Why did having preferences/types especially for women become a ,,wrong“ thing. Extra: get to judge mine

why-did-having-preferences/types-especially-for-women-become-a-,,wrong“-thing.-extra:-get-to-judge-mine

So I Wanna be honest I never dated but whenever the topic comes (especially about types) I’m being called the biggest piece of crap for that. They always say it’s ,,unfair to have one. Maybe someone wants you but doesn’t fit into it“

It’s (in my opinion) not even an unrealistic type? But yeah. Now YOU can also lmk if it’s really to harsh/unreal

I‘m more into the sweet, kind, (especially non alpha) and loving dudes. So the compete softies (*and love cuddles hehe)

Dudes who think ,,men> women“ or say they belong into the kitchen, need to obey the man are an instant NO. Also stuff like yelling and hitting are an instant red flag. So actually all toxic things like that

No plans to get kids… (I wouldn’t and don’t have the strength/mentality to raise a kid. And birth is a no no )

And well the part I get mostly judged for; I prefer dudes with dark hair and waves. Dark eyes, not too tall and a bit tanned

(Also get judged very bad for that) Nationality: doesn’t matter too much. would prefer if they’re also from W-Europe

And someone who actually wants something serious and love (not just 🍒)

Not religious/not very religious(I’m not religious which could lead to discussions and most religious teach the ,,men>women“‘too much)

So yeah. Please don’t be harsh (: