Probably be pretty sad.
A lot of “he cared and was there for me” and “had so much promise”, but also an undertone of “what did he really accomplish?”
I do truly believe though that the people that know me best would know that I was really happy with the life I had. That the journey was amazing and I treasured both it and the time I had with them.
I just think they’d play along with social norms for everyone else at the funeral to make them feel better.