just saw a post about leg hair which made me reflect on how i used to obsess over shaving and how fucked up that was. nowadays i use a trimmer when i feel like it for my pits and pubic hair, but that’s it.
i’ve gotten really comfortable not shaving my legs and pits most of the time, but the pubic hair is something i’m still self conscious about. like if i ever get a bf, would it be inappropriate or weird to have sex with a totally unshaved vulva? logical answer is OF COURSE, but emotionally it makes me anxious to think about. also i don’t yet feel comfortable wearing bikini bottoms if i haven’t shaved, which is something i’m trying to work on. how do you guys deal with this?