Situation at work: I’ve only been there a few months and I get along with everyone very well – as far as I can tell. But there is this one person who is really bothering me. First, some info so you can better understand my situation: I applied there and was accepted immediately, and I get along very well with the managers. At first, I was in a different department than I was supposed to be, which was fine with me. According to my colleagues, I did my tasks there very well, there was a lot of praise and everything was great.
Then, after a few weeks, I changed to the office where I was actually first scheduled, there was this woman who had of course heard about my good work and that I got along very well with my colleagues. You might think that was good, but it wasn’t, because that didn’t suit her at all. She then indirectly told me on the same day that she was already doing a lot with her colleagues privately, according to the motto: you should stay away from them.
Then she said that anyone could do the work in the department I was in first, that it wasn’t anything special (in fact, it wasn’t), so it really bothered her that I did my work very well and got along very well with everyone.
She explains things willfully wrong so that you make mistakes and she can then report them to the superiors. She blasphemes me and claims things I have not done or said. When she makes mistakes (unfortunately she often does, she forgets a lot because she is only on her smart phone and I do almost all the work) she always blames me or others.
She is generally very spiteful and blabs a lot of things that she is not allowed to tell the other employees, so already for legal reasons (personnel records, illnesses of colleagues). It is known in the company that she cannot be trusted and that she is very spiteful, but nobody says anything or protects me, at least I didn’t notice it.
My acquaintance said that it has something to do with the fact that she sees me as a danger and is jealous of my beauty (I do not consider myself exceptionally beautiful). I am also careful not to stand out, not to wear beautiful things anymore…I am not well and I often ask myself why there is no place for me in this world, I have never taken anything from anyone, why can’t I have some peace and happiness?