A Pick Me and a Chill Girl are the same to me. Both are insecure and wants that male validation so badly. Will accept disrespect so she can seem “not like the other girls” and the guys think she’s so easy going because she allows the bs and doesn’t call the guy out on it. Sometimes it takes a sec, but we all have to hopefully, at some point, have to stop being a Pick Me/Chill Girl.
A girl’s girl though, that’s someone that wants to make the world a better place. That’s someone that will help you, and be by your side, and be loyal to you even if she doesn’t know you well. She will help you, ie will contact you if your man’s talking to her. And she isn’t going to stop, she is going to not only speak up to men, to women, but one day she might raise a child and teach them how to treat a woman, how to be treated as the next generation of girls/women. THAT’S A GIRL’S GIRL. Supporting women when they need it, breaking endless cycles of disrespect and abuse and use.