I think fat is sexy. I love plush upper arms, big soft tummies, “cottage cheese” thighs (we really need a better term for that, lol), and all the other stuff that many people spend their whole lives hating about themselves.
Then again, it’s not actually uncommon at all for folks to actually prefer being bigger and/or having bigger partners. Society just tends to pretend we don’t exist. Can’t deal with the truth, lol…