Nah. I’d call my wife and negotiate until I either no longer wanted to or it was no longer cheating.
“Hey, babe, I have an amazingly hot person here ready to suck my dick. I feel like it would be dumb to pass this up. What do we have to do to make this cool?”
“Send me a picture.”
“K.”
“Damn.”
“Right?”
“Have fun. I get a pass whenever.”
“Love you.”
“Love you too. Tacos tonight?”
“Sure.”