I always struggle to feel feminine


In particular, that I don’t fit feminine standards of beauty. I’m short, I have short black curly hair, brown eyes, large breasts, and curvy. I’m not skinny either but I feel fat all the time despite people telling me I’m not.

I recently got a haircut because it was unhappy with myself, and now I find myself feeling even more unhappy with myself. I know it’ll grow to a length Im comfortable with.

I always waned to be skinny with light hair and eyes because that’s what I always found as pretty. I never saw myself as beautiful because I don’t look like that All American girl. Men have told me that I’m ugly too, which makes it worse.

How can I feel feminine?