What would you change about your “first time”?

Absolutely nothing. I am ever glad that it was something that my long-term girlfriend and I thought out way ahead of time, talked about. We didn’t exactly know the time and place ahead, she was raised by a single mom who owned a business and had weird hours, my house was often okay, but I also have four siblings so…

It was awkward, it wasn’t great, but that’s really how it is supposed to be. The thing of it was that it was caring, and meaningful at the time.