Parents who’s kids don’t talk to them, how do you look back on things?

As a son that doesn’t talk to my mother I have people who talk to her and access her facebook enough to know she looks back on things still feeling like she never did anything wrong, it was my evil wife’s fault for turning me against my mother (I was against my mother before I even met my wife), and that my mother would do “anything” to talk to me again (except admit any fault and apologize).