I could have written this post. Honestly the only reason I’ve been able to reign in my feelings is because I had a really bad experience with a guy. My mom always told me there are worse things than being single, but I couldn’t really believe it. But after this last guy I truly can see what my mom was talking about.
I hope you don’t have to go through what I did. But now I just don’t get carried away thinking a guy could be the one. Instead I’m the opposite now, wondering what they’re hiding and how bad it’s gonna be when I find out. I won’t even save his contact info in my phone unless we’ve been on a few dates. I am very pessimistic and unattached and not sure that’s an improvement lol.