When I was in junior high school a handful of girls had a reputation for being calientahuevos.
The meaning of this expression is similar to “being a tease”.
The literal translation is “testicle warmer.”
It’s the girl willing to go pretty far but who stops short of engaging in full sexual intercourse.
The implication is that if you are going to make out then you are expected to go all the way.
Like, lest he get “blue balls”, you owe it to him.
This is a horrific mindset because it takes away consent.
A woman is the owner of her body.
This means I can kiss you and not want to make out; make out and not want to have sex; have sex and not want to have sex again.
Saying no at any point is my right and anyone overriding it is committing sexual abuse.
If a girl says no and you are under the impression she can’t say no because she has already done this much – or has already had sex with you in the past, or is your girlfriend – and push her into having sex this is the very definition of rape.
A common mistake we make is to take behavior that is culturally accepted and make the blind assumption that it is right.