She tried breaking up with me three days after we became official because she said I was too good for her. My first relationship so I thought as long as I loved her enough for the both of us we’d be ok. We weren’t. She tried breaking up with me for the same reason a dozen times. Eventually I became bitter and we became codependent. We were both unhappy but neither one of us was unwilling to leave. One day we had a particularly explosive argument. The verbal and psychological damage we inflicted on each other was horrible. We were the worst versions of ourselves. I shouldn’t have fought for our relationship so hard at the beginning. If someone is even a bit apprehensive don’t commit. Let them go and be happy