It’s not pee, though there is trace amounts of urine in it. It’s a hormonal liquid that fills up in your bladder so if theres any urine in there itll get mixed in with it.
I’ve been able to do it before but it has to be done a specific way, and i had to get comfortable with the idea of releasing cuz it does feel like youre gonna pee – you wont squirt if youre tensing your bladder when this feeling comes.
But the men youre sleeping with have been watching too much porn if theyre assuming the ultimate way to get someone off is to make them squirt. Some people just cant do it, and some people dont LIKE doing it. They should focus on how YOU want to get off and do things that you like.