So he is turned on & want to do stuff while I’m not wanting sex yet I just wanted to feel abit more connected so I felt secure giving myself. So things like cuddling for a little and making me feel good about giving myself. He tells me that if I can’t give him what he wants he don’t want to have any cuddles. Then I said with all the problems we are having I need that connection it’s important to me. (Demisexual) I know sounds weird but I found out what it meant and it described me to a T. Anyway he said he will move on then and go home…
I’ve been through much abuse when I was a child till adult life & all I want is a connection to make me feel safe to give myself to someone…
It ended up with an argument because of my small request… But hes made me feel more so insecure about myself but yet I’m the one in the wrong…