I never had and don’t want one. I don’t want some person to be around me all the time, that seems very annoying, and I have no interest at all in things like kissing and physical contact. and sharing a bed is like my worst nightmare, the last time my sister just sat on the foot of my bed for a few minutes I had to change my sheets because I don’t want another person on there.
If I somehow found myself in a relationship we would probably just meet up twice a week for gaming and dinner and like hug once and otherwise live in different apartments and not communicate. Which I don’t think anyone else wants.