Couples who have been together long term but don’t want to get married. Why don’t you want to get married?

Generally, it costs money and time. Yeah we could elope, but the family/friends pressure makes it easier to just say, “we are planning our wedding but haven’t picked a date” for years on end. We are happy, we call each other life partners. As we get older we may change our minds for legal, health insurance, or tax reasons. But for now, we are good!