What characteristics are really annoying you in a partner?

When I am in a really bad moment in my life or when I feel sad he always do the same, cries because I cry, he is automatically sad because I am and I always end trying to hear him and stuff like that but BRO I AM THE ONE WHO IS BROKEN RIGHT KNOW can you be there FOR ME?

I told him that I hate this but its always the same, stays the same shit..