Hi!! been with my boyfriend for about a year and a half. We love each other very much, spend most of our time together and have so much fun. But, I’ve noticed that we have a hard time understanding each other in conversation. Either I can’t verbalize myself properly, he can’t hear me (My voice is very soft and quiet), or just struggling to listen in general. But, when he does listen- things just don’t compute and I feel wilding misunderstood. This is not an uncommon feeling for me in the world. I mentioned something about this and we’re both going to consider it before a conversation.
I just feel like my heart is dropping through my stomach. I would rather nip it in the bud and notice the red flags to save hurt for later, but I’m really worried because I care for him lots. Just wondering what you guys think. Is this a red flag?