And it’s honestly sad (and also, I love internet drama). I’m so glad I met my boyfriend, just cause that means now I don’t have to put myself at risk of dating guys like this. But the thing is, I don’t think most of them are bad, they are just lonely and desperate. I saw a post about them talking about how to impress a woman and whatever. Most of my dates prior to my boyfriend (soon-to-be fiance) that were unsuccessful, were mainly cause the guy showed no interest in me as a person.
If you are a guy from the red pill, cause we know you guys love stalking these subs, listen. The reasons why I stopped dating men were mainly cause they didn’t show any interest in what I had to say, even after I listened to them. They only saw me as someone they can potentially marry and have children with, and the thing is, I do share some traditional values with my partner, I do want to marry, I do want children, I do not mind being a SAHM for the first few years that our children would be born and then going back to being a career woman. The thing that impressed me the most when I met my bf, is that when I talked to him about my passion for art, he showed genuine interest and said that he loved the fact that I’m an artist. And he consistently supports me in my career and personal art projects.
All the other men showed the most boring expression when I talked about it, somehow letting me know they don’t think is a real profession, never took me seriously, and thought my only value is my birthing ability. Some dates were just that we weren’t compatible, but most unsuccessful dates failed because of these other reasons.
Like, a relationship is a partnership, all you really want for a date to be successful is for both people to be genuinely interested in each other, and have conversations. There’s no secret formula, sometimes you click, sometimes you don’t and that’s okay. I’ve tried asking guys out and been rejected before, it’s not the end of the world, if they don’t want to give you a chance to get to know you, it’s probably not worth your time.
Also, my boyfriend is a normal person, not a supermodel or something. I’m also average, and I think he is super cute and handsome.