What would the vets and active servicemen of Reddit have to say about the questions in the comments?

First of all I’m sorry for the phrasing of the title, this subs bots wouldn’t allow me to post any other version of it.

That being said, I’m currently writing a book, the main character of which is a seasoned vet who’s seen some stuff.

To make sure I’m correctly representing and paying homage to all of you brave men and women serving, I need you to answer some questions. You don’t need to answer all of these and I’m sorry in advance if any of these questions bring back unpleasant memories and/or PTSD.

  1. How did you view the army and armed conflicts before enlisting;

  2. What made you enlisting and how did you feel doing it;

  3. How did your friends and family react to it;

  4. How was your life before getting drafted or joining;

  5. How did you and your loved ones react when you were first deployed;

  6. How was your journey to the base;

  7. What were your expectations vs reality upon arrival;

  8. What was your first accounts of combat and what do you remember most from it;

  9. What was your most pleasant time while deployed;

  10. Did you loose any brothers in arms while in combat and if so (sorry if this makes any of you uncomfortable) mind to give some details;

  11. How did your thoughts change while deployed and in combat;

  12. How did YOU change while deployed and in combat;

  13. First thoughts upon hearing that you’d be returning home;

  14. How was your arrival(how were your received by friends and family);

  15. How was life after returning and how did you fit in;

  16. If you went back for another tour: What did you think of returning;

  17. What event changed you most during your time in service;

  18. How do you view the world, the army and war after all this time;

  19. How did your react upon killing or at least upon reminiscing about your kill(s) after the adrenaline and shock worn off;

  20. If there’s anything you’d say to your former self at any given time or to any young guy/gal, what would it be?