Someone who tells another person they are not worthy of love, does not understand what love is, because a loving person would not say this. The people who responded to your post are referring to conditional love, meaning love under certain conditions (i.e. sleeping with under X amount of men). You don’t want conditional love, it’s not love, it’s control. Unfortunately, and sadly, most of the people commenting have likely never known real love.
You are deserving of love no more or less than anyone else and the number of people you slept with does not effect this.
I can’t remember the last time someone asked me my number, if they did I would think it was a weird and a sign of immaturity. I would likely respond with a vague response like “I had my fun” and make my escape plan asap.
What I am wondering is why your number count came up to begin with. It could be because you feel you aren’t deserving of love because of it. Look inside yourself and see if these strangers are triggering a limiting belief you have.
Not a single person in the world can tell you what “most” men are like, unless they interviewed millions of men. But the right man will not care, he will be mature, sex positive and not even ask.