I can give you the typical answer such as….I think the key to falling in love with someone who is different from your ideal is to focus on the things that you have in common and the things you appreciate about them. It’s important to recognize that no one is perfect and that your partner is likely to have some qualities that you don’t like, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t love them. Also, it’s important to be honest with yourself and your partner about what you want and expect in a relationship. If you can open up and be vulnerable with your partner, it will help build a connection and understanding that can eventually lead to love.
But honestly, I would just say DON’T SETTLE.