Over the past three months I have been seriously thinking about leaving my husband after his cheating via social media and going on dates and repeatedly hanging out alone with another woman and lying to me about it by omission… Today is our three year anniversary and he’s being very kind, pretty sure he’s gotten me a gift, asking me what I want to do today. I have gotten him nothing and have zero plans… On our one year anniversary he was messaging another woman on tinder so… I don’t even really care tbh because to me we are at ground zero, not year three…
I’m just annoyed partly because yesterday I saw his car and this other woman’s car at his work. (He works for himself at an office privately. She doesn’t work there and it’s the third time I’ve seen her car there, twice I’ve staked out and seen both of them walking into his work office.) I have not actually seen them be intimate but based on his past I’m wagering there is physical stuff or at least an emotional affair occurring. Annoyed because making the decision to leave has been a source of internal conflict every day and now he makes it even harder by being nice to me and acting like our marriage is so important to him when he can’t even process through my pain and issues with me.
I’m so conflicted now and feel unsure.