I wanted to for a long time. I tried to for a long time. Eventually, I realized that even if we did get back together, things just wouldn’t be the same. I think it depends also on how long it’s been. The more time goes by the harder it gets, unless you’re both deeply in love. I just really couldn’t bear the fact of thinking that she slept with other people and then we would end up getting back together. Before this, though we did get back together and honestly for us, it was just easy to always bring up things from the past and end up in arguments over the same things over and over. It even got to the point where I stopped wanting to argue and I really tried to work on things but she just couldn’t let some things go. I say all this to say that in my experience, it’s better to just leave things the way they are. Sometimes you just have to move on even though it hurts and even though it’s tough.