Ladies, should I be concerned?

ladies,-should-i-be-concerned?

I have recently lost my virginity as a young lady and am constantly worrying if the things I am experiencing are normal or not.

During intercourse, is it suppose to hurt for a virgin? It felt very uncomfortable but the pain was weirdly nice. Answers are much appreciated.

Should my clit be swollen? My clit was extremely swollen after intercourse and it made me panic. I tried searching for answers and i didn’t get the answers I needed.

Should I experience discomfort when sitting? I really did struggle to sit down for a couple of days after I lost my virginity, and was wondering if it was something other girls also experienced.

Is lube a must? It was very dry for me and didn’t feel nice at all in the beginning, however I did find out he put the condom on inside out. If he put it on properly, would it be less painful and dry?

Sorry for very specific details, I’ve been looking for many communities to post this in and all have declined, thank you.