How long did you and your partner wait to have kids and why?

I was only with my partner for a month before I got pregnant. It was completely unplanned. I love my daughter so much, but I do wish I hadn’t gotten pregnant when I did. My family and friends were all worried when they found out I was pregnant and they didn’t think the relationship was going to make it through the pregnancy. We’re still together but it was definitely hard on our relationship.