Perception, friend.
Life, as a habit, is not a “giving” thing. You don’t gain or lose three things at a time, or in a limited fashion of any kind.
You perceive that you have lost a certain set of things because you are making a drama of it. You perceive that you have gained a certain set of things because you are making a drama of it.
Luck is the intersection of preparation and opportunity; not an episode of the Kardashians.
Work hard. Expect the unexpected. Depend on yourself. You’ll get more than two good things at the same time.