What red flags in a relationship are often swept under the rug ?

Communication differences.

Like there are a lot of people who can’t communicate. They can vent or speak or rebuttal but they can’t communicate. Communication takes effort and the willingness to change. If you meet someone who can’t communicate then you need to run, especially if they think change is always wrong, always manipulative, always something to fight.

Everything takes balance and that’s what communication is about. Speaking and listening. Growing and helping someone grow.