I hope others can relate, every time I’m in a long term relationship I lose myself in the other person and kind of forget who I am. My hobbies, myself, everything. Lately with a deep depression, I gained some weight, and I don’t do anything personal or nice for myself that I used to like getting my hair done, doing my makeup or putting effort into my outfits.
I want to feel beautiful and like myself again even while with my fiance; especially so that I can feel good for him. The biggest thing is I stopped the dressing the way that I liked to after we got together..and just stopped being “extra” like I like to. How can I get the ball rolling and FEEL like myself again?