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I bought myself a white gold diamond eternity band. The reason? My now ex-husband had spent a good portion of our money on booze with his friends, and we couldn’t make the car insurance payment. I was so fucking mad – he would do this all the time and then ask me to ask my… Continue reading Unmarried women: have you ever worn a fake wedding ring out in public?

Do you mind having sex while you’re on your period?

is it normal for a woman to still feal horny after sex

what is wrong with men?!

So I was watching a video on YouTube where an interviewer asks guys to rate girls then has the guy has to rate himself. Then he goes to the girls and they rate the guy. Why is it that guys who are clearly less attractive then the girls ALWAYS RATE these beautiful women so low… Continue reading what is wrong with men?!

Writing a female character, need help

Hi, I’m writing a book that has a female character in it and I would like your help. Here’s some things about the character that I have come up with already: Plays guitar and sings. Is an artist. Been in multiple unsuccessful relationships. Never felt “love” had people that she was attracted to but when… Continue reading Writing a female character, need help

Depo Provera Concerns

I think I’m crazy

Can a women climax from posterior fornix stimulation but not anterior fornix stimulation?

My partner doesn’t respond to g spot stimulation nor A spot stimulation. I don’t ram into her I nudge and grind because ramming will feel like a punch in the stomach. Sometimes I hold it in her A spot fornix and it doesn’t really respond to anything. Now the posterior fornix, I’m unsure if I’ve… Continue reading Can a women climax from posterior fornix stimulation but not anterior fornix stimulation?

I got some new heels and my sole doesn’t touch the sole of the shoe, any ideas on how to fix it?

(Serious) Ladies of Reddit, what do you think of during sex? My mind wanders all over the place.

When I have my period, it never hurts. But today, after not having my typical sensitive chest a week before my period starts, it hurt.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading When I have my period, it never hurts. But today, after not having my typical sensitive chest a week before my period starts, it hurt.

How was your new year’s night?

book about ectogenesis

Pending hysterectomy and anterior/posterior colporrhaphy surgery…

Settle a debate between me and my Mom…

tips for not oversharing?

When you are about to say anything around the topic that reminds you of your trauma, either have a question/topic ready to switch to or talk about something shallow and positive relating to it. For example, if trauma comes up, mention how there is more representation for mental health issues in tv shows that are… Continue reading tips for not oversharing?

confused about hymen

If you haven’t experienced any other pain/bleeding, it’s possible. Other causes could be a UTI, ovulation, stuff like that. Any of those possible for you? Regardless, I wouldn’t worry about “breaking” your hymen. They can break (it’s typically more of a stretch) for a number of reasons, including simply riding a bike, using a tampon,… Continue reading confused about hymen

Questions about onlyfans

Women in outdoor blue-collar jobs! Best pullover hoodies?

Plan B is fucking me up rn

What the most beautiful gift

Hi everyone, I’m a trans woman who has been with my gf for a little over one year one. We have been struggling a lot with surroundings etc, we have been through a lot. But let’s get to the point, my gf is very jealous of my relationship before and she knows everything I given… Continue reading What the most beautiful gift

ObGyn advice: how to relax?

Hello there! First time posting here, but I’m happy to find a place like this 🙂 So, I wanted to ask if anyone else has a lot of pain during pelvic exams/pap smears? I do, and I’ve been told I just need to relax but I legit don’t know how to do it. I also… Continue reading ObGyn advice: how to relax?

Any tips on how to deal with my partner’s sister?

Throwaway account. Keeping it short: I tried very hard for her to like me and see me as a friend who she can trust, but her actions and some things she say seems like she doesn’t really like me and that she is fake. Just acting ‘nice’ because she kinds of have to. It’s ok… Continue reading Any tips on how to deal with my partner’s sister?

I have a cold, yeast infection, and my period.

I hate being a woman

I didn’t know it would hurt this bad and idk what to do

My boyfriend and I decided to break up last night. We spent the day together cuddling and talking about how much we love each other and our best memories with each other and it was honestly the most amazing way to spend the day with him. When it was time for him to leave and… Continue reading I didn’t know it would hurt this bad and idk what to do

Is it too much to ask for someone to be mindful of what they say because of personal triggers?

TW: SA I know nobody is responsible for your triggers, but I was speaking to male friends about a situation we saw on social media and they start saying how girls should’ve never put themselves in a position for something bad to happen to them. I explain to them that what they’re saying is extremely… Continue reading Is it too much to ask for someone to be mindful of what they say because of personal triggers?

How did you regain the sexuality in your relationship?

You start doing more/better foreplay. Take piv (penis in vagina) off the table and only explore each others bodies. You spark up the romance, the quality time together. If he can’t finish after you, he has hands and a mouth. If he’s too tired/lazy there are toys and you make things intimate by kiss and… Continue reading How did you regain the sexuality in your relationship?

Bra question

Women☕☕☕

any trust contraceptive pills in the philippines?

Advice plz TW: sexual harassment

My therapist is booked for the month so I’m turning to Reddit for advice. I was recently sexually harassed at the gym (a stranger man was jerking off to me outside of my gym while I was working out – cops couldn’t find him). I haven’t been able to sleep because every time I close… Continue reading Advice plz TW: sexual harassment

bacterial vaginosis

what do you guys do about pubic hair?

just saw a post about leg hair which made me reflect on how i used to obsess over shaving and how fucked up that was. nowadays i use a trimmer when i feel like it for my pits and pubic hair, but that’s it. i’ve gotten really comfortable not shaving my legs and pits most… Continue reading what do you guys do about pubic hair?

To all women of reddit. Thanks for raising me well. Now all women I think should read more about autism.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading To all women of reddit. Thanks for raising me well. Now all women I think should read more about autism.

Using clothing items until they’re not usable anymore?

What’s your take on this? I need pointers desperately. I love fashion and being put together but I’m trying to curb my spending. I feel the need to have several pairs of shoes and various other office attire WTF??!! WHY??!! There are far more important things to do with my $ than buy a new… Continue reading Using clothing items until they’re not usable anymore?

Female writer contributes towards the “condoms make sex feel rubbish” attitude.

I was looking for the best rated condoms for sensitive skin and came across an article written by a woman that starts “So, you’re on the hunt for the best condoms. They’re not usually synonymous with great sex – safe, sure, but not mind-blowing – as, for many, using them can lead to numbness or… Continue reading Female writer contributes towards the “condoms make sex feel rubbish” attitude.

now I’m thinking about it and I genuinely want to know what Andrew Tate said to all these women to convince them to come to Romania and work for him

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading now I’m thinking about it and I genuinely want to know what Andrew Tate said to all these women to convince them to come to Romania and work for him

When you find a man that’s actually serious about you…

Listen, he just put my mind to rest about something I was overthinking about relating to us. Coming across a man that shows what effort really is, has turned my world upside down. Ladies, what did you have to address about yourself and your past relationship traumas when you knew your partner was serious about… Continue reading When you find a man that’s actually serious about you…

Sending hugs out to anyone else spending New Year’s Eve and Christmas alone! 🤍 It sucks, I’m on my own this year for the first time because I’m not in my own country. It’s like a whole new feeling in itself. I’ve never felt this way before. It’s tough seeing everyone else with loved ones.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Sending hugs out to anyone else spending New Year’s Eve and Christmas alone! 🤍 It sucks, I’m on my own this year for the first time because I’m not in my own country. It’s like a whole new feeling in itself. I’ve never felt this way before. It’s tough seeing everyone else with loved ones.

Is the treatment supposed to get rid of everything?

How to curl wavy hair

My hair is a loose wavy texture and I have never had an issue with straightening it but also had an issue curling it. I’ve tried using a curling iron and also the wet hair + wrap method, both led to my hair being less wavy and almost straight. When I use a curling iron… Continue reading How to curl wavy hair

What is the minimum time span living together before getting married?

I’m extremely upset after a comment of my brother

So this just happened just an hour ago & it’s honestly not just about this ‘joke’ but mainly. So first of all, I am a natural blonde (Is important for the story) & have two older brothers and maybe some “youngest child” people already know how it can easily happen that your family talk over… Continue reading I’m extremely upset after a comment of my brother

Do I need to be embarrassed about my pubic hair showing through?

Hello I feel like as an adult woman I should know this answer but I’m unsure now. I rarely shave any part of my body, I just don’t enjoy doing it. I’ve always figured body hair of all types is normal. I’m also very athletic and often do activities like yoga and rock climbing where… Continue reading Do I need to be embarrassed about my pubic hair showing through?

Period is a week late, experiencing pain in right breast and I’m not pregnant. What could be happening!!

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Period is a week late, experiencing pain in right breast and I’m not pregnant. What could be happening!!

What style of panties do you wear on your period?

I use a menstrual cup which is fabulous! I am curious if I should buy a pack of cheaper panties just to be safe or do I go commando? I wear thongs when I’m not on my period. Love them! They’re not comfortable to sleep in though when it’s that time of the month….. So… Continue reading What style of panties do you wear on your period?

Pregnant?

A guy tried to put his dick in me without a condom after being repeatedly told he needed one. How serious is this? How do I express to him exactly why this is not OK and is actually serious.

This is a major violation. Please do not let him near you again. I have seen men like this and the only thing they care about is their own pleasure. He refused to listen to you after repeatedly being told otherwise. You can cut him off without any explanation, you dont owe it to him.… Continue reading A guy tried to put his dick in me without a condom after being repeatedly told he needed one. How serious is this? How do I express to him exactly why this is not OK and is actually serious.

I fucking love being a woman!

Sisterhood is literally life saving/changing. Womanly shapes are stunning. I can have multiple orgasms and my sexual pleasure is complex. It’s my biyearly time when I just sit and bask in the wonder and joy of being a woman! I used to internalize a lot of misogyny and got annoyed that my arms weren’t bigger,… Continue reading I fucking love being a woman!

Position of urethra and vagina

If I wear a tampon, and there is no blood on my underwear does it confirm the bleeding is from the vagina? I would assume that, yes. I also assume you’re talking about specifically when you are on your period? If so, then it is totally normal for the blood from your vagina to travel… Continue reading Position of urethra and vagina

Changes when taking Estradiol?

I just wish my boobs were fuller

You’re young, and you live in a social media age, which is really hard. It’s a lot harder than when I was your age! Other than learning to accept your body as is; this is the best answer by far. You could invest in a padded push-up bra to get you close. Try a few… Continue reading I just wish my boobs were fuller

Does sex really work with period cramps?

Does anyone else feel like all women but you are pretty?

This is half vent, half looking for advice. It’s wintertime where I live meaning swimsuits are on sale- great for my wallet, a little rough on my psyche lol. I follow lots of body positivity-type accounts and make sure I look up “normal body in a bikini” every time I start swimsuit shopping to try… Continue reading Does anyone else feel like all women but you are pretty?

I had my appointment today

I made a post maybe a month ago complaining about the symptoms I experience during ovulation (now deleted). I also had what I assumed to be a cyst on my ovary and thought I would bring it up during my next visit. I went to a new doctor in the same office as my old… Continue reading I had my appointment today

Does anyone else just sit on the toilet for a long time to let part of the heavy flow get out?

How many women lost their sex drive after birth control?

Masculine Swimsuits

Contraceptive Pills

why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence?

Sexual assault is A FORM of gender based violence. Not all sexual assaults are categorized as gender-based Violence. the definition of sexual assault: “Sexual assault is an act in which one intentionally sexually touches another person without that person’s consent, or coerces or physically forces a person to engage in a sexual act against their… Continue reading why is sexual assault considered gender-based violence?

Advice wanted!

Reoccurring tears between vagina and anus?

I haven’t experienced tears, but do you wear anything that rubs against that spot consistently? Or ride a bike/something similar regularly? Apparently those can cause tears. Thongs personally irritate the hell out of that area if I wear them any longer than a few hours. To heal, I suggest avoiding anything that would irritate that… Continue reading Reoccurring tears between vagina and anus?

how much discharge is too much?

Definitely not just you. I have no idea if age has anything to do with it, but when I was younger I used to get heavy discharge pretty consistently. Discharge isn’t talked about nearly enough and I’m not a doctor, but I feel pretty confident at this point in my life that if your not… Continue reading how much discharge is too much?

Bumps/pimples on back of my arms

I am desperate about dating

So yeah maybe someone remembers: I have very ,,unrealistic standards“ (You can check on my old posts here if you wanna know more Short explained: not dominant, soft,sweet,caring, not an ,,alpha“ ,,sigma“ , DOESNT use his gf as household keeper and helps. Brown waves/hair and eyes. Preferred Western European like me, Preferred non religious *im… Continue reading I am desperate about dating

Should it be okay for men you date to still talk to their exs

I have to sides of my brain fighting here. I have a long history of my partners getting back with their exs. Almost every single person I’ve been with, casual or serious, has cheated, usually with an ex. It’s comical at this point. So I vowed in my next relationship to not even bother engaging… Continue reading Should it be okay for men you date to still talk to their exs

I wish I could stay home during my period

Can I speak to the man in charge?

Wife and I are looking for a new place to call home, currently in ND which sucks, trying to find someplace more safe.

As a cis woman, I don’t feel any more or less safe in any city regardless of what types of things I carry on my person. I do take a hunting knife on hiking trails (just in case) and have a pen knife on my key ring that I’ve fortunately never needed. Most weapons and… Continue reading Wife and I are looking for a new place to call home, currently in ND which sucks, trying to find someplace more safe.

My fiancé (to be husband) believes saving up for financial independence which I don’t

You should seriously have a conversation about this. Marriage is a financial commitment and you should at least be on the same page about financial goals. Some spouses have purely separate finances. Some have shared and separated finances. Others have fully joined finances. Which is best depends on your goals but, and I say this… Continue reading My fiancé (to be husband) believes saving up for financial independence which I don’t

My boobs popped out while dancing

Every woman in the world has had a nip slip on some occasion. Sometimes at the beach when you come out of the water, sometimes in a club… If you have boobs, you are prone to have nip slips and that is not the end of the world. If a person saw it, they probably… Continue reading My boobs popped out while dancing

How long after being in your relationship did you lose interest in your partner and why?

Does anyone else feel “gender envy?”

Disclaimer: I am not trans, I feel very comfortable in my identity as a woman and I always have, but I get jealous of my male friends features? Like for example having a masculine tall body frame, big hands and deep voices eg typical male features ig. I talked to my girl friends and they… Continue reading Does anyone else feel “gender envy?”

Question: My wife has a pretty large pimple on her inner labia. Anything she can do but wait?

To be clear, I don’t know that it’s actually a pimple, rather than a cyst or something else. But it looks very similar to a whitehead before it gets the white head (if that makes sense). It’s about the size of a pea and it’s on the inside of her inner labia. She says it’s… Continue reading Question: My wife has a pretty large pimple on her inner labia. Anything she can do but wait?

When did you stop getting so easily emotionally attached to men?

I could have written this post. Honestly the only reason I’ve been able to reign in my feelings is because I had a really bad experience with a guy. My mom always told me there are worse things than being single, but I couldn’t really believe it. But after this last guy I truly can… Continue reading When did you stop getting so easily emotionally attached to men?

DAE have this hair situation?

So this is super weird and I’ve tried Googling it but haven’t found anything, and I’m the only person I’ve seen who seems to have this. The hair on my head is naturally a medium blonde and I’m very pale, but all of my body hair is jet black. I have a thick black unibrow… Continue reading DAE have this hair situation?

Potential solution for creepy men on Instagram?

Now I don’t know how ethical this idea is. But, honestly I saw a comment saying that when women get creepy married men in their insta comments they sometimes @ their spouses which I personally think is a great idea. But what if someone made an account solely for the purpose of outing married men… Continue reading Potential solution for creepy men on Instagram?

It’s just ugly

Sorry in advance, but i really want it to look good since my man is ass-man🤧 Women — I want to know what is the secret of having more clean and smooth bum skin. My overall body skin is texture-free but my ass is just not as smooth as it supposed to be. I have… Continue reading It’s just ugly

Question for the ladies… please comment

I have a question for all the ladies out there. Even if we don’t talk or barely talk please comment your opinion I want to know… Let’s say you have a man who loves you, protects you, supports you and provides for you and you don’t work. Let’s say you never have to work again… Continue reading Question for the ladies… please comment

I’m so sorry about my last post on here. I was very ignorant.

That post came from a place of anger and ignorance. I was ignorant to what minorities go through with Eurocentric beauty standards. Truth is I’ve never seen a south European like me ever included in these conversations. So I got the impression that my feelings weren’t valid. I’m white, I have privilege, and I should… Continue reading I’m so sorry about my last post on here. I was very ignorant.

I hate being told my insecurities dont matter because Im white

Growing up for me was hard. I was surrounded by girls I wanted to look like. Blonde, light eyed, straight hair and slender. Im white specifically Italian so I look far from that. Im trying to unlearn everything that I have learned so I can feel good about myself. But I hate how that because… Continue reading I hate being told my insecurities dont matter because Im white

Best gaming/office chair?

I am getting my period on today on christmas. Please pray that my light clothes dont get ruined

Can you drink on metronidazole?

Looking for advice. Where do you buy button down shirts/blouses when you got boobs?

Who’s the funniest woman you know?

Is it normal to be ‘hairy af’ for a teenager?

It is pretty normal for women to develop facial hair after hitting puberty. If it is light in color and soft to touch, like many others said, it is quite natural and there is nothing to worry about. But if some of them are a bit coarse, then it could be because of hirsutism, which… Continue reading Is it normal to be ‘hairy af’ for a teenager?

Birthday outfit advice!!!

A Reuters special report. Why detransitioners are crucial to the science of gender care (what do you think of this article?)

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading A Reuters special report. Why detransitioners are crucial to the science of gender care (what do you think of this article?)

Difficulty going commando?

Why do you personally want to go commando, though? If it makes you self conscious and causes discomfort, you don’t have to do it? I don’t wear undies, like, at home when I’m wearing cotton bike shorts/baggy tracks dacks. But the thought of wearing jeans or work trousers without undies gives me the heebie jeebies…… Continue reading Difficulty going commando?

Empowering music artists/songs?

Endless toilet seat debate

I saw a tiktok video about men leaving the toilet seat up as a power dynamic. Basically, they refuse to do it because it’s one of their little ways of asserting power even if it’s subtle. I left a comment on the video, but because of the limited character max on tiktok posts, I couldn’t… Continue reading Endless toilet seat debate

Hormonal influx/imbalance prior to period leading to dropping mental health

Advice or insightful experiences needed. English isn’t my first language. I’ve noticed several times that before my period arrives, I would enter a lethargic state of mind where I’m more sensitive with things I’ve shown particular dislikes at. More often than not, it takes a toll on my mental health. I haven’t been accessible to… Continue reading Hormonal influx/imbalance prior to period leading to dropping mental health

Is it normal that I don’t really have feelings for anyone

I’m not sure what’s wrong with me but I recently became aware that I don’t really have any sort of emotional attachment with anyone anymore Like when I left home to go for college and live abroad, I didn’t really care that I was leaving my family behind. Like when I’m living abroad…people ask whether… Continue reading Is it normal that I don’t really have feelings for anyone

If a woman you don’t know asks you out to coffee, do you assume it’s a lesbian date?

As a woman, if another woman you don’t really know were to approach you and say you seem interesting and ask you out to coffee, would you assume it’s a romantic/lesbian date, or just assume it’s friendly and platonic? Say for instance you’ve just seen her around a few times but don’t know her name… Continue reading If a woman you don’t know asks you out to coffee, do you assume it’s a lesbian date?

How to interact with men that embody hegemonic masculinity and toxic masculinity?

Where do you find motivation to take care of yourself?

I put my toothpaste on top of my tub of face wash so I use that instead of the hand soap. I wake up early because I have kids to take to school. I cook myself lunches by making a vegetable heavy dinner in the crock pot like twice a week and eating it for… Continue reading Where do you find motivation to take care of yourself?

Honesty anything even mentioning women gets so much hate.

Not the only non looker

i guess i didn’t realize there were so many people who straight up don’t care to see what’s going on down there?? to each their own of course, but it’s your own body—there is no need to feel embarrassed at all, because it’s just you, you know, you’re the only one looking. i think of… Continue reading Not the only non looker

Body odour

My sister makes one that has been the most powerful for her and her teenage daughter who both sweat buckets. This is the recipe, but I don’t think she uses corn starch, it’s almost impossible to find in the UK, unless online. I think she uses corn flour. https://thehomemadeexperiment.com/homemade-deodorant-powder/ You can put it any where… Continue reading Body odour

Does this annoy anyone else?

I’m going to start off by saying I’m ace and that might be affecting my view on this. Is it really annoying to anyone else when a man who seems interested in you asks to “hang out” alone. Just ask me out. I’m going to say no either way, but at least I can still… Continue reading Does this annoy anyone else?

I JUST learned that you’re not supposed to flush tampons

I hate it when I take my tampon out to poop, then stick a new one in when I finish, just to have to poop again shortly after & take it out all over again & replug myself once again. UGH LOL

tampons -especially if already absorbed some blood and fluids- tend to dislocate or come out when pushing. i’ve been using a menstrual cup for the past decade and find it easier too but even with the vacuum, sometimes it might dislocate a little if one has to push a lot, especially if the cup has… Continue reading I hate it when I take my tampon out to poop, then stick a new one in when I finish, just to have to poop again shortly after & take it out all over again & replug myself once again. UGH LOL

I’ve been having trouble with masturbation

How to stop a flirt with a guy you like?

One or two months ago, I came accross a nice guy. we started talking, spending time together and I really love his personnality, like really. but i don’t like him physically (his face is nice but i don’t find his body attractive), and at the start I was i can’t be stop just on appearances… Continue reading How to stop a flirt with a guy you like?

Azalia?

Billie Eilish – quote

I think that dating someone you’re attracted to helps with the relationship. That being said, everyone has different things they look for romantically so what’s ugly to one person isn’t ugly to another. Some people also become attracted to people more as they know them, so ya know, don’t date someone you aren’t attracted to… Continue reading Billie Eilish – quote

What’s a woman?

How do I express my feelings in a way that my boyfriend will take seriously?

Background: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, we don’t have many fights and I think he treats me well. He has mild Aspergers and I am aware that he can be unintentionally blunt and he may have a hard time reading social cues. At the beginning of our relationship, he… Continue reading How do I express my feelings in a way that my boyfriend will take seriously?

Rape Culture and the fashion world

I’m sure we are all very aware about the current controversy regarding Balenciaga, recently Gucci came under fire too when the Gucci family sex abuse story came out and the fact that they are owned by the same company Kering. For a while there was intense pushback against the metoo movement and women were being… Continue reading Rape Culture and the fashion world

overbearing husband

For context, we are both very different people. I am fiercely independent and prefer physical contact to be limited and on my terms. I feel trapped very quickly. Being autistic doesn’t help as well as having trauma. I’m not home every day for work reasons, and it often seems like he gropes me before even… Continue reading overbearing husband

Regarding a systematic crude humour towards women

I don’t know where else to ask this, but I’ve seen a late increase of jokes really objectifying and undermining women, for example “tired of men looking at your boobs? then turn around, we like your ass too” and stuff like that … I wonder if there’s a subreddit or anywhere else online where women… Continue reading Regarding a systematic crude humour towards women

Mansplaining?

I’m not always good at detecting the underlying signals in communication, which doesn’t help. There’s a pattern I see, often in tech domains, where I will ask a very specific question, “How do I do X using Y and Z?”, and I will get men who reply with “Here’s how I would solve this problem,… Continue reading Mansplaining?

genuinely asking women who are also mommies

What do women want in life?

Serious question. I feel like I’ve been on the defense ever since I can remember. I’m successful in my field, intelligent (emotionally and mentally) and lucky enough to do what I like for a living. But I’m so angry with and sad about the inequalities, disrespect, and having to work harder than my male friends-… Continue reading What do women want in life?

Why did having preferences/types especially for women become a ,,wrong“ thing. Extra: get to judge mine

So I Wanna be honest I never dated but whenever the topic comes (especially about types) I’m being called the biggest piece of crap for that. They always say it’s ,,unfair to have one. Maybe someone wants you but doesn’t fit into it“ It’s (in my opinion) not even an unrealistic type? But yeah. Now… Continue reading Why did having preferences/types especially for women become a ,,wrong“ thing. Extra: get to judge mine

I just want a hug

I think it is quite normal not to bond deeply emotionally with your mother even if she is your biological mother. And of course you will grief due to the lack of bonding, because you love your mother and want to bond with her. I somethimes feel the same about many of my nearest (and… Continue reading I just want a hug

I want to ask few personal questions

How can a haircut just completely sack your self esteem?

My period is one week late

Can anyone opt for a surrogacy?

I have always been adamant that I do not want children, but it is not the prospect of having a child that bothers me… it’s that I do not want to be pregnant or give birth. I am a mostly healthy woman able to carry a child but I do not want to. Often I’ve… Continue reading Can anyone opt for a surrogacy?

Does anyone else randomly think they’re pregnant all the time?

Why the need of constantly talking about your ex?

Why do people always try to humble women who are confident but praise men for being the same

Last week, I saw a video of a woman showing off her medals and the comments were just full of salty people trying to belittle her and in general just saying mean things about her “bragging” and such. But in the same day, I saw a similar video of a guy showing off his awards… Continue reading Why do people always try to humble women who are confident but praise men for being the same

How a Failure of Intersectionality hurt Amber’s Case

Can’t deal with the pressure to look good

Want to glow up and change my appearance. Never paid much attention to it before. Now that I do I’m realising just how much I really have to get done and its so offputting. I have horrible amounts of body hair everywhere. On my face, legs, arms, back, butt, stomach, everywhere. My eyebrows look like… Continue reading Can’t deal with the pressure to look good

Ok this is a stretch, but I found a list of my mothers from years ago and I’m trying to figure out how they all correlate. Idk why this sun but let’s see if y’all know anything.(no pics allowed so this is what it was)

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Ok this is a stretch, but I found a list of my mothers from years ago and I’m trying to figure out how they all correlate. Idk why this sun but let’s see if y’all know anything.(no pics allowed so this is what it was)

Women, how would you rank these traits you want in a potential romantic partner

For me it’s about feeling that ‘spark,’ not that he necessarily looks a certain way. It might be (and was with my husband) more about pheromones, how he carries himself, his voice, a feeling of intense connection. Intelligence and personality are important and I personally have a thing for creative men. The magic of attraction… Continue reading Women, how would you rank these traits you want in a potential romantic partner

PSA for younger women, teens, and American female people in general

Because I know the sex education in this country is abysmal. This advice probably works for trans women and male people, but biological sex definitely plays a part here. Just because a man or boy says they are “clean” (clear of STD’s) does not mean they are “clean.” Unless they really test for STD’s on… Continue reading PSA for younger women, teens, and American female people in general

Baby daddy arrested. Feeling lost.

I don’t know what to do I wish there was a rehab to withdrawal from a connection so strong, toxic & abusive… I was doing so well had women’s refuge involved my mental health was starting to get right everything was going right… It then took one night of weakness with the childs father and… Continue reading Baby daddy arrested. Feeling lost.

I’m tired of men

Some art I made because I like to dismantle the patriarchy one joke at a time.

Period is shortening please help

How do you shake off a crush you really shouldn’t have?

Funny question- have u ever kicked a guy ( or brother ) in the balls?

Would it sound weird if I told a guy that I’m interested in getting to know him?

So, I have this guy at work, caught my attention when I first saw him, and got a chance to have a small talk with him. We are at the greeting bases. Here’s the thing though, he works in the same building but different department and there’s basically no contact between the work he does… Continue reading Would it sound weird if I told a guy that I’m interested in getting to know him?

From one women to another, what happened when you got off birth control? What changed?

Girls, how bad do u think it hurts to b kicked in the balls ?

A poem I wrote : an ode to women and to my ancestresses

Ode to my ancestresses Sweet counting rhymes Echoing between these walls Warmth carressing me In this shelter of gentleness In these French fields One thousand cows on this plateau Mountains and sea Forests and meadows Woman is the origin Traditions keeper They gave me the keys They will protect me forever Values, ancient tales and… Continue reading A poem I wrote : an ode to women and to my ancestresses

Writing a book about women’s sexuality and desires. (need your help)

Hi, I am writing a book about the sexual desires of women and how women are depicted in modern-day society. I would love to hear how you feel about the way women are depicted in today’s society and what you would want to change about it. A large part of the book is also about… Continue reading Writing a book about women’s sexuality and desires. (need your help)

Pap smears Test

Hello everyone, I’m posting this to confirm if my feeling is normal or not. I’m male currently very upset at my wife that she found a new male family doctor for regular check up and she also did Pap smears test that she thought nurse would do the test instead of male doctor, it ended… Continue reading Pap smears Test

Favorite bidet attachment brand? are they all the same? i want to install a couple in my home.

Thick hymen

woman’s equality

does anyone have different sized areolas?

IUD and pregnancy

does everybody have THAT uncle ?

Having a penis in a sex dream?

IUD question

Squirting is pee right?

It’s not pee, though there is trace amounts of urine in it. It’s a hormonal liquid that fills up in your bladder so if theres any urine in there itll get mixed in with it. I’ve been able to do it before but it has to be done a specific way, and i had to… Continue reading Squirting is pee right?

Is it normal for jeans to become tight on the stomach while sitting down?

I have a short torso! So where I bend at the waist is in immediate vicinity to thighs, stomach, boobs. It gets HELLA uncomfortable to sit in jeans, especially since my body shape requires high-waisted jeans. I have to unzip them in the car. Bad posture is a thing too but like, in the car… Continue reading Is it normal for jeans to become tight on the stomach while sitting down?

When does trying to appear unproblematic become a negative trait ?

I have male friends who , if I try to talk about other male friends with them for obvious reasons , they will back them up SO strongly that we cannot even address their behaviour . When I talk to female friends about friends they will discuss their own opinions and feelings and also my… Continue reading When does trying to appear unproblematic become a negative trait ?

Is it safe to walk on a trail

There’s little to no security or monitoring of the trails and parks near me. Unless it is summertime, not a lot of people around either. Easy for someone to sneak behind you, jump out of a corner, etc. With all that in mind, I still use them, but avoid them at night and if I… Continue reading Is it safe to walk on a trail

what are the characteristics of a woman who is “a beautiful soul”

I’m trying to decide something lol

Bikini Wax… How bad does it hurt? Is it worth it?

Guy won’t stop trying to follow me online

A guy I befriend around five years ago won’t stop trying to connect with me on social media. I’ve got his number, Instagram, Snapchat and TikTok blocked. I don’t even know how he found my TikTok it was on private and wasn’t obviously my account ie name and pfp. I thought I’d finally blocked him… Continue reading Guy won’t stop trying to follow me online

Period question: Does anyone else get sharp pain when they sit down too fast while on their period?

Advices :)

I hate being nice to creepy men

I’m curious about your response to “what do you bring to the table”?

How do you get over the desire for perfection? Please tell me your “done is better than perfect” stories.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading How do you get over the desire for perfection? Please tell me your “done is better than perfect” stories.

Dry nipples

I hate men

I’m a large girl, always have been. I’m still only a teenager but I’ve had my fair share of mockings and jokes from men (boys, really). In secondary school they used to ask me out a lot as a joke. They’d say stuff to me like “hi sweetheart” or “y’alright darling” and I hate it.… Continue reading I hate men

EDs and calorie counting

Ive been having a time recently recognizing that i have an eating disorder and how my mother contributed to that. She never really made any negative comments on my figure but definitely passed a lot of guilt to me about the financial cost of the food i ate. So i never really worried about how… Continue reading EDs and calorie counting

I just lost my first love. What should I do

My ex wants me back.

So a few months ago, my ex texted me on SMS, telling me how I was right and how he was wrong about everything. Basically, I was the other women. He had a girlfriend before me, they took a break from dating, he asked me to be friends with benefits and some how “fell in… Continue reading My ex wants me back.

Women, what are your thoughts on Andrew Tate? is he based or not?

Is it ok to stop taking contraceptive pills while mid pack?

Why do guys turn everything sexual?

Is there a way for us to help the non-violent incels?

I get disturbed when I read incel content, but when I read some of the non violent, more on the likes of sad-cringe incel posts I get really sad. A lot of them just want human touch, something physical to hold and lean on to. They are stuck in this terrible mindset that they need… Continue reading Is there a way for us to help the non-violent incels?

Smutty book recommendations

A new subreddit r/TwoXKorea

I create a new subreddit r/TwoXKorea to provide a safe space to discuss concerns that matter to Korean women (both those in Korea and Korean diaspora). There has been a mass feminist awakening in the country and massive backlash against it, but there are few spaces on Reddit where women can discuss it without anxiety.… Continue reading A new subreddit r/TwoXKorea

Should I tell this girl I been speaking to I’ve been going through mental health?

How to help potential hormone imbalance?

Before you ask, I tried the doctors they either ignored me or tried shoving birth control down my throat Atp I am pretty sure the reason for my stubborn weight, excess hair and badly irregular periods is part of a hormone imbalance, and I’m wondering what I can do to help it so I can… Continue reading How to help potential hormone imbalance?

Plan B during period

Any idea why my mood has shifted recently?

Okay so, I just moved out of my Moms house for the first time and I’ve been sick and on my period. And yeah it’s all very stressful, but it doesnt make sense why my mood has changed so drastically? Im crazy emotional, irritated, angry, easily offended etc. i can’t stand my job anymore out… Continue reading Any idea why my mood has shifted recently?

i, a girl, don’t shave my armpits. how do you feel about this?

If your comfortable then good! I’m the same way. My armpit hair is long more often than short. For me it became just another dumb thing that I was like why? Why do I need to? I will honestly shave it in the summer only cause I don’t like the way it looks on me… Continue reading i, a girl, don’t shave my armpits. how do you feel about this?

Please tell me I’m not alone 😭

I need ladies opinion on this.. my bf judges me for being intimate with other men in the past.

I’m sorry he is being emotional abusive. I heard this recently. If someone hands you a glass of water w a poop in it so you want the water? Why? The shit ruins the water right? Him being emotionally abusive is shit in the water. You want to drink the water he offers? My first… Continue reading I need ladies opinion on this.. my bf judges me for being intimate with other men in the past.

Trying to slim down a little as a mom of two

What was your biggest period mistake?

I was on a very fancy trip with my boyfriend’s family. In the middle of the drive up there I got the hugest bloodiest period ever two and a half weeks early. I was completely unprepared, so at a gas station I crammed a whole bunch of toilet paper in my underwear discreetly bought a… Continue reading What was your biggest period mistake?

I CANNOT do skincare

I’ve tried doing skincare or at least, apply a moisturizer. I absolutely cannot get myself to apply any sort of cream, moisturizer, oil, gel etc. I mean, It feels sticky and heavy and feels like there’s something bothering me and something I gotta get rid off before entering the bed. It’s more like baggage to… Continue reading I CANNOT do skincare

Why do all my pants fit on me this way

U.S. Self Protection Standards

One of the main things I hear women expect of men in society is for them to be aware of basic body language out in public so women don’t feel in danger. I totally get this and am all for it. However, for most women in the US who may not have access to resources… Continue reading U.S. Self Protection Standards

Am I the only one?!?

I’m sure there are other posts about this… there has to be but I’m lazy and didn’t look. WTF did women do for UTIs and shit in the Middle Ages or just before tested medication was a real thing? I ask because when I was googling how to get rid of my UTI it basically… Continue reading Am I the only one?!?

has anyone been pregnant after having their period ?

Male here. Are there any rights men have that women still don’t?

Not country specific but oof here we go. No voting righs,no rights to teir body, cant have abortions, can get married without wanting to like , child marriage, body mutilation as a child etc without consent,less pay rate, lesbian marriage not allowed, no say in many things, many other rights on ur own body like… Continue reading Male here. Are there any rights men have that women still don’t?

Past two weeks I’ve had a strange experience. every good hair day is a bad mental health day.

uterus owning and pregnant folk of r/women

Looking for a bullet remote vibrator to have fun with my girlfriend outside

So…. Christmas’s coming. I and my gf have been discussing about a remote vibrator, the one she’d keep inside of her even while outside and that I can easily control. It’s supposed to be a surprise but i’m not very knowleadgeable on this, and the ones on amazon look too big to be carried around… Continue reading Looking for a bullet remote vibrator to have fun with my girlfriend outside

Isnt it ironic that in this sub most of the posts are about men but in r/men there is rarely any post about women?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Isnt it ironic that in this sub most of the posts are about men but in r/men there is rarely any post about women?

What’s the funniest thing you notice about your husband (if you have one) when you’re in bed?

How to get over a fear of calling someone through phone?

Just Why?!?

I was out walking on a trail near my house this morning, trying to get my steps in and enjoying nature and this random guy who was out running on the trail, passed me, then stopped and said ‘you’re pretty enough, you should be running’. I blew him off and said ‘no thanks, it’s hard… Continue reading Just Why?!?

Pregnancy complications

Had to get creative lol

New job!

How to avoid chub rub from underwear?

Women of reddit

is it ok to call your friends husband to hang socially at an event when she is out of town ?

This is why we can’t have nice things

I was just walking through town and a random guy asked me if I had a lighter, to which i replied with “no, i don’t smoke” and he had the audacity to say “ah, i don’t blame you. A pretty lady has got to stay pure” and I- BLEAUGHHHHH (that was me throwing up). It… Continue reading This is why we can’t have nice things

Does anyone else want to act motherly toward their partner when ovulating?

I don’t want kids. My partner isn’t in need of a mother. When I’m ovulating though, I just want to baby him. I want to do things like “rock” him to sleep or make sure he is taking care of himself when I normally wouldn’t be concerned. Is that a normal thing? Does anyone else… Continue reading Does anyone else want to act motherly toward their partner when ovulating?

Women of Reddit, on the subject of gifts, do you prefer to be asked, what do you want or for it to be a surprise?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women of Reddit, on the subject of gifts, do you prefer to be asked, what do you want or for it to be a surprise?

How to tell whether a compliment is actually creepy or not?

Last week a custodian at my university complimented me saying that I had a pretty smile. He said it in an overly friendly and enthusiastic voice. I was flattered yet felt a bit weird at the same time. Yesterday when I ran into him again he complimented me again even though this time I gave… Continue reading How to tell whether a compliment is actually creepy or not?

(Who can relate?) my boobs hurt so bad for seemingly no reason 😎

weight gain

Anyone else lose their appetite for the week before their period?

My wife’s appetite can be unpredictable the majority of the time, with decreased appetite before or after her period and increased appetite before or after her period. She also notices that, on a more consistent schedule, her body gets extremely warm and/or sweaty around her period. (What she is currently experiencing atm)

is this normal?

hey! this is gonna sound really weird but im a teen and i can promise y’all i’m not pregnant. i’ve noticed that sometimes if i squeeze my nips a certain way, what seems to be white pus comes out. it’s not a lot, just like a tiny amount like if a pimple was being popped… Continue reading is this normal?

Popularity

How are you sure you’re a woman?

I have this question because I’ve been questioning my gender for a few years. I was assigned female at birth and still present as a woman to everyone I know, but sometimes I look at men and I wish I looked like them, I fantasize what my life would’ve been like if I was biologically… Continue reading How are you sure you’re a woman?

Male here. Are there any reasons as to why western women are oppressed?

A dialogue between me and a male friend who used to be very open and kind has surprised me . Are men around you becoming tated too ?

This dialogue came after he posted a weird video about men not being men so I was shocked to find out he wasn’t trolling . Given his history as a pretty decent and gentle guy who understands women . This is what he said : “It’s not toxic it never was toxic and it’s only… Continue reading A dialogue between me and a male friend who used to be very open and kind has surprised me . Are men around you becoming tated too ?

Question

Would you be a little upset or sad if your husband had better and longer hair than you?

Say that your husband has double the length hair than you and it’s always luscious and straight and shiny etc, and yours is frizzy and getting postpartum hair loss. And everyone compliments your husband on his hair all the time and you work so hard to make yours look good but now everyone compliments his… Continue reading Would you be a little upset or sad if your husband had better and longer hair than you?

United States women, no different.

I’m a bit confused by “yes we live in the United States”. Who is “we”? Reddit is global. This has happened to me years ago when I dated men. This is in the UK btw. But less of an implication that I wasn’t safe, more like a “if he’s not with you he doesn’t deserve… Continue reading United States women, no different.

Join our new meme group chat!!

What is your shower routine?

Hello ladies, I’m sorry if this isn’t exactly on topic for this sub, I tried posting it in another more relevant sub and for whatever reason they wouldn’t allow me to…very strange. Anyways, my question is for women, so I think this would still be a great place to ask. I’m just curious, what is… Continue reading What is your shower routine?

Do you ever feel like you’re the token diversity hire?

is this considered creepy or is it a good thing to do

It’s good that you are self-aware of your behaviors, your male-privilege, and potential to make her feel uncomfortable. Please just ask her if she wants you to check up on her or if she wants some space. If she asks for space, give it to her and don’t contact her outside of school again unless… Continue reading is this considered creepy or is it a good thing to do

Best mini-pill?

Hi all, looking for advice on what do you find the best oral contraception that you’ve tried. Currently not on anything and thinking it’s time to go back on. Had a shitty time with the mirena coil, and depo-shot so looking to go back to the mini-pill. I have options to choose from and therefore… Continue reading Best mini-pill?

Need girls to share memes with!?

Who are you who give your jewelry away to goodwill instead of just losing them?

Am I expecting too much from my friends?

I’m in a bad situation with an abusive ex. Luckily I got out but he has said and done crazy things after the break up and I should probably file a police report. I’m very scared of him and want to go to the police but I’m afraid to. My girls friends are strongly encouraging… Continue reading Am I expecting too much from my friends?

The voice my boyfriend uses when speaking to me

I’ve been with him for about four years and today was the first time I heard his “bro” voice. I almost didn’t recognize that it was him speaking. His voice sings a little when he talks to me. It’s not lovey-dovey baby talk either, just a different register. I feel like it’s harder for me… Continue reading The voice my boyfriend uses when speaking to me

Hormone Balancing Diets?

Hello! I tried looking up existing posts about this but didn’t find any, I apologize if I looked up the wrong things and missed them. I have been seeing a lot of “hormone balancing” recipes on social media, along with diets that are designed specifically to line up with your menstrual cycle. I feel bloated… Continue reading Hormone Balancing Diets?

Accidentally got soap inside vagina while taking a shower.

Is it just me or society pressures women to have kids ?

To keep the current population stable, every woman needs to have on average two children: one to replace her and one to replace her mate. If every woman had just one child we’d cut our global population in half in just a few generations. Capitalism requires exponential growth to make the people at the top… Continue reading Is it just me or society pressures women to have kids ?

A must read

If all women could agree on this one thing, the world would be a better place.

I have a hygiene problem

Weak bladder runs in my family and I’ve been one of the ones born with a weak bladder and it’s making keeping myself clean hard. I always wear period pads so I don’t wet my pants but it’s not always perfect. I am sick of having to change so often because of it so I… Continue reading I have a hygiene problem

Trans woman here, are there any upsides to being a woman..?

Wow, do I disagree with almost everything you listed. Yes, you can do what you want, but a LOT of people feel like they have the right to judge you, and they do. They sure do care, and criticize you for any and all of your choices. You are expected to deescalate potentially violent disagreements… Continue reading Trans woman here, are there any upsides to being a woman..?

I want so badly to have a partner.

I’ve been I relationships but I’ve never had a partner. Tbh my friendships have been more of partnership’s than any relationship I’ve had abd u realzied I’ve been counting too much on them which isn’t bad in itself but it is bad when all your friends get into relationships that become their primary partnership and… Continue reading I want so badly to have a partner.

How to Respond to an Offensive Comment at Work

Need advice on what to do when a guy catcalls me

I usually just ignore them but that sometimes doesn’t work and they keep pestering me. I sometimes get the urge to just tell them to fuck off. I’m scared to do this though because what if this dude decides he didn’t like me telling him that and decides he wants to do something about it….… Continue reading Need advice on what to do when a guy catcalls me

How do you stop breastfeeding?

It kind of depends on how old the baby is. The longer you breastfeed the more your milk supply regulates and you don’t get swollen and engorged anymore, so weaning isn’t as physically painful. If you’re weaning early on it would definitely be painful and there’s a chance you could develop an infection (mastitis) so… Continue reading How do you stop breastfeeding?

Compartmentalization

Such a big part of female objectification is compartmentalization My body is not some collection of sizes and measurements- a pair of thighs, connected to a stomach, connected to a pair of tits, connected to shoulders My health is not the plate of food you see me eating, or the exercises you see me doing… Continue reading Compartmentalization

Can anyone educate me on henna, and whether some of the patterns have a meaning?

I come from a culture and religion that does not do henna on women. However, I am so drawn to henna and in particular colouring the upper parts of my hands fully (like in the full coverage design) with henna stain because I think it looks so beautiful and truly henna enhances the beauty of… Continue reading Can anyone educate me on henna, and whether some of the patterns have a meaning?

What’s y’all’s takes on open relationships?

If women got supers power based off of their gender what would it be

So i’m writing super powers based off of gender, sexuality and maybe biological sex. It’s just a fun project i’m not writing a book or anything, but it does fit into a larger writing project called OSD but i’m not going to ramble on about that because you would probably get bored. I Drew a… Continue reading If women got supers power based off of their gender what would it be

Patient Gloria

Women gathering to scream!

I like a guy but he has a girlfriend

How do I get over him? I see him every day and was under the impression that he was single. I didn’t even want to have a relationship with him, I mostly wanted to just admire him from afar and maybe become friends. Now I feel guilty whenever I think about him bc he has… Continue reading I like a guy but he has a girlfriend

Time of the month?

I’m a little confused by the post TBH Are you saying you have never experienced bleeding before but, now that you’ve come out as genderfluid, are wondering if your current feelings mimic those of people that physically bleed? I was under the understanding that gender was a construct but sex was not and that the… Continue reading Time of the month?

Could anyone recommend influencers to help improve your overall lifestyle and wellbeing?

Tips for how to go out and not get hit on. I went out with some girlfriends to hear a band play in a bar( dressed super casual, fleece jacket and jeans) and several of the men seemed to be on the prowl. What are the things you do to signal you don’t want to be approached?

So I received a lot of unwanted attention tonight when we were jammin’ to a honkytonk band and am not sure what I did to invite it. I am quite friendly, I do sometimes make brief eye contact with people but i think that’s just human nature. I was not wanting to be approached ,… Continue reading Tips for how to go out and not get hit on. I went out with some girlfriends to hear a band play in a bar( dressed super casual, fleece jacket and jeans) and several of the men seemed to be on the prowl. What are the things you do to signal you don’t want to be approached?

Finally don’t feel scared to stand up to men

I’m dying of cramps

Found out that I have pubic hair in the inner lip of my vulva, any tips?

Been getting the feeling of irritation in the inner part of my vulva, sometimes it hurts. Recently saw that I have pubic hair in that part and also saw that there’s a whitish pimple constructing near it. Any tips or remedies for it? Is it possible to get it removed without any complications? Thank you… Continue reading Found out that I have pubic hair in the inner lip of my vulva, any tips?

What is the female edition of incels?

how do i stop holding a grudge on a narcissist guy

A guy since i known since middle school has been a cheater, a liar, manipulative as fuck. Im datin his cousin so i see him from time to time. I stopped going to family parties because i dont want to see his face. He used to be my friend but i dont support a cheater… Continue reading how do i stop holding a grudge on a narcissist guy

What makes you feel “feminine”?

I know that femininity is a very subjective idea, and has a different look and definition for everyone. Our uniqueness is what makes us all so very beautiful. For me, I often feel so out of touch with my own femininity. I want to be the woman I have dreamed of being since I was… Continue reading What makes you feel “feminine”?

What’s the most important quality to you, looks or money?

Creepy man took my Chili and it’s wasn’t worth fighting over

I came into a snack bar where I work. There was a man standing there deciding what to have for lunch. One of the people who work there told me that he had one order of Chili. The man that was in front of me said that he wanted the Chili. I looked at him… Continue reading Creepy man took my Chili and it’s wasn’t worth fighting over

A guy asks for your number and you give a fake and he asks to test it? There’s an app for that.

The app is called Burner but there are many variations of it on the app store. It essentially gives you a second “fake number” that still sends calls and texts. So next time a sleezeball at a bar pulls the aforementioned scenario on you, you can be prepared! Not sure if this has been shared… Continue reading A guy asks for your number and you give a fake and he asks to test it? There’s an app for that.

Pregnancy TERRIFIES ME!!!

To start I’m very high while writing thing so it is one of those run on thoughts I will one call myself a deep thinker over. I’m just sitting here thinking about my future and hopes and dream. And I’m thinking about my hope to have a kid. And I’m thinking of like educational things… Continue reading Pregnancy TERRIFIES ME!!!

would you guys still be with your boyfriend/girlfriend if their family didnt like you

A man followed me in a store

A man followed me around in the store the other day. He had no cart and no groceries. He was acting very suspicious and was following me wherever I went and didn’t pick up any items. I tried to lose him by going all around the store but It didn’t work. He was staring at… Continue reading A man followed me in a store

Would you remain friends with a friend who is a cheater ?

Yeah i know probably you hear this question going around now but lets bring it on reddit. IN MY OPINION: i wouldnt. why would i remain being friends with someone who changes other peoples views on love, trust, and loyalty ? Yeah its not my problem, but why watch someone hurt other people ina way… Continue reading Would you remain friends with a friend who is a cheater ?

Doctor won’t treat my UTI

Please help I’ve been scammed on Snapchat

Someone please help because I am about to have a panic attack. There’s a guy that I only know from a dating app and then we added each other on Snapchat about a year ago. We had a little relationship but nothing ever came of it. Fast forward to a couple days ago he snapped… Continue reading Please help I’ve been scammed on Snapchat

Tinder & traveling abroad

What are some positive thoughts you keep in mind when you are not feeling any self love?

DOE not enjoy it?

Insecurity can ruin it, yes. Once you start overthinking what you do, you ruin it. Best way is to close eyes and just let it go. Aaaand also some people just don’t know how to do it, though it seems quite easy. But no, not all people do it well. Some use tip, some entire… Continue reading DOE not enjoy it?

In which situations do you notice other women’s body figure most?

Dealing with negative feedback

I’m a relatively recent grad at my first real corporate job, and it’s been a huge learning experience. I noticed that my boss tends to give a lot of feedback, but most of it is negative, with rare superficial compliments. I appreciate the feedback, and most of it is minor and fixable issues. It just… Continue reading Dealing with negative feedback

I have a bulge and idk what it is? Please help

Psa. I will be talking to my doctor So a couple weeks ago my last period was late. I was not pregnant I did have a regular period (I did pass some blood clots but that does happen pretty regularly on my period). And I noticed this bulge on my right side where my pooch… Continue reading I have a bulge and idk what it is? Please help

Annoyed at partner for no reason

someone asked if I was pregnant

They’re selfish jackasses. They think “oh that lady has a bit of weight around the middle, maybe she’s pregnant, how fun would it be if I’m right and I get to congratulate her! That will be so fun for us both!” And it doesn’t go deeper than that. They want to be seen as caring,… Continue reading someone asked if I was pregnant

Women meeting new female friends

Serious question: Do you think the man had to be the provider? And do you deem a man less attractive if he can’t provide enough?

So lately I’ve been seeing quite a few social media posts/videos/clips/comments of men saying their wife/girlfriend left them because the man in the relationship either couldn’t provide enough, or another man could provide substantially more. With provide I mean material needs, not emotional ones. My main takeaway from those posts is that women are far… Continue reading Serious question: Do you think the man had to be the provider? And do you deem a man less attractive if he can’t provide enough?

What Do You Want to Know About Boudoir and Lingerie

I’ve been blessed and cursed with being a part of a marketing company for a lingerie company. It started as a boudoir company, so the two sides financially support each other. ANYWAY, I’m responsible for filming and finding topics that people (women particularly) would be interested in. Are women even interested in these topics? I… Continue reading What Do You Want to Know About Boudoir and Lingerie

good rom coms that are not cheesy

We don’t need women

Go Commando

I’m a stay at home girlfriend. AMA

Hi I am asking these questions out of safety and curiosity. I do not assume you’re in an abusive situation, I don’t have any reason to believe that. It’s lovely that you’re able to have time to yourself I’m asking these questions because this is the only downfall I could see to being a stay… Continue reading I’m a stay at home girlfriend. AMA

Are any of you girl in the World Cup in Qatar ?

I got my period but haven’t finished my birth control pack. What do I do?

Are men easier to befriend or is it just me?

Different people are different. I love women, but I have way more male friends because I spend most of my free time doing male-dominated activities: basketball, surfing, mountain biking, rock climbing. Due simply to representation and availability, I meet a lot more men than women. Stereotypically, women tend to look for close friends and confidants,… Continue reading Are men easier to befriend or is it just me?

Might have endometriosis and I’m terrified

I went to my gynecologist last month to talk about why birth control hasn’t been working for me in helping my cramps and she suspected it might be endometriosis but wasn’t sure and said we wouldn’t know until next month and put me on depo which I used to take that helped but stopped due… Continue reading Might have endometriosis and I’m terrified

Worst rom-coms you have seen recently, and why?

Some Gay men are just as misogynistic if not more than straight men

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A rant about a guy I’m swooning over lol

Went to this adorable Korean restaurant with my friends yesterday and… saw this EXTREMELY cute korean guy; turns out, he’s POLITE TOO! Like, WOW. He was working on his laptop and all of sudden, accidentally dropped his phone. We all looked at him haha and he looked back. and gave us a thumbs up and… Continue reading A rant about a guy I’m swooning over lol

A guy knew what labia minora was and I thought that was hot

Why do you reject certain men?

I was wondering after hearing of women rejecting guys who are too nice, or too mean, or bad fashion style, too big, too short, etc. Are any of these legit reasons why you would reject a guy who asks you out? Do women truly know what they want, when sometimes women say they want a… Continue reading Why do you reject certain men?

Any advice for healing scars down there ?

Suggestions for shower alternative?

TMI so sorry I’m advance. Also, thank you for any advice! So long story short, I’ve gone to visit my parents’ house for a week, and it turns out they can no longer take care of their home. We are currently working out a solution. My issue right now is that I desperately want a… Continue reading Suggestions for shower alternative?

Men make me feel afraid rant

I’m a high schooler. So I went to bring something from my locker and I had to bend down to get it basically. When I came back to the class my classmate came to tell me that our male teacher was staring at me while I was bent over. He’s a P.E. teacher and I’ve… Continue reading Men make me feel afraid rant

Question to straight women. How do you date men/guys and feel safe around them when most of them are misogynistic even a little bit?

Question to straight women. How do you date men/guys and feel safe around them when most of them are misogynistic even a little bit? My biggest problem tho is that guys don’t really understand how unsafe I feel anywhere outside my home. My cptsd makes it even worse. Every time a man harasses me i… Continue reading Question to straight women. How do you date men/guys and feel safe around them when most of them are misogynistic even a little bit?

why do people defend women with plastic surgery so much?

I feel like there is a veil of hypocrisy when it comes to this topic. I know a girl that at first was like “If she is happy with her surgery let her be” “oh if you had the money you would also change yourself” and then the same person calling out that same woman… Continue reading why do people defend women with plastic surgery so much?

Threading

I try to minimize the amount of time I’m wearing a bra. Besides wearing tight tank tops underneath the tshirts and wearing shirts with big busy high contrast prints over the breast area, what are some of your favorite ways to hide poky nipples and discretely go braless in public?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I try to minimize the amount of time I’m wearing a bra. Besides wearing tight tank tops underneath the tshirts and wearing shirts with big busy high contrast prints over the breast area, what are some of your favorite ways to hide poky nipples and discretely go braless in public?

The one freaking time I don’t wear black underwear

What do I avoid in makeup if i have uneven eye( mild ptosis) , cuz i realized when i put concealer on my eyes my friends will tell me i look tired or my eyes is sleepy

Personally, I would get a consultation from a makeup artist or two. This service is free at makeup counters since they want you to buy products, if they work for you. Everyone‘s face is different and you have endless options with makeup, some of which will work for you and some of which won‘t.

IUDs

How to raise libido

There are MANY ways to explore sex. And many do not require penetration. Try games, romantic hang outs, intimacy play, toys for him, toys for her, roleplay, exchangism, blindfolding, ect. Organize nights out (or in) where you put a focus on exploring intimacy. Make it clear that the goal is pleasure, but not penetration. Do… Continue reading How to raise libido

How to let go of guilt

My boyfriend and I had a rough start to our relationship. We met abroad. It was messy. I then moved far away for him and we moved in together right away, and it was very difficult. I had a lot of trust issues because of the way he treated me when we first started seeing… Continue reading How to let go of guilt

Bra band isn’t tight by cups aren’t wide enough?

Hello fellow boob owners. Has anyone every gotten ThirdLove bras before? I’m looking for a better fit. I don’t feel like my band is too tight but like the cups aren’t wide enough. I took a fit quiz that took into account my current brand (Victoria’s Secret), size, and how well it’s fitting and it… Continue reading Bra band isn’t tight by cups aren’t wide enough?

Where do you shop for makeup?

stopped taking the pill mid month

hello! i was half way through my pill pack for this month and I am currently on holiday with my partner. Unfortunately my bag with my pill in it got lost on the plane and the airline cannot find it. So i have had to stop taking it as i do not have access to… Continue reading stopped taking the pill mid month

What are your non-negotiable sexual boundaries(or non-boundaries)?

Don’t let him free to harm another female. Women unite!

Electric razor recommendations?

Okay so! Since it’s winter and absolutely no one but me is seeing my legs and I can’t be bothered to go through the trouble of shaving in the shower, what’s the opinion on electric razors? I’d prefer as close cut as possible, but again no one is seeing my legs so I’m not too… Continue reading Electric razor recommendations?

“the feeling after you take your bra off” blablabla, what about the feeling of changing from leggings to sweatpants before bed?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading “the feeling after you take your bra off” blablabla, what about the feeling of changing from leggings to sweatpants before bed?

I feel absolutely embarrassed that I left my used sanitary pad in a shared bathroom

strawberry skin remedies ?

in a lot of pain after getting gel nail extensions taken off

Destigmatizing Periods

I just saw a commercial for maxi pads (Always I think) where the liquid they poured on to demonstrate how much it absorbs was actually red! For decades they have been showing period blood the color of windshield washer fluid. Nice to see a small step towards making periods a normal thing. We bleed, get… Continue reading Destigmatizing Periods

Am I wrong??

This might not directly relate, but I never share my body count with guys or potential partners. There are definitely double standards when it comes to amount of sexual partners. I hate how many guys have asked me too. I hate that a lot guys want a woman who is attractive and good in bed,… Continue reading Am I wrong??

What product/service is clearly not made with women in mind and what are you shocked doesn’t exist?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What product/service is clearly not made with women in mind and what are you shocked doesn’t exist?

New subreddit!!!

Hello! I’m a woman (ex Fundie) looking to become a woman pastor. I’m looking for other women from all backgrounds looking to take part in the ministry of any and all religions. Let’s get together and share experiences and wisdom!! Please note this is a safe and affirming space for everyone and anyone. The only… Continue reading New subreddit!!!

I need a gf

Help?

I need to know if any other gals has this issue!! (Im hoping this isn’t tmi, but i am terrified of doctors and by far this is the group I feel safest in). Is it normal for your urethra (pee hole lmao) to be uncomfortable? Like randomly, it’ll become super uncomfy. Kinda throb like feeling?… Continue reading Help?

Tips on getting rid of stretch marks?

Bloody discharge, not pregnant, period ended over a week ago.

Women with pcod , do you take meds to control the hormones?

Is PCOD the same as PCOS? If so, (Myo-) Inositol (a food supplement, that my doctor recommended) somewhat works for me (it makes me have a period, and if I am not mistaken, a bit of fat/water moved from the tummy region to the hips…) For my skin, eating less sugar had a bigger effecty… Continue reading Women with pcod , do you take meds to control the hormones?

First time at a gym what should I do?

I’m very nervous that I won’t do enough and people will think I’m lazy, or ill take too much time and piss people off, and Idk help- Idk why I’m so nervous but I’m literally almost in tears- I’ll be there for an hour at best, should I time each thing I’m on and so… Continue reading First time at a gym what should I do?

Starting at YMCA with swimming lessons; how the heck do I shop for a one piece swim suit?

Hi everyone, hope your Thanksgiving week is off to a good start! So, I have had long Covid since last March aunt it got to the point where I lost mobility and the ability to walk. After some serious intense physical therapy I am mobile again, although I am still wobbly and having circulation issues.… Continue reading Starting at YMCA with swimming lessons; how the heck do I shop for a one piece swim suit?

period twice in the same month?

My friend wore a slutty outfit when visiting my home

She’s gorgeous and I love to dress sexy; we have a common style. This was the first time she visited my home and she doesn’t dress this way in the number of times we’ve hung out before. We are still new in our friendship. I love her outfit, again, cute and hot! But here’s the… Continue reading My friend wore a slutty outfit when visiting my home

Women, would you sleep with a married man?

Should I see a doctor or am I being paranoid?

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Had to make a hard decision about not carrying a child, and it makes me sad sometimes that I’ll never experience it.

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I’m struggling with the worst period cramps. How do I fix them?

I’m a teenager who has struggled the the worst period cramps for some time now. I can’t do the things I used the do. The cramps have gotten so bad that I can even get up and walk around. I’ve missed out on so much because of this. I’ve tried IB Profen, heating pads, warm… Continue reading I’m struggling with the worst period cramps. How do I fix them?

Tips for fast hair growth?

No period cramps this period? But they’re usually terrible?

Anxiety from catching feelings

Biological Responsibilities

I feel so stupid for asking, but I do have a question. Do men have a responsibility anywhere close to the female responsibility of periods? As women, we are responsible for the pain and clean up of periods. They fucking suck. And they are horribly painful. It’s awful. So I guess my question is, is… Continue reading Biological Responsibilities

Full Bladder after sex?

Anyone else notice that men, who say “women talk too much,” always talk too much?

Is this tooo forward of a thing to say to someone you see everyday or the matured person would understand

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Is this tooo forward of a thing to say to someone you see everyday or the matured person would understand

My period looked like it was over after six days. Very dark discharge and then it restarted crimson red bleeding after intercourse?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading My period looked like it was over after six days. Very dark discharge and then it restarted crimson red bleeding after intercourse?

SavagexFenty

Help Acting more Feminine

Women who have gone through IVF – what’s your “after” experience?

I’m thinking about donating eggs, which is a bit different than IVF to get pregnant but similar with the injected hormones. My only concern is health effects from the injected hormones – I’m very sensitive to hormonal birth control and worry about potential ovarian hyperstimulation, or effects to fertility/other health issues in the future. Women… Continue reading Women who have gone through IVF – what’s your “after” experience?

Republicans aren’t stopping at ROE

Is this normal?

You know what’s coming when your shopping list starts to look like this…

Did i mess up my skin permanently?

Women who have nexplanon, what are your side effects?

Trans women are women.

Snapchat Adds

How does every woman smell better than me

Ok I’ve noticed literally every girl smells so much better than me It’s such a nice warm smell like vanilla. I’ve always tried to figure out how literally every girl smells so much better than me. The perfume I currently use is Ralph Lauren Romance I know the brand is a pretty expensive perfume and… Continue reading How does every woman smell better than me

What do you use to trim down there?

Made the decision to bu. Hurts like hell and I’m stuck on if it was the right choice.

I guess I’m trying to vent and feedback is genuinely encouraged. After a year and some months, I made the decision with my bf. Now I’m doubting. My dating history was full of men who were nice in the beginning and then horrible breakups, most had so many issues (mental, emotional, psychological). I met a… Continue reading Made the decision to bu. Hurts like hell and I’m stuck on if it was the right choice.

Happy man’s day to the gentlemen wondering this page

What’s the worst city you have been to as a woman? (Street harassment etc.)

I always struggle to feel feminine

In particular, that I don’t fit feminine standards of beauty. I’m short, I have short black curly hair, brown eyes, large breasts, and curvy. I’m not skinny either but I feel fat all the time despite people telling me I’m not. I recently got a haircut because it was unhappy with myself, and now I… Continue reading I always struggle to feel feminine

how to start a great and solid conversation through text?

International men’s day

It is endlessly frustrating to me that so much of men’s “activism” comes from trying to shut down women’s activism. “You think you ladies have it bad? Wait till I tell you about the SUICIDE RATE!!” You can try to explain that the rate of attempted suicides for men and women is on par, men… Continue reading International men’s day

What do you use so you dont get bumps after shaving legs/arms?

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL MENS DAY

maybe some of you can give me some advice !

hello! this is honestly just a teen girl asking for advice on a crush (hopefully some of you have been there before!). so i met this guy at a uni conference, and omg when i tell you he is SO CUTE and SO SWEET it actually melts my heart. problem is is that he lives… Continue reading maybe some of you can give me some advice !

A STEP BACK FOR WOMEN – AS A ANTI-FEMINIST

It has been several years since Ms. Elizabeth Holmes joined the elite of entrepreneurs. With HER choices, too numerous to dictate, she has failed not only budding entrepreneurs, but women as a whole. ANY MAN convicted of her charges, would rarely, if ever, use the defense of his lover/girlfriend forcing these actions, let alone win… Continue reading A STEP BACK FOR WOMEN – AS A ANTI-FEMINIST

How did you improve your life after a breakup?

Have you ever had a breakup where in the beginning after BU you felt so horrible but after some time you were thankful that it happened?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Have you ever had a breakup where in the beginning after BU you felt so horrible but after some time you were thankful that it happened?

Catcalling

Just had a scary thought about some men potentially targeting and assaulting “pro life” women because they know they’re less likely to end the pregnancy

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Just had a scary thought about some men potentially targeting and assaulting “pro life” women because they know they’re less likely to end the pregnancy

Hi , do you care about acne/ acne scars in your SO ? Why or why not ?

Where do y’all like to shop online? USA

What do women love most,I’ve been wondering.Because I really want to make my wife feel more loved.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading What do women love most,I’ve been wondering.Because I really want to make my wife feel more loved.

men making me feel like i’m stupid

i feel like most men i’ve met have done this. i’m interested in video games and “girly” things like make up and clothes. i honestly don’t know much about computers but i have basic knowledge and i feel like i can never be trusted on any decisions i make for my own computer. i can… Continue reading men making me feel like i’m stupid

Aunt thinks I’m bipolar because I feared for my life

I left my aunt’s house for fear of my life and My aunt thinks that the reason why I left is because I might bipolar Title says all. I.. I don’t know where to start but ; this is the first she did this whenever she got upset at me for avoiding conflict/ conversation. And… Continue reading Aunt thinks I’m bipolar because I feared for my life

I am Boy

DAE feel totally numbed if anyone shows/ expresses intense feeling towards you?

Even if they’re just words or the person saying them might not mean them totally but they end up affecting you in a way that you just feel numb and dumb and kinda scared? Especially if the said narration/ confession happens to be about romantic feelings? I am not someone to carry PTSD or trauma… Continue reading DAE feel totally numbed if anyone shows/ expresses intense feeling towards you?

where did you meet your significant other?

trouble breathing on plan b

Make over help?

#TransAwarenessWeek #peaktrans #WomenWontWheesht if you can behave like that in public without consequences then you are neither marginalized nor oppressed

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading #TransAwarenessWeek #peaktrans #WomenWontWheesht if you can behave like that in public without consequences then you are neither marginalized nor oppressed

I need woman friends

I heard once from a wise woman: “Hope is like oxygen, you cannot live without either.” So, just hope that things change for the better, because nothing lasts forever, not even pain and suffering. And even if you do not care about anything anymore right now, you could still care about something in the future.… Continue reading I need woman friends

a “what would you do” scenario

WWYD if your friend started hanging out with people that are smokers and alcoholics and do different drugs and your friend is such an easy influencer that they started drinking too… Would you guys keep your distance from them ? or still be by their side.

Health Question

How do one dispose their pads?

So i thought everyone did it, but come to realize due to some post that that’s not the case. I’m not judging! How do you dispose your pads? I would roll them in itself and wrap it in toilet paper and throw it away. So nothing gets dirty and the smell of blood don’t go… Continue reading How do one dispose their pads?

An interesting title

just a reminder

do you feel oppressed constantly ?

I am a white trans lady with mental health issues, so it is hard to separate the “feel” from the “am” concerning being oppressed constantly, especially when I can (and have) hid in my “man disguise” for a lot of my life. The apparatus of oppression is all around us, but it hits the people… Continue reading do you feel oppressed constantly ?

Has anyone donated eggs?

Any egg donors here? If so, how long ago did you do it and how has your health been since? I’ve been thinking about it but the lack of long-term research around health effects makes me really nervous and I’ve responded not too well with artificial hormones (the pill) in the past, so injectable hormones… Continue reading Has anyone donated eggs?

Would you be offended if a man didn’t shake your hand but he shook the hand of other men?

Just out of curiosity, what is a religion that doesn’t allow you to shake the hand of the opposite gender?…….. And, to answer your question, well it’s hard to say how the situation went down. If you shook the hand of three men in front of me came to me and skipped shaking my hand… Continue reading Would you be offended if a man didn’t shake your hand but he shook the hand of other men?

female competition

How to deal with inner leg sweat when wearing short denim skirts

Okay ladies, honestly, how do you deal with the inner leg sweat when wearing short denim skirts?? I love a denim skirt, don’t get me wrong, but I can’t stand having a pool of sweat between my legs when wearing one. I get up from sitting on a plastic or metal chair when wearing a… Continue reading How to deal with inner leg sweat when wearing short denim skirts

What’s the difference in a man not freely telling a woman he’s had a vasectomy and a woman not freely telling a man that she’s infertile?

I asked this on a very recent thread and I haven’t gotten an answer but I received multiple downvotes. I don’t mind downvotes, except for the fact that it buries comments/posts so they are less answerable. Regardless, all I’d like to know, please, is what is the difference of “guy doesn’t tell a woman he’s… Continue reading What’s the difference in a man not freely telling a woman he’s had a vasectomy and a woman not freely telling a man that she’s infertile?

I highlighted the hair on my arms with hair dye. Can I do it again? Why not?

advice maybe ?

can someone tell me some ways to attract other people’s attention?

males

I feel so off lately.

I think I have some type of really bad hormonal imbalance or something but I’ve felt so off lately. Like I’ve been having these terrible dreams and sleeping all the time. And my head hurts and it feels like my brain just isn’t working. And just other general PMS symptoms but much worse than normal.… Continue reading I feel so off lately.

The new r/unstable_diffusion is gross and predatory

Competitive female “friend”

I love female friendships, there’s a lot of warmth in them. I love the support & empathy we’re giving to each other. Need to vent/cry? Say no more fam, I’m on my way with a tub of chocolate ice cream. I get a lot of stimulation from our catch ups, discussing all matters from current… Continue reading Competitive female “friend”

Does sex work hold us back or empower us?

How can I better understand my wife’s feeling when she is on her period?

I think is fair to ask, but I am not sure what you want us to answer. Periods are very variable to each person, and each month is different. I guess you could educate yourself on what is a period and what happens to us physiologically. But the most important thing is that you ask… Continue reading How can I better understand my wife’s feeling when she is on her period?

My body type

What are your side hustles?

I too have a business background. Currently I’m unemployed but I get some side money from dog walking, or online courses for software. Mostly for boomers who struggle with computers. Also comissions whenever somebody wants any. 😉 maybe wherecer you live it’s not really an option but just doing random stuff alwaya helped me out.

Have you ever slept with someone who was not your type but okay and later disliked the person?

!!! Talking about rape !!!!

How to handle it when men in managerial/customer service jobs disrespect you?

Do ur pubic hair irritate you ?

I’m exhausted from dealing with the men in my degree program.

So I am a sophomore in college majoring in Neuroscience and minoring in biomedical engineering. As a result, most of my classmates (and subsequently the people i’ve met/ friends) are men. I am not a genius student who gets straight As but I am by no means failing or not putting in effort to my… Continue reading I’m exhausted from dealing with the men in my degree program.

Unique Insecurity Manifestations

Hi all! I am just curious for thoughts on an interesting situation. I have a friend who is deeply insecure. She has a lot of jealousy/self worth issues. However, in particular there is one thing I am curious about. She will verbally state and insecurity then move to defend herself immediately before anyone can get… Continue reading Unique Insecurity Manifestations

How to deal with rejection from a narcissist who disrespected and humiliated you?

Why are women scared of being financially dependent on men?

Isn’t it a starvation mindset? They think that they must be independent enough from everyone, even their own husband, that they can survive on their own at a moment’s notice. Am I misreading this? It doesn’t seem like a healthy mindset to have.

Why do women immediately think as if they’re less attractive when their partner/ any man doesn’t get turned on by them enough or as much as they used to before?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Why do women immediately think as if they’re less attractive when their partner/ any man doesn’t get turned on by them enough or as much as they used to before?

I was “okay” about a guy, but once I get away from him, the “okay” turned into “disgust”, and now I find everything about him disgusting. Has that ever happened to you? What do you think?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I was “okay” about a guy, but once I get away from him, the “okay” turned into “disgust”, and now I find everything about him disgusting. Has that ever happened to you? What do you think?

i’m so tired of white women trying to distance their whiteness from their womanhood

like the title says, yes, i’m tired of it. i’m tired of white women pretending that they face the same type of sexism that a woman of color faces. even the power they have over men of color. yes, they are men in a patriarchal society, but you are white. they are infantilized while we… Continue reading i’m so tired of white women trying to distance their whiteness from their womanhood

On men and feminism

I’ve read one type of statement very often and I felt the need to adress this. As a woman, I have had so many bad encounters with men in my life. Yet still, when I talk to my boyfriend and my brother, they have a very valid concern that “sexism” debates annoy them, because they… Continue reading On men and feminism

Am I the only one that thinks this is kinda sexist? Seems to be blaming this i*cel’s death on girl. Idk, just doesn’t sit right with me

He was a good man who always tried to do the right thing. He was kind and giving, but lonely and upset at the world around him. He always seemed sad. Nobody loved him and he had nobody to talk to. He couldn’t hold anyone, talk about his work and family, or hear someone say… Continue reading Am I the only one that thinks this is kinda sexist? Seems to be blaming this i*cel’s death on girl. Idk, just doesn’t sit right with me

Just a little comment about this community

I mostly prefer women being on here (trans included) but knowing hetero men are on here on the low makes me feel uncomfortable LOL. Yeah it says all genders welcome but maybe its just me. I just say that cause men easily bash women for any little thing, or they try to tease our fears… Continue reading Just a little comment about this community

Is there a correlation between hip width and vagina width?

period is late. test says negative. do i wait or start process for abortion just in case?

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Women should be equipped with self-defense tools all the time

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The disturbing resurgence of prescriptive femininity

I don’t exactly know when this started but I’ve been seeing it more and more lately. Previously they were rather obviously right-wing funded propaganda masquerading as everyday women (think Mrs M*dwest) but now I’m seeing a whole other surge that is now frequently entangled with the New Age ideologies like ~feminine energy~ Look, I’m pretty… Continue reading The disturbing resurgence of prescriptive femininity

I need to finish my period quicker lol

Why does everyone just want to have sex.

For context, I am leaving a very solemn relationship. My fiancé got me pregnant, raped me while pregnant, and I caught him sexting another woman this week. Am now being put through abortion because it’ll be our second baby (my third) and I just can’t do it without support. It makes me ponder why men… Continue reading Why does everyone just want to have sex.

ladies!!! a guy just told me that women should be grateful when random guys walk up to them to tell them they are sexy and if they don’t like it they should explain to the guy why they don’t want the compliment.

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one word: mother in laws.

Why are mother in laws so annoying and judgemental. I avoid my mother in law alot cause she always critics what i do with my hair (i dye it alot, but ive stopped) and she said all the colors i had didnt look good on me. Out of petty i want to dye it again… Continue reading one word: mother in laws.

Women living alone: How do you feel safe?

I dont live alone BUT whne i have the house to myself, i feel safe because i have cameras in the front, a ring doorbell and i have an alarm. In my car i have self defense keychain that incluse a peperspray, tazer, a window opener, a monkey ball defend (i dont know what its… Continue reading Women living alone: How do you feel safe?

does anyone else experience pain in their legs while ovulating?

my bf says that andrew tate isn’t sexist

How to stop caring about what other people think?

I don’t owe you an explanation.

If I decide that I’m not interested in you, then you need to understand that. I don’t have time to explain that I don’t want a relationship with you when you’re moving too fast. Seriously though, what is up with men nowadays being so pushy so early on?

Premenustral symptoms

I hate being a girl

Women in red states

You’re not the only one. This shit is fucking scary. My best advice to you is to focus on what you can and cannot control and try to let go of the things you can’t change, or at the very least, remember that this terrifying thing isn’t actually happening right now. Right now, you have… Continue reading Women in red states

Can this be the reason?

Stay away from men obsessed with “natural beauty”.

** this is not about men with a preference in makeup, hair etc. it’s about men who lose their absolute minds over anything “non natural” that a woman partakes in and shames women for not being “natural”.*** These men may seem like “good guys” who are against toxic beauty standards buts they’re the exact opposite.… Continue reading Stay away from men obsessed with “natural beauty”.

Is it normal that cramps hurt so bad?

Hi. Its my first day and it always hurt, to a point i have to bend over of pain. And I’m always terrified that the pain will trigger my anxiety. I’ve read that if it still hurts after taking medicine and heat, I should go to the doctor, but my mom doesn’t usually take me,… Continue reading Is it normal that cramps hurt so bad?

My manager tried to ridicule me because I told him his idea was offensive to women. [Vent about misogyny in the workplace]

Context: My manager (a man) was upset because one of our clients refused to go on with an idea he had because of its misogynistic and sexist undertone (Ironic fact: It’s an anti-violence against women campaign). With poise, I told him that I understood why the client (a woman) did not like it, because it’s… Continue reading My manager tried to ridicule me because I told him his idea was offensive to women. [Vent about misogyny in the workplace]

Need surgery for a torn labrum but tonight proves I should just deal with the pain and get sterilized instead.

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Where can i find quality lingerie?

If you were abused by a partner before, what would you tell your younger self about it if you could talk to her?

I’d tell her to pay attention to how he treats his mother or how he treats any women in his life. A lack of friendships with women is also a red flag. If he feels comfortable making rape jokes, he views women as objects. Stuff. Another “thing” in his life. When he expects you to… Continue reading If you were abused by a partner before, what would you tell your younger self about it if you could talk to her?

Contraction like feelings on period

Bothers me society uses “pussy” as an insult yet “balls” are courageous

Need support. Just read the horrific story of Natascha Kampusch and the things her kidnapper did to her. How do you read something horrific like that and still look at men the same way :(?

TRIGGER WARNING // SX ABUSE Natascha Kampusch, an amazing person who deserves all the love and support in the world. But it’s so disgusting what happened to this poor woman. I hope that she is still able to find love. I just love her so much and just feel like crying thinking about her. The… Continue reading Need support. Just read the horrific story of Natascha Kampusch and the things her kidnapper did to her. How do you read something horrific like that and still look at men the same way :(?

Women who have had covid, was period really bad after covid?

Abnormal discharge

Very nervous need advise please

how can the first period after a copper iud insertion can be SO painful ??

as the title states, im currently going through my first period after my iud HOW CAN IT BE SO HORRIBLE mu husband went to get medication (prescribed for him bit i had already took the same ki d for menstrual cramps before) and the pharmacist told him these first cramps are similar to freaking CONTRACTION… Continue reading how can the first period after a copper iud insertion can be SO painful ??

Making up your own workouts, and movements has that worked for anyone? and is that a good thing to do?

I have bad wrists too and run into this issue a lot. The amount of times I see an entire workout revolving around the push-up position is truly disappointing. I think using your forearms when you can’t get around it is a great idea. I’ve been doing that for planks and it helps me so… Continue reading Making up your own workouts, and movements has that worked for anyone? and is that a good thing to do?

Its our anniversary! and I feel like a jerk

Its mine and my partners anniversary today, we have been together for a year though its been a crazy one. We havent planned anything special just takeout and playing chess at home because before we were dating thats how we spent time together here at the house we both now live in. Heres where I… Continue reading Its our anniversary! and I feel like a jerk

that feeling when

TIFU

Does anyone else think about how they’ve probably been pregnant before?

first time in gynecologist

Girls what do you think about men (that are in a relationship) who like and react to your insta stories with your pic in them?

I just want to hear some opinions Obv this didn’t come out of nowhere. Recently I posted one pic of myself on my insta stories, and my classmate (well he used to be a classmate, we have graduated this year) liked my story. I was like alright that’s fine, no big deal, we knew each… Continue reading Girls what do you think about men (that are in a relationship) who like and react to your insta stories with your pic in them?

What do we think about guys who don’t want to have sex during your period?

I think it really depends on their reaction. It’s perfectly fine to not want to have sex with someone on their period. Not everybody is going to be comfortable seeing blood, let alone getting it on their dick and/or fingers. What registers for me as a red flag is if a guy treats you like… Continue reading What do we think about guys who don’t want to have sex during your period?

It’s this time of the month where I HATE being a woman.

Does anyone else feel this?

Everyone sweats. Probably the men in your family might have not noticed it due to their beards, but everyone sweats. One can get their upper lips sweaty, but that’s not the only place. You can get your forehead, hands, armpits, etc. Sweaty too. It is completely normal. I’d consider you lucky since you only sweat… Continue reading Does anyone else feel this?

periods are like serial killers

Ayo can we get some advice givers up in her?

I hate having the “BPD” label.

what feeling do girls get after a long term break up and having sex with a new person? fun..confused..guilt..etc

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Just asking a question then I’ll leave

signs of cheating??

If you are in a long term relationship, do you secretly masturbate to achieve an orgasm after sex?

What can cause PMS blues when I’ve never experienced it before?

The Word Bastard is Misogynistic.

So hear me out. The word Bastard is an insult towards someone and means they don’t have a father. Which then is implying they were raised by a single-mother. Meaning a single mother can’t do a sufficient job raising someone without a man. Which is textbook misogyny. Am I grasping at straws? Or do I… Continue reading The Word Bastard is Misogynistic.

What do I say when my girlfriend says she’s fat

Even with reassurance its difficult to accept that others dont think youre fat when you have that belief in your head. It takes some convincing and some repetition, try to be patient because shes had a lot of years of society convincing her she is. When she says it again, take her face in your… Continue reading What do I say when my girlfriend says she’s fat

If you live in the US, Please Vote!!

Hello people! I have a question.

My partner struggles quite bad with period cramps. Do any of those products that are advertised actually work? Like the belts etc that can ease the pain? I want to get her something to help her with her period pain. Because I hate seeing her writhe whilst we are in bed or watching tv! I… Continue reading Hello people! I have a question.

Discrimination against women in the workplace

I have been trying to find examples of ways women are discriminated against in the workplace but all I’m finding is pregnancy discrimination. I’ll a little lost because I know that makes up a lot of discrimination women face. Can anyone point me to educational sources that may fit better what I’m looking for?

Am I really in the wrong?

So he is turned on & want to do stuff while I’m not wanting sex yet I just wanted to feel abit more connected so I felt secure giving myself. So things like cuddling for a little and making me feel good about giving myself. He tells me that if I can’t give him what… Continue reading Am I really in the wrong?

Bleeding after morning after pill

How do you get yourself to not be discouraged at life?

I will be referring to women by Ms. or Mrs., followed by their last name. Women are generally that remarkable and they deserve an increase of respect

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I feel like my partner doesn’t take me seriously when we talk about gender issues

I’m not sure what I’m looking for and I don’t even know if this the right place for this kind of post. We are both autistic so communicating with each other isn’t always easy and my partner is non-binary, however they are mostly masculine aligned and have grown up being socialized as a boy/man. They… Continue reading I feel like my partner doesn’t take me seriously when we talk about gender issues

Cleaning lady

Is it “normal” for one labia minora to be twice the size of another?

Don’t worry too much about it. My right lip is the big one lol. I have a vagina that is not the porno cute little labiaplasty ideal. Asymmetrical lips, lips that hang down, etc. Perfectly healthy, and never once in my sexual career have any sexual partners commented on it. They’re just excited to have… Continue reading Is it “normal” for one labia minora to be twice the size of another?

Just got the nexplanon implant, anything I should know?

Apparently you have to show your _____

I keep replaying this conversation I had with a coworker over and over in my head. This occurred about a month ago. Backstory: It was the first anniversary of my employment at work. My boss brought me a certificate and a monster energy drink. In front of some other employees, he said some kind words… Continue reading Apparently you have to show your _____

Pregnancy Test That only gives results by using their App

Which TENS Machine would you recommend for period cramps? ⚡️

Are Trans ft- Allowed to Post Here

Any women are welcome, not just female humans 😊 anyone who’s ignorant to say that only female women are allowed shouldn’t be taken seriously. Edit: I did misunderstand as I tend to do lol, but I will keep the answer. Not all ft- stop being women. Not everyone just becomes a man lol. Theres plenty… Continue reading Are Trans ft- Allowed to Post Here

Asking women to hang out as a friend?

Hi all. My house sitter will be here all next week while my husband and I are on vacation. She’s really nice, easy to talk to and I could talk with her for hours. She house sat for us last year too. So how do I ask her to hang out? Seems silly, but I… Continue reading Asking women to hang out as a friend?

What’s your definition of love?

Do you always know how beautiful you are or sometime you tend to forget?

Advice for younger woman in modern society

My new OBGYN is a man

Update to “how to know when it’s the right time to leave a relationship”

Hello friends. I wanted to update my situation because there were so many kind people. I took the apartment and left. It was so so hard. But now with some space and time for reflection I can feel how stressed and anxious I was all the time. It was Definitley not the right fit. I’m… Continue reading Update to “how to know when it’s the right time to leave a relationship”

Just saw a C-section surgery and I’m absolutely horrified!!!

Why do some men expect women to work AND take care of the home?

Why do some men inherently believe that it is women’s traditional responsibility to take care of the housework, cook, clean while at the same time claim that modern women should take on a work role as much as men??? Don’t they see the double standard in this? I’m very curious about their mindset.

Have you guys ever met someone whose politics weren’t the same, and it worked?

Best lesson learned out of your divorce?

He has a lot of girl friends, im not worried. Am i stupid?

Guy here who has always had lots of female-friends. The thing about “female-friend | male-friend” is that fact that these friendships tend to be one-sided. And what I mean by this is almost always the woman is the person who is in control of the two people being more than friends. I really hate stereotyping… Continue reading He has a lot of girl friends, im not worried. Am i stupid?

What changes, if any, did you notice after coming off contraception?

Interested to hear other peoples stories! I struggle to notice if my moods actually change but what I have noticed is my sex drive has increased since coming off it a month ago. At times being on it, it was almost non existent. I’ve also heard before that the type of people you’re attracted to… Continue reading What changes, if any, did you notice after coming off contraception?

How should men invite married women somewhere without coming across as suspicious?

The state Health Department confirmed to Jezebel it’s investigating Mylissa Farmer’s abortion nightmare, after she shared her story in an ad for a Democrat.

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does anyone else feel guilty when they’re dressing up?

Are the women better overseas

how to stop loving your friend who is in love with another girl?

i have a date!

Where to buy blazers?

im sorry but anyone knows how to get rid of cramps? how to get rid or period in general please I can’t take this anymore

Have you asked your gynecologist about them? It’s not normal to have such bad period cramps, and if your gyno says it’s normal you need to get a second opinion. You may have endometriosis, PCOS, or fibroids. If you’ve gotten thoroughly checked out and there’s really nothing the doctor can do, there are some forms… Continue reading im sorry but anyone knows how to get rid of cramps? how to get rid or period in general please I can’t take this anymore

Was I in danger or just overthinking?

Last night, I went to a concert with a group of friends. We are very deep in the EDM community, and for those who don’t know- it’s an amazingly loving and accepting group of people (for the most part). The culture is really big on happiness, respect, and protection of others. Modern day hippies, if… Continue reading Was I in danger or just overthinking?

Shaving help :’)

Try an electric razor first. It doesn’t give the closest shave but it is much more difficult to hurt yourself. If you don’t have access to an electric shaver use a disposable razor with shaving cream and rinse the blade often. Don’t try to shave with a dull razor or when hair is clogging it.… Continue reading Shaving help :’)

hair shampoo that is Okay to use

getting emotional on my period

My period definitely messes with my emotions, I get more sensitive, angry, sad, everything at once. I believe that we should never make any decisions or take action when we are emotional, because we often aren’t thinking clearly and we tend to deal with the situation in a different way than we would normally have.… Continue reading getting emotional on my period

Should I get Implanon?

Guy friend bought me a telfar bag

Hi, One of guy my friends that I’m not super close to bought me a telfar bag. So here’s some context: he posted on his social media saying “who wants a telfar bag?” I responded as a joke saying “I do”. He responded saying “alright color and size” I told him what I wanted still… Continue reading Guy friend bought me a telfar bag

I’m sadly attracted to women. ugh

My period is late and I am between feeling anxious and happy because I wanted my period to never come

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How does heavy working out affect periods?

Get over family judgment for being a feminist

My family is just super anti feminism, they only see the “bad” parts of it, the people who create problems out of nothing, the dramatic people, I’m sure you have an idea of what I mean. I’m a feminist, I believe in equal rights and opportunities for everyone of ever color, shape, size, race, sex,… Continue reading Get over family judgment for being a feminist

My Dad is creepy, and it makes me really sad

I’ve been really curious how many other women/humans who have masogonistic father’s maintain a healthy relationship with them. Or maybe, the question really is that even possible? My Dad has made shitty comments to me throughout my life. Everything from weird comments about my body to not cleaning up after himself because that was “woman’s… Continue reading My Dad is creepy, and it makes me really sad

F*ck you to older man who made inappropriate comment

A guy was staring at me in class. Teacher said I should of moved even though the guy stopped. Why would I have to move?

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I’m sick of men making excuses and not taking accountability for their actions

I just need to rant. I’m sick of men using excuses to get away with saying shit that is out of line, or doing something that their girlfriend specifically asked them not to do. Like for example, I just read this post about this girl that got face fucked so hard by her boyfriend that… Continue reading I’m sick of men making excuses and not taking accountability for their actions

What would happens to a girl whose period is delayed or paused due to stress?

Does stress affect periods?

what’s a unique and useful birthday gift for your mother?

Hmm, obviously depends on what kind of person your mum is, but for my parents last year I got them little glasses holders for around the house. As they get older they need reading glasses all over the house, and this was a cute thing that is also useful! The ones I got look like… Continue reading what’s a unique and useful birthday gift for your mother?

Do women like to have their butthole licked?

Why don’t you just ask your girlfriend instead of asking random explicit questions to a group of not homogenous, highly variable people in order to get women to talk about what feels soooooo good or not To answer, some women like it, some women don’t.

Experience with IUCD’s?

What are some facts you wish you were taught about your body/ sexual health when you were younger?

It’s so sad that adults often shied away from telling or teaching us about our bodies when you were younger. I remember starting my period and my mum just said “now if you sleep with a man, you’re going to get pregnant” – no education whatsoever on what was happening to my body and why.… Continue reading What are some facts you wish you were taught about your body/ sexual health when you were younger?

Is it normal/common to bleed during intercourse?

men who like “the chase”

Why is it so relaxing to hold your boob?

particularly intense BO during my menstrual?

low during pms/periods

Has anyone learned to orgasm from penetrative sex?

I’ve heard the stats about the majority of women not being able to orgasm from penetrative sex alone (most require clitoral stimulation). I’m curious if this is a fixed/innate thing or if it’s something that can be learned? Have any of you gone from only being able to orgasm one way, but eventually learned to… Continue reading Has anyone learned to orgasm from penetrative sex?

I miss him

I was okay for a few days, but now I miss this online person I used to chat and occasionally sext with for the past one month. It’s the first time some guy has ever shown me attention without knowing my identity or seen my face -he may not have irl but doesn’t matter…the chemistry,… Continue reading I miss him

How do you find your style or shop for cute clothes?

I need help finding my style and have no clue where to start. I recently went to a Halloween party and let a friend of a friend dress me with clothes from her closet, and I look back at pictures and I looked really hot unlike how I feel when I dress myself. I haven’t… Continue reading How do you find your style or shop for cute clothes?

Does your ex (dumper) still like your Instagram pictures when you post?

Anyone ever try ‘OLLY lovin libido’ supplement?

Does he have any intention of a relationship with me or me I looking at things too deep?

How to make friends…

For your own sanity don’t use the whisper app

Why do some women give other women mean looks?

Was it wrong?

Recently I got a new colleague, this person has been very wearing for me. From the first day I got such a bully vibe from them. Many times they have been straight up rude and mean. It’s not only me who have the same experience, but I feel that they might target me a little… Continue reading Was it wrong?

Gynecologist script

Each doctor is different. Tell her it’s your first gyno visit and ask her to explain each part of the exam to you beforehand. It’s a quick exam and any discomfort is very brief. However, if something is uncomfortable for you for any reason, let her know right away.

any good bra recs?

I can’t do it in reality, women are scared of me I think. Please help me I’m scared of myself, I’m a man. My flaws are human everyone feels crazy sometimes. But why do women hate me

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Just voted–it’s different this cycle in my state

I’m in Texas and just voted (Go BETO!). It’s still a digital machine, but now we have to feed a sheet of paper into the digital machine; it then records the votes on the paper and you carry that paper to a separate scanner to be read. It was a slower process for sure, and… Continue reading Just voted–it’s different this cycle in my state

Is it normal to have stretch marks?

I’m a teenage girl. I’ve always been a bit chubby for my age, but in my cities two lockdowns, I noticed I gained a bit of weight really fast. I began noticing a lot of stretch marks on my hips and inner thighs. I don’t really have any older women in my life to talk… Continue reading Is it normal to have stretch marks?

What are some checklists for younger sisters?

First of all, she isn’t my step sister. She is one of my close cousins and like my very own sister and as an older brother, ig there’s nothing bad if i help her with her periods and boyfriend. She is a small child who probably doesn’t have much knowledge and/or experience and probably need… Continue reading What are some checklists for younger sisters?

I hate “reverse gender” argument that comes up in almost every internet discussion

It doesn’t make sense because most of the time, people would react the same way in the case of a reverse situation. “A man was beaten up by his wife” Reddit: if a wife would be beaten up, people would be outraged. Ok but people are outraged when a man is beaten up too? The… Continue reading I hate “reverse gender” argument that comes up in almost every internet discussion

Part of my iud broke off inside of me and could not be located today while I was getting it removed today

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Part of my iud broke off inside of me and could not be located today while I was getting it removed today

It’s impossible being in any online space with males

I honestly avoid front page of Reddit, and only watch those subs, what I already follow. I believe it’s easier this way. I also avoid those articles, posts on the internet overall which attract misogynystic comments.

How can I protect myself from men?

my period ruins everything

why

Does anyone here have experience with removing broken capillaries or spider naevus using IPL lasers?

I have recently had an IPL laser treatment. It has only been a couple of days but the spots are still quite red and I think I might still see a resemblance of a broken capillary. If you have had IPL, how many days/weeks did you need in order to heal completely? When does the… Continue reading Does anyone here have experience with removing broken capillaries or spider naevus using IPL lasers?

pls help me prevent pregnancy

I’ve been in the same boat as you before, and let me promise, you’re not pregnant. He didn’t finish, and a couple strokes isn’t goes to get the job done. Plan B is effective the next morning, so you’re fine, just make sure you are in the weight limit. Don’t drink too much vitamin c,… Continue reading pls help me prevent pregnancy

Does rosemary oil prevent hair loss and grow hair at the same time?

I want to start using rosemary oil for my hair because of all the good things ive heard and read about it. My hair is very thin and weak and it falls a lot. Does anyone use it, how has it helped you? Also, which one do you use the essential or infused? Or do… Continue reading Does rosemary oil prevent hair loss and grow hair at the same time?

Why is it so hard as a woman to find a guy best friend that is not sexually attracted to you?

I’m starting to feel like my body isn’t mine

Options to stop periods as permanently as possible

Birth control vs my relationship

There is no single hormonal contraceptive that works for all women so it takes a bit of trial and error. I would ask your doctor to prescribe a monophasic oral contraceptive (you are currently on something called a triphasic contraceptive). Try it out for a couple months. If you’re still not happy with those few… Continue reading Birth control vs my relationship

date night ideas??

How to get rid of ingrown hairs?

Is there a way to delay a period?

How do I get rid of a yeast infection?

PMS

Ugly without makeup

This is just a rant I guess. With makeup, I’m pretty in my opinion. I don’t wear a lot either, just some lashes, concealer & blush. People have said I look attractive and I appreciate it. But without it I genuinely look so ugly. It terrifies me for my future partner to ever see me… Continue reading Ugly without makeup

spotting mid-way through cycle?

is it normal for women to always own a bunch of cats?

Vagina feels wierd

How old are you, and how long have you been using a cup? I ask just to get an idea of how familiar you are with the texture of your period blood and vaginal walls. I don’t use a cup but have been known to explore the cavern while on my period. It’s possible you… Continue reading Vagina feels wierd

Catcalled and I’m sick of it

Was catcalled tonight. Ignored him because I froze and then he kept yelling and swearing at me. I was too scared to turn around to see if he was following me (he wasn’t). I’m so sick of this. I’m so sick of being told I’m overreacting. So sick of always being cautious yet still being… Continue reading Catcalled and I’m sick of it

Irregular Periods since COVID shot.

So I’ve talked to my gyno about this and she told me it’s been reported a lot, but there’s no answer as to why. I’m just wondering if anyone else has actually had this issue. I have the Mirena birth control, but I was still always having my regular period. I got the Moderna shot… Continue reading Irregular Periods since COVID shot.

I LOVE underwear made for periods.

I’m coming down with Covid which has been awful, then realized it’s time for my period at the same time, yay!!! I’m just now realizing how much of a blessing these padded period underwear are. I use a menstrual cup and will usually add a pad on the worst days just in case, but this… Continue reading I LOVE underwear made for periods.

Wishing my boobs were bigger

I’ve always loved my small cup size and had partners who strongly prefer small breasts. Have you tried wearing styles that emphasize, rather than downplay your breasts such as halter tops, halter dresses, bralettes or going braless?

masturbating

Hello wise woman of Reddit. Exclusive privileges verse girlfriend privileges?

Do other women who take estrogen birth control have baby feaver as a side effect?

Women of reddit, who is the nicest man you know and why?

My ex said :

“hope you’ve found happiness, and your life is going well.” We’ve been broken up a year and we have kids together . I don’t ever talk to her unless it’s directly related to the kids . A little more backstory is that I’ve been posting more on social media and her cousin follows me and… Continue reading My ex said :

Anyone else having inappropriate fantasies about a junior (yet age appropriate) colleague?

This is a sex related question… what does “right there” mean?

Not clitoral stimulation, I mean during PIV sex. Like say doggy style for example. What in the world is “right there”? I asked the girl after what she was referring to I.e. was it deep was it shallow was it on the side the bottom and she didn’t know. Like what could I possibly be… Continue reading This is a sex related question… what does “right there” mean?

why does it feel like either way I’m a bad person for not settling in dating? and how do I get over it cuz it’s always in the back of my mind

I legitimately feel bad for wanting to date someone I find aesthetically attractive. I feel bad for wanting to date someone I have something in common with. I feel bad for wanting to date someone who can actually hold a conversation with me that’s not explaining to me something that I already know. I feel… Continue reading why does it feel like either way I’m a bad person for not settling in dating? and how do I get over it cuz it’s always in the back of my mind

Why y’all not like short guys?

Sex and emotions

Psychological research shows that men get their emotional needs met through sex, which is why men mistaken sex for a need when sex is actually a drive. It seems ‘weird’ to your husband because he is a man and this is how they get their emotional needs met. For some women, they can have their… Continue reading Sex and emotions

Everyone have to read this .

Do You Think Period Products Should Be Taxed?

Advice please

I would call out too. But before that, please accept and love your body. I know it’s easier said than done. I am a mid-size person with breasts that call for attention in some dresses even when I don’t want it. But the game changers for me personally were: I am dressed sexy not vulgar.… Continue reading Advice please

it’s so random but AAAAHG I HATE PERIOD POOPS

Advice

Tampon tale

talking my photo just once…

Girl’s, do you know about Masha Amini?

I wonder how many of us know and support feministic protests in Iran? Iranians government forces arleady killed many of protesting girls – because they didn’t have proper hijab, because they want to be free and have a choice. Do we (as a community of woman’s) can support them in any way? Do we have… Continue reading Girl’s, do you know about Masha Amini?

How to de-sexualize myself?

Total acknowledgment that men need to do better equating clothes or body language as open invitations etc. But I also want to answer the question a bit too. As a young SA survivor, I learned (from my interactions with people both negative and from caring friends, bfs etc) that I presented myself in a very… Continue reading How to de-sexualize myself?

I don’t mind being single…how about you?

Although it’s probably partially because I’m figuring out my intimacy issues, I find that I just really love my me time. I can balance everything – work, school, friends, hobbies – and have the most wonderful time taking myself out on adventures and excursions. The only reason I don’t always feel that way is because… Continue reading I don’t mind being single…how about you?

Masters?

Women who were once financially struggling, how did you get out of it?

Period ass pains

ladies: What does it feel like to have a tampon in you?

You may be noticing it because it’s your first time and you are thinking about it, but you should for sure not feel pain and in general not feel it at all. Maybe you didn’t put it inside enough? Start with the very small ones and change it more often, once you are ok with… Continue reading ladies: What does it feel like to have a tampon in you?

Potential ghosting after date

Post date potential ghosting? A person and I went on a date yesterday and it went amazing! Conversation flowed so well, playful touching etc and we both agreed it was an amazing date, sealed with a kiss at the end and a nice hug. Whenever we used to message prior to the date, it would… Continue reading Potential ghosting after date

TW: Sexual Assault/ Luckiest Girl Alive

How to treat yeast infection on your own?

Hi, I’m a young female (late teens) and for what I think is my first yeast infection. It’s been almost a week now (no problems peeing or seeing any blood) and I’m starting to worry. I know yogurt helps, but is there any cheap-ish over the counter medicines I could buy or anything I should… Continue reading How to treat yeast infection on your own?

Where are you all buying underwear from nowadays?

Story time: my first time

Women of reddit if u met a man on a dating app and found out he don’t got a car do u find him less attractive?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women of reddit if u met a man on a dating app and found out he don’t got a car do u find him less attractive?

best friend mad at me

I live in a different state as my best friend and every time i post something with someone. she gets jealous, i told her i would never replace her with anyone else and she will always be my best friend. lately she has been giving me bad advice with my relationship, not answering my ft… Continue reading best friend mad at me

Women will say they’re entering their ‘villain era’ but it’s just being determined not to lose confidence when they’re overlooked in favour of male peers.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Women will say they’re entering their ‘villain era’ but it’s just being determined not to lose confidence when they’re overlooked in favour of male peers.

Please help. Seeking avice/thoughts…

I have been dealing with my health for a while. I’m very discouraged and lost now. Ever since my period started (puberty) I have had really bad symptoms when they hit. I’ve have many general doctors who haven’t gotten to the bottom of it. Recently it got so terrible that my period was very inconsistent… Continue reading Please help. Seeking avice/thoughts…

Does anyone else feel like they need to be admired to feel fulfilled?

Forgive me if this sounds shallow but I’ve recently been coming to the realization that being admired is what makes me feel the most fulfilled in life and that without it I feel useless and bored. For instance, I work in the film industry and my job is extremely tiring and the hours are long… Continue reading Does anyone else feel like they need to be admired to feel fulfilled?

I’m afraid men will never understand me fully

First day as a lecturer. Came across these in Assignments

So it’s my first day as a lecturer in uni and I encountered these statements written on several assignments I’ve corrected so far. The task was to write an essay on legal acts relating to women working night shifts. I found them pretty questionable. And I’d like to know if anyone else does too. “Women… Continue reading First day as a lecturer. Came across these in Assignments

Ladies, should I be concerned?

I have recently lost my virginity as a young lady and am constantly worrying if the things I am experiencing are normal or not. During intercourse, is it suppose to hurt for a virgin? It felt very uncomfortable but the pain was weirdly nice. Answers are much appreciated. Should my clit be swollen? My clit… Continue reading Ladies, should I be concerned?

What are simple things you follow on daily basis which makes big difference in looks?

My new guys baby mother has followed me on tik tok

I know this sounds ridiculous but I saw this video years ago where the person caught her partner cheating because he repeatedly sent her videos from tiktok that had been shared by the other woman first. This guy I’m talking to lives with his baby mum but separated , she watched my stories for a… Continue reading My new guys baby mother has followed me on tik tok

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weird bump around vagina

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Overcomplicate life

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Angry and frustrated. How to deal with feelings?

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Tips for getting over a breakup and being okay with being alone

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is there a solution for the emotional effects of menstruation

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Any advice for a woman going on a first date?

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Should I stay or should I go now?

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I’m mourning an ex I should’ve left a long time ago

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Is second puberty real?!

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“A daughter is someone you laugh with, dream with, and love with all your heart.”

What products you wish existed to make your life better?

Where to find khaki pants for school?

I don’t wear makeup that is not mascara that often. Cleaning my makeup sponge for the first time.

Can the Incel Problem Be Solved?

I was watching this really interesting show (I forget the name – it’s on HBO and stars a comedian named Sam). Anyway, the conversation about how black women are very protective about black men, and how having that support behind them is a positive force. And that maybe if white women weren’t so focused on… Continue reading Can the Incel Problem Be Solved?

Heavy Bleeding during ovulation

I’ve been feeling like I might be a girl and I’m afraid of what other women think of me. I feel ashamed for having these thoughts. Any advice. I wish I had friends.

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I’ve been feeling like I might be a girl and I’m afraid of what other women think of me. I feel ashamed for having these thoughts. Any advice. I wish I had friends.

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I’m having thoughts that I might be a woman and feel ashamed and bad. What do you ladies think about this?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading I’m having thoughts that I might be a woman and feel ashamed and bad. What do you ladies think about this?

I LOVE period pains

Honestly since being off the pill I have been having the WORST stomach aches and cramps but tbh I kinda love it. Something is so exhilarating and fun about these pains, it makes me so proud to be a woman and endure this horrible experience. I feel so powerful, I don’t even take meds because… Continue reading I LOVE period pains

When was the last time you were really happy?

What’s the deal with the whole female unity thing? Details in post

Hopefully I phrase this well. If not just ask me to clarify. I, a woman, have seriously never understood it. The whole “How could she do that/say that as a woman”. For example, “How could a woman vote for Trump?” “How could Serena Joy do such terrible things to fellow women” I recently saw an… Continue reading What’s the deal with the whole female unity thing? Details in post

How to gain confidence to go to the gym alone?

Get yourself an app that has your workout on it. You’ll be focusing on your phone between sets. No one really cares what you’re doing in the gym. When I’m there I’m focusing on my own body, reps, strength, etc. To make it easier on yourself, the first time you go just plan to do… Continue reading How to gain confidence to go to the gym alone?

I don’t know how to stop attracting unwanted male attention.

I work at a grocery store. Last week I had to report one of my male coworkers for sexual harassment and pretty much everyday one of the men I work with says something weird to me or I’ll catch them staring at me. Even the male customers say weird stuff to me all the time.… Continue reading I don’t know how to stop attracting unwanted male attention.

Could I be pregnant?

Basically the title. I have been using nuvaring for about a year and a half. I was also finally approved for a bilateral salpingectomy which took place yesterday. The reason I am worried about pregnancy is because I had intercourse with a new partner the weekend before my surgery. I was on NuvaRing, but it… Continue reading Could I be pregnant?

Walmart made me furious.

cursed 😣

Why do I keep passing out?

She’s getting the version of him i begged for

I know it is hard to hear but he did not love you like that. And you will absolutely wreck yourself if you keep comparing. First step is love yourself like you wanted him to. Buy yourself flowers, be kind to yourself and stop treating yourself in a toxic manner. You are not loving yourself… Continue reading She’s getting the version of him i begged for

Stool softener cause thin stools

I can’t stop getting UTIs

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How do you decide if a man is boyfriend or friend material?

My physical attraction to the gender /genders I like tells me if they’re potential romantic partners. I dated my best male friend, but I was secretly having a crush on him from start, I just pushed it aside because I never thought our feelings were mutual. My current partner I’ve been with for several years… Continue reading How do you decide if a man is boyfriend or friend material?

I got hit on in person for the first time the other day, and I kinda feel good?

the problem is, most guys just go about it the wrong way. It’s good to compliment someone. It’s bad to compliment someone like your compliment is payment for service. “I just told you youre hot, now let me fuck you!” Compliments are meant to be given for the sake of giving. Not as a means… Continue reading I got hit on in person for the first time the other day, and I kinda feel good?

Personal grooming

Anyone else have a problem with Ms. and Mrs.?

Why do women still have to announce their marrital status to everyone? If women get divorced everyone knows. If men get divorced no one has to know. If women get married everyone knows. If a man’s married no one has to know. It makes it easier for men to cheat on their wives. Not that… Continue reading Anyone else have a problem with Ms. and Mrs.?

Why Do So Many People Have The Narrative Of, Natural Body =Bad Built & Surgery= Nice?

I haven’t seen that narrative a lot in my life, even then only mostly in the kinds of industries that capitalize on looks (modeling, makeup, etc.) If you’re seeing that sort of thinking in your everyday life, I imagine it can be a huge hit on your self confidence. Just know that that’s not the… Continue reading Why Do So Many People Have The Narrative Of, Natural Body =Bad Built & Surgery= Nice?

Women with unilateral mastectomy: how does the implant in healthy breast compare to reconstructed breast? (Pain, numbness, symmetry)

I had largest silicon implant put in before CORVID and rest of reconstruction: adding fat to fill in gaps, stop implant from rubbing against SKIN, healthy breast reconstruction all got delayed. I had very large, firm breasts, but lack of hormones and other medications means my remaining breast needs a breast lift and most likely… Continue reading Women with unilateral mastectomy: how does the implant in healthy breast compare to reconstructed breast? (Pain, numbness, symmetry)

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I love being called a Lunatic by men when they realize a woman is right

I just can’t understand it. This happens constantly. Someone comes into the convo with some nasty comment not liking my opinion, I back myself up nicely and professionally and once I can really say “no that’s not correct and here is why” – I get called a lunatic or told I need therapy. Is it… Continue reading I *love* being called a Lunatic by men when they realize a woman is right

Need support

Which would you prefer

Do girls like the “i dont care” mentality?

I was at work one day, long ago, and there was a new girl. I wanted be friendly so she’d feel more welcome. Introduced myself and told her she could ask me if she needed help with anything. She looked at me like i was a monster and she acted really cold. Later i see… Continue reading Do girls like the “i dont care” mentality?

Do girls like the “i dont care” mentality?

WHY DO WE HAVE TO PAY TO RECEIVE EDUCATION ON MENSTRUAL CYCLES

eVERY FUCKING PERIOD TRACKER COSTS MONEY, EXCEPT THE ONES THAT GIVE YOU 0 EDUCATION ON HOW YOUR PERIOD IS AFFECTING YOU OR NO NOTIFICATIONS FOR THE PHASES OF YOUR CYCLE i dont give a shit about the part of sex education that is about sex. humanity hasnt scratched the surface of how periods affects your… Continue reading WHY DO WE HAVE TO PAY TO RECEIVE EDUCATION ON MENSTRUAL CYCLES

Navigating Coercion

I recently got out of first relationship that lasted a year plus. Prior to this relationship, I had absolutely no sexual experience with men and I wanted to keep it that way because I was celibate. He was supposedly celibate as well but was insistent on having non penetrative sex. Whenever I had the courage… Continue reading Navigating Coercion

What’s it like going to the gym?

Why are toilet cubicles so narrow?!

Period spotting

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Hey ladies!! Are there any good perfumes/body mist that you recommend?

Hmmm . . . . I’d say perfumes are pretty personal really, but some advice to make them last longer is to dab vaseline on before you spray it and ensure it goes straight onto your skin and not your clothes. Or you could try using a perfume oil, this is my favourite https://kaifragrance.com/products/perfume-oil I… Continue reading Hey ladies!! Are there any good perfumes/body mist that you recommend?

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Insecure

Okay if nothing else helps – think of your vagina being like a person – one of a kind and unique. Just like all people come in different shapes, colours and forms, that still makes them all equally beautiful and special. Your vulva is unique and these features are exactly who you are – love… Continue reading Insecure

What is the basic type of dress to keep on hand?

does anyone else have a lot of trouble connecting with other women?

Ugh, this may not be a popular opinion and I’m old so maybe the younger generations have improved on this but…… Women are taught to view other women as competition. For the good guy, the job, the promotion, the attention. A lot of women, in my experience, aren’t that great at being friendly, in a… Continue reading does anyone else have a lot of trouble connecting with other women?

I feel like I almost made a wrong choice that I would really regret

What if I have any bleeding during my pregnancy?

Is this normal (period)

Am I pregnant

Do you feel attraction on the first date??

You have to feel some sort of attraction before the date happens. If you two got chemistry keep on dating. You don’t have to move fast but as long as you’re interested in someone keep it up. That being said, I wouldn’t want a person that I don’t know well entering my home. I wouldn’t… Continue reading Do you feel attraction on the first date??

Pelvic exam – painful and bloody

Hi everyone. So I went to the ER for chronic constipation and bloating. After giving me an ultrasound exam, the tech proceeded to give me a pelvic exam to which she didn’t prepare me for. She wasn’t kind at all, and she just inserted it into my vagina very roughly. It hurt soooooo bad (literally… Continue reading Pelvic exam – painful and bloody

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Dating a well off guy…

I’m not trying to put myself down, and neither has he but I must be honest… I feel a little out of place dating a guy who’s well off. Maybe I’m just being too harsh on myself, maybe this is the universe pushing me into a direction to rub shoulders with the right people and… Continue reading Dating a well off guy…

Tender breast after sonogram

Six months ago I found a lump in my breast and had to get a sonogram. It turned out to be three masses and the sonogram almost made me sick from the discomfort. It wasn’t painful. Just kinda felt overstimulated or something and I wanted to throw the technician off of me just to make… Continue reading Tender breast after sonogram

This woman keeps following my bf from different accounts of hers?

Idk if this is a red flag or not, but there was a woman my bf was friends with that made me uncomfortable. She was just kinda weird and flirty with him, so he blocked her and stopped hanging out with her. My bf has a second account for work. She then followed that account,… Continue reading This woman keeps following my bf from different accounts of hers?

Don’t want to be alone but annoyed!

Abortion – why aren’t grown men being held accountable for impregnated minors? I am at a loss as why this isn’t being discussed. Eleven year old girls are being denied abortions. Why is nobody talking about grown men or family members being charged with statutory rape?

A safe, respectful space to discuss the lives and stories of women of all backgrounds, and the current events which affect us. Trans people and especially trans feminine people are expressly welcome here. People of all genders are welcome; feminist cred appreciated. Shaming women’s choices and invalidating the perspectives of other women is not allowed… Continue reading Abortion – why aren’t grown men being held accountable for impregnated minors? I am at a loss as why this isn’t being discussed. Eleven year old girls are being denied abortions. Why is nobody talking about grown men or family members being charged with statutory rape?

having a hard time trusting after being taken advantage of constantly

i’m a minor, and reach out for support a lot. i guess that makes me pretty vulnerable. i get a lot of attention from men anyway. a lot of people in my life have been really nice and supportive of me, and then ended up being really destructive to me. i feel like people think… Continue reading having a hard time trusting after being taken advantage of constantly

how can you compliment men?!?!

I routinely yell out my car window compliments. A problem that I’ve run into is men Tshirts and jeans with saggy bootys. Hair a mess. Men complain, “nobody compliments us ever!” A lot of women spend an hour or more on outfit, shoes, hair, makeup. Dudes. If you want to be complimented take care of… Continue reading how can you compliment men?!?!

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How true is that all men are sexist pigs?

Should I report to HR?

It’s gross isn’t it. Report it. So many times I wish I’d reported things I let slide. I had a previous boss tell me he only gave me a trial shift because he thought I had a good figure whilst he was drank at a staff party. Completely creeped me out. Another boss outright commented… Continue reading Should I report to HR?

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What are your thoughts on the dyson air wrap

Have any of you ever met someone and had an instant feeling like “I’m going to marry this person” and ended up with them? Did it work out for you?

Yah, my husband to be. It wasn’t quite instant but it was within a few hours. He took me to IKEA for our first date because everything was closed due to covid. It was my idea but he never questioned it, and in between our text convos about star trek and Lord of the rings,… Continue reading Have any of you ever met someone and had an instant feeling like “I’m going to marry this person” and ended up with them? Did it work out for you?

Hi question from a man

I personally wouldn’t be bothered. My husband was my first everything but he had sexual/relationship experience before and I had a hard time accepting it – not that I had anything about it, but I was worried I won’t be “good enough” or “as good as the others” and he will compare me with his… Continue reading Hi question from a man

Does anyone else feel like they have PMS while on your period?

Self identity vs expected role

Help needed in self reflection. A question for fellow women of the world, and I would love some perspective from all walks of life. When your self identity clashes with your socially defined role, how do you know what’s the right decision? Case example: you are strong willed and independent. But for the greater good… Continue reading Self identity vs expected role

Picking apart every. single. flaw.

I am not alone right?

What can a pregnant woman who will be homeless soon do?

I’m a man, homeless veteran. They pay partislly for my apartment. My sister had to move in with me because her doctor took her off work. She won’t be getting any money from her insurance for taking time off work. We will soon both be homeless, as she is not allowed to live with me.… Continue reading What can a pregnant woman who will be homeless soon do?

Unrequited love for a friend

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Would you marry your spouse if they loved you but weren’t marrying you because of it?

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“If you are too bossy, your boyfriend will leave you”

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I used hair removal cream on pubic hair and I regret it.

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I need new sex toys. Any recommendations?

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Being called over sensitive

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Transvaginal ultrasound

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How to Keep BF Motivated

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i’m being followed in the worst case scenario

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A new coworker eye-f*cked me on his first day

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Horrible obgyn Dr.

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Sudden loss of periods and sex drive

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The natural smells of a vagina

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Scientists have created a mechanical womb that can grow life in the lab

My dad isn’t coming to my college graduation because he hates my mom and her side of the family

I just got off the phone with my dad. He told me that he’s not planning on coming to my graduation in the spring. When I asked him why (knowing what he’s about to say lol) he started going on and on about how horrible my mom is because she’s calculated and cold and manipulated… Continue reading My dad isn’t coming to my college graduation because he hates my mom and her side of the family

Women of reddit, what’s the one thing you find unattractive in men?

Boobs or butt equivalent on a guy?

I need dinner ideas ladies!

There’s a pait of cookbooks called “well fed: paleo recipes for people who like to eat.” I’m not paleo, but the recipes are all fantastic. Better yet, in the beginning of one of the books there is a section on fast weekly food prep and how to use food during the week so it’s fast,… Continue reading I need dinner ideas ladies!

Inappropriate?

How to deal with fatphobic family? (Possible Triggers)

Disclaimer: I’m not sure if this is a good subreddit for this question or not. Also, I do identify as non-binary but I also partially identify with womanhood and was raised a woman so I specifically wanted women’s opinions. So I have to go visit my family for fall break and unfortunately, they are very… Continue reading How to deal with fatphobic family? (Possible Triggers)

Boyfriend losses erection during sex

Im in very new relationship (Around a month) and recently he has been going soft during sex. My guy friends have reassured me that this can be quite normal. But I can’t help but feel insecure since I don’t recall this being a problem previously. Should I bring this up with him? I don’t wanna… Continue reading Boyfriend losses erection during sex

Feeling very confused. Please help.

Please note this post is not meant to be offensive at all, I’m just trying to understand stuff, so I’m sorry if I phrase things in a way that offends people. If I do that at all, please let me know and I’ll correct it. I’m a teenage girl and a survivor of sexual assault,… Continue reading Feeling very confused. Please help.

Calling all Squ*ters!!

Where are the clothes for women with boobs

It’s time I get political

I’m tired of people thinking that women don’t have rights. In some countries they don’t and that sucks. But men are the target of fake accusations of women mistreatment. They think oh women have it bad because we are women. But still they accuse the men of doing it if they didn’t even do it.… Continue reading It’s time I get political

I’m tired of being made a victim–creepy delivery guy encounter.

Nothing happened. By all accounts, it’s very tame. But when I answered the door, there was just a guy by himself. I looked for a store tag on his shirt while talking to him, and by talking, I mean asking where the dryer is and looking around while he just stares at me for far… Continue reading I’m tired of being made a victim–creepy delivery guy encounter.

How long does a regular tampon last you?

Do I tell my teacher I had a uti

I don’t want to tolerate my partner looking at insta models

I hate being told that, as a woman, I have it “easier” in the dating scene.

This is something that I’ve been told multiple times, and also something I see discussed often on social media: women have more choice than men, because there are more men after women than the other way around, and even “ugly” women have at least one friend willing to be/sleep with them; therefore women are not… Continue reading I hate being told that, as a woman, I have it “easier” in the dating scene.

If you have a wardrobe it’s more than likely that you DO have something to wear.

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Do you ever use the word like just to piss people off?

I’m a lady and grew up with the whole: don’t be a valley girl, you sound stupid. Well, now I find myself online just dropping likes to signal to people that I am… not a man. Like (lol) it was forced out of me, but now I have control of the like and use it… Continue reading Do you ever use the word *like* just to piss people off?

What is your biggest fear in life?

Honestly, (and this might sound silly but) my biggest fear is that people think I’m stupid. It would affect my job, my relationships, my self-esteem…everything. I hate it when people don’t understand what I’m trying to explain especially when they’re not really listening and just assume I’m being dumb. I know my fear probably stems… Continue reading What is your biggest fear in life?

Can someone please tell me how the first gynecologist check-up goes?

How to handle restrictions I have as a woman

I am in my mid twenties and I live in a very conservative family. I developed a taste for my own company instead of tagging along with people I don’t like. So I go to movies, historical monuments, book stores and cafes alone. Usually I have a blast but my family seems to hate it.… Continue reading How to handle restrictions I have as a woman

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How to overcome being cheated on with a new partner?

A year ago I was seeing someone who was thoughtful, kind, always cared about if I was feeling good, just an overall good guy. He was a classmate of mine. Turns out he had a girlfriend that I later found out about and it kinda destroyed me for a while. Now a coworker messaged me,… Continue reading How to overcome being cheated on with a new partner?

What is the weirdest thing a man has said to you about your period?

Why not be the rich man?

So since I was a young girl everyone would tell me to marry a rich guy when I grow up that it would help me live a comfortable life and not have any worries. Sad thing is that I believed this for a while. I met a couple of wealthy fellas who won’t lie they… Continue reading Why not be the rich man?

How to get over someone else’s relationship you thought would be “it,” the end game?

My older sister is recently separated. She’d known her husband since middle school, they were on and off. I should mention that she’s a little over a decade older than me, so I was not involved in their marriage growing up but knew they went through ups and downs to end up being the most… Continue reading How to get over someone else’s relationship you thought would be “it,” the end game?

Am I going nuts or is “women” dissappearing?

Literally the word women. I’ve been noticing more and more on videos that I watch people say “woman” when referring to multiple women. At first I chalked it up to many people I watch online not having English as a first language. Fair enough. But then I noticed it increasing with people I know are… Continue reading Am I going nuts or is “women” dissappearing?

Do you feel bad when you ask your man for something?

I tried curling my hair overnight with one of those plastic curlers, it ended up super curly.

I was wondering for best results, should I curl overnight or just curl for one hour before I go out? If I curl overnight, will it be significantly more curly than the one hour? (I feel like this is a stupid question but whatever) I want it to look more natural but still be curly.… Continue reading I tried curling my hair overnight with one of those plastic curlers, it ended up super curly.

Why is there porn on Reddit?

After college years what does a realistic social life look like?

Does anybody else get a bit flushed when tired?

Left for another woman whilst pregnant with his child

Hi everyone, I’m working through some emotional trauma I guess. Basically my father cheated on my mum when she was pregnant with me and because of that they separated. I’m not here looking for advice but rather would like to know what kind of effects that would have had on my mum’s life moving forward.… Continue reading Left for another woman whilst pregnant with his child

a little advice

Hi!! been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We love each other very much, spend most of our time together and have so much fun. But, I’ve noticed that we have a hard time understanding each other in conversation. Either I can’t verbalize myself properly, he can’t hear me (My voice… Continue reading a little advice

what is your current job and what would be the job of your dreams?

White bathing suit plus a period?

I’m hemming and hawing between some options here, and figured the internet would be plenty opinionated. In less than two weeks I am going on vacation— also a belated honeymoon. Originally, the plan was to go to Colorado and then up towards Seattle, which mid October is not very swim weather. Last minute we decided… Continue reading White bathing suit plus a period?

First visit to a Gynecologist

How to feel put together ?

Hello fellow ladies, I am sorry if this thread does not fit here because it is not a heavy subject. I feel(and look ?) terribly frumpy. Even after a nice breakfast, shower, dressing up with clothes I like, make up. I somehow look like I am just out of bed. Did you find ways to… Continue reading How to feel put together ?

Feeling low

Emergency pill – pcod

Your experience coming off of contraception after a long time?

Waxing?

I have PCOS so I am pretty hairy and it’s an insecurity of mine, but I hate shaving so it’s even more of a struggle. I’m considering waxing my vagina and I’m worried about the pain level. So, I was hoping some of you might be able to tell me how painful it is/name things… Continue reading Waxing?

Is it normal that kissing grosses me out?

If you’re being kissed by someone you’re not into, it could be one of the most disgusting and vile acts you’ve been a part of. Whereas if you’re being kissed by someone you love alot, and are totally into, let’s just say you’ll pine for even small small pecks, let alone full fledged kisses. And… Continue reading Is it normal that kissing grosses me out?

Thinness being juvenile

Recently, I have been wondering if there is a connection between men liking younger women and liking thin women. Often times, thin women look more juvenile because they have lost their curves/don’t have any. Does anyone else agree with this?

Living alone for the first time in my life, any advice (security system, products, etc) ?

Welcome to the world of do what you feel like when you like! Living alone is incredible! Get your locks changed. Give a spare set to a neighbour you trust or whomever. Sliding windows? I put dowel in them so they only open when dowel out. It’s round dowel so spins in track as square… Continue reading Living alone for the first time in my life, any advice (security system, products, etc) ?

I would like some advice please

Hello everyone! I just kinda need to vent and talk my feelings through. I’m gonna try to keep it kinda vague I hope that’s okay. I’m sorry if it doesn’t make sense, I tried but I have adhd so let me know if I need to clarify anything. My boyfriend and I have been together… Continue reading I would like some advice please

Boyfriend is unable to control gamer raging issues so no I have to treat him like a kid.

Bit of background: Game is life for my boyfriend he’s a gamer with an addiction to games. Yes its his hobby and in his word a outlet for him to take out his anger on. On a near to daily basis he get very serious and does in fact give me an attitude if I… Continue reading Boyfriend is unable to control gamer raging issues so no I have to treat him like a kid.

Pelvic pain?

Legal self-defence tools?

I live in Ireland where almost all self-defence tools are illegal, such as pepper spray, brass knuckles, etc. I’m a 14-year-old girl so I obviously can’t carry around anything too heavy duty, but I live in an area that can be pretty rough and I’m starting to go to more parties and stuff where I’d… Continue reading Legal self-defence tools?

When do you feel comfortable talking about periods in a relationship?

I’m fucking crazy. I just told a guy I was talking to for 2 weeks I’m not feeling good today because I’m on my period. We’ve only been on a few dates. I was in a past relationship where we just openly talked about it, especially because the first day I feel so horrible I’m… Continue reading When do you feel comfortable talking about periods in a relationship?

Some kinks/fetishes seem undeniably rooted in patriarchal ideas, is it problematic to feed into them?

You must be 18+ to view this community You must be at least eighteen years old to view this content. Are you over eighteen and willing to see adult content? No Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. ©2022 reddit inc. All rights reserved. REDDIT and the ALIEN Logo… Continue reading Some kinks/fetishes seem undeniably rooted in patriarchal ideas, is it problematic to feed into them?

I had my butt flossed and my mind was all the better for it

ok this is high on the list of things I’m never gonna tell anybody lol. So I was diagnosed ADHD and ASD two years ago when I was 16 bc I’ve always had problems with running thoughts, and just generally not being mindful or aware of others. I also have poor interoception, meaning I have… Continue reading I had my butt flossed and my mind was all the better for it

I am breaking free. I will choose me. [Long brutally honest and raw vent]

This is a very complex matter in my life right now. I’ve been blaming myself for not wanting to sleep with my partner for a year (ever since he moved in with me) and all this time I was always thinking there was something wrong with me for not wanting to touch him; but now… Continue reading I am breaking free. I will choose me. [Long brutally honest and raw vent]

I just found out my sister & I were being taped by a taxi driver

Basically, before I got in the taxi I saw the driver turning on his phone’s back camera. I denied that at first. But then he kept his phone in his hand while driving with the back facing me and my sister so it gets a full view of whoever is sitting in the back). And… Continue reading I just found out my sister & I were being taped by a taxi driver

My current situation. Maybe I’m just paranoid. Do any other women relate?

Sometimes I hate being a woman. I used to love putting on a whole outfit and makeup to go out. I get so much enjoyment from putting an outfit together. I don’t do it anymore. At least not when I’m going out alone. Whenever I go out alone I try and look as unpresentable as… Continue reading My current situation. Maybe I’m just paranoid. Do any other women relate?

was it consensual? help :(

Is ‘mansplaining’ enough of a reason to end a relationship?

I’ve been with this guy for about a month and a half and he has, multiple times, tried to explain to me how periods work. I recently switched from the pill to the IUD and my body is still adjusting. Last month my period lasted 3 weeks but was very light and spotty, today I… Continue reading Is ‘mansplaining’ enough of a reason to end a relationship?

I’m not old enough to sterilize myself, but I’m old enough to have a baby?

Posted by3 days ago Comments are locked So I’m 22f and I’ve been trying to talk to my doctors about a 10 year IUD or sterilization, but she doesn’t want to do anything permanent or super long term because I’m too young and “might want kids in a few years”. I’m just frustrated that she… Continue reading I’m not old enough to sterilize myself, but I’m old enough to have a baby?

I feel like I’m not respected and feel inferior at my job.

I’m a quality technician and I work at a manufacturer that makes your debit cards. I was let go last year at this time from this place and two months ago, my boss called me back wanting to rehire me because they really needed help again. So I said yes because they would give me… Continue reading I feel like I’m not respected and feel inferior at my job.

Was followed home and now I’m shaken

I was walking home today and just a few blocks from my building, a man shouted at me. Catcalling is annoyingly common where I am so I didn’t think anything of it. Then it felt like he was following me so I sped up and ducked into my building, and saw him follow me into… Continue reading Was followed home and now I’m shaken

Running in the dark is really fucking scary

-Rant- Just went out on a 4km run, its about 8pm and pretty dark outside. I love running in the evening because of the cool air and quiet. But Its honestly way too scary. I usually run with my dog, he’s not super big but he does bark at people and can lunge if someone… Continue reading Running in the dark is really fucking scary

(Rant) Internet Misogyny being Everywhere is so Fucking Annoying

I tend to try to stay away from all the misogynistic things around the internet, but sometimes I just encounter it from the most remote or ‘wholesome’ places on the internet. Just a few hours ago, I was looking at a cute picture when I decided to read the comments and some asshole suddenly brought… Continue reading (Rant) Internet Misogyny being Everywhere is so Fucking Annoying

I do not want to be a career woman. I want to be a homemaker

*rant* I (F21) am in my last year of college and I really do not care about my major or getting a job in the field. I’ve been trying to be passionate about something career oriented all my college years, but I can’t keep pretending. I do not care about advancing in a career, I… Continue reading I do not want to be a career woman. I want to be a homemaker

Am I weird for not wanting a relationship?

Im 31 and happily single. Ive never dated anyone and don’t really plan on doing so. Im not saying I don’t get lonely sometimes or wish for some company. But, I feel like a relationship would add more stress to my life than happiness. Also, I have health issues that I am too afraid to… Continue reading Am I weird for not wanting a relationship?

It’s not easy to escape your abusive family/partner/… For anyone struggling: I understand you. And I wish we all have the strength to escape one day.

You can’t just “leave”. It’s not easy as that. Otherwise many of us wouldn’t struggle with abusive relationships. But as difficult as it is. I wish someday we will escape and will be able to live our life as we want to. I believe in you. I believe in me. It sucks. And it may… Continue reading It’s not easy to escape your abusive family/partner/… For anyone struggling: I understand you. And I wish we all have the strength to escape one day.