What is the most effective way to bridge political divides and promote positive dialogue?

Focus on what unites us and not what separates us. Instead of saying we want universal health care. Say isn’t it sad that people are so afraid of medical bills that people would rather drive themselves to the hospital instead of letting experts in an ambulance help them. Shouldn’t money not be a barrier to making sure you aren’t ill can can get the help you need? Don’t we all want to be in good health?