What made you realize you did/didn’t want kids?

gestures broadly at state of the planet

Nah seriously the wife and I agreed early on we were neither capable or desiring to bring another life into the world and raising it into a semi functional human being. With her disability and my families history of mental health it’s for the best we don’t have to worry about a kid.

Two years ago I got sick and that decision was taken anyways so it all worked out and best of all I don’t have to share my toys