I know that femininity is a very subjective idea, and has a different look and definition for everyone. Our uniqueness is what makes us all so very beautiful.
For me, I often feel so out of touch with my own femininity. I want to be the woman I have dreamed of being since I was a little girl. I want to feel soft, beautiful, and powerful- a femme fatale. I can adorn myself with jewelry and put on flattering clothes as a band-aid remedy but I have never felt “woman” enough. Simply by existing, I should feel powerful but I don’t and perhaps I have let society distort my own perception of self. I can fake my confidence but I lack it.