Okay if nothing else helps – think of your vagina being like a person – one of a kind and unique. Just like all people come in different shapes, colours and forms, that still makes them all equally beautiful and special. Your vulva is unique and these features are exactly who you are – love them and embrace them. There is no such thing as “normal” when it comes to vulvas and vaginas. We’re all slightly different but nonetheless beautiful.
Your poor vulva didn’t do anything to deserve such judgement so cut her some slack 🙂 when I think about these things from a slightly humourous way, it makes more sense and shows me that I can be a bit silly at times about what I think is really important so I hope a different perspective can offer you some comfort. Love yourself and remember that you are beautiful in every single way