There are so many first names that have been ruined for me because of specific people. The most recent one is the name “Hayden”. I used to love that name, but now every time I hear it, I think of the douchebag who ruined it for me. He was my ex-boyfriend who cheated on me with my best friend. He was the most selfish, manipulative person I’ve ever met. He would say the most hurtful things to me and then turn around and act like he didn’t mean them. I was blinded by his good looks and his fake charm. I thought I loved him, but I was just in love with the idea of him. I’m so glad I got out of that toxic relationship. And now I never want to hear the name “Hayden” ever again.