People who grew up without fathers, how do you feel about ‘fatherless’ jokes? Do you enjoy making them?

I have a dad but he just didn’t have a real hand in raising me, we were never close and I was scared of him for most of my childhood.

The fatherless jokes sting, because whose fault is that? Why would the lost kids acting out be the butt of the jokes and not the adults who didn’t take care of them?