to my first gynaecologist’s appointment, I need advice!

I am having my first gynaecologist’s appointment in about a week and I am super nervous about it 🥺. I feel uncomfortable about doing this, but I don’t have a choice and I know it’s important for my health. Cam you tell me a little bit about what happens in this appointments and how this… Continue reading In a week I will be going to my first gynaecologist’s appointment, I need advice!

nipple randomly gets hard.

How do you guys feel about your man following instagram models and porn stars?

Ended things with this guy for multiple reasons but the last straw was him following so many instagram models who are practically naked and a lot of pornstars + and him having an onlyfans where he subscribes to a lot of these females. Makes me feel like shit about my body and overall myself, like… Continue reading How do you guys feel about your man following instagram models and porn stars?

Does everyone feel disgusting during their period?

What are some great feminist books to read or what are some great feminist books you have read!

Hi everyone my Current gf wanted me to read a feminist book this year and i have looked around a bit but nothing has caught my eye do any of you have any recommendations on some really good femenist literature. (Trying to make my GF happy and I might learn a few things who knows)

Hello there… I am a harmless (nonathletic) transgender women and I have a question for cis gender women only. What if we (transwomen) were still allowed to compete and play in women’s competitive sports only we would just forfeit our victory and scores. Let me explain…

…this would both acknowledge that, yes, transgender women, in particular, can sometimes have an unfair physical advantage, while in the same instant, it would acknowledge that there is a place for transgender women amongst their cis-gender counterparts in fun, and fair play. I fully comprehend how this could not be applied to team sports but… Continue reading Hello there… I am a harmless (nonathletic) transgender women and I have a question for cis gender women only. What if we (transwomen) were still allowed to compete and play in women’s competitive sports only we would just forfeit our victory and scores. Let me explain…

Do you have Menstrual leave at your workplace?

I feel resentment and hatred when I think about how one day I could possibly be pregnant .

I’m never going to let myself get pregnant and have kids, and I couldn’t be happier for it! It’s not for everyone, and it comes with taking massive Ls and facing possible serious trauma or death. And tbh, this world ain’t all that safe or deserving of most kids. It’s Hellish here. And with climate… Continue reading I feel resentment and hatred when I think about how one day I could possibly be pregnant .

When biological women get defensive we’re suddenly transphobic.

I’ve noticed a new wave of transgender activism where I’m seeing a lot of claims of trans women experiencing period cramps, saying they can breastfeed, get pregnant, etc. we all know biologically that is impossible. However when biological women speak up and say how it’s impossible for them to experience these things suddenly we’re transphobic.… Continue reading When biological women get defensive we’re suddenly transphobic.

Men… why?

Help with men?

essay prompt

I just ended a friendship with a good friend of mine because I got to know he was a raging sexist.

I and this guy had been good friends for a while now. We had so many similarities, our personalities matched so well and he quickly became my best friend. We had the same sense of humor and we really loved spending time together. Recently I got to know that he is a Huge Andrew Tate… Continue reading I just ended a friendship with a good friend of mine because I got to know he was a raging sexist.

Am I overthinking this?

For those that wax, how do you manage summer or when you wear swimsuit? I get about a week and a bit of clean legs but then hair grows back. Much finer than with shaving but still. With summer coming up I’ve been curious how I’m supposed to manage this while wearing shorts/dress without feeling… Continue reading Am I overthinking this?

How many people here would be up for filling out a survey to learn what truly makes women happy?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading How many people here would be up for filling out a survey to learn what truly makes women happy?

Have you switched to organic period care yet?

I recently discovered there is such a thing as “organic pads”. I’ve been using the ones my mom used to buy me and they used to cause so much rashes but I thought they were normal as I’m not used to using them. I’m exploring new brands of organic period care products now to see… Continue reading Have you switched to organic period care yet?

Women Who Stay Single and Don’t Have Kids Are Getting Richer Forgoing marriage and parenthood has a bigger payoff for American women than men, according to new research.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women Who Stay Single and Don’t Have Kids Are Getting Richer Forgoing marriage and parenthood has a bigger payoff for American women than men, according to new research.

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How to get my identity back while in a relationship?

I hope others can relate, every time I’m in a long term relationship I lose myself in the other person and kind of forget who I am. My hobbies, myself, everything. Lately with a deep depression, I gained some weight, and I don’t do anything personal or nice for myself that I used to like… Continue reading How to get my identity back while in a relationship?

Are you listening to your body today?

Baby fever

Heart break.

Wholesome Appreciation Post Regarding Hair Types

I have a friend who I see every other week or so. She’s super pretty, and her hair is absolutely stunning. It’s thick and heavy and long, and she puts it in these beautiful braids and such. It always looks like it’s in a shampoo commercial. We’re not super close, but we’re friends. I’m insecure… Continue reading Wholesome Appreciation Post Regarding Hair Types

how many bruises do you ALWAYSS have at once?

Best response to male customers being condescending?

I work in Customer Service/Hospitality in a predominantly male industry.Looking for good responses to the condescending “Sweetheart/honey/darling”I am not referring to the older generation who mainly use it as a pet name.I am referring to the younger pricks who say things like “oh sweetheart, you couldn’t possibly help me with that”“When does your husband get… Continue reading Best response to male customers being condescending?

Embarrassed by crying

How do you stay productive on your period?

First of all, I would say your laziness is affecting your grades (unless it is otherwise). I’d reframe your mind to think about it as your period may affect your grades. Secondly, I had horrible horrible periods and went on birth control. It’s not for everyone. But if you’re able to talk to a dr… Continue reading How do you stay productive on your period?

Where am I supposed to go if my gyno can’t get me in?

I think I have an STI, or yeast infection, or UTI but I don’t know. I already have an appointment at the CVS minute clinic this afternoon to get tested but I feel like I’d have more peace of mind if a Dr actually looked at my ~area~ , but where can I go for… Continue reading Where am I supposed to go if my gyno can’t get me in?

#ما بردیم

What is the best part about being a women in your opinion?👀

How to deal with PMS?

To all the older single women

How technology has improved women healthcare system?

How can I stop being jealous of friendships and relationships

Today, I watched a woman friend tell another friend that she was pregnant. She had ample opportunity to tell me as well, but she didn’t. I was in another area when I overheard them. I know that I cannot control my friendship with myself and that woman. However, I just want to stop feeling jealous.… Continue reading How can I stop being jealous of friendships and relationships

Boyfriend made strange comment

It seems your boyfriend is either being particularly understanding, and doesn’t see a drunken kiss as cheating or worth ending a relationship over, or he possibly kissed some women in a club, is afraid you might find out, and is trying to soften the blow by telling you that if it was the other way… Continue reading Boyfriend made strange comment

Hanging out with a guy friend? Do you still do this?

I’ve had plenty platonic male friend that have never made advances towards me and even now in my relationship, I have maintained those friendships but with a bit of even more distance. (Literally moved from FL to NY) and even here I am making male friends that I have introduced to my partner. Just say… Continue reading Hanging out with a guy friend? Do you still do this?

Are you real

Roles of women in Fantasy/Action Movies

Yesterday I wanted to watch some fantasy action movie, I was really excited about it, but after half an hour I stopped. It’s one of those movies where there is like only one woman who plays an important role. And the whole reason why this role is female, is that this character can fall in… Continue reading Roles of women in Fantasy/Action Movies

Dating

General discussion

I am a girl, is it weird that I like being called names like “handsome” “prince” “pretty boy” and etc?

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Is it creepy to ask a guy you know for pictures of his biceps?

To all women if its ok for women to have criticism about men, is it OK for men to have criticism about women ?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading To all women if its ok for women to have criticism about men, is it OK for men to have criticism about women ?

I hate men

I don’t know what it is about them, but I just really hate men. I’ve never held a friendship with a man and I don’t think I ever can. I don’t like being around guys, I don’t like being near them, sitting next to them etc. I’ll actively avoid making contact with them, even with… Continue reading I hate men

I put together a collection of common characteristics of rapists for the r/stoprape wiki; thought y’all might appreciate it, too!

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Struggle to ‘o’ Any advise?

It’s not a doctor thing… I struggle too but it’s really because I’m thinking too much during sex.. even if I fiddle with the clit during sex it would take me years to finally come because I’m thinking too much “I need to come now, it’s been too long” ” he’s obviously super tired, look… Continue reading Struggle to ‘o’ Any advise?

I have r*pe fantasies is that wrong?

Why do women deny they have forced sex fantasies?

I’m going to ignore your ‘I’m trans’ comment. You have a penis, so you’re a fucking man. Not only are you continuing to try to justify your ‘all women fantasize about being raped’ comment, you’re also delusional. 😂 Literally NO woman wants to be raped. Not everything you read on the internet is true and… Continue reading Why do women deny they have forced sex fantasies?

How come people think that male mental health is overlooked, when in fact, women are the ones left behind?

You are not on Reddit if you haven’t seen a post about “male mental health and how it affects men”. Well first, no one cared about anyone’s mental health until very recently. In my observation, the first steps and conversations about mental health importance started only a decade ago. Secondly, all I literally see is… Continue reading How come people think that male mental health is overlooked, when in fact, women are the ones left behind?

I’m looking for good rings for self defense. Not brass knuckles but something that will work similarly

I carry pepper spray and a knife with me everywhere but I always hear that when you really get into a bad situation people don’t have time to get their pepper spray before it’s too late. I’ve been trying to think of ways I could just be more ready at any moment. I’m already planning… Continue reading I’m looking for good rings for self defense. Not brass knuckles but something that will work similarly

is anyone else (especially plus sized women) sort of tired of men?

I don’t think tired is really the right word but I can’t really think of anything atm. Anyways I feel like me and my friend get called fat everywhere we go and it’s NEVER been from a women. there’s been several men in my life who have said so much idiotic and misogynistic things; I’m… Continue reading is anyone else (especially plus sized women) sort of tired of men?

Help finding a comfortable bra to solve back pain

Hello, I’m currently trying to help my friend to find a comfortable bra, she have big breast and she thinks that this is the reason why she have back pains. She don’t use bra because she says that is very annoying and uncomfortable ble, but I am sure that there is maybe a specific bra… Continue reading Help finding a comfortable bra to solve back pain

I’m a female. Are these normal feelings for me to have as a woman?

For me, I sometimes forget the fact I wasn’t born male. My mom told me not to get pregnant and I was confused as to how this would be humanly possible until I remembered I was born female. When I had longer hair, I looked in the mirror a few times and saw myself as… Continue reading I’m a female. Are these normal feelings for me to have as a woman?

I have a white bump on the inside of my flaps. Is this normal?

Does this happen to you too??

Did you move to another country alone?

How do you handle period cramps?

Heating pads and midol. I normally take ibuprofen, it’s just what I have around the house, but sometimes it just doesn’t do the trick. It might be a placebo, where I think midol just works better than generic ibuprofen, but I’ll take it. Heating pads works wonders for my cramps. I also stay away from… Continue reading How do you handle period cramps?

is this guy a red flag?? Help!

So I have been talking to this guy for a week and we were having a good conversation. But recently he asked me if he could send photos and ask me how good looking he is. I thought that was a little weird but I said okay. Then he asks me what I love about… Continue reading is this guy a red flag?? Help!

i feel embarrassed going to the gym :(

Can’t get a date… that’s OK, sue the woman

Please sign my petition to the UK government to age rate music videos

Subreddit where women don’t downvote other women into oblivion for having a respectful difference in opinion? Like a really inclusive space for women? I’m an analytical type and that doesn’t always jive with the hive minds. TIA 😊

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Hi, I want to know how gender plays a role in your workplace or home

Help leaving abusive marriage

Sometimes I Feel Like I Have no Identity

One thing I can tell you about who you are is that you can create it! It’s not some passive thing that comes to you, you can decide who you want to be. Take note of things that interest you, rather that be reading, dancing, art, games, sports, shows, music, learning, travel, humanitarianism, there’s so… Continue reading Sometimes I Feel Like I Have no Identity

The days before getting a period are the worst

Valentine’s Day ideas for men

I don’t know how long you guys have been together but does he have an established space (even just a little drawer or something) in your place? When I had a LDR I eventually cleared out a set of drawers for him and filled them with the things he’d left behind and some extra treats,… Continue reading Valentine’s Day ideas for men

Can I simply put Veet hair removal cream in my bathwater?

Accidental Chest Binding

I don’t necessarily need advice I’m just kinda wanting to know if anyone has done this. I’m not trans. Anytime I look this up I get “how to bind your chest properly”. As an adolescent, when most girls were developing, I wasn’t. Out of embarrassment and the want to look like the other girls I… Continue reading Accidental Chest Binding

Gilead and Roe vs. Wade

The overturning of Roe vs. Wade has been weighing heavy on my mind, and after finishing the first two seasons of “The Handmaid’s Tale”, it’s impossible for me not to draw parallels between the fictional world of Gilead and the direction our own country is heading in. The conservative majority in the Supreme Court has… Continue reading Gilead and Roe vs. Wade

I know it sounds weird, but I’m scared of women

Feeling suicidal around my period ?!? Am I alone ?

Do I bother getting a pregnancy test?

Tips on fasting?

Would women be interested in this?

Hi ladies! Thanks for allowing me and your exclusive sub here. I had a business idea. I wanted to see if women would be interested in this. So, I’m a happily married man, but a few times a year I will frequent a strip club, judge me if you will but sometimes I just need… Continue reading Would women be interested in this?

Question: I’m having an IUD put in – I’ve heard it can be painful – should I take the next day off work?

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What is normal vaginal discharge for you?

I feel like vaginal discharge is something that isn’t often spoken about so I wanted to gain some perspective. I did some research online and found that white or clear discharge is normal but I feel like mine is sometimes slightly off white/creamy? I’ve been monitoring my discharge more recently as I’m a bit paranoid… Continue reading What is normal vaginal discharge for you?

The truth behind period, poverty and planet

There’s a lot of cultural shame and stigma attached to menstruating individuals. The stigma that shrouds periods further prevents individuals from talking about them. Period poverty is the lack of access to sanitary products, menstrual hygiene education, toilets, handwashing facilities, or waste management. Women living in poverty are extremely vulnerable. Also, living in conflict-affected areas… Continue reading The truth behind period, poverty and planet

The most influential women in sport?

Do any of you worry about not being beautiful enough for your kids?

Best pad I’ve used for my periods so far!

A few months ago I started using Whisper’s XXL+ Koala soft ones (black cover). Idk if they have some special name for those but you’ll find it if you google it. It doesn’t have the weird plasticky feel to it and feels really good. Its really long and I only use it for the first… Continue reading Best pad I’ve used for my periods so far!

When to ignore a man’s past?

Pros: he was upfront about his past Cons: you’re uncomfortable with that past Neutral/ Need More Info: the boarding situation I’m the end, he can be the best guy in the world, but if this is going to bother you long term, y’all might just not be right for each other, no matter how ‘good’… Continue reading When to ignore a man’s past?

After a misunderstanding clash between a couple. If a women say leave her alone, dont talk or reach her out. Does it really means that?

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do plastic applicator tampons hurt less?

For me, it was super difficult to insert tampons in the beginning. Using the applicator definitely eased the process – nowadays I can do it without but in my experience, I think it had something to do with the dryness/getting a feel for it. Fingers and the applicator don’t hurt. The tampon doesn’t hurt me… Continue reading do plastic applicator tampons hurt less?

Help! Then vs Now

I’m having an issues and I’m scared

How can I get back into the dating world?

I’m concerned that my younger sister hasnt pooped in an alarming amount of time

Ladies, how did you become more confident?

Take with this what you will, and remember no two couples are the same. It has nothing to do with confidence, and everything to do with facing self esteem and insecurities. So as HARD as this sounds, you just have to not care. I know that sounds kinda shitty lol. So listen, your partner is… Continue reading Ladies, how did you become more confident?

Would you let a non passing trans woman use the ladies change room?

I would be uncomfortable, tbh, and I’m sorry that’s the case. If you look like a guy then my first thought would probably be that there was a guy in the changing room, so I would go into fight or flight mode (as you might in the same scenario, if a guy walked in on… Continue reading Would you let a non passing trans woman use the ladies change room?

How have y’all gotten out of a slump?

Why do I feel the constant need to prove myself? And how should I manage it?

What do you guys do about gay panic? I am baby bisexual and cry inside every time I see a pretty woman. Full on Eminem “palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are sweating.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What do you guys do about gay panic? I am baby bisexual and cry inside every time I see a pretty woman. Full on Eminem “palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are sweating.

Valentines Day challenge: Focus on you and self love

I have a Valentine challenge to you! Valentines Day is most often associated with the love between to people. I’ve learned recently the importance of self love. So I want to challenge you this Valentines Day to be kind to yourself and show self love. This might mean buying something you’ve had your eye on… Continue reading Valentines Day challenge: Focus on you and self love

I want to get laser hair removal

Helping another woman

Why do women consider it as an achievement of they can get a committed guy to sway??

I mean, of course, the guy is hella lot more responsible than the girl for cheating but I have seen the girls they cheat on with are very happy about it and share the anecdotes as if they have won the lottery. “Oh he was in a relationship with xyz girl but would sext me”… Continue reading Why do women consider it as an achievement of they can get a committed guy to sway??

Getting into a relationship without being in love?

Hello, I am struggeling a lot with something I have been thinking for a while now. I am currently dating a guy (we have been dating for a few weeks now) and he has indicated that he would want to take things a bit further and that he is interested in dating more and getting… Continue reading Getting into a relationship without being in love?

Thoughts on being a Girl’s Girl vs Pick Me?

A Pick Me and a Chill Girl are the same to me. Both are insecure and wants that male validation so badly. Will accept disrespect so she can seem “not like the other girls” and the guys think she’s so easy going because she allows the bs and doesn’t call the guy out on it.… Continue reading Thoughts on being a Girl’s Girl vs Pick Me?

thoughts on andrew tate?

I’ve been told I’m a very passionate person. I don’t know if this is a good or bad thing?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I’ve been told I’m a very passionate person. I don’t know if this is a good or bad thing?

Does anyone else get suicidal on their period?

Georgina Rodríguez

Any advice of pros and cons?

too much hair?

Sexual interactions in Relationships?

So first of all, I’m a virgin & have never been in a relationship, just so that this is clear. I know this question may sound ridiculous, specially because I’m mostly leaning on what I’ve heard from other people or saw in the medias. And it could also be that with actuall experience & a… Continue reading Sexual interactions in Relationships?

I went to the gym.

Anyone business women owner here struggling to grow their business through Google & Fb Ads? I can offer free account audit

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Anyone business women owner here struggling to grow their business through Google & Fb Ads? I can offer free account audit

Lost my chance with a Celebrity ?!

Ladies I met a low key celebrity on a dating app. Turns out he’s only looking for something casual, how unique but anyways. I told him I’m looking for something serious like marriage by the end of the date. Did i fuck it up, should i have taken it slow and then set my boundary.… Continue reading Lost my chance with a Celebrity ?!

New California law

CA now has transparency in pay for job postings. Good! We also passed a law years ago for equivalency in pay for the same jobs. Later, we disallowed companies from asking about prior salary. All of the above, when not done, contribute to preventing women from earning as much as men. This is one of… Continue reading New California law

Do you have two sizes of the same clothing ?

Are most men unhappy in their marriages??

I think most men lack emotional intelligence (mostly due to toxic masculinity and the media they consume) and instead of trying to feed their core need by investing in their relationship, marriage and family when hardships come, they search for easy distraction. The worst part is them refusing to see the truth of their own… Continue reading Are most men unhappy in their marriages??

YouTube is a cesspool

should I leave him over this?

I personally suggest trying to communicate with him one last time about it before breaking up. Tell him how you feel clearly, remind him how patient and supportive you’ve been for him, clarify you’re not going to give him anymore money until he makes some serious financial stability changes, tell him he should at least… Continue reading should I leave him over this?

Where did you get your best bra?

Change starts with you!

Change is not easy. It comes slow, with risks, failures and criticism. And, it is often the fear of those that stops one from taking a step towards change. That first step is the hardest and scariest part of the process because it makes one vulnerable. But, it also opens doors for freedom and great… Continue reading Change starts with you!

Have people ever blamed you if anything goes wrong?

So here is the thing, my parents constantly try to push me to the edge whenever there are guests coming. If I end up making a slight mistake like taking out the wrong dish to serve food or the wrong spoon they would insult me infront of the guests. Even if it comes to ordering… Continue reading Have people ever blamed you if anything goes wrong?

Using adult animated TV for therapeutic/cathartic purposes

Hey all! I’m a writer for a local women’s magazine, and I’m working on a piece that discusses the use of adult animated TV shows to help process difficult life experiences and complex emotional situations, especially against professional therapies often being booked out or too costly. How do women use shows like these to help… Continue reading Using adult animated TV for therapeutic/cathartic purposes

What if I fast during my period so I can avoid rancid period poops?

Women of reddit, what is a good height for your dream guy?

Just curious, what’s it like to have finally found your style?

Not painting my nails as much anymore

Question for women, how would you feel if you found out that men were collecting data entries on you and your friends? Link to discussion for more info

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Question for women, how would you feel if you found out that men were collecting data entries on you and your friends? Link to discussion for more info

How to choose haircare products efficiently

Hello beautiful community! Choosing a skin care routine can be a real challenge – you need to check ingredients carefully, read reviews, etc. It may take several days to make the decision. Therefore I’m creating a product (iOS app) that can help users to find their magical match with skin care products. After taking a… Continue reading How to choose haircare products efficiently

can i get some advice?

What is it called when you bond/ feel connected with someone because they’re sad & you just want to make them happy?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What is it called when you bond/ feel connected with someone because they’re sad & you just want to make them happy?

Male to Female Crossdresser

Becoming head of my women’s group for work and wanted to know your thoughts on what to name my group

So I’m taking over our women’s group for my region. I’ll be doing meetings with them, empowering them etc so it’s to create a safe space for women in a male dominated industry. The industry I work in is building surveying, and I need to come up with a name for our region which is… Continue reading Becoming head of my women’s group for work and wanted to know your thoughts on what to name my group

Help! Trying to find a support page for women only!

How long after waxing your armpits did your hair grow back?

IUD

It will show up. Any billed apt with your dr would appear as a claim to your insurance. Just use condoms, make sure they are in date because they can expire. IUD’s hurt like hell when they are placed and mine gave me horrible migraines. When I had the Mirena I ended up having a… Continue reading IUD

Are period panties worth it?

Can anyone relate to their top body half and bottom body half feeling like two different bodies?

(Posting here since it doesn’t allow me to post in body image or any related threads?) I’ve always obsessed over my lower body namely my thighs being disproportionally huge compared to the rest of my body. I would stand in front of the mirror and cover up one half with my hand and imaginatively draw… Continue reading Can anyone relate to their top body half and bottom body half feeling like two different bodies?

How to keep doing what makes you feel feminine, but aren’t crucial to day-to-day life.

I am dealing with chronic pain, swollen joints… things that are preventing me from doing something as simple as shaving my legs. Has anyone experienced this and were there any solutions? I am on my own and do not have anyone I can ask for assistance. I don’t want to give it all up, I… Continue reading How to keep doing what makes you feel feminine, but aren’t crucial to day-to-day life.

Birth Control Question

I dont want to be by myself but sometimes I just feel I wont find a good man to be my partner

It just seems like many men just dont care about women or what they need and want in a relationship. I have experience from abuse with a person who just never ever cared what I wanted,and everything revolved around them. It drained me and ruined me,now I feel I cant ever trust anyones intentions for… Continue reading I dont want to be by myself but sometimes I just feel I wont find a good man to be my partner

A girl was staring at my butt at work?

sad

Some men make living really hard

It’s a story you hear so often. I cringe at myself writing this. But men… Some of them make it impossible to live. I was just eating my food outside at a table and a man comes by asking me: where do I live? Can he buy me a drink? Which ethnicity do I have?… Continue reading Some men make living really hard

Women v Men

Trust me, you don’t want to go anywhere near that sub. It is chalk full of guys who flat out hate women. The issue, as I see it, is that a lot of men have the personality of a cardboard box, so now that women refuse to settle with a box simply because it has… Continue reading Women v Men

How do you calm down?

Yeast infection?

Not looking for medical advice, I will call the doctor if it keeps up. Just curious on others’ experiences. Is it possible to have a yeast infection without a lot of discharge? I traveled for work a few weeks ago… I wore jeans two days in a row which I don’t do much anymore because… Continue reading Yeast infection?

I feel bigger because I have no ass

I find it kinda funny that I have the same problem, but different body type. No boobs, big butt. Having small boobs makes my stomach appear bigger (to me at least), and the butt doesn’t help either because I don’t like how big it is and it makes me look disproportionate af. Sometimes clothes that… Continue reading I feel bigger because I have no ass

I did my nails yesterday, and now I feel more feminine :)

I have really tiny hands, don’t know a single adult person that has hands smaller than mine. The way my hand, fingers, and nails are shaped makes me feel like I have a little boys hand. So I took a few weeks trying to grow my nails, and yesterday I painted them with one of… Continue reading I did my nails yesterday, and now I feel more feminine 🙂

How to become a confident person and not be jealous of other pretty women?

Compliments. Start complimenting other women. It might seem counter productive, but the more you learn to acknowledge beauty outside of yourself, the more you’ll learn to recognize it within yourself. After a while you’ll notice yourself standing in front of a mirror thinking the same compliments about yourself, as you have been giving out to… Continue reading How to become a confident person and not be jealous of other pretty women?

This guy won’t talk to me in my third period but will in my sixth period?!

This guy won’t talk to me in third period but will say little things to me in our other classes? So there is this guy, that I share four classes with out of six, and in my third period he sits to the top right of me. I tried making conversation in that class because… Continue reading This guy won’t talk to me in my third period but will in my sixth period?!

Body hair

Just shaved my entire body because im going on a swimming date tommorow and it ended up a bloodbath… also remembered that i have fresh hair dye…

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Just shaved my entire body because im going on a swimming date tommorow and it ended up a bloodbath… also remembered that i have fresh hair dye…

What would you do if you were the last women on earth?

When did you realise you’ve wasted too much time fixating on body image?

Tell me the life event/s, age or experience that led you to start living in your body authentically without obsessing about it and letting it stop you from doing things you love. I love to hear stories or older women who become deeply rooted in their bodies and shrug off body-hating norms, and would love… Continue reading When did you realise you’ve wasted too much time fixating on body image?

boric acid suppositories

I’ve never tried them, but it was my understanding (which I very well might be wrong) but I thought boric acid suppositories were to treat BV and yeast infections. To just fix your ph, they have probiotic vaginal suppositories, and they also have a ph balancing vulva cleanser.

am i pregnant or not?

Got off the pill after many years on it. Haven’t gotten a period since.

How worried should I be about my period?

Do you spend more on gifts for female friends who are more high maintenance in how they dress and live their lives?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Do you spend more on gifts for female friends who are more high maintenance in how they dress and live their lives?

[dramatic voice] i think im gonna pass out

Why would a woman prefer to be in casual or open relationships and not want/be able to fall in love?

The reason why is that everyone is different, and mostly people are not like you – but people have a really hard time understanding or even believing it. As long as you take people at their word, and they do the same for you, that’s as much as you can hope for.

My Gf said she likes body hair, because she’s seen it on other people and said she likes how it looks.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading My Gf said she likes body hair, because she’s seen it on other people and said she likes how it looks.

Pros and cons of a full or partial hysterectomy?

Extremely sensitive boobs?

How has your makeup changed over the years?

To clarify, I’m not necessarily asking about trends – although feel free to chime in about any trends you did follow and your thoughts on them. I’m curious how your makeup routine had changed from when you were a teenager perhaps, to a young adult, to a mature adult.

Finally looking the way I’ve always wanted

I’m tired of wearing shitty bras that are “made” for busty women.

Desperate to fix Dry, flaky, itchy but also greasy wet oily hair!

My current pregnancy has not been kind to me. My hair has become such an embarrassment! I have become so depressed over this. My scalp is extremely dry, itchy and flakey but the back of my hair is oily, wet and greasy. I absolutely can not do ANYTHING with it as far as styling and… Continue reading Desperate to fix Dry, flaky, itchy but also greasy wet oily hair!

Feeling invisible

Does anyone else struggle with being older and realizing that men are starting to not look your way? It’s vain, it’s shallow. I’m aware of this. I’m just going through and insecure period of my life. I’m very happily married, but at the point in my marriage where he isn’t jumping at the opportunity for… Continue reading Feeling invisible

Cravings/ cheat days during period

Peeing with tampon in.

Is it possible that this problem might be assumed and not factual? Meaning that you assume the tampon gets soaked through when you pee, but in reality it’s not? I’m asking as that has never happened to me and as others have already pointed out, the tampon is quite deep in. The string doesn’t have… Continue reading Peeing with tampon in.

Looking put together for

How do you get out of a funk when not feeling yourself?

navy heels with LBD

Am I the only girl who gets creeped out when looking at their own vagina, or vaginas in general?

Vaginas scare me as well, I always say kudos to men and lesbians because no way would I go inside something I can’t see inside of lmao. I hate the appearance, my trust issues are F’d but I’m also grossed out by dicks too lmao 😂 I mean I still have sex and masturbate by… Continue reading Am I the only girl who gets creeped out when looking at their own vagina, or vaginas in general?

How do y’all fight period lethargy?

Keratin Hair Treatment

Hey everyone! I’m looking for advice / experience in regards to keratin hair straightening treatments. I have fine wavy / curly hair and I really prefer my hair straight, so I am considering trying a keratin treatment, but I want to make sure I do my research before I pursue it, so please hit me… Continue reading Keratin Hair Treatment

women are kind of expected to do makeup, hair and a cute outfit every day (some even call that ‘basic hygeine’). what are men expected to do?

Read “The Beauty Myth” by Noemi Wolfe and “the Second Sex” by Bolivar. Women had to market themselves to secure husbands otherwise they couldn’t live. Hyper femininity, which includes: doing hair and make up, shaving, waxing, being nice and pleasant, putting yourself last, staying ultra thin and having hyper body awareness, plastic surgery and general… Continue reading women are kind of expected to do makeup, hair and a cute outfit every day (some even call that ‘basic hygeine’). what are men expected to do?

Name a positive male role model for boys who dont have fathers?

Has anyone made their own body scrub using Eucalyptus oil?

How to measure the cervix to know which cup is most suitable for you?

You have to insert your finger first and feel your cervix. The cervix is the small opening at the top of the vaginal canal. This is the place where your menstrual blood flows out of the uterus. Hence, the cervix is also called “ the neck of the uterus.” The basic idea behind inserting the… Continue reading How to measure the cervix to know which cup is most suitable for you?

Why do I hate Mean Girls, the movie?

Just got diagnosed with PCOS

Would you think this is a red flag?

I’ve been dating a guy for a month. We have known each other a bit longer than that but it’s fairly new. I’m concerned about a relationship he has with another woman and want to get some perspective if this is a red flag or just my personal trust issues. He has an online friend… Continue reading Would you think this is a red flag?

How do you feel feminine and like a woman after being bullied

I was bullied as a kid and as a teenager. The boys in my class used to call me demeaning names only because I was fat. Well I was obese but still. They used to say that I wasn’t a real woman, because everyone else in my class was light and small like a feather.… Continue reading How do you feel feminine and like a woman after being bullied

Is refusing to go on a date with a transgender women, trans phobic

What are some signs or characteristics that might predict someone you’re in a relationship with would cheat in the future?

If they accuse you of cheating, insecure about you earning more money, they want to check your phone but hesitate to show theirs, if they are uncomfortable with your clothes, if they use alcohol or drugs as excuses for bad behaviour, if they don’t speak well of their ex’s, if they can’t treat their mother’s… Continue reading What are some signs or characteristics that might predict someone you’re in a relationship with would cheat in the future?

Any advice on how to heal ripped skin from waxing?

Yep, it happened again, but this time much worse. I have had this problem in the past, but this time it’s even worse, ig because I am on accutane rn, which made my skin more sensitive and dry. I knew I would regret waxing, but I don’t want to go around with a mustache, so… Continue reading Any advice on how to heal ripped skin from waxing?

When was the first time you stained yourself?

What STDs does your Obgyn usually test for in an std panel?

Guy seemed alright but refused to give up his seat for a pregnant lady

“I’ll give up my seat for the elderly, or PWD, or if someone has kids with them. Pregnant women can have the reserved seats or ask other women to get up. She made a choice for herself. I wasn’t the one who made her pregnant.” Thoughts?

Women’s health question

Is there an alternative way for women to get a pap-smear done? My wife asked her primary care doctor, but they didn’t have another option. However, google says there are other options like swabbing yourself.

Creative Illustration you would like as a gift

Hi hi. I have an upcoming birthday of a female friend of mine. Now I am quite decent with illustrating stuff and therefor I thought I could create something for her. Do you gals have any ideas/inputs about what I could create? I have for example already created an escape game at home (where i… Continue reading Creative Illustration you would like as a gift

When did you chose tampon/cup over pads??

Periods never stick to the decided dates.

Is it just me who has a toxic relationship with her period? I think that both they and I are “that toxic person” in each other’s lives; we are unable to live apart from one another (because I chose to be that way for myself) or together. In our seven-year relationship, they have never been… Continue reading Periods never stick to the decided dates.

Should trans women be allowed to complete in women sports because they are women aswell

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Should trans women be allowed to complete in women sports because they are women aswell

Dan McKnight’s new YouTube video. https://www.youtube.com/@danmcknight_cool

Where to buy nice lingerie without going broke?

Discharge odor

Birth control experiences/advice

Hey:) well basically I’ve been thinking on getting into birth control, all though I’m not the biggest fan of the idea I’m sure I definitely don’t want kids and this sounds like a good way to prevent it apart of just using condoms. So my questions lay on the fact that I want to hear… Continue reading Birth control experiences/advice

Ladies I need advice!! How do I sift through the shitty guys and find decent men?

So a couple days ago my ex was like hey I miss you and I gotta take u out for a bagel much love! I have no I’ll feelings at all towards him so I was like f it why not! I drove up to see him and he doesn’t reply for like two hours… Continue reading Ladies I need advice!! How do I sift through the shitty guys and find decent men?

What advice would you give to a couple who just got married?

Women who have found “the one”, does your SO likes photos of random hot girls (not celebs) on social media? If yes, how do you feel about it?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women who have found “the one”, does your SO likes photos of random hot girls (not celebs) on social media? If yes, how do you feel about it?

I always have to downplay my successes around friends to not feel like a threat to them. Is this normal? I find very few women are actually supportive and happy for you, instead they look at competing. I just want happy vibes where we lift one another and love.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I always have to downplay my successes around friends to not feel like a threat to them. Is this normal? I find very few women are actually supportive and happy for you, instead they look at competing. I just want happy vibes where we lift one another and love.

What is a “bad boy” according to women? What traits do they have?

Am I too young to worry about this?

Men

No idea if I can even be here, but I need advice.

Ovulation pain from both ovaries

Favorite workout?

tmi question??

Hey guys lol i’m glad i found this forum because i have had this question ever since i got my period, never asked my mom because she doesn’t really wear tampons. how the hell r u supposed to pee with a tampon in? do you need to change everytime u pee or.. ugh idk. i… Continue reading tmi question??

Was I SA’d?

Unusual red flags?

Do you feel more sexually powerful as you age? How has your sexuality evolved?

bacterial vaginosis & boyfriend

i have bacterial vaginosis rn and my bf and i were ab to have sex n he wanted to go down on me but i didn’t let him bc of obvious reasons so then he told me that it kinda smells n i was like i know and then i proceeded to tell him n… Continue reading bacterial vaginosis & boyfriend

Women after rejecting a friend.

When you express romantic feelings for someone that aren’t returned it will change the friendship. Some people aren’t comfortable staying friends with someone who views them as more as it can feel awkward. It can also make women question if they ever had a real friend or if the sole aim was to date or… Continue reading Women after rejecting a friend.

May Be Unrelated Post But any business women here? looking to grow their business through Google & Fb Ads? Free Audit

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading May Be Unrelated Post But any business women here? looking to grow their business through Google & Fb Ads? Free Audit

Would you think he is probably gay?

Sugar babies and online sex work

Biggest scam ever – Casual fucking dating.

Reality of dating apps Pretty privilege – The good looking crowd has it easier to get more matches, there is definitely a huge difference in the many ways they are treated better in society. Looks matter for first impressions but don’t guarantee a long term relationship. Gender roles – Most Indian men are not groomed… Continue reading Biggest scam ever – Casual fucking dating.

I just used a menstrual cup for the first time…

ladies, I put all of my rizz into this, was it at least a good attempt?

For context, I was trying to get back with my ex. Me: Well, I’ll try to put it into words. I feel good when I’m around you, We have an incredibly similar sense of humor, I like how caring you are and that your heart is the purest out of any I’ve seen, And most… Continue reading ladies, I put all of my rizz into this, was it at least a good attempt?

Hair care

My mum used to have long ass hair. I have long hair and she doesn’t know how to treat it. She pulls and brushes and doesn’t know how to dry it properly. She leaves it half sopping because she can’t be asked to do anymore. When I stayed over at my aunts when we went… Continue reading Hair care

I’m loosing hope in dating, need advice

In the last year or two I’ve dated three different men. All seriously and all with the hopes of a long term relationship. And it’s been so hard to receive proportionate energy, time, empathy and honesty to the table. I appreciate dates and outings so much, little gifts and just getting to see my partner… Continue reading I’m loosing hope in dating, need advice

Fertility Advice

Women beware!

You don’t want a male with a high body count (more than zero). Think about it! For starters, every time a man is with a new woman he gives away some of his precious manly essence. He leaves DNA behind in every partner. By the time he gets to you he will have hardly any… Continue reading Women beware!

Women’s naked arms illegal in Missouri

Birth control and insurance

What would you do if you found out your SO was gay but he loved you and wanted to stay married to you?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What would you do if you found out your SO was gay but he loved you and wanted to stay married to you?

How much wait is enough after picking an engagement ring and before proposing?

Be a woman!

I’ve been told, just this morning be a male acquaintance that he claims to know several women who have told him to stop referring to them as ‘women/woman’ and instead prefer ‘females/female’. The number of women who’ve had an issue with being called ‘a female/females’ is half those who have complained about being called ‘woman/women’… Continue reading Be a woman!

Hi ladies!!! I’m wondering if I should get an IUD.

Women that have tried both hard wax and the regular was that we all know, is it true?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women that have tried both hard wax and the regular was that we all know, is it true?

an interesting conundrum: this sub wont let me post a link to the real Norma Rae

I am not you’re property

I am not your property!Think I could be? Then you are an atrocity… Am I invisible?I can’t remember the last time you could actually see ME. How about some R-E-S-P-E-C-T?Without it, you won’t get no PUSSY! Even the blind can see,No one is free…Until we can all learn the meaning of EQUALITY!

I’m a man and throughout my life, women were the only ones who could understand me and were truly kind to me, while other men friends of mine just weren’t nice to me when I respected them. I have always wondered what is that in women that makes them this kind and sweet to me?

Women are socialized to be accommodating, nice, and polite. Men are not. That doesn’t mean that all women are nice or that no men are, it just means that society expects it of women but not of men. Further, toxic masculinity tends to conflate kindness and understanding as “female traits” and disdainful for men to… Continue reading I’m a man and throughout my life, women were the only ones who could understand me and were truly kind to me, while other men friends of mine just weren’t nice to me when I respected them. I have always wondered what is that in women that makes them this kind and sweet to me?

A reproductive justice pioneer on what the abortion debate misses

My paradox around men is equal parts:

I don’t want a man, it’s genuinely so peaceful and calm without all that- just like ech. Ah, just breathe and feel the serenity. & Did someone mention men, why, is there one here now? (Pulls out compact to check face) Where is he? Is he single? Stable? Funny? 🍆?

Just a quick question for the women.

To start I am male so that may help with why I am asking this. When women say they like to switch between blonde hair and brunette or brown why not just go in the middle and do both with a dirty blonde or brunette with blonde highlights? Why switch when you can compromise?

Read Me and Respond

What parts of your life do you naturally NOT let your partner know about?

I’m not asking this question in a negative light. I’m working through some issues with trust that I have from previous relationships, and I know there will be things in future relationships that I don’t get to know about them. NOT that I should know everything, I don’t want to. I want to gauge what… Continue reading What parts of your life do you naturally NOT let your partner know about?

hysteroscopy?

I had to have this procedure carried out to get an IUD inserted after some failed attempts. I was told to take paracetamol and ibuprofen an hour before. I had to insert dilator tablets the night before. The procedure was barbaric, I’ve never felt pain like it. Nothing given to me to help relax. No… Continue reading hysteroscopy?

Ladies with or had a Paraguard IUD in, how did the heavier bleeding and cramping affect you?

title explains all, how did the paraguard aka “copper iud” affect you? I’m due to get one in a week. how was the heavier bleeding side effect?

How to go to the Gynecologist with Vaginismus?

Will be reposting on other subreddits but wanted to hear from women firsthand I have been diagnosed with Vaginismus a few months back, when I told my GP I can’t put in a tampon (I never have been, albeit I’m young). When I try I start to reflexively start hyperventilating and breaking down, at one… Continue reading How to go to the Gynecologist with Vaginismus?

Im so frustrated with my weight 😤

It’s okay! Give yourself some grace. Depression is so hard and it affects people in many different ways. I would first focus on your mental health and talk to your doctor or with a trusted friend. Set realistic goals for yourself and see what works for you. Remember that even though you feel unhappy with… Continue reading Im so frustrated with my weight 😤

Men defending misogynistic post

Small men attacking a woman they know is way out of their league from the safety of their screen? What else is new? Let the babies cry and ignore them. They WANT a reaction. Give them the attention they deserve (0). Also these kinds of posts are echo chambers, with small minded people gathering to… Continue reading Men defending misogynistic post

Question for girlies with IUD

IUD help

Please help us the government and military school are trying to hide the truth

period cramp simulator

Anyone know where to get one? I’m organizing an endometriosis awareness event for work and want to have a contest. Anyone who can handle cramps for x minutes gets a prize (probably like a card saying take ibuprofen and get over it) then anyone who handles the Endo cramps for x minutes gets a prize… Continue reading period cramp simulator

How to get curls to stay????

Women and responsibilities at work

Today I let a peer of mine know about a task one of his employees was not completing in a timely manner. It’s a task that results in reporting I use in my job. It’s a recurring, monthly need and he’s very aware of it. My peer suggested I should send a request monthly to… Continue reading Women and responsibilities at work

Rank from most to least important: Money, Health, Family

Am I being dramatic ?? Looking for advice from other women

One of my guys friends used the word “female” in a text today and I pointed out that I would rather him not use that term, at least when he’s talking to me. I explained it’s because it makes me and many other women feel like less than human and is typically used to imply… Continue reading Am I being dramatic ?? Looking for advice from other women

What do I do when I see “men have it harder” content online?

I am someone easily swayed by stuff I read on the internet, even if I know it not to be true. Lately a lot of posts have been circulating on the internet about how “men have it harder.” I even saw a viral post on reddit about how guys have no one checking up on… Continue reading What do I do when I see “men have it harder” content online?

Bra Measuring Subreddit

Intelligence is sexy!!

I am having trouble explaining to my co-worker why its problematic to hire people hoping to get a relationship out of it.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I am having trouble explaining to my co-worker why its problematic to hire people hoping to get a relationship out of it.

Women who were love bombed, how did the abuser’s behaviour change later on? What was the abuser’s original intention?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women who were love bombed, how did the abuser’s behaviour change later on? What was the abuser’s original intention?

life as an ugly girl

It has its ups and its downs. I’ve never been sexually harassed, stalked, scared for my life, been hit on, never had creepy comments made about me or been catcalled, never been sexualized as an adult or a teen, never been physically abused. However, I’ve also never been told I’m beautiful, never had anyone actually… Continue reading life as an ugly girl

I have a few questions as someone who is currently going through the deepest depression of her life

you need to get therapy if you’re not already. And not give up if it doesn’t work. Sadly a lot of people have treatment resistant depression that takes multiple trials of different medications or more serious methods like ketamine treatment or what is known as tms. Don’t give up. I was able to speak to… Continue reading I have a few questions as someone who is currently going through the deepest depression of her life

Advice needed

Girls around the world I’m begging for relationship advice asap. Alright to sum up the story I met a girl in June and we’ve been hanging out ever since. I noticed she wanted to start a relationship right away but I’m not interested at the moment. It’s not that I want to see multiple women… Continue reading Advice needed

Phone calling anxiety

Probably not what you want to hear: exposure. I got a job where I had to make lots of phone calls, and generally use a phone very much every day (I’m in HR, so I worked with recruiting so I had telephone interviews etc). Before this, I was terrified of making phone calls, I used… Continue reading Phone calling anxiety

Strange maths ? ‘ Labour Party gender pay gap

Can I get a bit of uplift?

Have you ever experienced sudden onset of cramps in all body parts that lasts weeks ?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Have you ever experienced sudden onset of cramps in all body parts that lasts weeks ?

Dating has become exhausting because it feels like I’m always dodging sexual objectification.

You know those old cartoons where they’d shoot at someone’s feet and they’d have to avoid the bullets (I think that used to happen irl too)? Yeah, that’s how it feels trying to date. Even if I explicitly state I’m celibate indefinitely. (As in, no you can’t rush me into a relationship just to put… Continue reading Dating has become exhausting because it feels like I’m always dodging sexual objectification.

One word for your periods??

Is it normal for me to tear after sex?

What is the subreddit for helping women out of abusive situations called ?

Does anyone else’s body tell them when they do not belong with a man?

I have always sensed when a relationship will not work out by sleeping next to them. When I was talking to a guy and I go to his place and I sleep next to him I either get sleep paralysis, insomnia or feel really sick to my stomach. It’s after a while of talking with… Continue reading Does anyone else’s body tell them when they do not belong with a man?

UTI

What am I supposed to say when my female friend is ranting to me about something?

Ovulation pain isn’t talked about enough.

Has anyone else experienced this

Try this in the mirror if you are brave..

Okay so if you are into heath and fitness or maybe struggle with body image you will either hate or love this. I also do not mean to spark any controversy as I am genuinely curious. I ran into this trick by accident a few years ago and I’ve always wondered. If you stand in… Continue reading Try this in the mirror if you are brave..

Finally got my period !

Anxiety and foreplay

Anyone else suffer with severe anxiety during foreplay? I’m in a loving long term secure relationship. The sex is great. I am very satisfied. The anxiety I feel when sex is anticipated or during foreplay is crippling. It makes me not want to have sex.

gah.

getting so worn out by angry men targetting the viewpoints and opinions of women. you know, that user that HAS to point out how “wrong” you are, not even trying to make a point about the original content, but way more interested in letting you know your place… then goes off about women in other… Continue reading gah.

how can i make a guy lose interest without being rude

theres this guy i jad an ONS with that im actually terrified of, he really wants to stay in touch and acts like i owe him my time and gets really scary when im trying to put a distance up or unfriend him. i want to do something to make him not be “angry” with… Continue reading how can i make a guy lose interest without being rude

for anyone who has suffered from recurrent BV

As a woman I’m getting tired of female characters not engaging in romantic relationship just to be called strong and independent

I know many people will not agree with me but there’s nothing wrong with a female protagonist having a boyfriend or admiring a guy. It’s not problematic and just because they’re strong doesn’t mean they have to close their door to someone entering their lives. The “I don’t need a man” is pure bs. Girls… Continue reading As a woman I’m getting tired of female characters not engaging in romantic relationship just to be called strong and independent

why is it such a big deal to be a virgin?

i’ve seen so many situations where a female will reveal she’s a virgin to the person she’s going to have sex with/already had sex with and the response is always along the lines of “how could you not tell me, i wouldn’t have done this if you were a virgin” etc.. my questions: what’s the… Continue reading why is it such a big deal to be a virgin?

Women’s poll: If you don’t mind sharing these details about yourself..

am i pregnant?

it’s unlikely that you are pregnant. But if you can’t be safe, don’t have sex. Get on hormonal BC, require him to use condoms, etc. If you’re worried about semen on your hand getting you pregnant, you’re clearly not informed enough to be having sex. Reach out to any free clinics or planned parenthood, or… Continue reading am i pregnant?

My legs itch like crazy after going on walks. Can someone help me?

It’s too much to be a woman sometimes.

Why do Women want the freedom to sleep around?

Hi, promise it’s not what it looks like from the title, but I’m just trying to come to more understanding with the sex positivity movement from a womans prespective. I was wondering if it’s more of a freedom to gain respect for ourselves and others, or a freedom just for freedoms sake. When I see… Continue reading Why do Women want the freedom to sleep around?

As a women who’s boobs came really fast really early and got really big I need some recommendations for stuff to help with stretch marks

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading As a women who’s boobs came really fast really early and got really big I need some recommendations for stuff to help with stretch marks

I can’t be myself anywhere without men trying to “humble” me

I’m from a country where most men are still entitled to the core and see women’s emancipation as their oppression. Most men in public, workplaces, on the Internet are just… unbearable to be around. I am a very normal person- I understand I’m not the prettiest woman on the planet, but I’m happy with my… Continue reading I can’t be myself anywhere without men trying to “humble” me

What do you think of woman who sells nudes as easy money?

Hey I’m a guy here, I’m just curious what do women thinks of other women selling their nudes just to earn easy money. Met this girl who sells nudes online, it’s not her only income DONT worry. She works at a restaurant as a part time job and is still studying in University. Met her… Continue reading What do you think of woman who sells nudes as easy money?

Are there any gynecologists here?

What’s the appeal of men in grey sweatpants?

Not sure

Help me- tips to be a better woman

If your main concern is fashion there’s no one size fits all (lol) it’s up to what you want and are comfortable with – if you need to figure that out look up outfit pics and fashion vids online, see what you gravitate towards, seek inspiration from that. It may take some time and experimentation… Continue reading Help me- tips to be a better woman

Period.

When I am on my period I suffer bad with depression like I want to drive my car in to a tree type of depression. I start arguing with my partner when I am on my period I hate everyone. I don’t want to go to work I get mad if someone talks to me.… Continue reading Period.

Can some girls give me a reason the top of my girlfriend’s chest would be red like it is after we make out to make me feel better?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Can some girls give me a reason the top of my girlfriend’s chest would be red like it is after we make out to make me feel better?

Talc Question

Im getting my IUD removed today.

Cups vs Tampons for less bleeding

I have irregular periods and bleed very less. Less volume but for more days. Because of this, sanitary napkin which is my usual option is not working out for me. It’s messy and I am getting rashes for leaving the pads on for so long. I am thinking of shifting to tampons or cups. Can… Continue reading Cups vs Tampons for less bleeding