people with ADHD, how do you feel when a seemingly normal person says they think they have it?

i’m not a psychiatrist, so who am i to judge who is “seemingly normal”?

i’m sure i seem normal to most but i still struggle on the inside. for someone to tell me i’m being dramatic or think i’m just saying it to relate to them when they don’t see a problem would be offensive, so why would i do the same to others, yknow?