I don’t want to answer the WHYs here. My ex(P) provided her WhatsApp to me as i did not have any backup of our chats.
When I got her WhatsApp, i found out her chats with her ex (H) and according to that chat, she was talking to him even after his marriage.
According to her, H was an asshole who hacked into her WhatsApp somehow because he knew her email address and password. She also said that she did not talk too him after his marriage even though he kept on pursuing her.
I am confused because at one of point of time, P said that H told her that he would give divorce to his wife and marry her and that she needs to wait. She told she never believed him but in the chat, i could see that she was cursing his wife. She also told me once that H used to call his wife “seedhi” and i could see that in the chat too.
But when I asked P about it she started crying and blamed H. She told that he had hacked her I’d and password and somehow managed to hack her WhatsApp and created the chat, created backup. Is it actually possible?
I actually trust her but now I am thinking she has some serious issues because i have seen this many times that she used to forget things that she said to me. She can’t even remember the chronology of the events properly. I know that she has gone through a lot of trauma in her life and this could have resulted in this.