So a couple days ago my ex was like hey I miss you and I gotta take u out for a bagel much love! I have no I’ll feelings at all towards him so I was like f it why not! I drove up to see him and he doesn’t reply for like two hours so I go and see a high school friend…he wakes up from a weed induced nap and is like hey I’m so so sorry let me make it up to you and please come see my new place anyway!
I was like alright I drove up all this way, I might as well! The whole time I’m there I have actually a really nice time, we sleep together, he gives me all this love and affection, despite dropping weird hints about wanting me to do kinky dom-sub things to him…and then finding someone else’s panties right out in the open.
Anyway I split and drove home and felt like it was a pretty good experience all things considered and the next day I texted him pretty kindly thanking him for having me over and stuff, thinking it’s a no brained that he’d be polite and text back. Nope.
That’s when I realized I got manipulated into just being a booty call…even telling me he loves me and everything! Granted I will never give him another chance but Jesus…to treat someone you used to love like this…I feel winded and shook and hurt.
I think I must have too much faith in men to be decent or even just well-mannered. And I’m probably too naive or easygoing and just take people on their word…idk
I need help and advice…I’m at a place in my life where I want a relationship. But I can’t sort out the liars from the real decent men. How do I start? How do I know if a guy is being real with me? Please help!